G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczd\u0259 h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 aktuall\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 qoruyan m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n biri d\u0259 erk\u0259n nikahlard\u0131r. Erk\u0259n nikah do\u011furdu\u011fu f\u0259sadlara v\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259t\u0259 vurdu\u011fu ziyana g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u00f6vr\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn m\u00fch\u00fcm v\u0259 aktual problemi olaraq qalmaqdad\u0131r. Q\u0131zlar\u0131n erk\u0259n ya\u015fda ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131 qurma\u011fa m\u0259cbur edilm\u0259si onlar\u0131n t\u0259hsilin\u0259, bir f\u0259rd kimi inki\u015faf\u0131na mane olur, psixologiyas\u0131na m\u0259nfi t\u0259sir g\u00f6st\u0259rir. Erk\u0259n nikah g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k n\u0259sill\u0259rin sa\u011flaml\u0131\u011f\u0131 v\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259 alt\u0131na at\u0131r, bo\u015fanma hallar\u0131n\u0131 art\u0131r\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Maarifl\u0259ndirm\u0259 v\u0259 t\u0259bli\u011fat i\u015fl\u0259ri h\u0259l\u0259 tam effektiv deyil<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cLoqos\u201d Psixoloji v\u0259 Nitq \u0130nki\u015faf M\u0259rk\u0259zinin r\u0259hb\u0259ri, \u201cPsixoloji Xidm\u0259t v\u0259 T\u0259dqiqatlar M\u0259rk\u0259zi\u201d \u0130ctimai Birliyinin s\u0259dri, psixologiya \u00fczr\u0259 f\u0259ls\u0259f\u0259 doktoru T\u0259ran\u0259 Pa\u015fayeva s\u00f6z\u00fcged\u0259n m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 q\u0259zetimiz\u0259 a\u00e7\u0131qlamas\u0131nda bildirdi ki, erk\u0259n nikah ail\u0259 anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131 v\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131 h\u0259l\u0259 kifay\u0259t q\u0259d\u0259r d\u0259rk etm\u0259mi\u015f, psixoloji c\u0259h\u0259td\u0259n ail\u0259 quracaq q\u0259d\u0259r formala\u015fmam\u0131\u015f yeniyetm\u0259l\u0259r il\u0259 ba\u011flanan nikahd\u0131r. Bu tip nikahlar \u0259ks\u0259r hallarda, x\u00fcsus\u0259n d\u0259, ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z regionda valideynl\u0259rin t\u0259kidi il\u0259 formala\u015f\u0131r. T\u0259bii ki, burada t\u0259kc\u0259 valideynin deyil, eyni zamanda qohumlar\u0131n, dostlar\u0131n, bir s\u00f6zl\u0259, sosial \u00e7evr\u0259nin d\u0259 rolu b\u00f6y\u00fckd\u00fcr. Erk\u0259n nikah faci\u0259dir, ac\u0131 sonluqdur. Bu nikahlardan d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259l\u0259n u\u015faqlar\u0131n hans\u0131 travmalar\u0131 ya\u015famalar\u0131 m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259nin ciddi sual do\u011furan ba\u015fqa bir t\u0259r\u0259fidir. Y\u0259ni, ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131na h\u0259m maddi, h\u0259m d\u0259 m\u0259n\u0259vi-psixoloji haz\u0131rl\u0131q olmadan u\u011furlu nikahdan dan\u0131\u015fmaq do\u011fru olmaz. M\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259l\u0259r v\u0259 g\u00fcnd\u0259lik t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259l\u0259r dem\u0259yimiz\u0259 \u0259sas verir ki, apar\u0131lan maarifl\u0259ndirm\u0259 v\u0259 t\u0259bli\u011fat i\u015fl\u0259ri, m\u00fcxtlif t\u0259dbirl\u0259r h\u0259l\u0259 tam effektiv deyil. Bunun da n\u0259tic\u0259si kimi h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 yet\u0259rinc\u0259 erk\u0259n nikahlarla ba\u011fl\u0131 x\u0259b\u0259rl\u0259ri e\u015fitm\u0259k m\u0259cburiyy\u0259tind\u0259 qal\u0131r\u0131q. Erk\u0259n nikaha meyilliliyin olmas\u0131n\u0131n s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259ri m\u00fcxt\u0259lifdir v\u0259 bu prosesd\u0259 i\u015ftirak ed\u0259n yeniyetm\u0259 q\u0131zlar, ail\u0259l\u0259ri v\u0259 yax\u0131nlar\u0131 bu izdivaca m\u00fcxt\u0259lif yollarla haqq qazand\u0131rma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n Erk\u0259n nikaha meyilliliyin s\u0259b\u0259bi n\u0259dir?<\/strong><\/p>\n Psixoloq qeyd etdi ki, erk\u0259n nikaha insanlar\u0131n meyil etm\u0259sind\u0259 bir s\u0131ra amill\u0259rin t\u0259siri var. Burada sosial-iqtisadi m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259r, ail\u0259nin t\u0259hsil s\u0259viyy\u0259si, d\u00fcnyag\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fc, d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ri, ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 m\u00fchit kimi amill\u0259rl\u0259 yana\u015f\u0131, q\u0131z u\u015faqlar\u0131na olan bax\u0131\u015f da rol oynay\u0131r. Q\u0131z u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131 b\u00f6y\u00fctm\u0259yin \u00e7\u0259tin olmas\u0131, g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 ail\u0259 qurub evi t\u0259rk ed\u0259c\u0259yin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 ona kapital qoyma\u011f\u0131n faydas\u0131z olmas\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259si n\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259 onlar\u0131n erk\u0259n nikah\u0131na g\u0259tirir. Bununla da b\u0259zi valideynl\u0259r \u00a0m\u0259suliyy\u0259td\u0259n xilas olduqlar\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrl\u0259r. \u00d6vladlar\u0131n\u0131 erk\u0259n nikaha m\u0259cbur ed\u0259n bir \u00e7ox valideynl\u0259rin\u00a0dig\u0259r \u0259sasland\u0131rmas\u0131 q\u0131za qar\u015f\u0131 ba\u015f ver\u0259 bil\u0259c\u0259k h\u0259r hans\u0131 neqativ\u00a0 hallardan onu qorumaqd\u0131r. Dig\u0259r t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259n, q\u0131z ail\u0259d\u0259 valideynl\u0259rind\u0259n diqq\u0259t v\u0259 qay\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6rm\u00fcrs\u0259 o zaman erk\u0259n nikaha daha \u00e7ox h\u0259v\u0259sl\u0259n\u0259 bil\u0259r. \u00c7\u00fcnki o, bir m\u00fcdd\u0259t diqq\u0259td\u0259 olur, ona h\u0259r hans\u0131 h\u0259diyy\u0259l\u0259r al\u0131n\u0131r v\u0259 qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131na qal\u0131n\u0131r. Yeniyetm\u0259 q\u0131z is\u0259 bunun h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcb bu aldad\u0131c\u0131 situasiyan\u0131n t\u0259sirin\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr. Dig\u0259r bir m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 is\u0259 u\u015fa\u011fa n\u00fcmun\u0259 g\u0259tiril\u0259n hallard\u0131r. Ona erk\u0259n nikaha c\u0259lb edil\u0259n ba\u015fqa q\u0131zlar\u0131 n\u00fcmun\u0259 g\u0259tir\u0259r\u0259k bu hadis\u0259nin yax\u015f\u0131 bir hal olmas\u0131 fikrini t\u0259lqin edirl\u0259r. V\u0259 t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, erk\u0259n nikaha c\u0259lb edil\u0259n q\u0131z zamanla h\u0259r \u015feyin x\u0259yallar\u0131nda d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcy\u00fc kimi real olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u0259rk edir.<\/p>\n O\u011flan u\u015faqlar\u0131na ail\u0259 t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n g\u00f6st\u0259ril\u0259n x\u00fcsusi diqq\u0259t q\u0131z u\u015faqlar\u0131nda m\u0259nfi emosiyalara s\u0259b\u0259b olur<\/strong><\/p>\n M\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssisin s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259d\u0259 \u0259sas \u00f6hd\u0259likl\u0259rd\u0259n biri d\u0259 m\u0259hz valideynl\u0259rin \u00fcz\u0259rin\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr: \u201cEvlilik, birg\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131\u015f, ail\u0259 anlay\u0131\u015flar\u0131 ciddi m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259dir v\u0259 buna son d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259 m\u0259suliyy\u0259tl\u0259 yana\u015f\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r. H\u0259r \u015feyd\u0259n \u00f6nc\u0259 ata-analar b\u0259lli bir ya\u015fdan sonra \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131 g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131na haz\u0131rlamal\u0131d\u0131rlar. G\u0259ncl\u0259rin ail\u0259 qurma\u011fa t\u0259m\u0259l haz\u0131rl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ilk n\u00f6vb\u0259d\u0259 do\u011fulub b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fckl\u0259ri ail\u0259d\u0259n ba\u015flan\u0131r. Y\u0259ni, \u00f6z ail\u0259l\u0259rinin n\u00fcmun\u0259sind\u0259. \u0130lk \u00f6rn\u0259k ata-anan\u0131n qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tidir.\u00a0Ail\u0259d\u0259 u\u015faqlar aras\u0131nda cinsi ayr\u0131-se\u00e7kilik yolverilm\u0259zdir. O\u011flan u\u015faqlar\u0131na ail\u0259 t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n g\u00f6st\u0259ril\u0259n x\u00fcsusi diqq\u0259t q\u0131z u\u015faqlar\u0131nda m\u0259nfi emosiyalara s\u0259b\u0259b olur.\u00a0Yeniyetm\u0259lik d\u00f6vr\u00fc ail\u0259l\u0259rin \u00f6vladlar\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn x\u00fcsusi diqq\u0259t etm\u0259li bir zamand\u0131r. Valideynl\u0259r bu d\u00f6vrd\u0259 \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131n daim yan\u0131nda oldu\u011funu hiss etdirm\u0259li, \u00f6vladlar\u0131 aras\u0131nda ayr\u0131-se\u00e7kilik etm\u0259m\u0259li, onlar\u0131n fikirl\u0259rin\u0259 h\u00f6rm\u0259tl\u0259 yana\u015fmal\u0131, t\u0259hsil alma\u011f\u0131na \u015f\u0259rait yaratmal\u0131, onlar\u0131 a\u015fa\u011f\u0131layacaq fikirl\u0259rd\u0259n, t\u0259nqid, t\u0259hqirl\u0259rd\u0259n istifad\u0259 etm\u0259m\u0259li, \u015fidd\u0259t g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259m\u0259li, m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n m\u00fcdd\u0259t ke\u00e7dikd\u0259n sonra m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259li \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131n n\u00f6vb\u0259ti d\u00f6vrl\u0259rin\u0259 haz\u0131rlamal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n T\u0259ran\u0259 Pa\u015fayeva \u0259lav\u0259 etdi ki, son ill\u0259rd\u0259 erk\u0259n nikahlarla m\u00fcbariz\u0259d\u0259 aidiyy\u0259ti qurumlar\u0131n, o c\u00fcml\u0259d\u0259n h\u00fcquq-m\u00fchafiz\u0259 orqanlar\u0131n\u0131n v\u0259 dig\u0259r t\u0259\u015fkilatlar\u0131n f\u0259aliyy\u0259tini x\u00fcsusil\u0259 qeyd etm\u0259liy\u0259m. \u018fvv\u0259lki d\u00f6vrl\u0259rl\u0259 m\u00fcqayis\u0259d\u0259 neqativ hallarla qar\u015f\u0131la\u015fd\u0131qda daha qlsa zamanda operativ t\u0259dbirl\u0259r g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcr. M\u00fct\u0259madi\u00a0 olaraq paytaxt v\u0259 b\u00f6lg\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 erk\u0259n nikahlar\u0131n qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n al\u0131nmas\u0131, onun f\u0259sadlar\u0131 bar\u0259d\u0259 layih\u0259l\u0259r h\u0259yata ke\u00e7irilir, g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fl\u0259r t\u0259\u015fkil olunur. T\u0259bii ki, b\u00fct\u00fcn bunlarla kifay\u0259tl\u0259nm\u0259k olmaz. C\u0259miyy\u0259tin \u00fczvl\u0259ri kimi h\u0259r birimiz bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259d\u0259 diqq\u0259tli olmal\u0131y\u0131q. Yax\u0131n\u0131m\u0131zda olan insanlar\u0131 maarifl\u0259ndirm\u0259li, xo\u015fag\u0259lm\u0259z hallarla qar\u015f\u0131la\u015fd\u0131qda bigan\u0259 yana\u015fmamal\u0131y\u0131q.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczd\u0259 h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 aktuall\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 qoruyan m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n biri d\u0259 erk\u0259n nikahlard\u0131r. Erk\u0259n nikah do\u011furdu\u011fu f\u0259sadlara v\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259t\u0259 vurdu\u011fu ziyana g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u00f6vr\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn m\u00fch\u00fcm v\u0259 aktual problemi olaraq qalmaqdad\u0131r. Q\u0131zlar\u0131n erk\u0259n ya\u015fda ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131 qurma\u011fa m\u0259cbur edilm\u0259si onlar\u0131n t\u0259hsilin\u0259, bir f\u0259rd kimi inki\u015faf\u0131na mane olur, psixologiyas\u0131na m\u0259nfi t\u0259sir g\u00f6st\u0259rir. Erk\u0259n nikah g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k n\u0259sill\u0259rin sa\u011flaml\u0131\u011f\u0131 v\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259 alt\u0131na…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":586041,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-586040","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-cmiyyt"],"aioseo_notices":[],"aioseo_head":"\n\t\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t