H\u0259r ail\u0259d\u0259 zaman-zaman m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259l\u0259r, m\u00fcbahis\u0259l\u0259r, fikir ayr\u0131l\u0131qlar\u0131 ba\u015f ver\u0259 bilir. Dava-dala\u015f davaml\u0131 hal al\u0131rsa v\u0259 t\u0259siri u\u015faqlara y\u00f6n\u0259ldilirs\u0259, v\u0259ziyy\u0259t daha da q\u0259lizl\u0259\u015fir. Ail\u0259d\u0259 ya\u015fanan m\u00fcbahis\u0259l\u0259r b\u0259z\u0259n u\u015faqlar\u0131n inki\u015faf\u0131na t\u0259sir ed\u0259n \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcl\u0259r\u0259 \u00e7ata bilir.<\/p>\n
B\u0259s, ail\u0259d\u0259ki m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259l\u0259ri u\u015faqlara \u0259ks etdirm\u0259d\u0259n nec\u0259 h\u0259ll etm\u0259k olar?<\/p>\n
G\u0259rgin m\u00fchitd\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u0259n, ata il\u0259 anan\u0131n dava-dala\u015f\u0131na \u015fahid olan u\u015faqlarda daha \u00e7ox hans\u0131 x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259tl\u0259r inki\u015faf etm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131r?<\/p>\n
M\u00f6vzu il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 Bizim.Media-ya dan\u0131\u015fan U\u015faq v\u0259 g\u0259ncl\u0259rin sosial reabilitasiya m\u0259rk\u0259zinin psixoloqu As\u0259f K\u0259rimov vacib m\u0259qamlardan s\u00f6z a\u00e7\u0131b.<\/p>\n
Psixoloq bildirib ki, h\u0259r bir insan\u0131n \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259ti erk\u0259n ya\u015flar\u0131nda b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fcy\u00fc m\u00fchitd\u0259n \u0259ld\u0259 etdiyi informasiya \u0259sas\u0131nda formala\u015f\u0131r:<\/p>\n
“Bu informasiyan\u0131n n\u0259tic\u0259sind\u0259 onun psixikas\u0131, d\u0259rketm\u0259si, reaksiyalar\u0131, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcdafi\u0259 mexanizmi, d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ri, maraq v\u0259 meyll\u0259ri sistem \u015f\u0259klin\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr. U\u015faq \u0259g\u0259r daimi olaraq dava-dala\u015f i\u00e7ind\u0259, zorak\u0131l\u0131q m\u00fchitind\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u00fcrs\u0259, t\u0259bii ki, xarakterind\u0259 daim t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259 g\u00f6zl\u0259m\u0259k formala\u015f\u0131r, ist\u0259nil\u0259n hadis\u0259y\u0259 q\u0259fil m\u00fcdafi\u0259 reaksiyas\u0131 g\u00f6st\u0259rir.<\/p>\n
O c\u00fcml\u0259d\u0259n, onun xarakterind\u0259 zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n normal d\u0259y\u0259r kimi q\u0259bul edilm\u0259si ba\u015f verir. Eyni zamanda, bel\u0259 u\u015faqlar t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259 m\u00fchitind\u0259 ya\u015fad\u0131qlar\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn inams\u0131z, probleml\u0259rin \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcn\u00fc m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259 etm\u0259kd\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fcrl\u0259r. Onlarda m\u00fcbahis\u0259li v\u0259ziyy\u0259t yaratma meyli formala\u015f\u0131r, m\u00fcbahis\u0259 yarad\u0131c\u0131s\u0131 ola bil\u0259rl\u0259r. Bel\u0259 \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259rd\u0259 sonradan aqressivlik, g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc \u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259n z\u0259ifl\u0259r\u0259 g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259kl\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcaktualla\u015fd\u0131rma formala\u015f\u0131r”.<\/p>\n
\u00d6z\u00fcn\u0259 inam duy\u011fusunun a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 olmas\u0131nda bu amilin rolu n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259rdir?<\/p>\n
M\u00fcsahibimiz bildirib ki, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 inam duy\u011fusunun yaranmas\u0131 onun t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259sizliyinin valideynl\u0259ri t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n t\u0259min olunmas\u0131ndan ba\u015flay\u0131r. Bel\u0259 ki, \u0259g\u0259r u\u015faq ail\u0259d\u0259 qay\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcrs\u0259, onun fikri n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 al\u0131n\u0131rsa, ona \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259t kimi yana\u015f\u0131l\u0131rsa, valideynl\u0259rl\u0259 m\u00fcsb\u0259t emosional ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131q varsa, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 inaml\u0131 olmas\u0131 ehtimal\u0131 y\u00fcks\u0259k olur.<\/p>\n
As\u0259f K\u0259rimov deyir ki, bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259d\u0259 birm\u0259nal\u0131 fikir d\u0259 ir\u0259li s\u00fcrm\u0259k olmaz:<\/p>\n
“\u0130nsan psixikas\u0131n\u0131n maraql\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fi ondad\u0131r ki, b\u0259z\u0259n \u0259n \u0259lveri\u015fsiz m\u00fchitd\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259m\u0259xsus irad\u0259 say\u0259sind\u0259, probleml\u0259rl\u0259 m\u00fcbariz\u0259 apararaq t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259 toplanmas\u0131 v\u0259 iradi s\u0259y g\u00f6st\u0259rilm\u0259si il\u0259 psixoloji probleml\u0259rini h\u0259ll ed\u0259 bilir. Demosfeni bir ki\u00e7ik misal kimi g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259 bil\u0259rik”.
\n\u0130mtahanlar \u0259r\u0259f\u0259sind\u0259yik. Evd\u0259 daimi m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259nin olmas\u0131 u\u015faqlar\u0131n t\u0259hsil h\u0259yat\u0131na nec\u0259 t\u0259sir edir?<\/p>\n
Evd\u0259ki g\u0259rginliyin u\u015faqlar\u0131n t\u0259hsil h\u0259yat\u0131na t\u0259sir etm\u0259sin\u0259 g\u0259linc\u0259 is\u0259 m\u00fcsahibimiz bildirib ki, bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259d\u0259 insan psixikas\u0131n\u0131n, sinir sisteminin tipind\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131 olaraq \u00fcmxt\u0259lif yana\u015fmalar qeyd ed\u0259 bil\u0259rik:<\/p>\n
“G\u00fccl\u00fc \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259t m\u00fcbariz\u0259d\u0259 formala\u015f\u0131r. \u0130nsan ola bilsin ki, ail\u0259sind\u0259 probleml\u0259r ya\u015fay\u0131r, t\u0259hsilin\u0259 fikir verilmir, ona diqq\u0259t yetirilmir, lakin bir m\u00fc\u0259llimin \u00e7al\u0131\u015fqan u\u015fa\u011fa d\u0259st\u0259yi bel\u0259, h\u0259r \u015feyi d\u0259yi\u015f\u0259 bilir. T\u0259bii ki, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n bel\u0259 v\u0259ziyy\u0259t\u0259 d\u00fczg\u00fcn qiym\u0259t verm\u0259si v\u0259 d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ri d\u0259 olduqca \u00f6n\u0259mlidir”.<\/p>\n
M\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259ri yerind\u0259 olmayan valideynl\u0259r bu v\u0259ziyy\u0259ti u\u015fa\u011fa hiss etdirm\u0259m\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn n\u0259 etm\u0259lidirl\u0259r?<\/p>\n
Psixoloq deyir ki, daim m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259 v\u0259ziyy\u0259tind\u0259 olan insanlar ilk olaraq u\u015fa\u011fa g\u00f6r\u0259 deyil, \u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259l\u0259rini h\u0259ll etm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn m\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssis\u0259 m\u00fcraci\u0259t etm\u0259lidirl\u0259r:<\/p>\n
“Bel\u0259 hallarda ail\u0259 psixoloqu, psixoterapevti ail\u0259nin psixoterapiyas\u0131n\u0131 h\u0259yata ke\u00e7irm\u0259lidir. H\u0259m\u00e7inin, m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259nin s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259ri il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n ya\u015f\u0131na g\u00f6r\u0259 dan\u0131\u015fmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r. \u00c7al\u0131\u015fmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r ki, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n v\u0259 \u00f6zl\u0259rinin normal h\u0259yat\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn d\u00fczg\u00fcn q\u0259rar versinl\u0259r”.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
H\u0259r ail\u0259d\u0259 zaman-zaman m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259l\u0259r, m\u00fcbahis\u0259l\u0259r, fikir ayr\u0131l\u0131qlar\u0131 ba\u015f ver\u0259 bilir. Dava-dala\u015f davaml\u0131 hal al\u0131rsa v\u0259 t\u0259siri u\u015faqlara y\u00f6n\u0259ldilirs\u0259, v\u0259ziyy\u0259t daha da q\u0259lizl\u0259\u015fir. Ail\u0259d\u0259 ya\u015fanan m\u00fcbahis\u0259l\u0259r b\u0259z\u0259n u\u015faqlar\u0131n inki\u015faf\u0131na t\u0259sir ed\u0259n \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcl\u0259r\u0259 \u00e7ata bilir. B\u0259s, ail\u0259d\u0259ki m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259l\u0259ri u\u015faqlara \u0259ks etdirm\u0259d\u0259n nec\u0259 h\u0259ll etm\u0259k olar? G\u0259rgin m\u00fchitd\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u0259n, ata il\u0259 anan\u0131n dava-dala\u015f\u0131na \u015fahid olan u\u015faqlarda daha \u00e7ox hans\u0131 x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259tl\u0259r inki\u015faf etm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131r? M\u00f6vzu il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 Bizim.Media-ya dan\u0131\u015fan U\u015faq v\u0259 g\u0259ncl\u0259rin sosial reabilitasiya m\u0259rk\u0259zinin psixoloqu As\u0259f K\u0259rimov vacib m\u0259qamlardan s\u00f6z a\u00e7\u0131b. Psixoloq bildirib ki, h\u0259r bir insan\u0131n \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259ti erk\u0259n ya\u015flar\u0131nda b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fcy\u00fc m\u00fchitd\u0259n \u0259ld\u0259…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":584085,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/1611557_bgt32n5rgu.jpg",649,365,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/1611557_bgt32n5rgu.jpg",649,365,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/1611557_bgt32n5rgu.jpg",649,365,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/1611557_bgt32n5rgu-500x280.jpg",500,280,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/1611557_bgt32n5rgu.jpg",649,365,false],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/1611557_bgt32n5rgu.jpg",640,360,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/1611557_bgt32n5rgu.jpg",649,365,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/1611557_bgt32n5rgu.jpg",649,365,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/1611557_bgt32n5rgu-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/1611557_bgt32n5rgu.jpg",649,365,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"H\u0259r ail\u0259d\u0259 zaman-zaman m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259l\u0259r, m\u00fcbahis\u0259l\u0259r, fikir ayr\u0131l\u0131qlar\u0131 ba\u015f ver\u0259 bilir. Dava-dala\u015f davaml\u0131 hal al\u0131rsa v\u0259 t\u0259siri u\u015faqlara y\u00f6n\u0259ldilirs\u0259, v\u0259ziyy\u0259t daha da q\u0259lizl\u0259\u015fir. Ail\u0259d\u0259 ya\u015fanan m\u00fcbahis\u0259l\u0259r b\u0259z\u0259n u\u015faqlar\u0131n inki\u015faf\u0131na t\u0259sir ed\u0259n \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcl\u0259r\u0259 \u00e7ata bilir. B\u0259s, ail\u0259d\u0259ki m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259l\u0259ri u\u015faqlara \u0259ks etdirm\u0259d\u0259n nec\u0259 h\u0259ll etm\u0259k olar? G\u0259rgin m\u00fchitd\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u0259n, ata il\u0259 anan\u0131n dava-dala\u015f\u0131na \u015fahid olan u\u015faqlarda daha \u00e7ox…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/584084"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=584084"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/584084\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/584085"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=584084"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=584084"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=584084"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}