Qaynana yoxsa g\u0259lin? Kim haql\u0131d\u0131r? \u018fslind\u0259 h\u0259r iki t\u0259r\u0259f. H\u0259r\u0259nin \u00f6z h\u0259qiq\u0259ti var.<\/p>\n
D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrs\u00fcn\u00fcz qaynana-g\u0259lin konflikti yaln\u0131z Az\u0259rbaycandad\u0131r? \u018fsla!<\/p>\n
ARANTV.AZ<\/strong> x\u0259b\u0259r verir ki, b\u00fct\u00fcn d\u00fcnyada iki qad\u0131n\u0131n m\u00fcxt\u0259lif c\u00fcr sevdikl\u0259ri eyni ki\u015fi \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 olan m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259si var. H\u0259tta qohumluq \u0259laq\u0259l\u0259rinin v\u0259 temperamentl\u0259rin soyuq oldu\u011fu Q\u0259rb m\u0259d\u0259niyy\u0259tind\u0259 \u201cterrorist qaynana\u201d v\u0259 \u201cdikba\u015f g\u0259lin\u201d anlay\u0131\u015flar\u0131 var.<\/p>\n Qaynanalara praktiki m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259tl\u0259r: –<\/strong>\u00a0Etibarl\u0131 olun.<\/strong>\u00a0G\u0259ncl\u0259rin \u00f6z probleml\u0259rini \u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 h\u0259val\u0259 edin. Sizin m\u00fcdaxil\u0259niz olmadan ist\u0259nil\u0259n halda ist\u0259nil\u0259n problem h\u0259llini tapacaqd\u0131r. Yox \u0259g\u0259r h\u0259ll \u00f6z\u00fc v\u0259 h\u0259llin yollar\u0131 sizi qane etmirs\u0259 birinci punktu oxuyun.<\/p>\n – H\u0259r\u0259 \u00f6z rolunu oynas\u0131n.<\/strong>\u00a0Siz n\u0259n\u0259 olun, g\u0259lin d\u0259 ana. G\u0259linin anal\u0131q v\u0259zif\u0259l\u0259rini v\u0259 qay\u011f\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6z boynunuza g\u00f6t\u00fcrm\u0259y\u0259 ehtiyac yoxdur. G\u0259lin d\u0259 ana instinktin\u0259 malikdir v\u0259 k\u00f6rp\u0259sini n\u0259 ac\u0131ndan, n\u0259 soyuqdan \u00f6ld\u00fcrm\u0259k, n\u0259 d\u0259 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259hsilsiz b\u00f6y\u00fctm\u0259k niyy\u0259tind\u0259dir. N\u0259n\u0259 olmaq h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131zda n\u00f6vb\u0259ti m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259dir v\u0259 \u00f6zl\u00fcy\u00fcnd\u0259 nec\u0259 d\u0259 g\u00f6z\u0259ldir!<\/p>\n – H\u00f6rm\u0259tli olun.<\/strong>\u00a0H\u00f6rm\u0259t g\u00f6rm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn h\u00f6rm\u0259t yerinizi qoruyun. Siz\u0259 h\u00f6rm\u0259tsizlik edil\u0259c\u0259k \u015f\u0259rait yaratmay\u0131n. Bu x\u00fcsus\u0259n manipulyant qad\u0131nlara aid etm\u0259k olar. \u201c\u018fg\u0259r bel\u0259 olmasa (etm\u0259s\u0259niz), m\u0259n d\u0259 \u2026 ed\u0259c\u0259m (k\u00fcs\u0259c\u0259m, \u2026)\u201d yana\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 k\u0259nara qoyub \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc a\u011fbir\u00e7\u0259k qismind\u0259 apar\u0131n. Bunun yaln\u0131z v\u0259 yaln\u0131z siz\u0259 m\u00fcsb\u0259t t\u0259siri olacaqd\u0131r, inan\u0131n.<\/p>\n – Reall\u0131qla bar\u0131\u015f\u0131n.<\/strong>\u00a0\u018flb\u0259tt\u0259 b\u00fct\u00fcn analar \u00f6z o\u011fullar\u0131n\u0131 evl\u0259ndiyi qad\u0131ndan daha \u00fcst\u00fcn olan birin\u0259 r\u0259va bilirl\u0259r. \u201cReal\u201d g\u0259lin il\u0259 raz\u0131la\u015fmaq asan i\u015f deyil, ax\u0131 \u201carzular\u0131n\u201d g\u0259lini h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 beyninizd\u0259 siz\u0259 rahatl\u0131q vermir. Yegan\u0259 \u00e7\u0131x\u0131\u015f yolu real g\u0259lini q\u0259bul edib, \u201carzular\u0131n\u201d g\u0259linini el\u0259 arzular\u0131n\u0131zda da basd\u0131r\u0131b m\u0259zar\u0131na qoymaqd\u0131r. \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259 z\u00f6vq v\u0259 priotitetl\u0259r f\u0259rqlidir reall\u0131q sizin deyil o\u011flunuzun se\u00e7imidir.<\/p>\n – Al\u00e7altmay\u0131n.<\/strong>\u00a0O\u011flunuzun h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131 v\u0259 n\u0259v\u0259l\u0259rininiz anas\u0131n\u0131 ist\u0259nil\u0259n c\u00fczi formada al\u00e7altmay\u0131n. \u00d6z kompleksl\u0259rinizin v\u0259 u\u011fursuzluqlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n ac\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 g\u0259lini al\u00e7altmaqla kompensasiya etm\u0259yin. \u018fn az\u0131ndan onun sizin ke\u00e7mi\u015f v\u0259 cari probleml\u0259rinizd\u0259 he\u00e7 bir g\u00fcnah\u0131 yoxdur.<\/p>\n – Fiziki m\u0259saf\u0259 saxlay\u0131n.<\/strong>\u00a0Ayr\u0131 ya\u015famaq m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcrs\u0259 ayr\u0131 ya\u015famaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u015f\u0259rait yarad\u0131n. Yox \u0259g\u0259r maddiyyat buna imkan vermirs\u0259 g\u0259ncl\u0259rin \u015f\u0259xsi vaxt v\u0259 \u015f\u0259xsi m\u0259kan\u0131na h\u00f6rm\u0259tl\u0259 yana\u015f\u0131n.<\/p>\n G\u0259linl\u0259r\u0259 praktiki m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t:<\/strong><\/p>\n – Sevin.<\/strong>\u00a0Yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 sevdiyiniz\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 onun anas\u0131n\u0131 da sevm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n. \u00d6vlad yeti\u015fdirm\u0259k asan i\u015f deyil. \u018fn az\u0131ndan \u0259rinizi layiqli \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fcb siz\u0259 \u201ct\u0259hvil ver\u0259n\u201d qad\u0131n\u0131 sevin, yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n sevdiyi qad\u0131n\u0131 sevin.<\/p>\n – H\u00f6rm\u0259tli olun.<\/strong>\u00a0\u0130st\u0259nil\u0259n \u0259n pis halda bel\u0259 h\u00f6rm\u0259tli olun. Q\u0259z\u0259b v\u0259 stress an\u0131nda edil\u0259n h\u00f6rm\u0259tsizliy\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 sonrak\u0131 pe\u015fmanl\u0131q faydas\u0131zd\u0131r.<\/p>\n – Missiyan\u0131z\u0131 anlama\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n.<\/strong>\u00a0Yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131zla evl\u0259nm\u0259yin \u0259sas s\u0259b\u0259bi xo\u015fb\u0259xt olmaq v\u0259 xo\u015fb\u0259xt etm\u0259kdir. B\u00fct\u00fcn neqativl\u0259ri k\u0259nara at\u0131n yaln\u0131z pozitiv da\u015f\u0131y\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 olun. Ail\u0259 qurma\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n s\u0259b\u0259bi qaynana t\u0259rbiy\u0259si il\u0259 m\u0259\u015f\u011ful olmaq v\u0259 ya onun fikirl\u0259rini d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259k deyil. Qaynanan\u0131z\u0131 oldu\u011fu kimi q\u0259bul edin v\u0259 yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n raz\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 qazana bil\u0259c\u0259yiniz yolla davran\u0131n. \u00d6z m\u00f6vqeyinizi he\u00e7 kim\u0259, he\u00e7 bir vasit\u0259 il\u0259 s\u00fcbut etm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131n. Q\u0259rar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 \u0259m\u0259ll\u0259rinizd\u0259 t\u0259tbiq edin.<\/p>\n – Prioritetl\u0259r qoyun.<\/strong>\u00a0Sizin b\u00fct\u00fcn m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 \u0259sas prioritetiniz yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131z v\u0259 onun verdiyi (v\u0259 ya sizinl\u0259 ortaq oldu\u011fu) q\u0259rarlar olmal\u0131d\u0131r. D\u00fczg\u00fcn qoyulan prioritetl\u0259r v\u0259 adekvat t\u0259yin olunan rollar g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 yaranacaq \u0259ks\u0259r m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259l\u0259rin qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 ala bil\u0259r.<\/p>\n – T\u0259nqid etm\u0259yin.<\/strong>\u00a0Yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131za onun qohum v\u0259 yax\u0131nlar\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259nqid etm\u0259yin. He\u00e7 kimin g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc he\u00e7 n\u0259y\u0259 a\u00e7ma\u011fa ehtiyac yoxdur. Sad\u0259c\u0259 olaraq daha t\u0259dbirli olub, konfliktli m\u0259qamlardan yay\u0131nma\u011f\u0131n yollar\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259yin edin. He\u00e7 bir insan m\u0259xluquna anas\u0131, valideynl\u0259ri qohumlar\u0131, \u00f6vladlar\u0131, milliy\u0259ti v\u0259 irqi haqq\u0131nda m\u0259nfi fikir e\u015fitm\u0259k xo\u015f deyil.<\/p>\n – Emosional m\u0259saf\u0259 saxlay\u0131n.<\/strong>\u00a0\u018fn\u0259n\u0259vi dill\u0259 des\u0259k ortada olan \u201cp\u0259rd\u0259ni\u201d qoruq\u00e7usu olun. Yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdan n\u0259 \u00f6z, n\u0259 d\u0259 onun anas\u0131na \u015fikay\u0259t etm\u0259yin. Qaynana r\u0259fiq\u0259 deyil, qaynana yax\u0131n qohumdur.<\/p>\n – Anlay\u0131\u015fl\u0131 olun.<\/strong>\u00a0\u201cM\u0259n yoxsa anan\u201d kimi c\u0259f\u0259ngiyyatla manipulyasiya etm\u0259yin. \u00c7\u00fcnki, cavab\u0131nda m\u00fctl\u0259q \u201c\u018flb\u0259tt\u0259 ki, ANAM\u201d e\u015fid\u0259c\u0259ksiniz. \u00d6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc iki od aras\u0131nda hiss ed\u0259n \u0259rinizin yerin\u0259 qoyun. Nec\u0259dir? He\u00e7 yax\u015f\u0131 deyil.<\/p>\n – M\u00fcsb\u0259t t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcrat yarad\u0131n.<\/strong>\u00a0Buna \u0259n bariz n\u00fcmun\u0259 qaynanan\u0131za g\u00f6zl\u0259nilm\u0259z, t\u0259qvimd\u0259n k\u0259nar h\u0259diyy\u0259l\u0259r edin, h\u0259tta s\u0259mimi olmasa bel\u0259 xo\u015f s\u00f6zl\u0259rl\u0259 dolu a\u00e7\u0131q\u00e7alar yaz\u0131n v\u0259 s. \u00dcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259 qaynanan\u0131zla yaln\u0131z pozitiv yenilikl\u0259ri, x\u0259b\u0259rl\u0259ri b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn, ona maraql\u0131 olan m\u00f6vzularda dan\u0131\u015f\u0131n. Biz s\u00f6zl\u0259, sizinl\u0259 xo\u015f t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcrat\u0131n yaranmas\u0131na can at\u0131n. X\u0259st\u0259lik, yor\u011funluq v\u0259 dig\u0259r m\u0259i\u015f\u0259t probleml\u0259rini b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015fm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn qaynana d\u00fczg\u00fcn se\u00e7im deyil.<\/p>\n Haz\u0131rlayan:\u00a0Z\u00fclf\u00fcqarova S\u0259lt\u0259n\u0259t<\/strong><\/p>\n Vib.az<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Qaynana yoxsa g\u0259lin? Kim haql\u0131d\u0131r? \u018fslind\u0259 h\u0259r iki t\u0259r\u0259f. H\u0259r\u0259nin \u00f6z h\u0259qiq\u0259ti var. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrs\u00fcn\u00fcz qaynana-g\u0259lin konflikti yaln\u0131z Az\u0259rbaycandad\u0131r? \u018fsla! ARANTV.AZ x\u0259b\u0259r verir ki, b\u00fct\u00fcn d\u00fcnyada iki qad\u0131n\u0131n m\u00fcxt\u0259lif c\u00fcr sevdikl\u0259ri eyni ki\u015fi \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 olan m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259si var. H\u0259tta qohumluq \u0259laq\u0259l\u0259rinin v\u0259 temperamentl\u0259rin soyuq oldu\u011fu Q\u0259rb m\u0259d\u0259niyy\u0259tind\u0259 \u201cterrorist qaynana\u201d v\u0259 \u201cdikba\u015f g\u0259lin\u201d anlay\u0131\u015flar\u0131 var. Qaynanalara praktiki m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259tl\u0259r: – H\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 asanla\u015fd\u0131r\u0131n.\u00a0Siz\u0259 aidiyyat\u0131 olmayan m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 v\u0259 probleml\u0259rl\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc y\u00fckl\u0259m\u0259yin. Olmayan yerd\u0259n n\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u0259 n\u0259 d\u0259 ba\u015fqalar\u0131na stress \u015f\u0259raiti yaratmay\u0131n. –\u00a0Etibarl\u0131 olun.\u00a0G\u0259ncl\u0259rin \u00f6z probleml\u0259rini \u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 h\u0259val\u0259 edin. Sizin m\u00fcdaxil\u0259niz olmadan ist\u0259nil\u0259n halda ist\u0259nil\u0259n problem h\u0259llini…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":5335,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/qaynana-ve-gelin.jpg",500,350,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/qaynana-ve-gelin.jpg",500,350,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/qaynana-ve-gelin.jpg",500,350,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/qaynana-ve-gelin-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/qaynana-ve-gelin-300x210.jpg",300,210,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/qaynana-ve-gelin.jpg",500,350,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/qaynana-ve-gelin.jpg",500,350,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/qaynana-ve-gelin.jpg",500,350,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/qaynana-ve-gelin.jpg",240,168,false],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/qaynana-ve-gelin.jpg",500,350,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"Qaynana yoxsa g\u0259lin? Kim haql\u0131d\u0131r? \u018fslind\u0259 h\u0259r iki t\u0259r\u0259f. H\u0259r\u0259nin \u00f6z h\u0259qiq\u0259ti var. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrs\u00fcn\u00fcz qaynana-g\u0259lin konflikti yaln\u0131z Az\u0259rbaycandad\u0131r? \u018fsla! ARANTV.AZ x\u0259b\u0259r verir ki, b\u00fct\u00fcn d\u00fcnyada iki qad\u0131n\u0131n m\u00fcxt\u0259lif c\u00fcr sevdikl\u0259ri eyni ki\u015fi \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 olan m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259si var. H\u0259tta qohumluq \u0259laq\u0259l\u0259rinin v\u0259 temperamentl\u0259rin soyuq oldu\u011fu Q\u0259rb m\u0259d\u0259niyy\u0259tind\u0259 \u201cterrorist qaynana\u201d v\u0259 \u201cdikba\u015f g\u0259lin\u201d anlay\u0131\u015flar\u0131 var. Qaynanalara praktiki m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259tl\u0259r:…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5334"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5334"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5334\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/5335"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5334"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5334"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5334"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
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\n– H\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 asa<\/strong>n<\/strong>la\u015fd\u0131r\u0131n.<\/strong>\u00a0Siz\u0259 aidiyyat\u0131 olmayan m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 v\u0259 probleml\u0259rl\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc y\u00fckl\u0259m\u0259yin. Olmayan yerd\u0259n n\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u0259 n\u0259 d\u0259 ba\u015fqalar\u0131na stress \u015f\u0259raiti yaratmay\u0131n.<\/p>\n