{"id":564569,"date":"2023-02-14T07:25:03","date_gmt":"2023-02-14T04:25:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=564569"},"modified":"2023-02-14T07:25:03","modified_gmt":"2023-02-14T04:25:03","slug":"ail%c9%99ni-xosb%c9%99xt-ed%c9%99n-optimal-usaq-sayi-q%c9%99rbd%c9%99-v%c9%99-bizd%c9%99","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=564569","title":{"rendered":"Ail\u0259ni xo\u015fb\u0259xt ed\u0259n optimal u\u015faq say\u0131 – Q\u0259rbd\u0259 v\u0259 bizd\u0259…"},"content":{"rendered":"

Amerikal\u0131 psixoloq Suzan Nyuman h\u0259mkarlar\u0131n\u0131n ara\u015fd\u0131rmas\u0131na istinad ed\u0259r\u0259k, xo\u015fb\u0259xtlik \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn optimal u\u015faq say\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131qlay\u0131b. Psixoloq deyib ki, ail\u0259d\u0259 ikinci u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259lm\u0259si valideynl\u0259rin, x\u00fcsus\u0259n d\u0259 analar\u0131n karyeras\u0131na, ail\u0259nin maddi v\u0259ziyy\u0259tin\u0259, qohumlar v\u0259 day\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n laz\u0131m olan d\u0259st\u0259yin miqdar\u0131na k\u0259skin \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 t\u0259sir edir.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Onun fikrinc\u0259, ikinci u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n olmas\u0131 anan\u0131n psixi sa\u011flaml\u0131\u011f\u0131na ac\u0131nacaql\u0131 t\u0259sir g\u00f6st\u0259rir. Bel\u0259 ki, Nyuman\u0131n istinad etdiyi Pensilvaniya Universitetinin sosiologiya v\u0259 demoqrafiya professoru Hans-Peter Kohler sor\u011fu zaman\u0131 m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n edib ki, \u0259g\u0259r ail\u0259 firavanl\u0131\u011fa nail olmaq ist\u0259yirs\u0259, bir u\u015faqla kifay\u0259tl\u0259nm\u0259lidir. Onun q\u0259na\u0259tinc\u0259, ikinci v\u0259 ondan sonrak\u0131 \u00f6vladlar valideynl\u0259ri daha xo\u015fb\u0259xt etmir.<\/p>\n

Kohler\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, ikinci u\u015faq d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259tirm\u0259y\u0259 q\u0259rar ver\u0259n c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259r \u00f6z ist\u0259k v\u0259 imkanlar\u0131n\u0131 n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 alm\u0131rlar. T\u0259dqiqat\u00e7\u0131n\u0131n fikrinc\u0259, \u00e7oxlar\u0131 birincinin g\u0259tirdiyi xo\u015fb\u0259xtlikd\u0259n \u00f6tr\u00fc ikinci \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131 ehtiyats\u0131zl\u0131qla planla\u015fd\u0131r\u0131r. \u201cAd\u0259t\u0259n insanlar valideyn olduqdan sonra xo\u015fb\u0259xtlik dal\u011fas\u0131 ya\u015fay\u0131rlar, lakin bu “\u0259lav\u0259” xo\u015fb\u0259xtlik bir ne\u00e7\u0259 il \u0259rzind\u0259 yox olur”, – dey\u0259 o qeyd edib.<\/p>\n

Bel\u0259 \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r ki, \u00e7oxu\u015faql\u0131 ail\u0259l\u0259r xo\u015fb\u0259xt deyil? Ayd\u0131nd\u0131r ki, bu, ail\u0259 institutuna Q\u0259rb-xristian d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259sind\u0259n do\u011fan yana\u015fmad\u0131r. Sor\u011fuda i\u015ftirak ed\u0259n valideynl\u0259r d\u0259 \u0259sas\u0259n xristian ail\u0259l\u0259ridir. \u015e\u0259rq-m\u00fcs\u0259lman ail\u0259l\u0259rin\u0259 is\u0259 \u00e7oxu\u015faql\u0131l\u0131q xasd\u0131r. O c\u00fcml\u0259d\u0259n Az\u0259rbaycanda ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131n say\u0131 bir qayda olaraq, 2-d\u0259n az olmur.<\/p>\n

B\u0259s ail\u0259nin xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyi u\u015faqlar\u0131n say\u0131na n\u0259 d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259d\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Elnur<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0Elnur R\u00fcst\u0259mov<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Psixoloq Elnur R\u00fcst\u0259mov m\u00f6vzu il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 \u201cYeni M\u00fcsavat\u201da dan\u0131\u015f\u0131b:<\/em><\/p>\n

\u201cBu ara\u015fd\u0131rma hans\u0131 istiqam\u0259td\u0259 apar\u0131l\u0131b, ail\u0259\u00a0 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tind\u0259 n\u0259yi ortaya \u00e7\u0131xarmaq ist\u0259yibl\u0259r, u\u015faq faktoruna niy\u0259 fokuslan\u0131blar, bu d\u0259qiq ayd\u0131n olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131na g\u00f6r\u0259 birm\u0259nal\u0131 fikir bildirm\u0259k \u00e7\u0259tindir.<\/p>\n

Lakin n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 almaq laz\u0131md\u0131r ki, u\u015faq ail\u0259 \u00fczvl\u0259rini bir-birin\u0259 ba\u011flayan komponentl\u0259rd\u0259n biridir. Ail\u0259d\u0259 u\u015faq n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7ox olarsa, bir o q\u0259d\u0259r h\u0259min ail\u0259d\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u0259n u\u015faqlar\u0131n kaprizl\u0259ri az olar. Sad\u0259c\u0259, bunu m\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssisl\u0259r d\u0259 qeyd edirl\u0259r ki, \u00f6nc\u0259ki ill\u0259rd\u0259 u\u015faqlar ail\u0259 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn h\u0259m d\u0259 iqtisadi amil idi. Y\u0259ni do\u011fulan u\u015faqlar ail\u0259ni y\u00fck\u00fcn\u00fcn da\u015f\u0131nmas\u0131nda hans\u0131sa formada aktiv i\u015ftirak edirdil\u0259r. Bu g\u00fcn is\u0259\u00a0 u\u015faqlar ail\u0259d\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n q\u0259d\u0259r iqtisadi y\u00fckd\u00fcr. Y\u0259ni d\u00f6vr\u00fcm\u00fczd\u0259 t\u0259l\u0259bl\u0259r o q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7oxdur ki, \u0259vv\u0259lki ill\u0259rl\u0259 m\u00fcqayis\u0259d\u0259 valideynl\u0259r onu qar\u015f\u0131lamaqda bir q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7\u0259tinlik \u00e7\u0259kirl\u0259r.<\/p>\n

\u00a0\u201c\u018fg\u0259r ail\u0259 h\u0259mr\u0259ydirs\u0259, \u0259r-arvad aras\u0131nda sa\u011flam bir m\u00fcnasib\u0259t varsa, h\u0259tta be\u015finci u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fclm\u0259sind\u0259 d\u0259 x\u00fcsusi probleml\u0259r ya\u015fanm\u0131r\u201d<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Reall\u0131qda g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u00fck ki, \u0259vv\u0259lki ill\u0259rl\u0259 m\u00fcqayis\u0259d\u0259 ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131n say\u0131 azd\u0131r, amma ail\u0259daxili\u00a0 konfliktl\u0259r, bo\u015fanmalar daha da art\u0131b. \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259 ki, ail\u0259d\u0259 2 u\u015faq olanda ail\u0259d\u0259 t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259rin bir-birin\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259ti, psixologiyas\u0131\u00a0 tamamil\u0259 ba\u015fqa, f\u0259rqli olur.\u00a0 M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, ail\u0259 psixoloqlar\u0131 da qeyd edirl\u0259r ki, valideyn \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc \u0259sl valideyn kimi daha \u00e7ox ikinci u\u015faqda hiss edir.\u00a0 \u00c7\u00fcnki birinci u\u015faqda valideyn t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259siz olur v\u0259 ad\u0259ti \u00fczr\u0259 Az\u0259rbaycan ail\u0259sin\u0259 xas olaraq, n\u0259n\u0259l\u0259r ilk u\u015fa\u011fa d\u0259st\u0259k olmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn d\u00f6vriyy\u0259y\u0259 girirl\u0259r. H\u0259m d\u0259 bu k\u00f6m\u0259y\u0259 d\u0259st\u0259yin mahiyy\u0259ti ondan\u00a0 ibar\u0259tdir ki, qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259f t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259sizdir, ilk d\u0259f\u0259 ana olur v\u0259 bu prosesi y\u00fcr\u00fctm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ona k\u00f6m\u0259k edirl\u0259r. \u0130kinci u\u015faqda is\u0259 art\u0131q ana daha t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259li olur v\u0259 bu prosesd\u0259 daha t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259li davranma\u011fa ba\u015flay\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Bu bax\u0131mdan, hesab edir\u0259m ki, amerikal\u0131 psixoloqlar\u0131n bu ara\u015fd\u0131rmas\u0131n\u0131n niyy\u0259ti ba\u015fqad\u0131r. He\u00e7 kim\u0259 sirr deyil ki, son ill\u0259rd\u0259 d\u00fcnyada ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131n say\u0131 azal\u0131r, u\u015faqlarla ba\u011fl\u0131 m\u00fcxt\u0259lif narahatl\u0131qlar var. B\u0259zil\u0259ri bu istiqam\u0259tl\u0259 insanlar\u0131n say\u0131n\u0131n azalmas\u0131na \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r. Vaxtil\u0259 \u00c7ind\u0259 bu prosesi aparm\u0131\u015fd\u0131lar. Bu \u00f6lk\u0259d\u0259 \u0259halinin say\u0131 \u00e7oxdur, prosesin \u00f6hd\u0259sind\u0259n g\u0259lm\u0259k m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131na g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 bel\u0259 bir istiqam\u0259t ortaya qoydular\u00a0 v\u0259 ail\u0259d\u0259 n\u0259inki \u00fc\u00e7, h\u0259tta iki u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n olmas\u0131 qada\u011fand\u0131r. Bununla da demoqrafik v\u0259ziyy\u0259ti n\u0259zar\u0259t\u0259 alma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015fd\u0131lar.<\/p>\n

G\u0259lin baxaq, \u0259g\u0259r ail\u0259 bir u\u015faqla xo\u015fb\u0259xtdirs\u0259, o ail\u0259nin u\u015faqdan g\u00f6zl\u0259ntisi hans\u0131 d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259d\u0259 olacaq v\u0259 o bir u\u015faqda ail\u0259nin g\u00f6zl\u0259ntisini do\u011frultmaq potensial\u0131 olacaqm\u0131 v\u0259 olacaqsa, bu, hans\u0131 s\u0259viyy\u0259d\u0259 olacaq. Y\u0259ni bu m\u0259qamlar var. H\u0259r k\u0259s\u0259 m\u0259lumdur ki, ail\u0259d\u0259 2-3 u\u015faq olduqda h\u0259min u\u015faqlar\u0131n h\u0259r birinin potensial\u0131 f\u0259rqli olur. Bu bax\u0131mdan, hesab edir\u0259m ki, ail\u0259d\u0259 az\u0131 2 u\u015faq olmal\u0131d\u0131r. B\u0259s bel\u0259 olduqda ail\u0259 sosial qay\u011f\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131, probleml\u0259rini da\u015f\u0131ya bil\u0259c\u0259kmi? Bu art\u0131q ba\u015fqa m\u0259qamlard\u0131r. Ona qalsa, d\u0259d\u0259-babadan\u00a0 e\u015fitmi\u015fik ki, h\u0259r bir u\u015faq \u00f6z\u00fc il\u0259 birg\u0259 \u00f6z ruzisini d\u0259 g\u0259tirir. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 ikinci u\u015faqla ail\u0259 xo\u015fb\u0259xt olmur dem\u0259k m\u00fcbahis\u0259li m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259dir. N\u0259inki m\u00fcbahis\u0259li, h\u0259tta \u015f\u00fcbh\u0259lidir”.<\/p>\n

Elnur R\u00fcst\u0259mov ail\u0259d\u0259 ikinci u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n analar\u0131n psixologiyas\u0131na, karyeras\u0131na t\u0259sir etm\u0259si haqda s\u0259sl\u0259n\u0259n fikirl\u0259r\u0259 d\u0259 r\u0259y bildirib:<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cC\u0259miyy\u0259t bir yerd\u0259 dayanm\u0131r, daim inki\u015faf edir. Bu g\u00fcn qad\u0131n karyera qurur, i\u015fl\u0259yir, \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r. Bununla b\u0259rab\u0259r, h\u0259m d\u00f6vl\u0259t, h\u0259m d\u0259 \u00f6z\u0259l ba\u011f\u00e7alar var. Qad\u0131nlar h\u0259m karyera qurur, h\u0259m d\u0259 u\u015faq t\u0259rbiy\u0259 edir, bu prosesd\u0259 aktiv i\u015ftirak edirl\u0259r. H\u0259m d\u0259 bu g\u00fcn u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 b\u00f6y\u00fctm\u0259k t\u0259k qad\u0131n\u0131n\u00a0 \u00fcz\u0259rin\u0259 d\u00fc\u015fm\u00fcr. Bu g\u00fcn o q\u0259d\u0259r atalar var ki, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fclm\u0259si prosesind\u0259 aktiv i\u015ftirak edir. Bel\u0259 ki, h\u0259ft\u0259sonu v\u0259 yaxud h\u0259ft\u0259i\u00e7i u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 g\u0259zintiy\u0259 apar\u0131r, onunla zaman ke\u00e7irir v\u0259 sair\u0259.<\/p>\n

\u0130kinci u\u015faq d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259ldikd\u0259 h\u0259m qad\u0131n, h\u0259m ki\u015fi \u00f6z birg\u0259liyini daha da m\u00f6hk\u0259ml\u0259ndirir. Yox, \u0259g\u0259r ail\u0259 daxilind\u0259 konflikt, bo\u015fanma varsa v\u0259 u\u015faq tamamil\u0259 anan\u0131n himay\u0259sind\u0259 qal\u0131rsa, bu, art\u0131q ba\u015fqa bir situasiya, v\u0259ziyy\u0259tdir. \u018fg\u0259r ail\u0259 h\u0259mr\u0259ydirs\u0259,\u00a0 \u0259r-arvad aras\u0131nda sa\u011flam bir m\u00fcnasib\u0259t varsa, ikinci, h\u0259tta be\u015finci u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fclm\u0259sind\u0259 x\u00fcsusi probleml\u0259r ya\u015fanm\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnki h\u0259min evd\u0259 bir harmoniya, el dili il\u0259 des\u0259k, ruzi-b\u0259r\u0259k\u0259t\u00a0 var.<\/p>\n

Hesab edir\u0259m ki, t\u0259hsil n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r bizim h\u0259yat\u0131m\u0131za n\u00fcfuz ed\u0259rs\u0259, n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r bizim t\u0259hsilli xan\u0131mlar\u0131m\u0131z olarsa, bir o q\u0259d\u0259r d\u0259 biz bu probleml\u0259ri ke\u00e7\u0259 bil\u0259rik”.<\/p>\n

Sosioloq \u018fhm\u0259d Q\u0259\u015f\u0259mo\u011flu is\u0259 qeyd etdi:<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cM\u0259n, \u00fcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259, he\u00e7 vaxt t\u0259r\u0259fdar\u0131 deyil\u0259m ki, Q\u0259rb \u00f6lk\u0259l\u0259rinin psixoloqlar\u0131n\u0131n fikirl\u0259rini, haz\u0131rlad\u0131qlar\u0131 testl\u0259ri avtomatik olaraq biz d\u0259 q\u0259bul ed\u0259k. \u00c7\u00fcnki m\u0259lum Q\u0259rb psixologiyas\u0131, xristian d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ri var. Q\u0259rbin ail\u0259, karyera, \u015f\u0259xsi h\u0259yatla b\u0259\u011fl\u0131 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259m\u0259xsus fikirl\u0259ri var. V\u0259 Q\u0259rb, Amerika bel\u0259 fikirl\u0259\u015firs\u0259, o dem\u0259k deyil ki, onlar daha qabaqc\u0131l, m\u00fcasirdirl\u0259r. Biz \u00e7ox hallarda t\u0259hlil ed\u0259nd\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u00fck ki, onlar\u0131n dedikl\u0259ri s\u0259hvdir. \u018fg\u0259r Q\u0259rbin dedikl\u0259ri do\u011fru-d\u00fcr\u00fcst olsayd\u0131, onda Q\u0259rb, d\u00fcnya bu g\u00fcnd\u0259 olmazd\u0131 ki. D\u00fcnyan\u0131 el\u0259 bu g\u00fcn\u0259 salan Q\u0259rbin yanl\u0131\u015f d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259l\u0259ridir\u201d.<\/p>\n

\"Biz<\/p>\n

\u018fhm\u0259d Q\u0259\u015f\u0259mo\u011flu\u00a0<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Sosioloq bildirib ki, ail\u0259d\u0259ki xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyi ayd\u0131nla\u015fd\u0131rmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ilk \u00f6nc\u0259 insan xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyinin n\u0259 oldu\u011funun ara\u015fd\u0131rmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r:<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cXo\u015fb\u0259xtliyin \u00f6z\u00fc n\u0259dir? Aliml\u0259r 200 ildir ki, bu suala cavab tapma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar v\u0259 h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 d\u0259qiq t\u0259rif yoxdur ki, xo\u015fb\u0259xtlik n\u0259 olan \u015feydir. Amerikal\u0131lar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn yaln\u0131z \u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 m\u0259xsus praqmatik d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259r var v\u0259 ona uy\u011fun h\u0259yatlar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcrl\u0259r. H\u0259min d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259r\u0259 mane olan amill\u0259ri is\u0259 onlar xo\u015fb\u0259xtliy\u0259 mane olan amill\u0259r adland\u0131r\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n

\u201c\u018fg\u0259r Q\u0259rbin dedikl\u0259ri do\u011fru-d\u00fcr\u00fcst olsayd\u0131, onda Q\u0259rb, d\u00fcnya bu g\u00fcnd\u0259 olmazd\u0131 ki… \u201d<\/strong><\/h3>\n

B\u0259s az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131lar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn xo\u015fb\u0259xtlik n\u0259dir? Az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131 n\u0259 vaxt h\u0259yatda \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc m\u0259mnun hiss edir? Bunu ayd\u0131nla\u015fd\u0131rmadan q\u0259rbli psixoloqlar\u0131n fikrini avtomatik\u00a0 q\u0259bul ed\u0259 bilm\u0259rik. Dig\u0259r t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259n, h\u0259tta\u00a0 ayd\u0131nla\u015fd\u0131rsaq ki, c\u0259miyy\u0259timizi xo\u015fb\u0259xt ed\u0259n n\u0259dir, h\u0259min xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyin h\u0259qiqi v\u0259 yaxud yalan\u00e7\u0131 olmas\u0131n\u0131 da ara\u015fd\u0131rmal\u0131y\u0131q. Bel\u0259likl\u0259, m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259ni daha d\u0259rin t\u0259hlil etm\u0259li, daha sonra is\u0259 bunu do\u011fulan u\u015faqlar\u0131n say\u0131 il\u0259 \u0259laq\u0259l\u0259ndirm\u0259liyik”.<\/p>\n

Sosioloq qeyd edib ki, ail\u0259d\u0259 bir u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n olmas\u0131 xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyi t\u0259min etmir:<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201c\u00c7\u00fcnki evd\u0259 bir u\u015faq olanda u\u015faq m\u00fchiti yaranm\u0131r v\u0259 h\u0259min u\u015faq valideynl\u0259r\u0259 k\u00f6kl\u0259nir. Halbuki u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n d\u00fcnyas\u0131 ba\u015fqad\u0131r, bu, s\u0259mimi bir d\u00fcnyad\u0131r. Evd\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u00a0 olanda evd\u0259 qeyri-adi t\u0259miz m\u00fchit yaran\u0131r, valideynl\u0259r d\u0259 o t\u0259miz m\u00fchit\u0259 k\u00f6kl\u0259nir. Lakin bir u\u015faq olanda u\u015faq ya\u015fl\u0131lar\u0131n ovqat\u0131na, al\u0259min\u0259 k\u00f6kl\u0259nir.<\/p>\n

Dig\u0259r t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259n, olur ki, hans\u0131sa hadis\u0259d\u0259n v\u0259 yaxud x\u0259st\u0259likd\u0259n u\u015faq d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131 d\u0259yi\u015fir.\u00a0 Bu, ail\u0259 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00e7ox b\u00f6y\u00fck faci\u0259 olur. Amma 2-3 u\u015faq olanda ail\u0259d\u0259 he\u00e7 olmasa bir t\u0259skinlik olur ki, dig\u0259r u\u015faqlar var.<\/p>\n

Bel\u0259likl\u0259, amerikal\u0131 psixoloqun qeyd olunan fikirl\u0259rini ciddi q\u0259bul etmir\u0259m”.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Amerikal\u0131 psixoloq Suzan Nyuman h\u0259mkarlar\u0131n\u0131n ara\u015fd\u0131rmas\u0131na istinad ed\u0259r\u0259k, xo\u015fb\u0259xtlik \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn optimal u\u015faq say\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131qlay\u0131b. Psixoloq deyib ki, ail\u0259d\u0259 ikinci u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259lm\u0259si valideynl\u0259rin, x\u00fcsus\u0259n d\u0259 analar\u0131n karyeras\u0131na, ail\u0259nin maddi v\u0259ziyy\u0259tin\u0259, qohumlar v\u0259 day\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n laz\u0131m olan d\u0259st\u0259yin miqdar\u0131na k\u0259skin \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 t\u0259sir edir. Onun fikrinc\u0259, ikinci u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n olmas\u0131 anan\u0131n psixi sa\u011flaml\u0131\u011f\u0131na ac\u0131nacaql\u0131 t\u0259sir g\u00f6st\u0259rir. Bel\u0259 ki, Nyuman\u0131n istinad etdiyi Pensilvaniya Universitetinin sosiologiya v\u0259 demoqrafiya professoru Hans-Peter Kohler sor\u011fu zaman\u0131 m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n edib ki, \u0259g\u0259r ail\u0259 firavanl\u0131\u011fa nail olmaq ist\u0259yirs\u0259, bir u\u015faqla kifay\u0259tl\u0259nm\u0259lidir. Onun q\u0259na\u0259tinc\u0259, ikinci v\u0259 ondan sonrak\u0131 \u00f6vladlar valideynl\u0259ri daha xo\u015fb\u0259xt etmir.…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":564570,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[26],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/da88ade5c01d776e7e1c18282a4a0a34.jpg",870,500,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/da88ade5c01d776e7e1c18282a4a0a34.jpg",870,500,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/da88ade5c01d776e7e1c18282a4a0a34.jpg",870,500,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/da88ade5c01d776e7e1c18282a4a0a34-500x280.jpg",500,280,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/da88ade5c01d776e7e1c18282a4a0a34-635x365.jpg",635,365,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/da88ade5c01d776e7e1c18282a4a0a34-840x483.jpg",640,368,true],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/da88ade5c01d776e7e1c18282a4a0a34.jpg",870,500,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/da88ade5c01d776e7e1c18282a4a0a34.jpg",870,500,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/da88ade5c01d776e7e1c18282a4a0a34-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/da88ade5c01d776e7e1c18282a4a0a34.jpg",870,500,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"Sosial<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"Amerikal\u0131 psixoloq Suzan Nyuman h\u0259mkarlar\u0131n\u0131n ara\u015fd\u0131rmas\u0131na istinad ed\u0259r\u0259k, xo\u015fb\u0259xtlik \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn optimal u\u015faq say\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131qlay\u0131b. Psixoloq deyib ki, ail\u0259d\u0259 ikinci u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259lm\u0259si valideynl\u0259rin, x\u00fcsus\u0259n d\u0259 analar\u0131n karyeras\u0131na, ail\u0259nin maddi v\u0259ziyy\u0259tin\u0259, qohumlar v\u0259 day\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n laz\u0131m olan d\u0259st\u0259yin miqdar\u0131na k\u0259skin \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 t\u0259sir edir. Onun fikrinc\u0259, ikinci u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n olmas\u0131 anan\u0131n psixi sa\u011flaml\u0131\u011f\u0131na ac\u0131nacaql\u0131 t\u0259sir g\u00f6st\u0259rir. Bel\u0259 ki, Nyuman\u0131n…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/564569"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=564569"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/564569\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/564570"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=564569"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=564569"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=564569"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}