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Kubra M\u0259h\u0259rr\u0259mova yaz\u0131r…<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Dem\u0259li, d\u00fcz \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc g\u00fcnd\u00fcr ki, d\u00f6rd il \u0259vv\u0259l deyil\u0259n s\u00f6z\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 mill\u0259t bir-birini q\u0131r\u0131r.\u00a0S\u00f6z\u00fc dey\u0259ni d\u0259 s\u00f6y\u00fcr, dem\u0259y\u0259ni d\u0259. Amma yen\u0259 d\u0259, deyil\u0259n s\u00f6z\u00fcn mahiyy\u0259tin\u0259 varmadan.<\/p>\n

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Yad\u0131ma bir hadis\u0259 d\u00fc\u015fd\u00fc. Dem\u0259li bir u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n valideynl\u0259ri onu psixoloqa g\u0259tirirl\u0259r. Psixoloq u\u015faqla s\u00f6hb\u0259t ed\u0259nd\u0259n sonra valideynl\u0259r\u0259 deyir ki, bu u\u015faq \u00e7ox h\u0259ssasd\u0131r, intihara meyillidir. Valideyn is\u0259 ev\u0259 qay\u0131danda u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 d\u00f6y\u00fcr ki, niy\u0259 intihara meyillis\u0259n?<\/p>\n

M\u0259ntiql\u0259 valideyn intihara meyilli olan u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n d\u0259rdini-s\u0259rini \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259li, ona bu \u00e7\u0259tin d\u00f6n\u0259md\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xma\u011fa yard\u0131m etm\u0259li idi. Amma bizd\u0259 q\u0259dim \u0259n\u0259n\u0259, d\u0259d\u0259-baba t\u0259rbiy\u0259 \u00fcsulu d\u00f6ym\u0259kdir. Diqq\u0259t ets\u0259k bununla ba\u011fl\u0131 folklorumuzda maraql\u0131 ifad\u0259l\u0259r d\u0259 var. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, \u201cs\u0259ni n\u00f6y\u00fct (neft – red.) iyi ver\u0259n\u0259 kimi d\u00f6y\u0259r\u0259m\u201d. \u0130fad\u0259nin tarixi m\u0259qamlar\u0131na enm\u0259d\u0259n qay\u0131d\u0131ram bug\u00fcnk\u00fc hadis\u0259miz\u0259. Hadis\u0259 qal\u0131b bir t\u0259r\u0259f\u0259, ham\u0131 d\u00f6y\u00fcr, daha do\u011frusu s\u00f6y\u00fcr.<\/p>\n

Daha d\u0259qiq des\u0259k, d\u00fcz d\u00f6rd il yar\u0131m \u0259vv\u0259l B\u0259hram Ba\u011f\u0131rzad\u0259 tan\u0131nm\u0131\u015f jurnalist H\u0259mid H\u0259midovun \u201cDan\u0131\u015faq?\u201d verili\u015finin qona\u011f\u0131 olark\u0259n deyib ki, \u201cbir diqq\u0259t edin, g\u00f6r\u00fcn restoranda olanlar nec\u0259 d\u0259 y\u00fcks\u0259kd\u0259n dan\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar\u201d. Y\u0259ni mahiyy\u0259t etibaril\u0259 ictimai yerd\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n olunmu\u015f qaydalar var ki, ona riay\u0259t olunmal\u0131d\u0131r. D\u00fcz demir? – D\u00fcz deyir. Deyir ki, k\u0259nd \u015f\u0259h\u0259rd\u0259 assimilyasiya olunmal\u0131d\u0131r. Onu da d\u00fcz deyir.<\/p>\n

M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, k\u0259ndd\u0259 k\u00fc\u00e7\u0259nin bu ba\u015f\u0131ndan o ba\u015f\u0131na qon\u015funu, dostu, tan\u0131\u015f\u0131 \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn q\u0131\u015fq\u0131rmaq normal hald\u0131r. \u015e\u0259h\u0259r m\u00fchitind\u0259 \u00e7\u0131xaq k\u00fc\u00e7\u0259y\u0259 dostumuzu, tan\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn biz d\u0259 q\u0131\u015fq\u0131raq. Baxanlar da dey\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259r ki, ba\u015f\u0131na hava g\u0259lib, bu niy\u0259 q\u0131\u015fq\u0131r\u0131r?<\/p>\n

\u00c7ox vacib bir m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 var ki, b\u0259z\u0259n t\u0259rbiy\u0259sizlik, yek\u0259xanal\u0131q, \u0259xlaqs\u0131zl\u0131q\u00a0\u015f\u0259h\u0259r\u0259-k\u0259nd\u0259 baxm\u0131r. H\u0259r yerin \u00f6z \u201cqaymaqlar\u0131\u201d var. Bunu \u00fcmumil\u0259\u015fdirm\u0259k d\u0259 olmaz.<\/p>\n

Amma m\u00fctl\u0259qdir ki, haraya getm\u0259yimizd\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131 olmayaraq biz d\u0259 getdiyimiz yer\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 davranmal\u0131 v\u0259 h\u0259min \u0259halinin hiss v\u0259 qaydalar\u0131na h\u00f6rm\u0259t etm\u0259liyik.<\/p>\n

M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, \u00e7oxumuz rayona, k\u0259nd\u0259 ged\u0259nd\u0259 daha sad\u0259, el dilind\u0259 des\u0259k \u201cab\u0131rl\u0131\u201d geyinirik. \u015e\u0259h\u0259rd\u0259 geyindiyimiz\u00a0g\u00f6d\u0259k v\u0259 f\u0259rqli donlar\u0131 k\u0259nd\u0259 geyinmirik. H\u0259r n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r d\u0259 des\u0259k ki, k\u0259nd m\u00fcasirl\u0259\u015fir v\u0259 s. bilirik ki, bu bel\u0259 deyil. K\u0259ndin \u00f6z qayda-qanunu var. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 nec\u0259 dey\u0259rl\u0259r, h\u0259r oyunu qaydalar\u0131na g\u00f6r\u0259 oynamaq laz\u0131md\u0131r.<\/p>\n

V\u0259 ya Allah g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259sin h\u00fczr m\u0259slisin\u0259 ged\u0259nd\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n davran\u0131\u015f qaydalar\u0131 var ki, bununla da biz yax\u0131n\u0131n\u0131 itirmi\u015f insan\u0131n hissl\u0259rin\u0259 h\u00f6rm\u0259tl\u0259 yana\u015faraq \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u0259 \u00e7\u0259ki-d\u00fcz\u0259n verib gedirik. \u018fn az\u0131 al-q\u0131rm\u0131z\u0131 dodaq boyas\u0131 \u00e7\u0259kib m\u0259clis\u0259 getmirik. V\u0259 ya \u0259ksin\u0259, toya ba\u015fqa ab-havada, al-\u0259lvan geyin\u0259r\u0259k gedirik.<\/p>\n

Bu kimi misallar\u0131 xeyli uzatmaq olar. Amma \u0259sas m\u0259qam odur ki, ilk n\u00f6vb\u0259d\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc k\u0259ndli-\u015f\u0259h\u0259rliy\u0259 b\u00f6lm\u0259d\u0259n, t\u0259rbiy\u0259 etm\u0259liyik. \u00d6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc inki\u015faf etdirm\u0259liyik. \u018fxlaq\u0131m\u0131za, dan\u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131za, s\u00f6zl\u0259rimiz\u0259 diqq\u0259t etm\u0259liyik. \u018fn az\u0131 and\u0131ra qalm\u0131\u015f n\u00f6vb\u0259 m\u0259d\u0259niyy\u0259tini m\u0259nims\u0259m\u0259liyik.<\/p>\n

B\u0259z\u0259n \u015f\u0259h\u0259rd\u0259, d\u00fckanda, bazarda n\u00f6vb\u0259 \u00fcst\u00fcnd\u0259 dava-dala\u015f d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr. Xat\u0131rlatmaq da yerin\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u0259r, s\u0259rt karantin rejimind\u0259 olanda insanlar peyv\u0259nd olunmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn n\u00f6vb\u0259d\u0259 dururdular, adi n\u00f6vb\u0259y\u0259 riay\u0259t etm\u0259y\u0259nl\u0259r is\u0259 qap\u0131-p\u0259nc\u0259r\u0259ni q\u0131r\u0131rd\u0131lar, h\u0259tta polis b\u00f6lm\u0259sin\u0259 apar\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131lar. Qap\u0131-p\u0259nc\u0259r\u0259ni q\u0131ranlar erm\u0259nil\u0259r deyildil\u0259r ki, \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcnk\u00fcl\u0259r idi d\u0259. \u0130ndi \u015f\u0259h\u0259rli idi, k\u0259ndli idi, onu bilmir\u0259m.\u00a0Dediyim odur ki, b\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259 el\u0259 B\u0259hram\u0131n dediyi d\u0259 budur. T\u0259rbiy\u0259 olunmal\u0131y\u0131q. He\u00e7 kim Fransadan, \u0130ngilt\u0259r\u0259d\u0259n g\u0259lib biz\u0259 etiket qaydalar\u0131 bar\u0259d\u0259 d\u0259rs ke\u00e7m\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k. El\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn unudulmu\u015f \u0259xlaq v\u0259 t\u0259rbiy\u0259 v\u0259rdi\u015fl\u0259rimizi b\u0259rpa ets\u0259k b\u0259simizdir.<\/p>\n

Lakin bizim camaat\u0131n bir fitri istedad\u0131 da var ki, xarici \u00f6lk\u0259nin s\u0259rh\u0259dini ke\u00e7\u0259n kimi olur \u201cquzu bala\u201d. Oran\u0131n yerli qanunlar\u0131n\u0131 da, qaydalar\u0131n\u0131 da oran\u0131n yerli camaat\u0131ndan daha yax\u015f\u0131 m\u0259nims\u0259yir. Bak\u0131da \u00e7oxm\u0259rt\u0259b\u0259li evin eyvan\u0131ndan k\u00fc\u00e7\u0259y\u0259 v\u0131z\u0131ldatd\u0131\u011f\u0131 u\u015faq bezini bilir ki, Almaniyada k\u00fc\u00e7\u0259y\u0259 ata bilm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k. O, u\u015faq bezini onun \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 yedird\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259r.\u00a0Amma Bak\u0131da yedird\u0259n yoxdur dey\u0259 bildiyini edir. Dem\u0259li onun etdiyi n\u0259dir? – \u018fxlaqs\u0131zd\u0131r. \u018fxlaqs\u0131zl\u0131q t\u0259kc\u0259 sizin bildiyiniz kli\u015fe deyil, \u0259xlaqs\u0131zl\u0131q budur. U\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131n istifad\u0259 olunmu\u015f bezini k\u00fc\u00e7\u0259y\u0259, ke\u00e7\u0259nl\u0259rin ba\u015f\u0131na atmaqd\u0131r.<\/p>\n

N\u0259 is\u0259, m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259d\u0259n \u00e7ox uzaqla\u015fmadan B\u0259hram Ba\u011f\u0131rzad\u0259ni t\u0259hqir ed\u0259n, s\u00f6y\u0259n, t\u0259nqid ed\u0259n h\u0259r bir k\u0259s\u0259 bu videoya baxma\u011f\u0131 m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u0259m.<\/p>\n

S\u00f6y\u0259nd\u0259 d\u0259 he\u00e7 olmasa m\u0259ntiql\u0259 s\u00f6y\u00fcn. Bilin ki, n\u0259y\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 s\u00f6y\u00fcrs\u00fcn\u00fcz. Yoxsa qon\u015fu Xalid\u0259 xala dedi ki, B\u0259hram el\u0259 deyib, g\u0259lin onu s\u00f6y\u0259k olmas\u0131n.<\/p>\n

H\u0259m d\u0259 ki, s\u00f6ym\u0259k, t\u0259hqir etm\u0259k d\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131 \u015fey deyil. N\u0259 k\u0259ndd\u0259, n\u0259 d\u0259 \u015f\u0259h\u0259rd\u0259.<\/p>\n