M\u00f6vzu il\u0259 \u0259laq\u0259dar \u018fm\u0259k v\u0259 \u018fhalinin Sosial M\u00fcdafi\u0259si Nazirliyinin tabeliyind\u0259 olan Sosial Xidm\u0259tl\u0259r Agentliyinin m\u0259tbuat xidm\u0259tinin r\u0259hb\u0259ri\u00a0Murad H\u0259\u015fimov <\/strong>Oxu.Az-\u0131n sor\u011fusuna cavab olaraq bildirib ki, 2022-ci ilin 9 ay\u0131 \u0259rzind\u0259 174 u\u015faq \u00f6vladl\u0131\u011fa verilib:<\/p>\n \u201cOnlardan 90 n\u0259f\u0259ri o\u011flan, 84 n\u0259f\u0259ri is\u0259 q\u0131zd\u0131r. \u00d6t\u0259n d\u00f6vrd\u0259 h\u0259r iki \u00f6vlad\u0131 \u015f\u0259hid olan ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n \u00f6vladl\u0131\u011fa u\u015faq g\u00f6t\u00fcrm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn 1 m\u00fcraci\u0259t daxil olub. Valideyn-namiz\u0259d u\u00e7ota al\u0131nd\u0131qdan sonra \u00f6z ist\u0259yi il\u0259 m\u00fcraci\u0259tind\u0259n imtina edib. Onu da qeyd edim ki, \u00f6lk\u0259 ba\u015f\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 Prezident \u0130lham \u018fliyevin F\u0259rman\u0131 \u0259sas\u0131nda 1 noyabr 2019-cu ild\u0259n etibar\u0259n \u00f6vladl\u0131\u011fag\u00f6t\u00fcrm\u0259 sah\u0259sind\u0259 idar\u0259etm\u0259 \u018fm\u0259k v\u0259 \u018fhalinin Sosial M\u00fcdafi\u0259si Nazirliyin\u0259 h\u0259val\u0259 olunub. Bundan sonra \u201cValideyn himay\u0259sind\u0259n m\u0259hrum olmu\u015f u\u015faqlar v\u0259 \u00f6vladl\u0131\u011fag\u00f6t\u00fcrm\u0259\u201d altsistemi yarad\u0131lmaqla\u00a0\u00f6vladl\u0131\u011fag\u00f6t\u00fcrm\u0259 sah\u0259sind\u0259 idar\u0259etm\u0259 t\u0259kmill\u0259\u015fdiril\u0259r\u0259k, bu sah\u0259d\u0259 yeni m\u00fcasir idar\u0259etm\u0259 mexanizmi yarad\u0131l\u0131b, \u00f6vladl\u0131\u011fag\u00f6t\u00fcrm\u0259 prosesinin \u0259l\u00e7atanl\u0131\u011f\u0131, operativliyi v\u0259 \u015f\u0259ffafl\u0131\u011f\u0131 t\u0259min olunub\u201d.<\/p>\n H\u0259r iki \u00f6vlad\u0131 \u015f\u0259hid olan ail\u0259l\u0259rin \u00f6vladl\u0131\u011fa u\u015faq g\u00f6t\u00fcrm\u0259si onlar\u0131 psixoloji g\u0259rginlikd\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xarmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn effektiv vasit\u0259\u00a0ola bil\u0259rmi?<\/strong><\/p>\n Psixoloq\u00a0T\u0259ran\u0259 Kaz\u0131ml\u0131<\/strong>\u00a0bildirib ki, bu \u00e7ox yaral\u0131 m\u00f6vzudur v\u0259 \u00f6vlad itkisi zaman\u0131 \u0259ks\u0259r hallarda valideynl\u0259rin bir-birin\u0259 tutunma s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259ri d\u0259 sanki yoxa \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r:<\/p>\n \u201cHalbuki bu bel\u0259 olmamal\u0131d\u0131r. Travmatik hadis\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n sonra ist\u0259r b\u0259db\u0259xt hadis\u0259 zaman\u0131 \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131 itir\u0259n, ist\u0259rs\u0259 d\u0259 \u00f6vladlar\u0131 \u015f\u0259hid olan ail\u0259l\u0259rin psixoloji durumlar\u0131 n\u0259zar\u0259td\u0259 saxlan\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r. Birinci onlar\u0131n \u00f6zl\u0259rinin psixoloji yard\u0131m almalar\u0131 laz\u0131md\u0131r ki, \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc q\u0259bul etsinl\u0259r. \u00c7\u00fcnki \u015f\u0259xsi praktikamdan deyir\u0259m ki, bu c\u00fcr hallarda ail\u0259l\u0259r t\u0259bii ehtiyaclar\u0131ndan ba\u015fqa dem\u0259k olar ki, he\u00e7 n\u0259y\u0259 reaksiya vermirl\u0259r. Yas m\u0259rasiml\u0259rinin ke\u00e7irilm\u0259si is\u0259 bu d\u00f6vr\u00fc daha tez \u00f6t\u00fc\u015fd\u00fcrm\u0259l\u0259rin\u0259 sanki \u0259ng\u0259l olur\u201d.<\/p>\n Psixoloq \u00f6vladlar\u0131 \u015f\u0259hid olan ail\u0259l\u0259rin u\u015faq \u00f6vladl\u0131\u011fa g\u00f6t\u00fcrm\u0259k ist\u0259m\u0259si il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 \u015f\u0259xs\u0259n rastla\u015fmasa da, bu m\u0259qama da toxunub:<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cBu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259d\u0259 h\u0259r iki t\u0259r\u0259f \u00f6vladl\u0131\u011fa g\u00f6t\u00fcrm\u0259 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 ist\u0259yini ir\u0259li s\u00fcr\u0259 bil\u0259r. \u015e\u0259hid \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131n ya\u015f\u0131 t\u0259bii ki, bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259d\u0259 \u00e7ox \u00f6n\u0259mlidir. B\u0259z\u0259n valideynl\u0259r el\u0259 ya\u015f h\u0259ddind\u0259 olurlar ki, ist\u0259s\u0259l\u0259r d\u0259 fiziki olaraq u\u015faq \u00f6vladl\u0131\u011fa g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcb ona baxa bilm\u0259zl\u0259r. Yaxud da t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259rd\u0259n biri bunu ist\u0259y\u0259 bil\u0259r, dig\u0259ri yox. \u018fsas m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 bu m\u0259qamda h\u0259mfikir olmaqd\u0131r. \u00dcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259, \u00f6lk\u0259mizd\u0259 \u00f6vlad itir\u0259n ail\u0259l\u0259r b\u0259z\u0259n u\u015faq evl\u0259rind\u0259n deyil, tan\u0131\u015f azt\u0259minatl\u0131 ail\u0259l\u0259rin u\u015faqlar\u0131ndan, h\u0259tta qohumlar\u0131ndan olan u\u015faqlardan birini g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcb saxlama\u011fa \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck verirl\u0259r.<\/p>\n Burda bir m\u0259qam is\u0259 valideynl\u0259rin \u00f6vladl\u0131\u011fa g\u00f6t\u00fcrd\u00fckl\u0259ri v\u0259 ya yenid\u0259n valideyn olduqdan sonra d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259l\u0259n u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 v\u0259fat ed\u0259n \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131n yerin\u0259 qoymalar\u0131d\u0131r.\u00a0 Bu u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n psixologiyas\u0131na ciddi t\u0259sir ed\u0259n anlardand\u0131r. B\u0259lli bir ya\u015fa q\u0259d\u0259r u\u015faqlar bunu hiss etm\u0259s\u0259 d\u0259, 20 ya\u015fdan sonra art\u0131q u\u015faqlar da bu m\u0259qam\u0131n f\u0259rqin\u0259 var\u0131r v\u0259 \u00f6z h\u0259yatlar\u0131n\u0131 deyil, v\u0259fat etmi\u015f qarda\u015f-bac\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131n yar\u0131m qalan talel\u0259rini ya\u015fama\u011fa m\u0259cbur qald\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131 anlay\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n \u00d6vladl\u0131\u011fa g\u00f6t\u00fcrm\u0259 prosesi b\u00fct\u00fcn bu sadalananlar\u0131n fonunda \u00e7ox \u00e7\u0259tin prosesdir. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u0259m ki, 2-3 il bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259y\u0259 toxunulmas\u0131n, tam \u0259min olduqdan sonra m\u00fcraci\u0259t edilsin. Bizim g\u0259nc ya\u015fda \u015f\u0259hidlik zirv\u0259sin\u0259 ucalan igidl\u0259rimiz oldu, valideynl\u0259ri d\u0259 cavand\u0131r. Bir ne\u00e7\u0259si yenid\u0259n valideyn oldu, bir ne\u00e7\u0259sinin \u015f\u0259had\u0259td\u0259n sonra bac\u0131 v\u0259 ya qarda\u015f\u0131 d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259ldi. He\u00e7 kim \u00f6vlad itkisin\u0259 al\u0131\u015fa bilm\u0259z, amma bir ba\u015fqa u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131n yerin\u0259 qoyaraq yar\u0131m qalan arzular\u0131 onlardan g\u00f6zl\u0259m\u0259k laz\u0131m deyil\u201d.<\/p>\n \u201c\u00dcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259, ail\u0259ni h\u0259yatda tutmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn iki insan\u0131n fikri, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259 t\u0259rzi bir-birin\u0259 uy\u011fun olmal\u0131d\u0131r. \u018fks t\u0259qdird\u0259, bir evin i\u00e7\u0259risin\u0259 girm\u0259kl\u0259, sevgisiz, yaln\u0131z fizioloji t\u0259l\u0259batlar\u0131 \u00f6d\u0259m\u0259k u\u011frunda bir araya g\u0259l\u0259n insanlar \u00f6vlad sahibi olsa bel\u0259 onlardan m\u00f6hk\u0259m ail\u0259 ola bilm\u0259z. Bu g\u0259nc ail\u0259l\u0259r\u0259, \u00f6vlad sahibi olmaq ist\u0259y\u0259nl\u0259r\u0259 v\u0259 \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131 itirm\u0259kl\u0259 travma ya\u015fayan ail\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 d\u0259 aiddir.<\/p>\n C\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259r o q\u0259d\u0259r bir-birini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259, duy\u011fu bax\u0131m\u0131ndan tamamlamal\u0131d\u0131r ki, \u00f6vlad o ail\u0259d\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc xo\u015fb\u0259xt hiss etsin. \u00d6vlad ail\u0259ni qorumur, ail\u0259ni ayaqda tutan qad\u0131n v\u0259 ki\u015fidir. G\u00f6st\u0259ri\u015f x\u0259trin\u0259 ail\u0259 qurmaq, valideyn olmaq do\u011fru deyil. \u00d6vlad\u0131 olmasa da bel\u0259 xo\u015fb\u0259xt olan ail\u0259l\u0259r d\u0259 tan\u0131y\u0131ram, be\u015f \u00f6vlad\u0131 olub xo\u015fb\u0259xt olmayanlar da\u201d, – dey\u0259 psixoloq \u0259lav\u0259 edib.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" H\u0259r bir c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 t\u0259rbiy\u0259, ail\u0259 modeli \u00f6n\u0259mli faktordur. X\u00fcsusil\u0259 d\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131n ail\u0259 m\u00fchitind\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcm\u0259si, valideyn qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131 g\u00f6rm\u0259si c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 daha sa\u011flam insanlar\u0131n say\u0131n\u0131n artmas\u0131 dem\u0259kdir. T\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, bu g\u00fcn b\u0259db\u0259xt hadis\u0259 v\u0259 ya m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259r \u00fcz\u00fcnd\u0259n \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131 v\u0259 ya valideynl\u0259rini itir\u0259nl\u0259r var. Onlar\u0131n yenid\u0259n c\u0259miyy\u0259t\u0259 adaptasiya olunmas\u0131 is\u0259 \u00e7ox \u00e7\u0259tin bir d\u00f6vrd\u00fcr. X\u00fcsusil\u0259 d\u0259 h\u0259r iki o\u011flu V\u0259t\u0259n m\u00fcharib\u0259sind\u0259 \u015f\u0259hid olan ail\u0259l\u0259r var ki, \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131n \u015f\u0259r\u0259fli h\u0259yat yolu il\u0259 f\u0259xr ed\u0259rk\u0259n bu itkiy\u0259 t\u0259s\u0259lli yeri axtar\u0131rlar. G\u00f6r\u0259s\u0259n \u00f6vladl\u0131\u011fa g\u00f6t\u00fcrm\u0259 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 son d\u00f6vrd\u0259 v\u0259ziyy\u0259t nec\u0259dir? M\u00fcraci\u0259t ed\u0259nl\u0259r aras\u0131nda \u015f\u0259hid ail\u0259l\u0259ri olubmu?…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":529210,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/922266eb6f782648c00d02d23d72fcd5.jpg",620,413,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/922266eb6f782648c00d02d23d72fcd5.jpg",620,413,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/922266eb6f782648c00d02d23d72fcd5.jpg",620,413,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/922266eb6f782648c00d02d23d72fcd5-500x280.jpg",500,280,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/922266eb6f782648c00d02d23d72fcd5-548x365.jpg",548,365,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/922266eb6f782648c00d02d23d72fcd5.jpg",620,413,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/922266eb6f782648c00d02d23d72fcd5.jpg",620,413,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/922266eb6f782648c00d02d23d72fcd5.jpg",620,413,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/922266eb6f782648c00d02d23d72fcd5-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/922266eb6f782648c00d02d23d72fcd5.jpg",620,413,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"H\u0259r bir c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 t\u0259rbiy\u0259, ail\u0259 modeli \u00f6n\u0259mli faktordur. X\u00fcsusil\u0259 d\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131n ail\u0259 m\u00fchitind\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcm\u0259si, valideyn qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131 g\u00f6rm\u0259si c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 daha sa\u011flam insanlar\u0131n say\u0131n\u0131n artmas\u0131 dem\u0259kdir. T\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, bu g\u00fcn b\u0259db\u0259xt hadis\u0259 v\u0259 ya m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259r \u00fcz\u00fcnd\u0259n \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131 v\u0259 ya valideynl\u0259rini itir\u0259nl\u0259r var. Onlar\u0131n yenid\u0259n c\u0259miyy\u0259t\u0259 adaptasiya olunmas\u0131 is\u0259 \u00e7ox \u00e7\u0259tin bir d\u00f6vrd\u00fcr. X\u00fcsusil\u0259 d\u0259 h\u0259r iki…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/529209"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=529209"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/529209\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/529210"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=529209"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=529209"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=529209"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}<\/p>\n
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