{"id":578848,"date":"2023-03-19T12:32:27","date_gmt":"2023-03-19T09:32:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=578848"},"modified":"2023-03-19T12:32:27","modified_gmt":"2023-03-19T09:32:27","slug":"qulaqburmasi-institutu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=578848","title":{"rendered":"Qulaqburmas\u0131 institutu"},"content":{"rendered":"

Bel\u0259 bir s\u00f6z var, deyirl\u0259r, g\u0259ncl\u0259r el\u0259 bilir ki, ya\u015fl\u0131lar axmaqd\u0131r, ya\u015fl\u0131lar is\u0259 tam \u0259mindirl\u0259r ki, g\u0259ncl\u0259r axmaqd\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Universitetin h\u0259y\u0259tind\u0259 bir-birinin boynuna min\u0259n, \u0259ll\u0259rini havaya qald\u0131raraq oxuyan, telefonla \u00e7\u0259kili\u015f aparan, hans\u0131sa kriminal avtoritetin \u015f\u0259nin\u0259 qura\u015fd\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f \u201cay can alan, cand\u0131 bizim m\u0259h\u0259ll\u0259\u201d janrl\u0131 diringiy\u0259 k\u00fctl\u0259vi \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 oynayan g\u0259ncl\u0259ri \u0259ks etdir\u0259n videoya baxanda adam\u0131n a\u011fl\u0131na ba\u015fqa s\u00f6z g\u0259lmir. Bu, n\u0259 k\u00fctl\u0259vi axmaql\u0131qd\u0131r?<\/p>\n

Video s\u0259ssiz olsa, bilm\u0259y\u0259n adam el\u0259 ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015f\u0259r ki, Avropan\u0131n hans\u0131sa m\u0259\u015fhur futbol komandas\u0131 \u015f\u0259h\u0259rimiz\u0259 qonaq g\u0259lib, \u201cQaraba\u011f\u201dla mat\u00e7 ke\u00e7ir\u0259c\u0259k, bunlar da yerli komandan\u0131n azarke\u015fl\u0259ridir, oyundan qabaq co\u015fqu atmosferi yarad\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n

Yaxud d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259k olar ki, Castin Biber kimi bir pop ulduzu paytaxt\u0131m\u0131za g\u0259lib konsert verir, bunlar da konsert zal\u0131na bilet tapmayan, a\u00e7\u0131q havada g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn qurdunu \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u0259n melomanlard\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Amma yox, bunlar n\u0259 melomand\u0131rlar, n\u0259 d\u0259 futbol fanat\u0131d\u0131rlar, he\u00e7 \u00f6zl\u0259ri d\u0259 bilmirl\u0259r ki, n\u0259dirl\u0259r. A\u00e7\u0131\u011f\u0131, bu saat \u00e7ox adam fikirl\u0259\u015fir ki, bu g\u0259ncl\u0259rin \u00fcmumi ad\u0131 n\u0259dir, etdikl\u0259ri h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259t n\u0259 dem\u0259kdir.<\/p>\n

Bu g\u00fcn-sabah qara x\u0259b\u0259ri g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k bir kriminal avtoritet\u0259 bu r\u0259\u011fb\u0259t haradand\u0131r, n\u0259y\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259dir? Adam n\u0259 edib: \u015eu\u015faya bayraq sanc\u0131b, yoxsa L\u0259l\u0259t\u0259p\u0259 \u0259traf\u0131ndak\u0131 bunkerd\u0259 gizl\u0259n\u0259n d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259n rotas\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259kba\u015f\u0131na t\u0259rksilah edib? B\u0259lk\u0259 hans\u0131sa beyn\u0259lxalq t\u0259dbird\u0259 yek\u0259-yek\u0259 dan\u0131\u015fan erm\u0259ni diplomatlar\u0131 susdurub? Ya Londonda soyda\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n \u00fcst\u00fcn\u0259 cuman aqressiv erm\u0259nil\u0259ri \u015fill\u0259-\u015fapalaqla \u015fil-k\u00fct edib? Neyn\u0259yib ki, bird\u0259n-bir\u0259 q\u0259hr\u0259man olub v\u0259 bu q\u0259d\u0259r fanat\u0131 \u0259m\u0259l\u0259 g\u0259lib?<\/p>\n

G\u00f6r\u0259c\u0259k i\u015fdir. \u0130ndi ham\u0131 g\u00fcnahkar axtar\u0131r. Universitet r\u0259hb\u0259rliyinin yaxas\u0131ndan yap\u0131\u015fanlar var. Guya ki, t\u0259lim-t\u0259rbiy\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259ri d\u00fcz getm\u0259yib, ona g\u00f6r\u0259 g\u0259ncl\u0259r bu c\u00fcr avara h\u0259yata, kriminal al\u0259m\u0259 meyll\u0259nibl\u0259r.<\/p>\n

Valideynl\u0259ri g\u00fcnahland\u0131ranlar daha \u00e7oxdur v\u0259 onlar daha haql\u0131d\u0131rlar. H\u0259r bir valideyn \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131n n\u0259yl\u0259 n\u0259f\u0259s ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, hara gedib-g\u0259ldiyini, kiml\u0259rl\u0259 oturub-durdu\u011funu, n\u0259 oxudu\u011funu, n\u0259y\u0259 baxd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, h\u0259tta n\u0259 i\u00e7diyini v\u0259 \u00e7\u0259kdiyini bilm\u0259lidir. \u018fks t\u0259qdird\u0259 sonra he\u00e7 n\u0259yi n\u0259zar\u0259t alt\u0131na almaq m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olmur.<\/p>\n

Bel\u0259 durumlarda ad\u0259t\u0259n adam d\u00f6n\u00fcb \u00f6z yeniyetm\u0259liyin\u0259, g\u0259ncliyin\u0259 bax\u0131r v\u0259 s\u0259mimi adamd\u0131rsa, \u00e7ox \u015feyi etiraf edir. Guya biz, indiki 50 ya\u015fl\u0131lar, yeniyetm\u0259 olanda avaral\u0131\u011fa meylli deyildik, gizli-gizli siqaret \u00e7\u0259kmirdik? Biz d\u0259 el\u0259ydik. O ya\u015f d\u00f6vr\u00fcnd\u0259 ham\u0131 xuliqanl\u0131\u011fa meylli olur, sad\u0259c\u0259, \u00e7ox adam yek\u0259ldikc\u0259 a\u011f\u0131llan\u0131r, bir qism is\u0259, mental olaraq el\u0259 h\u0259min ya\u015fda qal\u0131r. Biz d\u0259 h\u0259rd\u0259n gizli-gizli siqaret \u00e7\u0259kirdik, \u00fcst\u00fc a\u00e7\u0131landa evd\u0259 deyirdik ki, u\u015faqlar yan\u0131mda siqaret \u00e7\u0259kdil\u0259r, t\u00fcst\u00fcs\u00fc \u00fcst\u00fcm\u00fcz\u0259 hopub. Amma valideyn qulaqburmas\u0131 verib deyirdi ki, bir daha siqaret \u00e7\u0259k\u0259nl\u0259rin yan\u0131nda durma, yoxsa bilirs\u0259n, n\u0259 olacaq. Bu, bir xeyli yeniyetm\u0259 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ger\u00e7\u0259kd\u0259n d\u0259 d\u0259rs olurdu, evd\u0259 qulaqburmas\u0131 almayanlar is\u0259 siqaret \u00e7\u0259km\u0259kd\u0259 davam edirdi. H\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 \u00e7\u0259kirl\u0259r, amma b\u0259zil\u0259ri sa\u011fl\u0131q probleml\u0259ri \u00fcz\u00fcnd\u0259n m\u0259cbur\u0259n t\u0259rgidib.<\/p>\n

Bir ne\u00e7\u0259 il \u0259vv\u0259l toyda sa\u011f\u0131mda oturmu\u015f 60+ ya\u015flarda bir ki\u015finin ara\u011f\u0131 gizli-gizli i\u00e7diyini g\u00f6rd\u00fcm, dedim, a\u011fsaqqal, \u0259linizd\u0259n alan yoxdur ha, s\u0259rb\u0259stc\u0259 s\u00fcz\u00fcn, vurun, getsin d\u0259. Ki\u015fi masan\u0131n ba\u015f t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259 oturan 80+ ya\u015fda bir a\u011fsaqqal\u0131 g\u00f6st\u0259rib yava\u015fca x\u0131s\u0131ldad\u0131 ki, yox, olmaz, atam burdad\u0131r, g\u00f6rs\u0259, ay\u0131b olar.<\/p>\n

T\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcr edin, ya\u015f\u0131 60-\u0131 ke\u00e7\u0259n, \u00f6z\u00fc d\u0259 baba olan ki\u015fi h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 atas\u0131ndan \u00e7\u0259kinir. \u00c7\u00fcnki u\u015faq vaxt\u0131 ona babat qulaqburmas\u0131 veribl\u0259r, yad\u0131nda qal\u0131b.<\/p>\n

\u0130ndi kims\u0259 dey\u0259 bil\u0259r ki, bu, art\u0131q ifrata varmaqd\u0131r. B\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259 el\u0259dir. Amma bu daha faydal\u0131d\u0131r v\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259t \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259li deyil. Qoy h\u0259r k\u0259sin yaz\u0131lm\u0131\u015f qanunlarla yana\u015f\u0131, pis \u0259m\u0259ll\u0259rd\u0259n \u00e7\u0259kin\u0259c\u0259yi yerl\u0259ri d\u0259 olsun.<\/p>\n

G\u0259r\u0259k ki, \u018fb\u00fclf\u0259z El\u00e7ib\u0259y bir d\u0259f\u0259 demi\u015fdi ki, t\u0259lim-t\u0259rbiy\u0259 m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259sind\u0259 g\u0259ncl\u0259r valideynl\u0259rind\u0259n \u00e7ox, z\u0259man\u0259nin m\u0259hsuludurlar.<\/p>\n

Bel\u0259 baxanda ger\u00e7\u0259kd\u0259n d\u0259 el\u0259dir. Z\u0259man\u0259nin xarab\u0131 \u00e7\u0131x\u0131b. D\u00f6vran d\u0259yi\u015fib, d\u00fcz\u0259n pozulub. Ke\u00e7mi\u015fd\u0259 pis \u0259m\u0259l say\u0131lan bir \u00e7ox \u015feyl\u0259r legitiml\u0259\u015fib, insanlar daha onlar\u0131 etm\u0259kd\u0259n \u00e7\u0259kinmirl\u0259r. \u0130ndi a\u011f\u0131ll\u0131-kamall\u0131, m\u0259rif\u0259tli-qanacaql\u0131 g\u0259nc g\u00f6r\u0259nd\u0259 riqq\u0259td\u0259n adam\u0131n g\u00f6z\u00fc ya\u015far\u0131r. \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259, bel\u0259 g\u0259ncl\u0259r \u00e7oxdur, amma onlar xuliqanl\u0131q etm\u0259dikl\u0259ri, b\u0259d \u0259m\u0259ll\u0259rini \u00e7\u0259kib payla\u015fmad\u0131qlar\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn g\u00f6z\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fcnm\u00fcrl\u0259r.<\/p>\n

El\u0259 yuxar\u0131da b\u0259hs etdiyimiz g\u0259ncl\u0259r d\u0259 universitetin h\u0259y\u0259tind\u0259 \u00f6z \u201cq\u0259hr\u0259man\u201dl\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u0259kib \u00f6lk\u0259y\u0259 g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259s\u0259ydil\u0259r, biz onlar\u0131n varl\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259n x\u0259b\u0259r tutmayacaqd\u0131q.<\/p>\n

Yen\u0259 d\u0259 \u00fcmid ed\u0259k ki, onlar\u0131n etdiyi \u00f6t\u0259ri h\u0259v\u0259sl\u0259rdir, hiss\u0259 qap\u0131lmaqd\u0131r, k\u00fctl\u0259vi ekstaz\u0131n yaratd\u0131\u011f\u0131 psixoz durumdur. Nec\u0259 olmasa da, onlar \u00f6z bilikl\u0259ri il\u0259 universitet\u0259 girmi\u015f \u201coxuyan u\u015faqlar\u201dd\u0131r. Onlarla tinl\u0259rd\u0259 ayaqlar\u0131n\u0131n birini divara dayay\u0131b, t\u0259sbeh \u00e7evir\u0259-\u00e7evir\u0259, siqaret (b\u0259z\u0259n d\u0259 n\u0259\u015f\u0259) \u00e7\u0259k\u0259n, bi\u0259d\u0259b qafiy\u0259li meyxanalara qulaq asan, yol ke\u00e7\u0259nl\u0259r\u0259 sata\u015fan v\u0259 yax\u0131n bir-iki ild\u0259 t\u00fcrm\u0259l\u0259ri b\u0259z\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k g\u0259ncl\u0259rin aras\u0131nda bir f\u0259rq olmal\u0131d\u0131r, ya yox?<\/p>\n

\u018fziz valideynl\u0259r, sonradan polis, m\u0259hk\u0259m\u0259, t\u00fcrm\u0259 qap\u0131lar\u0131nda qalmaq ist\u0259mirsinizs\u0259, yeniyetm\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 n\u0259zar\u0259ti \u0259ld\u0259n verm\u0259yin, qulaqburmas\u0131 institutunu ya\u015fad\u0131n. Ziyan\u0131 yoxdur.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Bel\u0259 bir s\u00f6z var, deyirl\u0259r, g\u0259ncl\u0259r el\u0259 bilir ki, ya\u015fl\u0131lar axmaqd\u0131r, ya\u015fl\u0131lar is\u0259 tam \u0259mindirl\u0259r ki, g\u0259ncl\u0259r axmaqd\u0131r. Universitetin h\u0259y\u0259tind\u0259 bir-birinin boynuna min\u0259n, \u0259ll\u0259rini havaya qald\u0131raraq oxuyan, telefonla \u00e7\u0259kili\u015f aparan, hans\u0131sa kriminal avtoritetin \u015f\u0259nin\u0259 qura\u015fd\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f \u201cay can alan, cand\u0131 bizim m\u0259h\u0259ll\u0259\u201d janrl\u0131 diringiy\u0259 k\u00fctl\u0259vi \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 oynayan g\u0259ncl\u0259ri \u0259ks etdir\u0259n videoya baxanda adam\u0131n a\u011fl\u0131na ba\u015fqa s\u00f6z g\u0259lmir. Bu, n\u0259 k\u00fctl\u0259vi axmaql\u0131qd\u0131r? Video s\u0259ssiz olsa, bilm\u0259y\u0259n adam el\u0259 ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015f\u0259r ki, Avropan\u0131n hans\u0131sa m\u0259\u015fhur futbol komandas\u0131 \u015f\u0259h\u0259rimiz\u0259 qonaq g\u0259lib, \u201cQaraba\u011f\u201dla mat\u00e7 ke\u00e7ir\u0259c\u0259k, bunlar da yerli komandan\u0131n azarke\u015fl\u0259ridir, oyundan qabaq co\u015fqu atmosferi yarad\u0131rlar.…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":578849,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/561f81190bb4a9342a0a132096cb9ba1.jpg",308,232,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/561f81190bb4a9342a0a132096cb9ba1.jpg",308,232,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/561f81190bb4a9342a0a132096cb9ba1.jpg",308,232,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/561f81190bb4a9342a0a132096cb9ba1.jpg",308,232,false],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/561f81190bb4a9342a0a132096cb9ba1.jpg",308,232,false],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/561f81190bb4a9342a0a132096cb9ba1.jpg",308,232,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/561f81190bb4a9342a0a132096cb9ba1.jpg",308,232,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/561f81190bb4a9342a0a132096cb9ba1.jpg",308,232,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/561f81190bb4a9342a0a132096cb9ba1-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/561f81190bb4a9342a0a132096cb9ba1.jpg",308,232,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"Bel\u0259 bir s\u00f6z var, deyirl\u0259r, g\u0259ncl\u0259r el\u0259 bilir ki, ya\u015fl\u0131lar axmaqd\u0131r, ya\u015fl\u0131lar is\u0259 tam \u0259mindirl\u0259r ki, g\u0259ncl\u0259r axmaqd\u0131r. Universitetin h\u0259y\u0259tind\u0259 bir-birinin boynuna min\u0259n, \u0259ll\u0259rini havaya qald\u0131raraq oxuyan, telefonla \u00e7\u0259kili\u015f aparan, hans\u0131sa kriminal avtoritetin \u015f\u0259nin\u0259 qura\u015fd\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f \u201cay can alan, cand\u0131 bizim m\u0259h\u0259ll\u0259\u201d janrl\u0131 diringiy\u0259 k\u00fctl\u0259vi \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 oynayan g\u0259ncl\u0259ri \u0259ks etdir\u0259n videoya baxanda adam\u0131n a\u011fl\u0131na ba\u015fqa s\u00f6z…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/578848"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=578848"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/578848\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/578849"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=578848"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=578848"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=578848"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}