{"id":55940,"date":"2019-05-08T09:18:53","date_gmt":"2019-05-08T06:18:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=55940"},"modified":"2019-05-08T09:18:53","modified_gmt":"2019-05-08T06:18:53","slug":"qisqanc-%c9%99r-%c9%99slind%c9%99-h%c9%99yat-yoldasindan-yox-ozund%c9%99n-subh%c9%99-edir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=55940","title":{"rendered":"“Q\u0131sqanc \u0259r, \u0259slind\u0259, h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131ndan yox, \u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259n \u015f\u00fcbh\u0259 edir”"},"content":{"rendered":"

Frans\u0131z \u0259d\u0259biyyat\u0131n\u0131n klassiki Onore de Balzak\u0131n yarad\u0131c\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 daim qad\u0131n v\u0259 ki\u015fi m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rini m\u00f6vzusu \u0259traf\u0131nda c\u0259rayan edib. Yaz\u0131\u00e7\u0131n\u0131n bioqrafiyas\u0131na \u0259sas\u0259n dey\u0259 bil\u0259rik ki, o, bir qayda olaraq \u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259n ya\u015fca b\u00f6y\u00fck xan\u0131mlara a\u015fiq olub. 30-40 ya\u015f aras\u0131 g\u00f6z\u0259l v\u0259 m\u00fcst\u0259qil qad\u0131nlar Balzak\u0131n \u0259sl ehtiras\u0131 idi. T\u0259sad\u00fcfi deyil ki, bu ya\u015f d\u00f6vr\u00fcn\u0259 “balzak ya\u015f\u0131” deyirl\u0259r.<\/strong><\/p>\n

“Balzak ya\u015f\u0131”qad\u0131nlar\u0131n 30-40 aras\u0131 ya\u015f d\u00f6vr\u00fc n\u0259z\u0259rd\u0259 tutulur. Bu termin Onoro de Balzak\u0131n (1799-1850) “Otuz ya\u015fl\u0131 qad\u0131n” (1832) roman\u0131ndan sonra meydana g\u0259lib. \u018fs\u0259rin ba\u015f q\u0259hr\u0259man\u0131 30 ya\u015fl\u0131 vikontessa de Bossean \u00f6z d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259si, azadl\u0131\u011f\u0131, z\u00f6vq\u00fc il\u0259 f\u0259rql\u0259nirdi. \u018fs\u0259r \u00e7apdan \u00e7\u0131xd\u0131qdan sonra tezlikl\u0259, 30-40 ya\u015f aras\u0131 qad\u0131nlara ironiya il\u0259 “balzak q\u0259hr\u0259man\u0131”, “balzak qad\u0131n\u0131” kimi ifad\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 m\u00fcraci\u0259t edirdil\u0259r. Sonradan is\u0259 “balzak ya\u015f\u0131” termini geni\u015f istifad\u0259 edilm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131r.<\/p>\n

ARANTV.AZ<\/strong> publika.az-a istinadla bu yaz\u0131da oxucular\u0131 Balzak\u0131n qad\u0131nlar\u0131n \u00fcnvan\u0131na dediyi qiym\u0259tli sitatlar\u0131 il\u0259 tan\u0131\u015f edib. Bu fikirl\u0259r h\u0259m xan\u0131mlar, h\u0259m d\u0259 b\u0259yl\u0259r \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn eyni d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259d\u0259 maraql\u0131 v\u0259 faydal\u0131 ola bil\u0259r. Odur ki, klassikin qad\u0131n psixologiyas\u0131n\u0131 yax\u0131ndan tan\u0131ma\u011fa k\u00f6m\u0259k ed\u0259n fikirl\u0259rini oxuma\u011fa d\u0259y\u0259r. Ax\u0131 dahi \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259tl\u0259rin fikirl\u0259ri beyin v\u0259 ruh \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn m\u0259n\u0259vi qidad\u0131r.<\/p>\n

1. \u00d6z arvad\u0131n\u0131 m\u0259\u015fuq\u0259si ed\u0259 bilm\u0259m\u0259si g\u00f6st\u0259rir ki, sad\u0259c\u0259 ki\u015fi iqtidars\u0131zd\u0131r. B\u00fct\u00fcn qad\u0131nlar\u0131 t\u0259k bir qad\u0131nda tapma\u011f\u0131 bacarmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r.<\/p>\n

2. Qad\u0131n bir yeri\u015fi il\u0259 he\u00e7 n\u0259 g\u00f6rm\u0259y\u0259 imkan verm\u0259d\u0259n \u00f6z\u00fc haqq\u0131nda h\u0259r \u015feyi dey\u0259 bil\u0259r.<\/p>\n

3. \u00d6z \u0259rin\u0259 g\u00fcl\u0259n qad\u0131n onu bundan art\u0131q sev\u0259 bilm\u0259z.<\/p>\n

4. Qad\u0131n sevdiyi ki\u015finin \u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fc eyni il\u0259 d\u0259niz\u00e7inin a\u00e7\u0131q s\u0259man\u0131 tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131 kimi yax\u015f\u0131 tan\u0131y\u0131r.<\/p>\n

5. Krallar da, qad\u0131nlar da onlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn edil\u0259n h\u0259r bir i\u015fin \u00f6d\u0259nilm\u0259si laz\u0131m olan borc oldu\u011funa inan\u0131r.<\/p>\n

6. Ondan he\u00e7 n\u0259yi gizl\u0259dilm\u0259diyin\u0259 inand\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f bir qad\u0131n\u0131 aldatmaqdan daha asan he\u00e7 n\u0259 yoxdur.<\/p>\n

7. D\u00fcnyada bir qad\u0131n \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ki\u015fini \u00f6z t\u0259siri alt\u0131na sala bilm\u0259k q\u0259d\u0259r z\u00f6vql\u00fc he\u00e7 n\u0259 yoxdur.<\/p>\n

8. Bir qad\u0131n sevdiyi ki\u015finin ba\u015fqa qad\u0131nla xo\u015fb\u0259xt oldu\u011funu g\u00f6rm\u0259kd\u0259ns\u0259, onun can verm\u0259sini g\u00f6rm\u0259yi se\u00e7\u0259r.<\/p>\n

9. Qad\u0131nlardan nec\u0259 ki\u015fi axtard\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131 soru\u015fsan\u0131z, “iddial\u0131 v\u0259 g\u00fccl\u00fc” dey\u0259rl\u0259r. Dig\u0259rl\u0259rin\u0259 nisb\u0259t\u0259n g\u00fccl\u00fc ki\u015fil\u0259r daha enli k\u00fcr\u0259k, \u00fcr\u0259kl\u0259ri is\u0259 daha istidir, qanlar\u0131nda daha \u00e7ox d\u0259mir var. Qad\u0131n g\u00fccl\u00fc ki\u015finin qollar\u0131nda \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc o q\u0259d\u0259r g\u00f6z\u0259l v\u0259 xo\u015fb\u0259xt z\u0259nn ed\u0259r ki, par\u00e7alanmaq t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259si alt\u0131nda qalsa da, \u00fcst\u00fcn q\u00fcvv\u0259si olan\u0131 b\u00fct\u00fcn ki\u015fil\u0259rd\u0259n \u00fcst\u00fcn tutar.<\/p>\n

10. Sevil\u0259n qad\u0131n d\u00fcnyan\u0131n \u0259n g\u00f6z\u0259l qad\u0131n\u0131 deyilmi?<\/p>\n

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11. Ana \u00fcr\u0259yi h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 ba\u011f\u0131\u015flama\u011f\u0131 bacaran bir u\u00e7urumdur.<\/p>\n

12. Q\u0131sqanc \u0259r \u0259slind\u0259 h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131ndan yox, \u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259n \u015f\u00fcbh\u0259 edir.<\/p>\n

13. He\u00e7 kim qad\u0131n\u0131 g\u0259nc v\u0259 ya kamil, g\u00f6z\u0259l v\u0259 ya \u00e7irkin, a\u011f\u0131ll\u0131 v\u0259 ya axmaq oldu\u011fu \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn sevmir. Onu he\u00e7 bir s\u0259b\u0259bsiz sevirl\u0259r, sad\u0259c\u0259 sevdikl\u0259ri \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn sevirl\u0259r.<\/p>\n

14. Qad\u0131n\u0131 idar\u0259 ed\u0259 bil\u0259n ki\u015fi hakimiyy\u0259ti d\u0259 idar\u0259 ed\u0259 bil\u0259r.<\/p>\n

15. Qad\u0131n\u0131n ancaq sonuncu m\u0259h\u0259bb\u0259ti ki\u015finin ilk sevgisi il\u0259 m\u00fcqayis\u0259 edil\u0259 bil\u0259r.<\/p>\n

16. Qad\u0131n onu probleml\u0259rd\u0259n xilas ed\u0259n ki\u015fiy\u0259 aid olmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

17. Qad\u0131n ba\u015fqas\u0131na aid olan ki\u015fi \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 q\u0259l\u0259b\u0259 qazanma\u011f\u0131 sevir.<\/p>\n

18. Qad\u0131n\u0131n m\u0259\u015fuq\u0259si ola bil\u0259n he\u00e7 bir ki\u015fi onun dostu olmur.<\/p>\n

19. Ki\u015finin h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 eyni qad\u0131nla xo\u015fb\u0259xt ola bilm\u0259c\u0259yini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259k absurddur. Bu iddia ona b\u0259nz\u0259yir ki, yax\u015f\u0131 musiqi\u00e7iy\u0259 pyes ifa etm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bir ne\u00e7\u0259 skripka laz\u0131md\u0131r.<\/p>\n

20. H\u0259tta \u0259n d\u0259rin etiraflar\u0131nda qad\u0131n \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 s\u00fck\u00fcn\u0259t\u0259 yer qal\u0131r.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Frans\u0131z \u0259d\u0259biyyat\u0131n\u0131n klassiki Onore de Balzak\u0131n yarad\u0131c\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 daim qad\u0131n v\u0259 ki\u015fi m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rini m\u00f6vzusu \u0259traf\u0131nda c\u0259rayan edib. Yaz\u0131\u00e7\u0131n\u0131n bioqrafiyas\u0131na \u0259sas\u0259n dey\u0259 bil\u0259rik ki, o, bir qayda olaraq \u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259n ya\u015fca b\u00f6y\u00fck xan\u0131mlara a\u015fiq olub. 30-40 ya\u015f aras\u0131 g\u00f6z\u0259l v\u0259 m\u00fcst\u0259qil qad\u0131nlar Balzak\u0131n \u0259sl ehtiras\u0131 idi. T\u0259sad\u00fcfi deyil ki, bu ya\u015f d\u00f6vr\u00fcn\u0259 “balzak ya\u015f\u0131” deyirl\u0259r. “Balzak ya\u015f\u0131”qad\u0131nlar\u0131n 30-40…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":55941,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[24],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/xeyanet_0258.jpg",800,600,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/xeyanet_0258.jpg",800,600,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/xeyanet_0258.jpg",800,600,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/xeyanet_0258-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/xeyanet_0258-300x225.jpg",300,225,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/xeyanet_0258.jpg",640,480,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/xeyanet_0258.jpg",800,600,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/xeyanet_0258.jpg",800,600,false],"newsmatic-featured":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/xeyanet_0258.jpg",727,545,false],"newsmatic-list":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/xeyanet_0258.jpg",533,400,false],"newsmatic-thumb":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/xeyanet_0258.jpg",267,200,false],"newsmatic-small":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/xeyanet_0258.jpg",127,95,false],"newsmatic-grid":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/xeyanet_0258.jpg",333,250,false],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/xeyanet_0258.jpg",800,600,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"Maraql\u0131<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"Frans\u0131z \u0259d\u0259biyyat\u0131n\u0131n klassiki Onore de Balzak\u0131n yarad\u0131c\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 daim qad\u0131n v\u0259 ki\u015fi m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rini m\u00f6vzusu \u0259traf\u0131nda c\u0259rayan edib. Yaz\u0131\u00e7\u0131n\u0131n bioqrafiyas\u0131na \u0259sas\u0259n dey\u0259 bil\u0259rik ki, o, bir qayda olaraq \u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259n ya\u015fca b\u00f6y\u00fck xan\u0131mlara a\u015fiq olub. 30-40 ya\u015f aras\u0131 g\u00f6z\u0259l v\u0259 m\u00fcst\u0259qil qad\u0131nlar Balzak\u0131n \u0259sl ehtiras\u0131 idi. T\u0259sad\u00fcfi deyil ki, bu ya\u015f d\u00f6vr\u00fcn\u0259 “balzak ya\u015f\u0131” deyirl\u0259r. “Balzak ya\u015f\u0131”qad\u0131nlar\u0131n 30-40...","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55940"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=55940"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55940\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/55941"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=55940"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=55940"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=55940"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}