{"id":506073,"date":"2022-08-19T08:38:21","date_gmt":"2022-08-19T05:38:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=506073"},"modified":"2022-08-19T08:38:21","modified_gmt":"2022-08-19T05:38:21","slug":"gorur%c9%99m-v%c9%99-hiss-edir%c9%99m","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=506073","title":{"rendered":"G\u00f6r\u00fcr\u0259m v\u0259 hiss edir\u0259m&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em><strong>Empatlar\u0131n adi insanlardan f\u0259rqi n\u0259dir?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Empatiya \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc ba\u015fqa insan\u0131n v\u0259 ya canl\u0131n\u0131n yerind\u0259 hiss etm\u0259 bacar\u0131\u011f\u0131, ba\u015fqas\u0131n\u0131n d\u0259rdin\u0259 \u015f\u0259rik olma hissidir. Empatiya, eyni zamanda, ba\u015fqa insan\u0131n emosional hal\u0131n\u0131 onun mimikas\u0131ndan v\u0259 h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259rind\u0259n duyma qabiliyy\u0259tini ehtiva edir. H\u0259m\u00e7inin insan\u0131 g\u00f6rm\u0259d\u0259n onun emosional hal\u0131n\u0131 tam d\u0259qiq hiss etm\u0259k qabiliyy\u0259tini n\u0259z\u0259rd\u0259 tutur.<\/p>\n<p>Empatiyan\u0131n \u0259ksi aleksitimiyad\u0131r. Yunan s\u00f6z\u00fc olan empatiya termini \u201cfiziki ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131q, meyil\u201d anlam\u0131na g\u0259lir. Empatiya qabiliyy\u0259ti olan insanlar yax\u015f\u0131 dinl\u0259yici, diqq\u0259tli m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259\u00e7i, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn f\u0259rqind\u0259 olan, m\u00fcsb\u0259t t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259ri d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259y\u0259 \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck ver\u0259n insanlard\u0131r. H\u0259qiq\u0259tl\u0259ri n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r gizl\u0259tm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fsan\u0131z da, empatlar h\u0259qiqi h\u0259d\u0259fl\u0259ri, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259l\u0259ri v\u0259 niyy\u0259tl\u0259ri tan\u0131y\u0131r. Onlar\u0131 ba\u015fqalar\u0131ndan f\u0259rql\u0259ndir\u0259n c\u0259h\u0259t budur. Empatlar bu planetin \u0259n istedadl\u0131 insanlar\u0131ndan biridir. Bu insanlar yax\u0131nlar\u0131na m\u00fcsb\u0259t t\u0259sir g\u00f6st\u0259rir. Bu t\u0259sir b\u0259z\u0259n onlar\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131 tamamil\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015fdirm\u0259k g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u0259 malikdir v\u0259 ya \u0259ksin\u0259, h\u0259r \u015feyi yoluna qoyur.<\/p>\n<p>Tan\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z aras\u0131nda empatiya duy\u011fusu olan varsa, y\u0259qin ki, yalan dan\u0131\u015fma\u011f\u0131n faydas\u0131z oldu\u011funu bilirsiniz. El\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr ki, \u0259trafdak\u0131lar\u0131 tamamil\u0259 f\u0259rqli bir \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 q\u0259bul edirl\u0259r. Bunun say\u0259sind\u0259 adi insanlar\u0131n n\u0259d\u0259 bacar\u0131qs\u0131z olduqlar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u0259 v\u0259 hiss ed\u0259 bilirl\u0259r. B\u0259z\u0259n empatlar yalana inand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259 bil\u0259r. Amma bu, o dem\u0259k deyil ki, ba\u015f ver\u0259nl\u0259ri g\u00f6rm\u00fcrl\u0259r. B\u0259li, onlar \u00fcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259, \u00e7ox mehriband\u0131rlar v\u0259 bunu r\u0259hb\u0259r tutaraq qar\u015f\u0131dak\u0131 insana anlay\u0131\u015f g\u00f6st\u0259rirl\u0259r. Ancaq bu, maskan\u0131z\u0131n arxas\u0131nda gizl\u0259n\u0259nl\u0259ri g\u00f6r\u0259 bilm\u0259dikl\u0259ri il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 deyil.<\/p>\n<p>Empatlar h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 insanlar\u0131n yaln\u0131z m\u00fcsb\u0259t c\u0259h\u0259tl\u0259rini g\u00f6rm\u0259y\u0259 v\u0259 bu d\u00fcnyan\u0131 daha yax\u015f\u0131 bir yer\u0259 \u00e7evirm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar. Odur ki, zaman-zaman \u0259traf\u0131ndak\u0131lara bu v\u0259 ya dig\u0259r yalan\u0131n ba\u015fqa insanlara z\u0259r\u0259r verm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259yind\u0259n \u0259mindirs\u0259, onlar\u0131n yalan dan\u0131\u015fmas\u0131na icaz\u0259 verirl\u0259r. Ancaq buna yaln\u0131z m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n bir h\u0259dd\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r icaz\u0259 verirl\u0259r. Empatlar \u0259sla icaz\u0259 vermirl\u0259r ki, h\u0259yati vacib olan m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 onlara yalan dey\u0259siniz. Niyy\u0259tiniz \u00e7irkindirs\u0259, he\u00e7 bir halda yalan\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6rm\u0259zd\u0259n g\u0259lm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259r. \u0130nan\u0131n, empatlar pis s\u00f6zl\u0259r v\u0259 \u0259m\u0259ll\u0259riniz\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fczd\u0259n daha \u00e7ox haqq qazand\u0131rma\u011fa meyillidir. \u018ftraf\u0131n\u0131za buraxd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z duman\u0131n arxas\u0131nda n\u0259l\u0259r ba\u015f verdiyini g\u00f6r\u00fcrl\u0259r. Empatlar h\u0259qiq\u0259tin tezliyin\u0259 \u201cuy\u011funla\u015fd\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f\u201d oldu\u011fundan, \u0259traflar\u0131nda ba\u015f ver\u0259n h\u0259r \u015feyi daha d\u0259rin s\u0259viyy\u0259d\u0259 &#8211; dig\u0259r insanlar\u0131n s\u00f6zl\u0259rini, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259l\u0259rini v\u0259 \u0259m\u0259ll\u0259rini d\u0259 ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrl\u0259r. Ancaq siz\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r mehriban olsalar da, imkan daxilind\u0259 he\u00e7 vaxt ba\u015fqalar\u0131n\u0131n z\u0259r\u0259r g\u00f6rm\u0259sin\u0259 imkan vermirl\u0259r.<\/p>\n<p>B\u00fct\u00fcn empatlar t\u0259bi\u0259tc\u0259 \u015f\u0259faverici oldu\u011fundan ruhunuzu yax\u015f\u0131la\u015fd\u0131rma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015fa daha yax\u015f\u0131, xeyirxah v\u0259 n\u0259cib olma\u011f\u0131n g\u0259tirdiyi \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fckl\u0259ri g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259 bil\u0259rl\u0259r. Bununla birlikd\u0259 onlar m\u00fcalic\u0259vi sehrinin b\u00fct\u00fcn hallarda i\u015f\u0259 yaramad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 v\u0259 b\u0259z\u0259n onlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn qalan yegan\u0259 yolun uzaqla\u015fmaq oldu\u011funu da bilirl\u0259r. Ancaq bunu yaln\u0131z son vasit\u0259 olaraq edirl\u0259r. Onlara d\u0259f\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 yalan dan\u0131\u015fsan\u0131z da d\u0259yi\u015f\u0259 bil\u0259c\u0259yinizi hiss ets\u0259l\u0259r, yen\u0259 d\u0259 k\u00f6m\u0259k \u0259lini uzatma\u011fa haz\u0131r olacaqlar v\u0259 bu, heyranl\u0131q do\u011furmaya bilm\u0259z. Empatlar q\u0259r\u0259zsiz v\u0259 f\u0259dakard\u0131rlar. T\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, bir \u00e7ox insan bundan faydalanma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Ancaq yalan\u0131n\u0131z dig\u0259r insanlar\u0131 incitmi\u015fs\u0259 empatlar he\u00e7 bir t\u0259r\u0259dd\u00fcd v\u0259 \u015f\u00fcbh\u0259 etm\u0259d\u0259n rolunuzu a\u015fkar ed\u0259 bil\u0259r. Empatlar yaln\u0131z bir halda susa bil\u0259r, \u0259g\u0259r ona h\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n d\u0259yi\u015fdiyinizi v\u0259 yalanlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259rini \u00f6d\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 haz\u0131r oldu\u011funuzu s\u00fcbut ed\u0259 bils\u0259niz. Onlar yalanlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 \u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fcz\u0259 vurmay\u0131bsa bu, o dem\u0259k deyil ki, olanlardan bix\u0259b\u0259rdil\u0259r. \u0130nan\u0131n, onlar\u0131n yadda\u015f\u0131 \u0259lad\u0131r. Onlara \u00fcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259, yalan dan\u0131\u015fmamaq daha yax\u015f\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Empatlar\u0131n adi insanlardan f\u0259rqi n\u0259dir? Empatiya \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc ba\u015fqa insan\u0131n v\u0259 ya canl\u0131n\u0131n yerind\u0259 hiss etm\u0259 bacar\u0131\u011f\u0131, ba\u015fqas\u0131n\u0131n d\u0259rdin\u0259 \u015f\u0259rik olma hissidir. Empatiya, eyni zamanda, ba\u015fqa insan\u0131n emosional hal\u0131n\u0131 onun mimikas\u0131ndan v\u0259 h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259rind\u0259n duyma qabiliyy\u0259tini ehtiva edir. H\u0259m\u00e7inin insan\u0131 g\u00f6rm\u0259d\u0259n onun emosional hal\u0131n\u0131 tam d\u0259qiq hiss etm\u0259k qabiliyy\u0259tini n\u0259z\u0259rd\u0259 tutur. Empatiyan\u0131n \u0259ksi aleksitimiyad\u0131r. Yunan s\u00f6z\u00fc olan empatiya termini \u201cfiziki ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131q, meyil\u201d anlam\u0131na g\u0259lir. Empatiya qabiliyy\u0259ti olan insanlar yax\u015f\u0131 dinl\u0259yici, diqq\u0259tli m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259\u00e7i, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn f\u0259rqind\u0259 olan, m\u00fcsb\u0259t t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259ri d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259y\u0259 \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck ver\u0259n insanlard\u0131r. H\u0259qiq\u0259tl\u0259ri n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r gizl\u0259tm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fsan\u0131z da, empatlar h\u0259qiqi h\u0259d\u0259fl\u0259ri, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259l\u0259ri v\u0259&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":506074,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[24],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/3d387d26166083385841544516110493350.jpg",975,540,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/3d387d26166083385841544516110493350.jpg",975,540,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/3d387d26166083385841544516110493350.jpg",975,540,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/3d387d26166083385841544516110493350-500x280.jpg",500,280,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/3d387d26166083385841544516110493350-660x365.jpg",660,365,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/3d387d26166083385841544516110493350-840x465.jpg",640,354,true],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/3d387d26166083385841544516110493350.jpg",975,540,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/3d387d26166083385841544516110493350.jpg",975,540,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/3d387d26166083385841544516110493350-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/3d387d26166083385841544516110493350.jpg",975,540,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"<a href=\"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?cat=24\" rel=\"category\">Maraql\u0131<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"Empatlar\u0131n adi insanlardan f\u0259rqi n\u0259dir? Empatiya \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc ba\u015fqa insan\u0131n v\u0259 ya canl\u0131n\u0131n yerind\u0259 hiss etm\u0259 bacar\u0131\u011f\u0131, ba\u015fqas\u0131n\u0131n d\u0259rdin\u0259 \u015f\u0259rik olma hissidir. Empatiya, eyni zamanda, ba\u015fqa insan\u0131n emosional hal\u0131n\u0131 onun mimikas\u0131ndan v\u0259 h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259rind\u0259n duyma qabiliyy\u0259tini ehtiva edir. H\u0259m\u00e7inin insan\u0131 g\u00f6rm\u0259d\u0259n onun emosional hal\u0131n\u0131 tam d\u0259qiq hiss etm\u0259k qabiliyy\u0259tini n\u0259z\u0259rd\u0259 tutur. Empatiyan\u0131n \u0259ksi aleksitimiyad\u0131r. Yunan s\u00f6z\u00fc olan&hellip;","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/506073"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=506073"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/506073\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/506074"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=506073"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=506073"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=506073"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}