\u015eeytan v\u0259sv\u0259s\u0259 vasit\u0259si il\u0259 sizin q\u0259lbiniz\u0259 haram olan sevgid\u0259n bir k\u00f6z at\u0131b.<\/p>\n
Siz bu haram olan \u015f\u0259hv\u0259t k\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc \u015feytandan siz\u0259 t\u0259lqin olunan z\u0259h\u0259rli oxlar\u0131n\u0131n vasit\u0259si il\u0259 (y\u0259ni haram olan n\u0259z\u0259rl\u0259rl\u0259, nam\u0259hr\u0259m\u0259 baxmaqla), f\u0259sad ver\u0259n xam x\u0259yallarla, yaln\u0131\u015f \u00fcmidl\u0259r\u0259 qap\u0131laraq v\u0259 yalan olan arzularla alovland\u0131rm\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z.
\nARANTV.AZ\u00a0<\/b>bildirir ki, b\u00f6y\u00fck islam alimi \u0130bn \u0259l-Qeyyim (rahim\u0259hullahu) “Z\u0259\u0259du-l-M\u0259ad” kitab\u0131nda bel\u0259 demi\u015fdir: “Bu x\u0259st\u0259lik q\u0259lb x\u0259st\u0259likl\u0259rind\u0259n biridir. H\u0259m \u00f6z-\u00f6zl\u00fcy\u00fc, h\u0259m s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259ri, h\u0259md\u0259ki m\u00fcalic\u0259si il\u0259 ba\u015fqa x\u0259st\u0259likl\u0259rd\u0259n f\u0259rqlidir. \u018fg\u0259r davaml\u0131 olarsa, bu x\u0259st\u0259lik getdikc\u0259 daha da \u015fidd\u0259tlinib m\u00f6hk\u0259ml\u0259n\u0259r, h\u0259kiml\u0259rin x\u0259st\u0259ni m\u00fcalic\u0259 etm\u0259si \u00e7ox \u00e7\u0259tinl\u0259\u015f\u0259r v\u0259 x\u0259st\u0259 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn olduqca b\u00f6y\u00fck t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259l\u0259r yaradar. Sonra o yen\u0259 d\u0259 s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 davam ed\u0259r\u0259k deyir; E\u015fq b\u0259las\u0131na \u0259sas\u0259n Uca Allah\u0131n m\u0259hh\u0259bb\u0259tind\u0259n xali (bo\u015f) olan q\u0259lbl\u0259r tutulur. \u018fg\u0259r q\u0259lb Uca Allah\u0131n sevgisi il\u0259 dolu olub, Onunla g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fm\u0259y\u0259 (g\u00f6rm\u0259y\u0259) h\u0259v\u0259sli olarsa, bu onu e\u015fq x\u0259st\u0259liyi b\u0259las\u0131na tutulmaqdan m\u00fcdafi\u0259 ed\u0259r v\u0259 onun qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 alar. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 Uca Allah bu x\u00fcsusda Yusufu (aleyhi-s-s\u0259l\u0259m) misal g\u0259tir\u0259r\u0259k deyir: “(Qad\u0131n) ona meyl etmi\u015fdi. \u018fg\u0259r (Yusuf) R\u0259bbinin d\u0259lilini g\u00f6rm\u0259s\u0259ydi, o da ona meyl ed\u0259rdi. Bel\u0259c\u0259, Biz pisliyi v\u0259 \u00e7irkin \u0259m\u0259li ondan uzaqla\u015fd\u0131rd\u0131q. H\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n, o, Bizim se\u00e7ilmi\u015f qullar\u0131m\u0131zdand\u0131r”. (Yusuf, 24).
\nBu ay\u0259 ona d\u0259lal\u0259t edir ki, h\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n ixlasl\u0131 (s\u0259mimi) olmaq insan\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc, \u015feytani sevgini v\u0259 bunun \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 qurulan g\u00fcnah v\u0259 \u00e7irkin \u0259m\u0259ll\u0259rd\u0259n qorumas\u0131na bir s\u0259b\u0259bdir. Buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259, b\u0259zi ke\u00e7mi\u015f aliml\u0259r deyibl\u0259r ki, (haram) e\u015fq sanki bo\u015f q\u0259lbin h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tidir,\u00a0 yaxud (haram) sevgi q\u0259lbin bo\u015flu\u011funun \u0259lam\u0259tidir.
\n\u015e\u0259ri\u0259t\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 sizin etm\u0259li oldu\u011funuz \u015feyl\u0259r bunlard\u0131r:<\/p>\n
Nam\u0259hr\u0259m\u0259 baxmaqdan, s\u00f6hb\u0259td\u0259n, x\u0259yallardan v\u0259 dig\u0259r \u015feyl\u0259rd\u0259n \u00e7\u0259kinm\u0259k<\/strong><\/p>\n Siz Uca Allaha s\u0259mimi q\u0259lbd\u0259n \u00e7oxlu dua etm\u0259lisiniz ki, sizi q\u0259z\u0259bin\u0259 aparan s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rd\u0259n v\u0259 bu b\u0259lan\u0131n k\u00f6k\u00fc olan haram bax\u0131\u015flardan qorusun! Bax\u0131\u015flardan sonra v\u0259sv\u0259s\u0259 q\u0259lb\u0259 yol a\u00e7\u0131r, q\u0259lb is\u0259 bo\u015f x\u0259yallar v\u0259 \u00fcmidl\u0259r qurma\u011fa ba\u015flay\u0131r. H\u0259tta q\u0259lb o hala g\u0259lib \u00e7at\u0131r ki, haram\u0131 icra etm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn arzu v\u0259 x\u0259yal edir. Evl\u0259nm\u0259k<\/strong><\/p>\n \u0130nsan\u0131n namusunu haramdan qorumas\u0131n\u0131n \u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck yolu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259l\u0259rini v\u0259 ist\u0259kl\u0259rini Allah\u0131n halal buyurduqlar\u0131na y\u00f6nl\u0259ndirm\u0259sidir. Bu halda da, \u0259g\u0259r imkan varsa, evl\u0259nm\u0259kdir. \u018fg\u0259r q\u0259lb kimd\u0259ns\u0259 xo\u015flanarsa, bu zaman \u0259n m\u00fcnasib olan odur\u00a0 ki, onunla \u015f\u0259ri nigah ba\u011flayas\u0131n\u0131z. Cabir ibn Abdullah (Allah onlardan raz\u0131 olsun) n\u0259ql edir ki, bir n\u0259f\u0259r Allah R\u0259sulunun (sall\u0259llahu aleyhi v\u0259 s\u0259ll\u0259m) yan\u0131na g\u0259lib bel\u0259 soru\u015fdu: “Ya R\u0259sulallah! Bizim yetim bir q\u0131z\u0131m\u0131z var. Onu biri varl\u0131-hall\u0131, dig\u0259ri kas\u0131b olmaqla iki n\u0259f\u0259r almaq ist\u0259yir. Biz imkanl\u0131 olana verm\u0259k ist\u0259yirik. \u00d6z\u00fc is\u0259 kas\u0131ba \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck verir. Bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259y\u0259 siz nec\u0259 bax\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z? Pey\u011f\u0259mb\u0259r (sall\u0259llahu aleyhi v\u0259 s\u0259ll\u0259m) bu suala bel\u0259 cavab verdi: “Bir-birini sev\u0259n c\u00fctl\u00fck \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn evl\u0259nm\u0259kd\u0259n (nigahdan) daha m\u00fcnasib, \u00fcst\u00fcn (bir \u015fey) olmay\u0131b (yoxdur)”. (\u0130bn M\u0259c\u0259h, 1847). V\u0259sv\u0259s\u0259d\u0259n qorunmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00e7oxlu ibad\u0259t etm\u0259k<\/strong><\/p>\n Evl\u0259n\u0259n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r siz \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc fiziki v\u0259 \u0259qli olaraq ibad\u0259tl\u0259rl\u0259 (namaz, oruc, zikr v\u0259 s.) v\u0259 Allaha ita\u0259tl\u0259 m\u0259\u015f\u011ful etm\u0259lisiniz. \u015eeytana sizin q\u0259lbiniz\u0259 girib siz\u0259 mane olmas\u0131na bir an da olsa bel\u0259 imkan verm\u0259m\u0259lisiniz v\u0259 b\u00fct\u00fcn o \u015feytandan g\u0259l\u0259n \u015f\u0259hvani qap\u0131lar\u0131 ba\u011flamal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n Dualarla Allahdan k\u00f6m\u0259k ist\u0259m\u0259k<\/strong><\/p>\n Bu x\u0259st\u0259liyin \u0259n yax\u015f\u0131 v\u0259 faydal\u0131 m\u00fcalic\u0259 \u00fcsullar\u0131ndan biri d\u0259 Uca Allaha s\u0259mimi (ixlasla) q\u0259lbl\u0259 yalvararaq, yaln\u0131z Ona t\u0259v\u0259kk\u00fcl ed\u0259r\u0259k Onun qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda z\u0259lilliyini v\u0259 acizliyini etiraf ed\u0259r\u0259k dua etm\u0259k v\u0259 Onun k\u00f6m\u0259yini, yard\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 ist\u0259m\u0259kdir. Ba\u015flan\u011f\u0131c \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bu ilkin add\u0131md\u0131r. Sonra is\u0259\u00a0 siz ism\u0259tinizi qoruma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmal\u0131 v\u0259 q\u0259lbinizd\u0259 olan \u015feytani \u015f\u0259hv\u0259t hisl\u0259rini gizl\u0259tm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z! Pey\u011f\u0259mb\u0259rimiz (sall\u0259llahu aleyhi v\u0259 s\u0259ll\u0259m) buyurub: “Kim iff\u0259tli (h\u0259yal\u0131, namuslu) olmaq ist\u0259y\u0259rs\u0259, Uca Allah onu iff\u0259tli ed\u0259r. Kim s\u0259brli olmaq ist\u0259y\u0259rs\u0259, Uca Allah onu s\u0259birli ed\u0259r. Kim d\u0259 z\u0259ngin olmaq ist\u0259y\u0259rs\u0259, Uca Allah onu z\u0259ngin ed\u0259r. He\u00e7 k\u0259s\u0259 s\u0259brd\u0259n daha xeyirli v\u0259 geni\u015f bir pay verilm\u0259mi\u015fdir”. (\u0259l-Buxari, 6470; Muslim, 1053). \u015eeytan v\u0259sv\u0259s\u0259 vasit\u0259si il\u0259 sizin q\u0259lbiniz\u0259 haram olan sevgid\u0259n bir k\u00f6z at\u0131b. Siz bu haram olan \u015f\u0259hv\u0259t k\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc \u015feytandan siz\u0259 t\u0259lqin olunan z\u0259h\u0259rli oxlar\u0131n\u0131n vasit\u0259si il\u0259 (y\u0259ni haram olan n\u0259z\u0259rl\u0259rl\u0259, nam\u0259hr\u0259m\u0259 baxmaqla), f\u0259sad ver\u0259n xam x\u0259yallarla, yaln\u0131\u015f \u00fcmidl\u0259r\u0259 qap\u0131laraq v\u0259 yalan olan arzularla alovland\u0131rm\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. ARANTV.AZ\u00a0bildirir ki, b\u00f6y\u00fck islam alimi \u0130bn \u0259l-Qeyyim (rahim\u0259hullahu) “Z\u0259\u0259du-l-M\u0259ad” kitab\u0131nda bel\u0259 demi\u015fdir: “Bu x\u0259st\u0259lik q\u0259lb x\u0259st\u0259likl\u0259rind\u0259n biridir. H\u0259m \u00f6z-\u00f6zl\u00fcy\u00fc, h\u0259m s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259ri, h\u0259md\u0259ki m\u00fcalic\u0259si il\u0259 ba\u015fqa x\u0259st\u0259likl\u0259rd\u0259n f\u0259rqlidir. \u018fg\u0259r davaml\u0131 olarsa, bu x\u0259st\u0259lik getdikc\u0259 daha da \u015fidd\u0259tlinib m\u00f6hk\u0259ml\u0259n\u0259r, h\u0259kiml\u0259rin x\u0259st\u0259ni m\u00fcalic\u0259 etm\u0259si \u00e7ox \u00e7\u0259tinl\u0259\u015f\u0259r v\u0259 x\u0259st\u0259 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":57954,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/basqa_sevgi.jpg",530,360,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/basqa_sevgi.jpg",530,360,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/basqa_sevgi.jpg",530,360,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/basqa_sevgi-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/basqa_sevgi-300x204.jpg",300,204,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/basqa_sevgi.jpg",530,360,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/basqa_sevgi.jpg",530,360,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/basqa_sevgi.jpg",530,360,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/basqa_sevgi-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/basqa_sevgi.jpg",530,360,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"\u015eeytan v\u0259sv\u0259s\u0259 vasit\u0259si il\u0259 sizin q\u0259lbiniz\u0259 haram olan sevgid\u0259n bir k\u00f6z at\u0131b. Siz bu haram olan \u015f\u0259hv\u0259t k\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc \u015feytandan siz\u0259 t\u0259lqin olunan z\u0259h\u0259rli oxlar\u0131n\u0131n vasit\u0259si il\u0259 (y\u0259ni haram olan n\u0259z\u0259rl\u0259rl\u0259, nam\u0259hr\u0259m\u0259 baxmaqla), f\u0259sad ver\u0259n xam x\u0259yallarla, yaln\u0131\u015f \u00fcmidl\u0259r\u0259 qap\u0131laraq v\u0259 yalan olan arzularla alovland\u0131rm\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. 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\nAllah R\u0259sulu (sall\u0259llahu aleyhi v\u0259 s\u0259ll\u0259m) demi\u015fdir: “Ad\u0259m o\u011flunun zinadan bir n\u0259sibi vard\u0131r. He\u00e7 \u015f\u00fcbh\u0259siz ki, o buna m\u00fctl\u0259q d\u00fc\u015f\u0259c\u0259kdir. G\u00f6zl\u0259rin zinas\u0131 baxmaqd\u0131r. Qulaqlar\u0131n zinas\u0131 dinl\u0259m\u0259kdir. Dilin zinas\u0131 dan\u0131\u015fmaqd\u0131r. \u018flin zinas\u0131 tutmaqd\u0131r. Aya\u011f\u0131n zinas\u0131 add\u0131mlamaqd\u0131r. O, ki qald\u0131 q\u0259lb\u0259 o, arzu v\u0259 t\u0259m\u0259nna edir. \u00d6vr\u0259t yeri ya bunu t\u0259sdiq ed\u0259c\u0259kdir, ya da inkar”. (\u0130mam \u018fhm\u0259d: “Musn\u0259d”, 1\/412).
\nUca Allah buyurur: “M\u00f6min ki\u015fil\u0259r\u0259 de ki, (harama baxmay\u0131b) g\u00f6zl\u0259rini a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 diksinl\u0259r v\u0259 cinsiyy\u0259t \u00fczvl\u0259rini (zinadan) qorusunlar. Bu, onlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn daha t\u0259miz olar. \u015e\u00fcbh\u0259siz ki, Allah onlar\u0131n n\u0259 etdikl\u0259rind\u0259n x\u0259b\u0259rdard\u0131r. M\u00f6min qad\u0131nlara da de ki, (harama baxmay\u0131b) g\u00f6zl\u0259rini a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 diksinl\u0259r v\u0259 cinsiyy\u0259t \u00fczvl\u0259rini (zinadan) qorusunlar…”. (\u0259n-Nur, 30-31).<\/p>\n
\nAllah R\u0259sulu (Ona v\u0259 ail\u0259sin\u0259 Allah\u0131n salavat\u0131 v\u0259 salam\u0131 olsun) bel\u0259 demi\u015fdir: “Qoy evl\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259 imkan\u0131 olan (h\u0259r k\u0259s, cavanlar) evl\u0259nsin. \u00c7\u00fcnki evlilik, g\u00f6zl\u0259ri v\u0259 cinsiyy\u0259t \u00fczv\u00fcn\u00fc (zinadan) qoruyan \u0259n yax\u015f\u0131 (s\u0259b\u0259bdir). \u0130mkan\u0131 olmayanlar is\u0259 oruc tutsunlar. \u00c7\u00fcnki oruc (insan\u0131n) \u015f\u0259hv\u0259tini soyudur”. (\u0259l-Buxari, 1905).
\nBu halda siz tez evl\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259 t\u0259l\u0259sm\u0259lisiniz v\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmal\u0131s\u0131nz ki, qar\u015f\u0131n\u0131znda olan mane\u0259l\u0259ri Allah\u0131n izni il\u0259 a\u015fas\u0131n\u0131z v\u0259 g\u00fcnah \u0259m\u0259ll\u0259ri \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fczd\u0259n uzaqla\u015fd\u0131ras\u0131n\u0131z. Bu halda siz etibar etdiyiniz adamlar\u0131n (sizi ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015f\u0259n anan\u0131z, bac\u0131n\u0131z, \u0259m\u0259li saleh qohumlar\u0131n\u0131z v\u0259 s.) k\u00f6m\u0259kl\u0259rind\u0259n d\u0259 istifad\u0259 ed\u0259 bil\u0259rsiniz.<\/p>\n
\nSiz bilirsiniz ki, siz\u0259 ba\u015fqa he\u00e7 n\u0259 k\u00f6m\u0259k olmayacaq v\u0259 onunla evl\u0259n\u0259 bilm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259ksiniz. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 etdiyiniz bu \u0259m\u0259l haram v\u0259 a\u011f\u0131ls\u0131zl\u0131qd\u0131r. Siz \u00f6mr\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fcn \u00e7i\u00e7\u0259kl\u0259n\u0259n vaxt\u0131ndas\u0131n\u0131z v\u0259 yollar da qar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zda \u00e7ox asan v\u0259 rahatd\u0131r. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc Uca Allah\u0131n siz\u0259 qada\u011fan etdiyi \u015feyl\u0259rl\u0259 m\u0259\u015f\u011ful etm\u0259yin! Sonda Uca Allahdan ist\u0259yirik ki, iman\u0131 siz\u0259 sevdirib onunla q\u0259lbinizi zin\u0259tl\u0259ndirsin! K\u00fcfr\u0259, fasiqliy\u0259 v\u0259 asiliy\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 da sizd\u0259 nifr\u0259t hissi yarats\u0131n, \u0259n g\u00f6z\u0259l \u0259m\u0259ll\u0259ri v\u0259 s\u00f6zl\u0259ri yerin\u0259 yetirm\u0259y\u0259 sizi m\u00fcv\u0259ff\u0259q el\u0259sin v\u0259 siz\u0259 \u0259m\u0259li saleh \u0259r v\u0259 g\u00f6z\u0259l \u00f6vladlar b\u0259x\u015f etsin!Zikr.az<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"