{"id":54169,"date":"2019-05-01T08:40:51","date_gmt":"2019-05-01T05:40:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=54169"},"modified":"2019-05-01T08:40:51","modified_gmt":"2019-05-01T05:40:51","slug":"h%c9%99yatinizi-d%c9%99yisdir%c9%99n-9-mudrik-qayda","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=54169","title":{"rendered":"H\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 d\u0259yi\u015fdir\u0259n 9 M\u00dcDR\u0130K QAYDA"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00c7\u0259tinlikl\u0259r b\u0259zi insanlar\u0131 s\u0131nd\u0131r\u0131r, b\u0259zil\u0259ri is\u0259 aya\u011fa qalxma\u011fa v\u0259 ke\u00e7mi\u015f h\u0259yat\u0131na yenid\u0259n n\u0259z\u0259r salma\u011fa m\u0259cbur edir. H\u0259yat\u0131n \u00f6z qanunlar\u0131 var v\u0259 biz onlara haz\u0131r olmayana q\u0259d\u0259r onlar i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k.<\/strong><\/p>\n

ARANTV.AZ\u00a0<\/strong> bu d\u0259f\u0259 oxucular\u0131 h\u0259tay\u0131n daxili harmoniya qaydalar\u0131 il\u0259 tan\u0131\u015f edib.<\/p>\n

H\u0259yat – \u00e7ox qiym\u0259tli d\u0259rsl\u0259r \u00f6yr\u0259d\u0259n m\u00fcdrik bir m\u00fc\u0259llimdir. Bu, adi deyim yox, s\u00fcbut olunmu\u015f t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259dir. H\u0259yat m\u0259kt\u0259bind\u0259 d\u0259rs\u0259 haz\u0131rl\u0131qs\u0131z g\u0259lm\u0259k q\u0259bul olunmur. \u018fg\u0259r d\u0259rs \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131rsa, siz bu v\u0259ziyy\u0259td\u0259n d\u00fczg\u00fcn n\u0259tic\u0259 \u00e7\u0131xarmayana q\u0259d\u0259r h\u0259yat adl\u0131 m\u00fc\u0259llim onu d\u0259f\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 t\u0259krarlayacq. Odur ki, h\u0259yatda \u00e7\u0259tin h\u0259yat s\u0131naqlar\u0131ndan ke\u00e7\u0259n adama m\u00fcdrik v\u0259 ya t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259li deyirik. Ba\u015fqalar\u0131n\u0131n s\u0259hvl\u0259rini t\u0259krarlamaq ist\u0259mirsinizs\u0259, m\u00fcdrikl\u0259rin m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259tl\u0259rin\u0259 \u0259m\u0259l etm\u0259y\u0259 d\u0259y\u0259r.<\/p>\n

T\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, biz h\u0259yat d\u0259rsl\u0259rini \u00e7ox gec \u00f6yr\u0259nirik. Ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131z da\u015fa d\u0259ym\u0259y\u0259n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r imtahandan ke\u00e7mi\u015f say\u0131lm\u0131r\u0131q. \u00d6m\u00fcr adl\u0131 s\u0259yah\u0259td\u0259 insan iki duy\u011fu aras\u0131nda se\u00e7im etm\u0259li olur: ya biz inki\u015faf edirik, ya da h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 v\u0259 haradasa laxlay\u0131r\u0131q. H\u0259r bir h\u0259yat d\u0259rsi biz\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcm\u0259k v\u0259 inki\u015faf etm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn g\u00f6nd\u0259rilir.<\/p>\n

\u018fg\u0259r g\u00f6zl\u0259nilm\u0259y\u0259n hadis\u0259 ba\u015f verirs\u0259, biz h\u0259yat ritmini itirir, iflasa u\u011fray\u0131r v\u0259 probleml\u0259rin \u00f6hd\u0259sind\u0259n g\u0259l\u0259 bilmirik.<\/p>\n

1. \u00d6m\u00fcr adl\u0131 s\u0259yah\u0259t – \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259li oldu\u011fumuz d\u0259rsl\u0259r seriyas\u0131d\u0131r<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ba\u015f ver\u0259nl\u0259r\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7\u0131xma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131n. M\u00fcxalif g\u00fcc m\u00fcqavim\u0259t g\u00fcc\u00fc il\u0259 b\u0259rab\u0259rdir. H\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131zda ba\u015f ver\u0259nl\u0259rd\u0259n qa\u00e7ma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaqla v\u0259 m\u00fcqavim\u0259t g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259kl\u0259 \u00f6z energetikan\u0131z\u0131 s\u0131f\u0131ra endirirsiniz. Bu da h\u0259yat\u0131 he\u00e7\u0259 ya\u015famaq dem\u0259kdir.<\/p>\n

H\u0259yatda \u0259n \u00e7\u0259tin situasiyalar\u0131 yada sal\u0131n. \u015e\u00fcbh\u0259siz ki, \u00e7ox a\u011f\u0131r g\u00fcnl\u0259riniz olub, amma indi sahib oldu\u011funuz \u201cm\u0259niniz\u201d o d\u0259rdl\u0259rin v\u0259 ya\u015fanm\u0131\u015f t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259l\u0259rin n\u0259tic\u0259sidir. Bu g\u00fcn siz d\u00fcn\u0259nki h\u0259yat t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259sinin n\u0259tic\u0259siniz. \u018fg\u0259r h\u0259yat yolunda sizi n\u0259 is\u0259 narahat edirs\u0259, dem\u0259li, d\u0259rsd\u0259n k\u0259silmisiniz. Bu da o dem\u0259kdir ki, g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 sizi eyni hadis\u0259nin t\u0259krar\u0131 g\u00f6zl\u0259yir. Ba\u015f verm\u0259sini ist\u0259mirsiniz? O zaman k\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fc \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015fin.<\/p>\n

2. Kainat\u0131n sevimlil\u0259ri dey\u0259 bir \u015fey yoxdur<\/strong><\/p>\n

Y\u0259qin ki, siz\u0259 d\u0259 h\u0259rd\u0259n el\u0259 g\u0259lir ki, kimins\u0259 b\u0259xti daha \u00e7ox g\u0259tirir, kimins\u0259 az. D\u00fcnyada he\u00e7 kim “b\u0259xt\u0259v\u0259r dam\u011fas\u0131” il\u0259 do\u011fulmur, bu bar\u0259d\u0259 unudun getsin. Karma v\u0259 tale g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259yimizin ke\u00e7mi\u015f n\u0259tic\u0259sidir. U\u011furlu insanlar\u0131n bu s\u0259viyy\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7atana q\u0259d\u0259r hans\u0131 yollardan ke\u00e7diyini t\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcr ed\u0259 bilm\u0259rsiniz. H\u0259r k\u0259s\u0259 \u00e7iyinl\u0259rind\u0259 da\u015f\u0131ya bil\u0259c\u0259k q\u0259d\u0259r y\u00fck verilir. M\u0259hsul \u0259ld\u0259 etm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u0259vv\u0259lc\u0259 z\u0259hm\u0259t \u00e7\u0259km\u0259lisiniz. \u018fg\u0259r b\u0259xtiniz h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 g\u0259tirm\u0259yibs\u0259, dem\u0259li, arzular\u0131n qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00f6d\u0259nm\u0259yib v\u0259 siz u\u011fura h\u0259l\u0259 haz\u0131r deyilsiniz. B\u0259z\u0259n d\u0259 olur ki, b\u00f6y\u00fck pul v\u0259 \u015fan-\u015f\u00f6hr\u0259t insan\u0131 m\u0259hv edir, o, b\u00f6y\u00fcm\u0259k v\u0259 inki\u015faf etm\u0259k \u0259v\u0259zin\u0259 iflasa u\u011fray\u0131r v\u0259 \u00f6l\u00fcr.<\/p>\n

3. H\u0259yat – inam v\u0259 \u0259qid\u0259mizin g\u00fczg\u00fcs\u00fcd\u00fcr<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u0130nanclar insan\u0131n yax\u015f\u0131 v\u0259 pis haqq\u0131nda sahib oldu\u011fu t\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcrl\u0259r toplusudur. \u015e\u0259xsiyy\u0259t bir ne\u00e7\u0259 qab\u0131qdan, m\u0259rk\u0259zind\u0259 n\u00fcv\u0259 v\u0259 ya \u0130D-d\u0259n ibar\u0259tdir.\u00a0\u0130D<\/strong>\u00a0– insan xisl\u0259tinin \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc\u00a0identifikasiyas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/strong>\u00a0N\u00fcv\u0259ni d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259k \u00e7ox \u00e7\u0259tindir, lakin \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc identifikasiya n\u00f6vb\u0259ti inam m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259sini formala\u015fd\u0131r\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Bizim reall\u0131\u011f\u0131n ist\u0259nil\u0259n t\u0259sviri xarakteristikas\u0131 bizim \u0259qid\u0259 v\u0259 inanclar\u0131m\u0131zdan t\u0259\u015fkil olunub. \u0130namlar is\u0259 bacar\u0131q v\u0259 qabiliyy\u0259t adlanan yeni bir s\u0259viyy\u0259 formala\u015fd\u0131r\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Qabiliyy\u0259t bizim bilik v\u0259 n\u0259l\u0259ris\u0259 h\u0259yata ke\u00e7irm\u0259k bacar\u0131qlar\u0131m\u0131zd\u0131r. Biz n\u0259yis\u0259 ed\u0259 bil\u0259rik, ya yox? \u018fg\u0259r ed\u0259 bil\u0259riks\u0259, nec\u0259? Bu sual bizim bacar\u0131qlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n s\u0259viyy\u0259sini xarakteriz\u0259 edir. Qabiliyy\u0259tl\u0259r inamlar \u0259sas\u0131nda yaran\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Qabiliyy\u0259tl\u0259r davran\u0131\u015f modelini ortaya \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131r: h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259t v\u0259 ya h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tsizlik. Bu is\u0259 qabiliyy\u0259td\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131 olaraq d\u0259yi\u015fir.<\/p>\n

\u0130ndi is\u0259 g\u0259lin bu s\u0259viyy\u0259y\u0259 “anti” \u015f\u0259kil\u00e7isini \u0259lav\u0259 ed\u0259k. Bel\u0259likl\u0259 biz anti-identifikasiya alaca\u011f\u0131q. \u0130nki\u015faf etm\u0259li olan inamlar iflasa u\u011frayan anti-inamlara \u00e7evrilir. Bu zaman bacar\u0131qlar\u0131 h\u0259yata ke\u00e7irm\u0259k qeyri-m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olur. Bu yolla insan anti-davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 h\u0259yata ke\u00e7irir v\u0259 \u015f\u0259xsi anti- identifikasiyalar\u0131n\u0131 daha \u00e7ox m\u00f6hk\u0259ml\u0259ndirir. Ah-vay bu hekay\u0259d\u0259 ba\u015f rolu oynay\u0131r v\u0259 bu, d\u0259h\u015f\u0259tdir.<\/p>\n

D\u0259h\u015f\u0259tli fenomen insana h\u0259m yuxar\u0131 qalxma\u011fa mane olur, h\u0259m d\u0259 \u015fampan bur\u011fusu kimi \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 \u00e7\u0259kir. N\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259 bu reall\u0131qdan g\u00fcnb\u0259g\u00fcn \u00e7\u0131xmaq \u00e7\u0259tinl\u0259\u015fir.<\/p>\n

4. He\u00e7 n\u0259y\u0259 ba\u011flanmay\u0131n<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131q h\u0259m \u00f6z h\u0259yat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131, h\u0259m d\u0259 ba\u011fland\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z insan\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131 z\u0259h\u0259rl\u0259yir. Y\u0259qin ki, bu paradoksu h\u0259r k\u0259s m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 edib: qad\u0131n \u0259rind\u0259n n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7ox yap\u0131\u015fsa, qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131na qalsa, \u00fcst\u00fcnd\u0259 n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7ox \u0259ss\u0259 v\u0259 onu itirm\u0259kd\u0259n n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7ox qorxsa da, ki\u015fi s\u0259yl\u0259rini qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndirmir. \u00d6mr\u00fcn\u00fc \u0259rinin yolunda f\u0259da ed\u0259n qad\u0131n sonda sevgisiz qal\u0131r. Bu, ki\u015fi \u0259claf oldu\u011fu \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ba\u015f vermir. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 ondad\u0131r ki, ki\u015finin b\u00fct\u00fcn energetikas\u0131 bu c\u00fcr f\u0259dakarl\u0131\u011fa m\u00fcqavim\u0259t g\u00f6st\u0259rir.<\/p>\n

Bel\u0259 davran\u0131\u015f ki\u015finin energetikas\u0131n\u0131 sorur, bu zaman o, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00fcnahkar v\u0259 borclu hiss etm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131r. Yadda saxlay\u0131n ki, bu hissl\u0259rin sevgi il\u0259 he\u00e7 bir \u0259laq\u0259si yoxdur. Qad\u0131n\u0131n hissl\u0259rini d\u0259 sevgi adland\u0131rmaq olmaz. \u00c7ox g\u00fcman ki, qad\u0131n bu insana olan hissl\u0259rini \u00e7ox sevir v\u0259 status kvo-nu qoruma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Bir \u015fey\u0259 a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131q v\u0259 \u00f6hd\u0259lik u\u015faql\u0131q duy\u011fusudur, u\u015faq \u00f6z oyuncaqlar\u0131n\u0131 he\u00e7 kiml\u0259 payla\u015fmaq ist\u0259m\u0259y\u0259nd\u0259, onlar\u0131 \u00f6z\u00fc il\u0259 eynil\u0259\u015fdirir, h\u0259tta m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n edir.<\/p>\n

\u018fg\u0259r siz n\u0259yis\u0259 h\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n ist\u0259yirsinizs\u0259, arzuolunan\u0131 azad buraxmaq v\u0259 enerjinin s\u0259rb\u0259st axmas\u0131na icaz\u0259 verm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r ki, arzular h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131za qay\u0131da bilsin.<\/p>\n

5. \u00dcr\u0259yin ist\u0259diyi kimi ya\u015fa<\/strong><\/p>\n

A\u011fl\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n s\u0259sini n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7ox dinl\u0259s\u0259niz, q\u0259lbin v\u0259 ruhun s\u0259sini o q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7ox bo\u011fursunuz. \u018fg\u0259r a\u011fl\u0131n\u0131z v\u0259 q\u0259lbiniz aras\u0131nda se\u00e7im etm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131rsa, c\u0259sar\u0259tl\u0259 \u00fcr\u0259yi se\u00e7in. Q\u0259lbiniz h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 \u0259n yax\u015f\u0131 b\u0259l\u0259d\u00e7iniz olacaq. \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259 ki, q\u0259lbinizin s\u0259sini dinl\u0259yin dedikd\u0259 \u015f\u0259xsi m\u0259nf\u0259\u0259t v\u0259 eqolar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 t\u0259min etm\u0259k n\u0259z\u0259rd\u0259 tutulmur. \u00dcr\u0259yin h\u00f6km\u00fc d\u0259rin d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rinizl\u0259 \u00fcst-\u00fcst\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr.<\/p>\n

6. N\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7ox \u00e7al\u0131\u015fsan\u0131z, bir o q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7ox qazanacaqs\u0131n\u0131z<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00d6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc \u201cU\u011fur v\u0259 ya \u015fans bir gec\u0259d\u0259 qonaq g\u0259lir\u201d ill\u00fcziyalar\u0131yla aldatmay\u0131n. U\u011fur – 1 faizd\u0259n ibar\u0259tdir, qalan\u0131 al\u0131n t\u0259ridir. T\u0259r ax\u0131n\u0131n\u0131 insan sevdiyi i\u015fl\u0259 m\u0259\u015f\u011ful olma\u011fa v\u0259 b\u00fct\u00fcn \u00e7\u0259tinlikl\u0259r g\u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259 asanla\u015fma\u011fa ba\u015flayanda hiss edir. Bu yaln\u0131z xo\u015funuza g\u0259l\u0259n m\u0259\u015f\u011fuliyy\u0259t\u0259 olan s\u0259daq\u0259tin say\u0259sind\u0259 m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr, arzular v\u0259 imkanlar birl\u0259\u015f\u0259nd\u0259, h\u0259r \u015fey daha asanl\u0131qla \u0259ld\u0259 edilir. \u018fslind\u0259, insan b\u00f6y\u00fck i\u015f g\u00f6r\u00fcr. Odur ki, asan yollar axtarmay\u0131n, b\u00f6y\u00fck h\u0259d\u0259fl\u0259r \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn s\u0259y g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259k laz\u0131m g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k.<\/p>\n

7. Hadis\u0259l\u0259ri pis\u0259 v\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131ya b\u00f6lm\u0259yin<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ba\u015f ver\u0259nl\u0259r\u0259 qiym\u0259t verm\u0259kd\u0259n imtina edin. B\u00fct\u00fcn hadis\u0259l\u0259r neytrald\u0131r. Ya\u011f\u0131\u015f ya\u011fanda kims\u0259 yerd\u0259 pal\u00e7\u0131q g\u00f6r\u00fcr, ba\u015fqas\u0131 bu t\u0259bi\u0259t hadis\u0259sini ulduzlar\u0131n \u0259ksi kimi q\u0259bul edir. Hadis\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 reaksiyan\u0131z\u0131 diqq\u0259t istiqam\u0259ti t\u0259yin edir. \u018fg\u0259r h\u0259yat\u0131n \u0259zab, \u0259trafdak\u0131lar\u0131n qurd oldu\u011fu fikrin\u0259 inansaq, bu zaman h\u0259r k\u0259si siz\u0259 h\u00fccum \u00e7\u0259km\u0259y\u0259 v\u0259 par\u00e7alama\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015facaq. B\u0259s \u0259ksin\u0259? Biz diqq\u0259timizi y\u00f6n\u0259ltdiyimiz hadis\u0259l\u0259rin h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259rini g\u00fccl\u0259ndirir v\u0259 onlar\u0131 enerji il\u0259 sulay\u0131r\u0131q. Yaln\u0131z suvarma \u00fcsulu v\u0259 keyfiyy\u0259ti \u00e7ox f\u0259rqli ola bil\u0259r.<\/p>\n

8. \u0130nsanlar\u0131 m\u00fcsb\u0259t v\u0259 m\u0259nfil\u0259ri il\u0259 q\u0259bul edin<\/strong><\/p>\n

Biz bu d\u00fcnyaya bir insan t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259sini ya\u015famaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn g\u0259lmi\u015fik. V\u0259 bu t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259d\u0259 biz\u0259 ba\u015fqalar\u0131 k\u00f6m\u0259k edir. Allah\u0131n dig\u0259r insanlar\u0131n \u0259ll\u0259ri, bizim \u00fcz\u0259rimizd\u0259ki t\u0259sirl\u0259ri xaricind\u0259 ba\u015fqa \u0259ll\u0259ri yoxdur. \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259 ki, b\u0259z\u0259n \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc \u0259traf-al\u0259md\u0259n t\u0259dric etmi\u015f v\u0259 quyunun dibin\u0259 enmi\u015f insan\u0131 q\u0259bul etm\u0259k \u00e7\u0259tin olur. Amma bu da biz\u0259 n\u0259s\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259d\u0259 bil\u0259r. \u018fn az\u0131ndan onu \u00f6yr\u0259dir ki, h\u0259yatda daha vacib d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259r var v\u0259 biz he\u00e7 vaxt onun kimi olmaq ist\u0259m\u0259zdik. H\u0259r \u015fey m\u00fcqayis\u0259d\u0259 bilinir. Bax, bu adam siz\u0259 m\u00fcqayis\u0259 etm\u0259k imkan\u0131 verir.<\/p>\n

\u0130nsanlar\u0131 oldu\u011fu kimi q\u0259bul etm\u0259kl\u0259 biz g\u00f6zl\u0259ntil\u0259ri a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 sal\u0131r v\u0259 daha dinc h\u0259yat ya\u015fay\u0131r\u0131q. Sevinc v\u0259 s\u00fclh q\u0259lbin sa\u011flam v\u0259ziyy\u0259tidir. H\u0259m \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u0259, h\u0259m d\u0259 yax\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131za qar\u015f\u0131 \u015fi\u015firdilmi\u015f g\u00f6zl\u0259ntil\u0259r bizi m\u0259yus ed\u0259n ba\u015fl\u0131ca s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rdir.<\/p>\n

H\u0259ddind\u0259n art\u0131q g\u00f6zl\u0259ntil\u0259ri olan bir \u015f\u0259xs qeyri-sabit daxili v\u0259ziyy\u0259tind\u0259 el\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr ki, g\u00fcnahkar ba\u015fqalar\u0131d\u0131r. H\u0259ddind\u0259n art\u0131q t\u0259l\u0259bl\u0259rd\u0259n h\u0259m insan \u00f6z\u00fc, h\u0259m d\u0259 ba\u015fqalar\u0131 \u0259ziyy\u0259t \u00e7\u0259kir.<\/p>\n

Bu, \u0259r-arvad m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rind\u0259 daha ayd\u0131n g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr. Qad\u0131n h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 \u0259rinin kifay\u0259t q\u0259d\u0259r yax\u015f\u0131 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, az qazand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, v\u0259zif\u0259l\u0259rini d\u00fczg\u00fcn yerin\u0259 yetirm\u0259diyini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr. Eyni zamanda, o unudur ki, \u00f6z\u00fc d\u0259 m\u00fck\u0259mm\u0259l deyil. Qad\u0131n \u0259rinin enerjisini g\u0259mirir, eyni zamanda onun s\u00fckun\u0259tind\u0259n \u00f6z\u00fc d\u0259 daim narahat olur. Analar da b\u0259z\u0259n u\u015faqlar\u0131na qar\u015f\u0131 eyni c\u00fcr davran\u0131r v\u0259 onlardan daha m\u00fcdrik davranma\u011f\u0131 t\u0259l\u0259b edir, halbuki, u\u015faqlar d\u00fcnyan\u0131 s\u0259hvl\u0259r vasit\u0259sil\u0259 tan\u0131y\u0131r.<\/p>\n

\u015ei\u015firdilmi\u015f g\u00f6zl\u0259ntil\u0259r sindromu il\u0259 m\u00fcbariz\u0259 yolunda ilk add\u0131m \u2013 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc aldatd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 v\u0259 t\u0259l\u0259y\u0259 d\u00fc\u015fd\u00fcy\u00fcn\u00fc d\u0259rk etm\u0259kdir. Bu t\u0259l\u0259y\u0259 d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259k olmaz. \u018fg\u0259r \u201cdaha yax\u015f\u0131 ola bil\u0259rdi\u201d kimi fikirl\u0259ri il\u0259 ya\u015fama\u011fa davam ets\u0259niz, sonsuza q\u0259d\u0259r \u0259zab \u00e7\u0259km\u0259li olacaqs\u0131n\u0131z. \u00c7\u00fcnki m\u00fck\u0259mm\u0259lliyin s\u0259rh\u0259di yoxdur. \u018fn s\u0259rf\u0259li investisiyalar bir qayda olaraq \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 qoyulan yat\u0131r\u0131mlard\u0131r.<\/p>\n

9. Biz ba\u015fqalar\u0131n\u0131 yox, \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn yarad\u0131lm\u0131\u015f\u0131q<\/strong><\/p>\n

Daim \u00f6z biliyini inki\u015faf etdir\u0259n insan h\u0259m \u00f6z\u00fc, h\u0259m d\u0259 ba\u015fqalar\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn maraql\u0131 olur.<\/p>\n

“H\u0259r k\u0259s d\u00fcnyan\u0131 d\u0259yi\u015fdirm\u0259k ist\u0259yir, amma he\u00e7 kim \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc d\u0259yi\u015fdirm\u0259yi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u00fcr”. (Lev Tolstoy )<\/p>\n

Ba\u015fqalar\u0131na tonlarla m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t verm\u0259y\u0259 haz\u0131r olsaq da, \u00e7ox az adam \u00f6z\u00fc v\u0259 n\u0259fsi \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259yir. Halbuki \u00f6z kompleksl\u0259ri, n\u0259fsi v\u0259 z\u0259r\u0259rli v\u0259rdi\u015fl\u0259ri \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 q\u0259l\u0259b\u0259 qazanmaq \u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck q\u0259l\u0259b\u0259dir.<\/p>\n

\u00c7ox vaxt biz ya\u015famaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259k m\u0259cburiyy\u0259tind\u0259 qal\u0131r\u0131q, b\u0259z\u0259n d\u0259 bu prosesi a\u011fr\u0131, qorxu v\u0259 \u015f\u00fcbh\u0259 m\u00fc\u015fayi\u0259t edir. Bununla da biz xatir\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n, v\u0259rdi\u015fl\u0259rd\u0259n v\u0259 ke\u00e7mi\u015fin \u0259n\u0259n\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259n qurtuluruq. Yaln\u0131z ke\u00e7mi\u015fin y\u00fck\u00fcnd\u0259n azad olmaq biz\u0259 indi il\u0259 ya\u015fama\u011fa v\u0259 h\u0259yatdan z\u00f6vq alma\u011fa imkan verir.<\/p>\n

“G\u00f6rm\u0259k ist\u0259diyiniz d\u0259yi\u015fiklik \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz olun”. (Mahatma Qandi)<\/p>\n

D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259l\u0259ri ancaq m\u00fcsb\u0259t istiqam\u0259td\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015fdirin. \u0130caz\u0259 verm\u0259yin ki, ke\u00e7mi\u015f xatir\u0259l\u0259r sizd\u0259n m\u0259nfi bir q\u0259hr\u0259man yarats\u0131n. M\u00fcsb\u0259t emosiyalara v\u0259 fikirl\u0259r\u0259 \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck verin ki, h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 \u0259sasl\u0131 \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015f\u0259siniz. Sizin v\u0259zif\u0259niz x\u0259yal qurmaq v\u0259 h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259t etm\u0259k, h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131zda ba\u015f ver\u0259n m\u00f6c\u00fcz\u0259l\u0259ri salamlamaqd\u0131r. V\u0259 \u0259g\u0259r n\u0259 is\u0259 ist\u0259diyiniz kimi al\u0131nm\u0131rsa, dem\u0259k ki, sizin \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn daha yax\u015f\u0131 olacaq. Sad\u0259c\u0259, rahatlan\u0131n v\u0259 h\u0259zz al\u0131n.publika.az<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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