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\u015e\u0259hriyar Del Gerani yaz\u0131r…<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Ail\u0259 institutu v\u0259 subayl\u0131\u011fa dair\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n

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Adam g\u0259nc olanda el\u0259 bilir h\u0259r \u015fey onun bildiyi kimidir. Amma ya\u015fay\u0131rsan, g\u00f6r\u00fcrs\u0259n el\u0259 deyil. \u018frkim \u00e7atan yolda\u015flara, qohumlara deyir\u0259m, \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n ya\u015f\u0131n\u0131z 25-i ke\u00e7m\u0259d\u0259n evl\u0259nin. Bax\u0131ram, n\u0259s\u0259 sual dolu susurlar. Ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr\u0259m, ya\u015f\u0131 otuzu ke\u00e7mi\u015f v\u0259 ail\u0259 qurmam\u0131\u015f bir adam\u0131n bel\u0259 m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t verm\u0259si q\u0259rib\u0259 g\u0259lir onlara. Amma n\u0259 etm\u0259li? M\u0259n s\u0259hv etmi\u015f\u0259m, bel\u0259 al\u0131n\u0131b. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 ist\u0259mir\u0259m siz s\u0259hv ed\u0259siniz. \u018fks\u0259riyy\u0259tin ac\u0131\u011f\u0131na g\u0259lir. \u00c7ox adam m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t dinl\u0259mir. Deyir, \u00f6z\u00fcn bel\u0259 el\u0259m\u0259mis\u0259n, m\u0259n\u0259 niy\u0259 m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t g\u00f6r\u00fcrs\u0259n? Ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015fm\u00fcrl\u0259r. Ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015f\u0259nd\u0259 d\u0259 gec olur.<\/p>\n

Vaxtil\u0259 y\u0131x\u0131lan, q\u0131\u00e7\u0131n\u0131 s\u0131nd\u0131r\u0131b qoltuq a\u011fac\u0131n\u0131n \u00fcmidin\u0259 qalan bir adam kimi deyirs\u0259n ki, ay \u00f6vlad, pill\u0259k\u0259nl\u0259ri qa\u00e7a-qa\u00e7a d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259, aya\u011f\u0131n ili\u015f\u0259r, y\u0131x\u0131larsan, \u0259zil\u0259rs\u0259n, qolun-q\u0131\u00e7\u0131n s\u0131nar, n\u0259 bilim, onur\u011fan z\u0259d\u0259l\u0259n\u0259r, \u00f6m\u00fcr boyu arabada ya\u015fama\u011fa m\u0259cbur qalarsan. Dinl\u0259mir, qulaq asm\u0131r, pill\u0259k\u0259nl\u0259ri qa\u00e7a-qa\u00e7a d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr, aya\u011f\u0131 ili\u015fir, y\u0131x\u0131l\u0131r, beli s\u0131n\u0131r, \u0259lil arabas\u0131na t\u0259hkim olunur, gedirs\u0259n x\u0259st\u0259xanaya ba\u015f \u00e7\u0259km\u0259y\u0259, m\u0259yus-m\u0259yus \u00fcz\u00fcn\u0259 bax\u0131b bel\u0259 deyir: Haql\u0131 imi\u015fs\u0259n. Dostum, l\u0259n\u0259t olsun bel\u0259 haql\u0131 olma\u011fa! Daha bunun haras\u0131 haql\u0131l\u0131q oldu?! O vaxt\u0131 haql\u0131 olard\u0131m ki, m\u0259n\u0259 qulaq asard\u0131n, \u015fik\u0259st olmazd\u0131n, bu fani d\u00fcnyada d\u0259rdimin \u00fcst\u00fcn\u0259 d\u0259rd g\u0259tirm\u0259zdin. S\u00f6z\u00fcm ondad\u0131r ki, m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t\u0259 qulaq asan yoxdur. \u00d6z\u00fcn deyirs\u0259n, \u00f6z\u00fcn e\u015fidirs\u0259n. Ya\u015f otuzu ke\u00e7\u0259nd\u0259n sonra \u00e7\u0259tin olur, \u00e7ox \u00e7\u0259tin. Al\u0131nd\u0131ra bilmirs\u0259n, gecikirs\u0259n h\u0259yata. M\u0259nas\u0131z g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr \u00e7ox \u015fey. Onsuz da m\u0259nas\u0131zd\u0131r. Amma bu \u201consuz da m\u0259nas\u0131zd\u0131r\u201d\u0131 d\u0259rk ed\u0259n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r bir 5 il d\u0259 ke\u00e7ir, lap m\u0259nas\u0131zla\u015f\u0131r. Bel\u0259-bel\u0259 \u00f6mr\u00fc verirs\u0259n bada, f\u0259r\u0259hsiz taleyinl\u0259 qal\u0131rsan ba\u015f-ba\u015fa. Ya da ba\u015f-ayaq, nec\u0259 s\u0259rf edirs\u0259, el\u0259 ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn.<\/p>\n

Riyaziyyat f\u0259nnini t\u0259dris ed\u0259n Nur\u0259ddin adl\u0131 bir m\u00fc\u0259llimim vard\u0131,\u00a0Allah ona uzun \u00f6m\u00fcr v\u0259 can sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 versin. Duan\u0131 q\u0259sd\u0259n yazd\u0131m ki, oxucular\u0131m\u0131z da t\u0259krar etsin. Baxmay\u0131n, h\u0259r a\u011f\u0131zda bir d\u00fc\u015f\u0259r var. Nur\u0259ddin m\u00fc\u0259llim bir d\u0259f\u0259 evliliy\u0259 dair maraql\u0131 m\u0259ntiq hesab\u0131 dedi – h\u0259yati m\u0259ntiq, \u00e7ox xo\u015fuma g\u0259ldi. Dedi, \u0259g\u0259r evl\u0259n\u0259c\u0259ks\u0259ns\u0259, vaxt\u0131nda evl\u0259n, yox, he\u00e7 vaxt evl\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259ks\u0259ns\u0259, bu, ba\u015fqa m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259\u2026 \u00c7ox adama primitiv g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u0259 bil\u0259r, amma el\u0259 deyil. Ciddi s\u00f6hb\u0259tdir. \u018fg\u0259r primitiv g\u00f6r\u00fcnd\u00fcs\u0259, t\u0259krar oxuyun, bir az d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn. \u018fks\u0259r vaxtlarda t\u0259l\u0259sirik, oxuyub ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259d\u0259n ke\u00e7irik \u00fcst\u00fcnd\u0259n, yanl\u0131\u015f q\u0259rarlar veririk. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 d\u00fczg\u00fcn oxumaq laz\u0131md\u0131r. D\u00fczg\u00fcn oxumaq \u015f\u0259rtdir. H\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n d\u0259, a\u011f\u0131ll\u0131 adamlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn misilsiz, b\u00f6y\u00fck hikm\u0259tl\u0259r var bu c\u00fcml\u0259d\u0259 – \u018fg\u0259r evl\u0259n\u0259c\u0259ks\u0259ns\u0259, vaxt\u0131nda evl\u0259n, yox, he\u00e7 vaxt evl\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259ks\u0259ns\u0259, bu, ba\u015fqa m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259. Bildim ki, t\u0259krar oxumayacaqs\u0131n\u0131z, \u00f6z\u00fcm t\u0259krar yazd\u0131m.<\/p>\n

Ail\u0259 el\u0259 bir \u015feydir, lap q\u0259dimd\u0259n bel\u0259 g\u0259lib, bel\u0259 d\u0259 ged\u0259c\u0259k – b\u0259\u015f\u0259riyy\u0259tin \u0259n m\u00fcdrik k\u0259\u015ffidir. Alternativ yoxdur. Olsayd\u0131, camaat el\u0259 ed\u0259rdi. Yoxdur. Bel\u0259 olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Bu, bel\u0259dir. F\u0259r\u0259hli ya\u015famaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ail\u0259 qurmal\u0131san. Etiraf etm\u0259kd\u0259n qorxmay\u0131n, b\u0259li, insan t\u0259k ya\u015fayacaq q\u0259d\u0259r g\u00fccl\u00fc deyil. T\u0259k ya\u015fayan n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r adamlar g\u00f6rd\u00fck, s\u0259fil-s\u0259rg\u0259rdanl\u0131\u011fa d\u00fc\u00e7ar oldular. Vaxt\u0131nda ail\u0259 qurmayanda adam \u00e7oxlu sayda s\u0259hvl\u0259r edir. M\u0259xsus\u0259n d\u0259 qad\u0131nlar, sonra h\u0259min s\u0259hvl\u0259r kabus olub izl\u0259yir adam\u0131 \u00f6m\u00fcr boyu. \u0130st\u0259r psixi, ist\u0259rs\u0259 fizioloji t\u0259l\u0259batlar vaxt\u0131-vaxt\u0131nda \u00f6d\u0259nm\u0259lidir. Yoxsa, tamamil\u0259 ba\u015fqa c\u00fcr neqativ davran\u0131\u015flara, hadis\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 s\u00fcr\u00fckl\u0259yir adam\u0131. Bu haqda \u00e7oxlu sayda tibbi, psixi analizl\u0259r var. Maraqlananlar axtar\u0131b oxusunlar. H\u0259r \u015feyi biz dey\u0259si deyilik.<\/p>\n

S\u00f6z\u00fcm ona, insan bel\u0259 yarad\u0131l\u0131b, qurulu\u015fu budur. N\u0259 bilim, onsuz da h\u0259r\u0259 \u00f6z bildiyini edir. Siz\u0259 deyim, valideynl\u0259rin d\u0259 g\u00fcnah\u0131 \u00e7oxdur ail\u0259 institutunun z\u0259ifl\u0259m\u0259sind\u0259. Az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131 valideynl\u0259r modern ail\u0259 institutu modelin\u0259 haz\u0131r deyildi dey\u0259, bel\u0259 xaotik v\u0259ziyy\u0259t yarand\u0131. \u0130st\u0259nil\u0259n halda maarifl\u0259ndirm\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259ri aparmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r. Bo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f f\u0259rdl\u0259rl\u0259 m\u0259\u015f\u011ful olacaq m\u0259rk\u0259zl\u0259r yarad\u0131lmal\u0131, ara\u015fd\u0131rmalar apar\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r. Bu, \u00e7ox ciddi m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259dir. G\u0259l\u0259c\u0259y\u0259 travmal\u0131 u\u015faqlarla getm\u0259yin faci\u0259sini h\u0259l\u0259 15-20 il sonra g\u00f6r\u0259c\u0259yik. Ail\u0259 zarafat s\u00f6hb\u0259t deyil. \u018fn az\u0131 canavarlar q\u0259d\u0259r ciddi, pinqivinl\u0259r q\u0259d\u0259r intizaml\u0131 olmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r bu m\u00f6vzuda. Xahi\u015f edir\u0259m x\u00fcsusi olaraq canavarlar\u0131n v\u0259 pinqivinl\u0259rin haqq\u0131nda s\u0259n\u0259dli filml\u0259r\u0259 bax\u0131n, ail\u0259 olma\u011f\u0131 \u00f6yr\u0259nin. Sad\u0259c\u0259 heyr\u0259tdir, ba\u015fqa he\u00e7 n\u0259.<\/p>\n

Ail\u0259 institutundan dan\u0131\u015fanda son d\u00f6vrl\u0259r b\u00fct\u00fcn vicdanl\u0131 v\u0259 l\u0259yaq\u0259tli adamlar\u0131 narahat ed\u0259n bo\u015fanma hadis\u0259l\u0259ri g\u0259lir a\u011fl\u0131m\u0131za. \u00dcz\u00fcc\u00fcd\u00fcr. Yuxar\u0131da valideynl\u0259ri q\u0131nad\u0131q. Haqs\u0131z deyilik. Amma t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259rd\u0259 d\u0259 g\u00fcnah \u00e7oxdur. \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259, g\u00fcnah ke\u00e7isi axtarsaq ham\u0131n\u0131 su\u00e7lu \u00e7\u0131xarmal\u0131 olaca\u011f\u0131q. Ortada minl\u0259rl\u0259 k\u00f6rp\u0259 var, minl\u0259rl\u0259 tale var ax\u0131… Onlara bu amans\u0131z h\u0259yatda niy\u0259 travma ya\u015fatmal\u0131y\u0131q? Ana var, ata var, amma ail\u0259 yoxdur. \u00c7\u0259tin m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259dir. \u0130ndi durub dey\u0259c\u0259yik, g\u00fcnah qad\u0131nlardad\u0131r, dey\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259r, d\u00fcz demirsiniz. Dey\u0259c\u0259yik, g\u00fcnah ki\u015fil\u0259rd\u0259dir, dey\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259r, yalan deyirsiniz. H\u0259r halda kimd\u0259s\u0259 g\u00fcnah var, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc qoyun ortal\u0131qda qalm\u0131\u015f m\u0259sum u\u015faqlar\u0131n yerin\u0259. Ax\u0131 onlar bir g\u00fcn soru\u015facaqlar sizd\u0259n niy\u0259 bel\u0259 oldu\u011funu. Olmu\u015f hadis\u0259dir, deyir, birinin evin\u0259 o\u011fru girir, talay\u0131b \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r. Ev sahibi qay\u0131d\u0131r evin\u0259, g\u00f6r\u00fcr evi ya\u011fmalan\u0131b. O\u011frunun kimliyind\u0259n \u015f\u00fcbh\u0259l\u0259nir, verir m\u0259hk\u0259m\u0259y\u0259. O\u011fru da \u00f6z n\u00f6vb\u0259sind\u0259 gedir i\u015f\u0259 baxan hakimin yan\u0131na, babat r\u00fc\u015fv\u0259t t\u0259klif edir, s\u00f6hb\u0259t ba\u011flan\u0131r. Hakim \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r\u0131r \u015fikay\u0259t\u00e7ini, y\u0259ni evi ya\u011fmalanan ev sahibini. Soru\u015fur, s\u0259nin evind\u0259 t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259sizlik siqnal\u0131 varm\u0131? Ev sahibi deyir, c\u0259nab hakim, yox. Hakim deyir, bax, g\u00fcnah s\u0259nd\u0259dir ki, o boyda ev tikirs\u0259n, i\u00e7ind\u0259 o q\u0259d\u0259r qiym\u0259tli \u0259\u015fyalar var, amma t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259sizlik siqnal\u0131 yerl\u0259\u015fdirmirs\u0259n. Ev yiy\u0259si raz\u0131la\u015f\u0131r. Hakim ba\u015fqa suala ke\u00e7ir, b\u0259s, yax\u015f\u0131, evini qoruyacaq ba\u011fbanm\u0131 dey\u0259k, qarovul\u00e7umu dey\u0259k, kims\u0259 varm\u0131? Ev yiy\u0259si cavab verir, c\u0259nab hakim, xeyr, yoxdur. Hakim deyir, bax, g\u00fcnahkar\u0131n yek\u0259si el\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcns\u0259n. O boyda ev-e\u015fiy\u0259 qarovul \u00e7\u0259k\u0259n bir n\u0259f\u0259rin d\u0259 yoxdur, \u00e7\u0131x\u0131b gedirs\u0259n, ev-e\u015fik qal\u0131r yiy\u0259siz. Ev sahibi raz\u0131la\u015f\u0131r. Hakim \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc sual\u0131 verir: Yax\u015f\u0131, he\u00e7 olmasa h\u0259y\u0259t-bacada bir itd\u0259n-pi\u015fikd\u0259n d\u0259 yoxundurmu? Ev yiy\u0259si s\u00f6hb\u0259ti tutur. Deyir, c\u0259nab hakim, \u00e7ox utan\u0131ram, h\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n d\u0259 n\u0259 t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259sizlik siqnal\u0131 var\u0131md\u0131 evd\u0259, n\u0259 qarovul\u00e7um, n\u0259 d\u0259 h\u0259y\u0259td\u0259 itim. Haql\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z, q\u0259l\u0259t el\u0259mi\u015f\u0259m, ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131 da\u015fdan-da\u015fa d\u00f6ym\u00fc\u015f\u0259m, g\u00fcnahkaram. H\u0259r \u015fey bir yana, amma xahi\u015f edir\u0259m deyin, aram\u0131zda qalacaq. Deyin g\u00f6r\u00fcm o\u011fruda he\u00e7mi g\u00fcnah yoxdur?<\/p>\n

\u0130ndi, h\u0259r \u015fey bir yana, do\u011frudan, bo\u015fanan qad\u0131nda, bo\u015fanan ki\u015fid\u0259 he\u00e7mi g\u00fcnah yoxdur? Ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr\u00fck, h\u0259yatd\u0131r, taledir, qism\u0259tdir, g\u00f6zl\u0259nilm\u0259z hadis\u0259l\u0259r ba\u015f ver\u0259 bilir. G\u0259l ki, g\u00f6zl\u0259nilm\u0259z hadis\u0259l\u0259r t\u0259sad\u00fcf\u0259n ba\u015f ver\u0259r, \u0259lli ild\u0259 bir d\u0259f\u0259, ya iki. H\u0259r iki evlilikd\u0259n birind\u0259 ba\u015f verm\u0259z ki\u2026<\/p>\n

\u018flb\u0259tt\u0259, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u00fcr\u00fck bir k\u00f6\u015f\u0259yl\u0259 bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259ni k\u00f6k\u00fcnd\u0259n h\u0259ll ed\u0259c\u0259yik. O q\u0259d\u0259r sad\u0259l\u00f6vh deyilik. Sad\u0259c\u0259, biz d\u0259 \u00f6z m\u00fcnasib\u0259timizi bildiririk. Biz h\u0259kim deyilik, m\u00fcalic\u0259 edib sa\u011faltmaq bizlik deyil. Biz a\u011fr\u0131y\u0131q. Problem olan yerl\u0259ri ni\u015fan veririk ki, m\u00fcvafiq orqanlar, t\u0259\u015fkilatlar, institutlar faci\u0259nin miqyas\u0131n\u0131 ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015fs\u00fcnl\u0259r, h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259t\u0259 ke\u00e7sinl\u0259r, m\u00fcayin\u0259 v\u0259 m\u00fcalic\u0259 i\u015fini g\u00f6rs\u00fcnl\u0259r, c\u0259miyy\u0259ti sa\u011falts\u0131nlar. \u018fn az\u0131 c\u0259hd etsinl\u0259r.<\/p>\n

Ke\u00e7\u0259nl\u0259rd\u0259 d\u00f6vr\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn b\u00f6y\u00fck filosoflar\u0131ndan olan dostum M\u00fc\u015ffiq \u00d6tg\u00fcn\u00fcn bir gileyin\u0259 rast g\u0259ldim, tamamil\u0259 haql\u0131 oldu\u011funu da d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u0259m. Gileyl\u0259nirdi ki, \u00e7ox nahaq yer\u0259 t\u0259nhal\u0131\u011f\u0131 t\u0259bli\u011f edirl\u0259r. \u201c\u0130nsan\u0131n bir d\u0259y\u0259ri olmal\u0131d\u0131r!\u201d, \u201cQad\u0131n\u0131n d\u0259y\u0259ri \u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259dir!\u201d v\u0259 s. Yoxdur insan\u0131n t\u0259kba\u015f\u0131na bir d\u0259y\u0259ri. Qad\u0131n ki\u015fisiz v\u0259 u\u015faqs\u0131z \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc tam hiss etmir, ed\u0259 bilmir. \u00d6mr\u00fc boyu \u00f6z\u00fc \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 yet\u0259rli oldu\u011funu s\u00fcbut etm\u0259kl\u0259 m\u0259\u015f\u011ful ola bilir \u0259n yax\u015f\u0131 halda. Ki\u015fi d\u0259 qad\u0131ns\u0131z, yaz\u0131q bir m\u0259nz\u0259r\u0259dir. Yetimdir qad\u0131ns\u0131z ki\u015fi. \u201cSubayl\u0131q sultanl\u0131qd\u0131r\u201d deyib t\u0259skinlik edir \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259.<\/p>\n

\u018fn a\u011f\u0131ll\u0131 qad\u0131nlar \u0259r\u0259 getm\u0259k, u\u015faq do\u011fmaq arzusundan imtina etm\u0259y\u0259n qad\u0131nlard\u0131r. \u018fn a\u011f\u0131ll\u0131 ki\u015fi d\u0259 bir qad\u0131na yuva yaratmaq v\u0259 c\u0259fake\u015f ata olmaq arzusu il\u0259 ya\u015fayan ki\u015fidir. Qalanlar\u0131 oyundur, pozad\u0131r, yanl\u0131\u015fl\u0131qd\u0131r, r\u0259zal\u0259tdir.<\/p>\n

Haql\u0131 idi. Bu fani d\u00fcnyada \u0259n g\u00f6z\u0259l v\u0259 \u0259n h\u0259qiqi aldan\u0131\u015flardan biridir ail\u0259 aldan\u0131\u015f\u0131. \u0130nsan nec\u0259s\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc aldad\u0131b ya\u015fama\u011f\u0131 bacarmal\u0131d\u0131r. Saxta, diletant, he\u00e7 bir ciddi m\u0259ntiqi olmayan pu\u00e7 t\u0259sirl\u0259r\u0259 m\u0259ruz qalmaqdan qorunmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r. Bunun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn d\u0259 \u0259n do\u011fru se\u00e7im g\u0259nc ya\u015fda ail\u0259 qurmaqd\u0131r, \u0259n uza\u011f\u0131 25-\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r. C\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 \u0259n \u00e7ox rastlanan fikirl\u0259rd\u0259n biri d\u0259 budur, \u201cEvl\u0259nm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r dey\u0259 evl\u0259nm\u0259k laz\u0131m deyil. Yaln\u0131z o halda v\u0259 o k\u0259sl\u0259 evl\u0259n ki, onsuz ya\u015famaq m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olmas\u0131n. 20-25-30-35\u2026 bel\u0259 bir resept yoxdur\u2026\u201d Tam m\u0259suliyy\u0259tl\u0259 dey\u0259 bil\u0259rik, k\u00f6k\u00fcnd\u0259n yanl\u0131\u015f fikirdir. A\u011f\u0131ll\u0131 a\u011f\u0131ls\u0131zl\u0131q – rasionalizm yay\u0131rlar onlar. Biz is\u0259 a\u011f\u0131ls\u0131z a\u011f\u0131l –\u00a0irrasionalizm yay\u0131r\u0131q. Babalar\u0131m\u0131z da a\u011f\u0131ls\u0131z a\u011f\u0131l t\u0259r\u0259fdar\u0131 olublar. \u00c7\u00fcnki a\u011f\u0131ll\u0131 a\u011f\u0131ls\u0131zl\u0131qla bir yer\u0259 varma\u011f\u0131n m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 yax\u015f\u0131 bilirdil\u0259r. \u201cA\u011f\u0131ll\u0131 fikirl\u0259\u015finc\u0259, d\u0259li vurub \u00e7ay\u0131 ke\u00e7di\u201d misal\u0131nda oldu\u011fu kimi. Evl\u0259nm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn rasional \u0259sas laz\u0131md\u0131r \u0259lb\u0259tt\u0259. Amma evl\u0259nm\u0259k e\u015fq \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 oldu\u011fu \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn insandan a\u011f\u0131ls\u0131zl\u0131q, d\u0259lilik t\u0259l\u0259b edir. H\u0259yat a\u011f\u0131l\u0131n kontrolu il\u0259 ger\u00e7\u0259kl\u0259\u015f\u0259n hadis\u0259 deyil. Dal\u011fa g\u0259ldis\u0259, min get, sabah\u0131 \u00e7ox da d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259. Sabah \u00f6z\u00fc \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u0259c\u0259k. \u00c7ox d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u0259n, da\u015f\u0131nan adamlar ya\u015flan\u0131r v\u0259 sonunda he\u00e7 evl\u0259n\u0259 d\u0259 bilmirl\u0259r. Az g\u00f6rm\u0259dik. A\u011f\u0131ls\u0131z\u00a0 a\u011f\u0131ll\u0131 olun. A\u011f\u0131ll\u0131 a\u011f\u0131ls\u0131z olmay\u0131n. Unutmayaq ki, b\u0259z\u0259n \u0259n yax\u0131n\u0131nda olan xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyi g\u00f6rm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn uzun bir s\u0259yah\u0259t\u0259 \u00e7\u0131xmaq g\u0259r\u0259kdir. Da\u011flar\u0131n \u0259z\u0259m\u0259ti dibind\u0259 dayanark\u0259n g\u00f6r\u00fcnm\u0259z, g\u0259r\u0259k uzaqdan baxasan. Uzaqdan baxma\u011fa ged\u0259nd\u0259 d\u0259 gec olur \u00e7ox vaxt. A\u011f\u0131ll\u0131, t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259li adamlara qulaq asmaqda fayda var. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 siz\u0259 deyil\u0259nd\u0259 ki, bu da\u011f \u0259z\u0259m\u0259tlidir, inan\u0131n. Onsuz da gedib uzaqdan g\u00f6r\u0259c\u0259ksiniz, bu da\u011f h\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n d\u0259 \u0259z\u0259m\u0259tli imi\u015f.<\/p>\n

\u201cTRT Belgesel\u201dd\u0259 bir film-proqram var, tap\u0131b bax\u0131n – \u201cTam o ya\u015ftay\u0131m\u201d adlan\u0131r. Yaln\u0131z qalan ya\u015fl\u0131lardan b\u0259hs edir. Biri Amani ad\u0131nda qad\u0131nd\u0131r, Vyanada do\u011fulub 1930-da, haz\u0131rda \u0130ngilt\u0259r\u0259d\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131r. \u0130ngilt\u0259r\u0259d\u0259 ya\u015fl\u0131l\u0131qdan zill\u0259t \u00e7\u0259k\u0259n, qocal\u0131qda t\u0259nha qalm\u0131\u015f r\u0259sm\u0259n bir milyon y\u00fcz min (1.1 mln) insandan biridir. Qorxuducu r\u0259q\u0259mdir. Dey\u0259nd\u0259 d\u0259 ac\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131za g\u0259lir. Amani ail\u0259 qurub, \u00fc\u00e7 \u00f6vlad\u0131 var, \u0259ri \u00f6l\u0259nd\u0259n sonra yataq x\u0259st\u0259si olan q\u0131z\u0131yla ba\u015f-ba\u015fa ya\u015fay\u0131r. Dig\u0259r iki \u00f6vlad\u0131 at\u0131b gedibl\u0259r. Niy\u0259? \u00c7\u00fcnki modern Avropa \u201cd\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ri\u201d bunu dikt\u0259 edir. Amani d\u0259 d\u00fczg\u00fcn t\u0259rbiy\u0259 verm\u0259yib \u00f6vladlar\u0131na. \u018fn az\u0131 \u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259 olan s\u0259daq\u0259tin bir faizini \u00f6t\u00fcr\u0259 bilm\u0259yib. B\u0259li, bu, taledir. M\u00fctl\u0259q bax\u0131n, h\u0259r \u015feyi biz dey\u0259si deyilik. Dig\u0259ri is\u0259 Madridd\u0259 ya\u015fayan 92 ya\u015fl\u0131 bir ki\u015fi idi. Ad\u0131n\u0131 unutmu\u015fam. Onun da travmas\u0131 var, u\u015faql\u0131qda infeksion x\u0259st\u0259liy\u0259 yoluxub, adamlar yoluxmas\u0131nlar dey\u0259 bundan uzaq durublar, o da din\u0259 tap\u0131n\u0131b, katolikliyi se\u00e7ib, ail\u0259 qurmay\u0131b, rahib h\u0259yat\u0131 ya\u015fay\u0131r. Onun da \u00f6z faci\u0259si var. Bunlar\u0131 izl\u0259y\u0259nd\u0259n sonra xeyli suallara ayd\u0131nl\u0131q g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k beyninizd\u0259. Xeyli suallara ayd\u0131nl\u0131q g\u0259l\u0259nd\u0259n sonra bu m\u0259qal\u0259miz d\u0259 \u00f6z yerini tapacaq fikrinizd\u0259, q\u0259lbinizd\u0259. B\u0259li, tale deyil\u0259n bir n\u0259sn\u0259 d\u0259 var, danm\u0131r\u0131q. Amma a\u011f\u0131ll\u0131 adamlar taleyini y\u00f6n\u0259ld\u0259 d\u0259 bilirl\u0259r. A\u011f\u0131l bunun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn i\u015f\u0259 yaray\u0131r. \u018fn yax\u015f\u0131 ehtimal\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcb ail\u0259 qurmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r ki, \u0259n az\u0131 qocalanda t\u0259nha qalmayasan, ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 qatma\u011fa, bu f\u0259r\u0259hsiz d\u00fcnyada \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc ovutma\u011fa bir kims\u0259n olsun.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u015e\u0259hriyar Del Gerani yaz\u0131r… Ail\u0259 institutu v\u0259 subayl\u0131\u011fa dair\u2026 Adam g\u0259nc olanda el\u0259 bilir h\u0259r \u015fey onun bildiyi kimidir. Amma ya\u015fay\u0131rsan, g\u00f6r\u00fcrs\u0259n el\u0259 deyil. \u018frkim \u00e7atan yolda\u015flara, qohumlara deyir\u0259m, \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n ya\u015f\u0131n\u0131z 25-i ke\u00e7m\u0259d\u0259n evl\u0259nin. Bax\u0131ram, n\u0259s\u0259 sual dolu susurlar. Ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr\u0259m, ya\u015f\u0131 otuzu ke\u00e7mi\u015f v\u0259 ail\u0259 qurmam\u0131\u015f bir adam\u0131n bel\u0259 m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t verm\u0259si q\u0259rib\u0259 g\u0259lir onlara. Amma n\u0259 etm\u0259li? M\u0259n s\u0259hv etmi\u015f\u0259m, bel\u0259 al\u0131n\u0131b. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 ist\u0259mir\u0259m siz s\u0259hv ed\u0259siniz. \u018fks\u0259riyy\u0259tin ac\u0131\u011f\u0131na g\u0259lir. \u00c7ox adam m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t dinl\u0259mir. Deyir, \u00f6z\u00fcn bel\u0259 el\u0259m\u0259mis\u0259n, m\u0259n\u0259 niy\u0259 m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t g\u00f6r\u00fcrs\u0259n? Ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015fm\u00fcrl\u0259r. Ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015f\u0259nd\u0259 d\u0259…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":503771,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/FotoJet-72.jpg",620,413,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/FotoJet-72.jpg",620,413,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/FotoJet-72.jpg",620,413,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/FotoJet-72-500x280.jpg",500,280,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/FotoJet-72-548x365.jpg",548,365,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/FotoJet-72.jpg",620,413,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/FotoJet-72.jpg",620,413,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/FotoJet-72.jpg",620,413,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/FotoJet-72-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/FotoJet-72.jpg",620,413,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"\u015e\u0259hriyar Del Gerani yaz\u0131r… Ail\u0259 institutu v\u0259 subayl\u0131\u011fa dair\u2026 Adam g\u0259nc olanda el\u0259 bilir h\u0259r \u015fey onun bildiyi kimidir. Amma ya\u015fay\u0131rsan, g\u00f6r\u00fcrs\u0259n el\u0259 deyil. \u018frkim \u00e7atan yolda\u015flara, qohumlara deyir\u0259m, \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n ya\u015f\u0131n\u0131z 25-i ke\u00e7m\u0259d\u0259n evl\u0259nin. Bax\u0131ram, n\u0259s\u0259 sual dolu susurlar. Ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr\u0259m, ya\u015f\u0131 otuzu ke\u00e7mi\u015f v\u0259 ail\u0259 qurmam\u0131\u015f bir adam\u0131n bel\u0259 m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t verm\u0259si q\u0259rib\u0259 g\u0259lir onlara.…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/503770"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=503770"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/503770\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/503771"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=503770"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=503770"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=503770"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}