Ail\u0259 qurmaq g\u0259nc ya\u015f\u0131na \u00e7atan h\u0259r bir k\u0259sin arzusudur. Ancaq ail\u0259 quran zaman t\u0259l\u0259sk\u0259nliy\u0259 yol verm\u0259k bu nikah\u0131n uzun\u00f6m\u00fcrl\u00fcl\u00fcy\u00fcn\u0259 he\u00e7 d\u0259 z\u0259man\u0259t vermir. H\u0259r \u015feyd\u0259n \u00f6nc\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 hissl\u0259rin b\u00fct\u00f6vl\u00fcy\u00fcn\u0259 v\u0259 s\u0259mimiyy\u0259tin\u0259 g\u00fcv\u0259nm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn zaman verin. \u00c7\u00fcnki zaman \u00e7ox \u015feyl\u0259ri b\u0259yan edir. Evl\u0259nm\u0259d\u0259n \u00f6nc\u0259 b\u0259zi \u015feyl\u0259r\u0259 diqq\u0259t etm\u0259yimiz\u00a0\u00e7ox vacibdir. \u018fg\u0259r bir insan qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndak\u0131 insan\u0131 tan\u0131madan evl\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259 q\u0259rar vers\u0259 , g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 probleml\u0259rl\u0259 \u00fczl\u0259\u015fm\u0259yi qa\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmazd\u0131r. AB\u015e \u00a0psixoloqlar\u0131n\u0131n apard\u0131\u011f\u0131 ara\u015fd\u0131rmalar g\u00f6st\u0259rir ki, evlilik probleml\u0259ri h\u0259ll etmir, \u0259ksin\u0259 evlilikd\u0259n qabaq bir probleminiz varsa, evlilikd\u0259n sonra onlar\u0131n say\u0131 daha da \u00a0arm\u0131\u015f olur.\u00a0B\u0259s n\u0259 etm\u0259li?<\/p>\n
\u0130lk \u00f6nc\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n, sevgilinizin sizin ail\u0259nizl\u0259 v\u0259 ya ail\u0259 \u00fczvl\u0259rinizl\u0259 nec\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259td\u0259 oldu\u011fu, onlarla yola ged\u0259 bilm\u0259si v\u0259 \u00a0probleml\u0259rinin olub-olmamas\u0131d\u0131r. Bo\u015fanma hadis\u0259l\u0259rinin bir \u00e7oxunun s\u0259b\u0259bi s\u0131rf yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131n ail\u0259si il\u0259 yola getm\u0259m\u0259si olur. \u018fg\u0259r h\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n d\u0259 sevgilinizin ail\u0259si il\u0259 ciddi probleml\u0259r ya\u015fay\u0131rs\u0131zsa ya bu problemi tezlikl\u0259 h\u0259ll edin, ya da aran\u0131zda h\u0259ll olunmayacaq d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259d\u0259 ciddi probleml\u0259r varsa bu m\u00fcnasib\u0259ti bitirin, \u00e7\u00fcnki \u0259vv\u0259l-ax\u0131r evlilik h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131zda bu probleml\u0259rl\u0259 \u00fcz-\u00fcz\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259ksiz.<\/p>\n
Evl\u0259nm\u0259d\u0259n \u0259vv\u0259l diqq\u0259t etm\u0259li oldu\u011funuz dig\u0259r m\u0259qam is\u0259 pulunuzu idar\u0259 etm\u0259yi bacarma\u011f\u0131n\u0131zd\u0131r. Burda sizin \u00e7ox imkanl\u0131, varl\u0131 olma\u011f\u0131n\u0131z n\u0259z\u0259rd\u0259 tutulmur. Sad\u0259c\u0259, pulu y\u00f6nl\u00fc istifad\u0259 ed\u0259 bilm\u0259k bacar\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zdan q\u0259na\u0259tl\u0259 \u00a0s\u00f6hb\u0259t gedir. \u018fg\u0259r yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131zla bu m\u0259qamda probleml\u0259r ya\u015fasan\u0131z, m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, b\u0259dx\u0259rclik ets\u0259niz, pulunuzu n\u0259y\u0259 g\u0259ldi x\u0259rcl\u0259s\u0259z bu, sizin g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 evliliyiniz\u0259 m\u0259nfi t\u0259sir g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259c\u0259k. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 \u0259vv\u0259lc\u0259d\u0259n, g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 bu c\u00fcr probleml\u0259rl\u0259 \u00fczl\u0259\u015fm\u0259m\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn pul m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259sini ciddi intizama salma\u011f\u0131n\u0131z m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcr.<\/p>\n
Diqq\u0259t etm\u0259li oldu\u011funuz dig\u0259r m\u0259qam, m\u00fcnasib\u0259tinizd\u0259 yalanlar\u0131n olub-olmamas\u0131d\u0131r.\u00a0\u018fg\u0259r partnyorlar bir-birin\u0259 \u00e7oxlu yalan deyirl\u0259rs\u0259, bu m\u00fcnasib\u0259t uzun \u00f6m\u00fcrl\u00fc olmur. \u018fslind\u0259, yalan patoloji x\u0259st\u0259lik kimidir. Bir insan \u0259g\u0259r yalan dan\u0131\u015fma\u011f\u0131 v\u0259rdi\u015flidirs\u0259 , bu hal siz evli oldu\u011funuz zaman da bel\u0259 davam ed\u0259c\u0259k.<\/p>\n
Evl\u0259n\u0259c\u0259yiniz insana \u00e7ox a\u015fiq ola bil\u0259rsiz, ancaq unutmay\u0131n ki, bir m\u00fcnasib\u0259td\u0259 vacib olan sevgilinizl\u0259 \u00fcnsiyy\u0259t qurma\u011f\u0131 bacara bilm\u0259yinizdir. B\u0259z\u0259n bir-birin\u0259 vur\u011fun c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259r \u00f6zl\u0259rini romantik m\u00fcnasib\u0259t\u0259 h\u0259ddind\u0259n art\u0131q h\u0259sr edirl\u0259r v\u0259 real d\u00fcnyadan, probleml\u0259rd\u0259n k\u0259narda qal\u0131rlar, probleml\u0259ri m\u00fczakir\u0259 etm\u0259kd\u0259n qa\u00e7\u0131rlar. Ancaq bu h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 bel\u0259 davam etmir v\u0259 evl\u0259ndikd\u0259n sonra m\u0259cbur olub bu probleml\u0259rl\u0259 \u00fczl\u0259\u015firl\u0259r. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 evl\u0259nm\u0259d\u0259n \u0259vv\u0259l onunla probleml\u0259ri dan\u0131\u015fa bildiyinizd\u0259n \u0259min olun.<\/p>\n
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\u018fn \u00f6n\u0259mlisi odur ki, g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131zla aran\u0131zda dostluq m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259ri olsun. Ancaq yax\u015f\u0131 bir dost olaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z t\u0259qdird\u0259, ona etibar edib h\u0259yat\u0131m\u0131za dair \u0259n m\u0259hr\u0259m m\u0259lumatlar\u0131 onunla payla\u015fa bil\u0259rik. Y\u0259ni ba\u015fqa insanlardan gizl\u0259tm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z \u015f\u0259xsi m\u0259lumatlara ancaq h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 ortaq ed\u0259 bil\u0259rik. Lakin t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259rd\u0259n birinin niyy\u0259ti xo\u015f deyils\u0259, onda m\u00fcbahis\u0259 zaman\u0131 h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131n yaln\u0131z ona s\u00f6yl\u0259diyi sirl\u0259ri a\u00e7\u0131b h\u0259r k\u0259s\u0259 dey\u0259 bil\u0259r. Bel\u0259 zamanlarda qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fi ittiham ed\u0259n ifad\u0259l\u0259rin ard\u0131-aras\u0131 k\u0259silm\u0259z. Halbuki ail\u0259 \u00fczvl\u0259ri bir-biril\u0259rin\u0259 ham\u0131dan daha \u00e7ox etibar etm\u0259lidir. \u018fg\u0259r t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259r ail\u0259 i\u00e7\u0259risind\u0259 bir-biril\u0259rin\u0259 etibar etm\u0259s\u0259l\u0259r, o zaman fikirl\u0259rini payla\u015fa bil\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259ri ba\u015fqa insanlar\u0131 axtarma\u011fa ba\u015flayacaqlar. Bu da ail\u0259nin b\u00fct\u00f6vl\u00fcy\u00fcn\u0259 z\u0259r\u0259r ver\u0259c\u0259k.<\/p>\n
Evlilik u\u015faq oyunca\u011f\u0131 deyil, insandan bir az yetkin v\u0259 ol\u011fun olma\u011f\u0131 t\u0259l\u0259b edir. H\u0259r i\u015fd\u0259 sakit v\u0259 soyuqqanl\u0131 qala bilm\u0259yi t\u0259l\u0259b edir. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 \u0259g\u0259r evl\u0259n\u0259c\u0259yiniz insan u\u015faq kimi davran\u0131rsa v\u0259 ya u\u015faq xarakterlidirs\u0259, t\u00f6vsiy\u0259 ed\u0259rdik ki, aran\u0131zdak\u0131 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tinizi bir daha g\u00f6zd\u0259n ke\u00e7irin.<\/p>\n
Sevgi m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rind\u0259 m\u00fctl\u0259q \u00a0f\u0259dakar olmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. \u00a0\u018flb\u0259tt\u0259, bir m\u00fcnasib\u0259td\u0259 sevgi, pul \u00e7ox b\u00f6y\u00fck rol oynay\u0131r, ancaq bir yerd\u0259 q\u0259rar q\u0259bul ed\u0259 bilm\u0259k, \u00f6z\u00fc d\u0259 h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 q\u0259bul etdiyimiz q\u0259rarlar sizin xarakteriniz\u0259 uy\u011fun olmaya bil\u0259r v\u0259 buna \u00a0g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 yan\u0131n\u0131zda olan insan\u0131 m\u00fctl\u0259q dinl\u0259yib, b\u0259z\u0259n onun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn h\u0259tta \u00a0f\u0259dakarl\u0131q etm\u0259lisiniz. \u018fg\u0259r bir insan sad\u0259c\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc fikirl\u0259\u015firs\u0259, qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndak\u0131 insan\u0131 anlama\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015fm\u0131rsa, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc onun yerin\u0259 qoymursa, bel\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259\u00a0q\u0131sa zamanda \u00e7atlar \u0259m\u0259l\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259 bil\u0259r. Evl\u0259n\u0259c\u0259yiniz insanda empatiya bacar\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n olmas\u0131 \u00e7ox vacibdir.<\/p>\n
Ara\u015fd\u0131rmalar g\u00f6st\u0259rir ki,\u00a0 evl\u0259nm\u0259d\u0259n \u00f6nc\u0259 sevgilinizin siz\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 diqq\u0259tli olub-olmas\u0131na fikir ver\u0259siniz.\u00a0 Bu, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc birba\u015fa b\u00fcruz\u0259 verm\u0259s\u0259 d\u0259, t\u0259dric\u0259n, y\u0259ni m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r\u0259 t\u0259sir g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259kl\u0259 \u0259hat\u0259 dair\u0259sini geni\u015fl\u0259ndirir. Nec\u0259 dey\u0259rl\u0259r, i\u015fd\u0259n ev\u0259 d\u00f6n\u0259n v\u0259 xo\u015f m\u00fcnasib\u0259t, \u00fczd\u0259 t\u0259b\u0259ss\u00fcm uman ki\u015fi v\u0259 ya xan\u0131m tam t\u0259rsi il\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131nca, evd\u0259 m\u0259n\u0259vi rahatl\u0131q tapa bilmir.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Ail\u0259 qurmaq g\u0259nc ya\u015f\u0131na \u00e7atan h\u0259r bir k\u0259sin arzusudur. Ancaq ail\u0259 quran zaman t\u0259l\u0259sk\u0259nliy\u0259 yol verm\u0259k bu nikah\u0131n uzun\u00f6m\u00fcrl\u00fcl\u00fcy\u00fcn\u0259 he\u00e7 d\u0259 z\u0259man\u0259t vermir. H\u0259r \u015feyd\u0259n \u00f6nc\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 hissl\u0259rin b\u00fct\u00f6vl\u00fcy\u00fcn\u0259 v\u0259 s\u0259mimiyy\u0259tin\u0259 g\u00fcv\u0259nm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn zaman verin. \u00c7\u00fcnki zaman \u00e7ox \u015feyl\u0259ri b\u0259yan edir. Evl\u0259nm\u0259d\u0259n \u00f6nc\u0259 b\u0259zi \u015feyl\u0259r\u0259 diqq\u0259t etm\u0259yimiz\u00a0\u00e7ox vacibdir. \u018fg\u0259r bir insan qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndak\u0131 insan\u0131 tan\u0131madan evl\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259 q\u0259rar vers\u0259 , g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 probleml\u0259rl\u0259 \u00fczl\u0259\u015fm\u0259yi qa\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmazd\u0131r. AB\u015e \u00a0psixoloqlar\u0131n\u0131n apard\u0131\u011f\u0131 ara\u015fd\u0131rmalar g\u00f6st\u0259rir ki, evlilik probleml\u0259ri h\u0259ll etmir, \u0259ksin\u0259 evlilikd\u0259n qabaq bir probleminiz varsa, evlilikd\u0259n sonra onlar\u0131n say\u0131 daha da \u00a0arm\u0131\u015f olur.\u00a0B\u0259s n\u0259 etm\u0259li? \u0130lk \u00f6nc\u0259…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":506071,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[24],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/1547474135_6212551.jpg",975,540,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/1547474135_6212551.jpg",975,540,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/1547474135_6212551.jpg",975,540,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/1547474135_6212551-500x280.jpg",500,280,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/1547474135_6212551-660x365.jpg",660,365,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/1547474135_6212551-840x465.jpg",640,354,true],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/1547474135_6212551.jpg",975,540,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/1547474135_6212551.jpg",975,540,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/1547474135_6212551-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/1547474135_6212551.jpg",975,540,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"Maraql\u0131<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"Ail\u0259 qurmaq g\u0259nc ya\u015f\u0131na \u00e7atan h\u0259r bir k\u0259sin arzusudur. Ancaq ail\u0259 quran zaman t\u0259l\u0259sk\u0259nliy\u0259 yol verm\u0259k bu nikah\u0131n uzun\u00f6m\u00fcrl\u00fcl\u00fcy\u00fcn\u0259 he\u00e7 d\u0259 z\u0259man\u0259t vermir. H\u0259r \u015feyd\u0259n \u00f6nc\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 hissl\u0259rin b\u00fct\u00f6vl\u00fcy\u00fcn\u0259 v\u0259 s\u0259mimiyy\u0259tin\u0259 g\u00fcv\u0259nm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn zaman verin. \u00c7\u00fcnki zaman \u00e7ox \u015feyl\u0259ri b\u0259yan edir. Evl\u0259nm\u0259d\u0259n \u00f6nc\u0259 b\u0259zi \u015feyl\u0259r\u0259 diqq\u0259t etm\u0259yimiz\u00a0\u00e7ox vacibdir. \u018fg\u0259r bir insan qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndak\u0131 insan\u0131 tan\u0131madan evl\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/506070"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=506070"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/506070\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/506071"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=506070"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=506070"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=506070"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}