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C\u0259miyy\u0259timizin \u0259n ciddi probleml\u0259rind\u0259n biri erk\u0259n nikah v\u0259 m\u0259i\u015f\u0259t zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131d\u0131r. Yetkinlik ya\u015f\u0131na \u00e7atmayan q\u0131zlar ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131 qurma\u011fa m\u0259cbur edilir, m\u0259i\u015f\u0259t zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n qurban\u0131 olurlar. \u018fks\u0259r hallarda bu zorak\u0131l\u0131qlar ail\u0259 daxili “ad\u0259t”l\u0259r \u00e7\u0259r\u00e7iv\u0259sind\u0259 “h\u0259ll edilir”. \u0130ll\u0259rl\u0259 \u0259zablara d\u00f6z\u0259n qad\u0131nlar ya \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131 n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 alaraq \u00e7\u0259tinlikl\u0259r\u0259, ya da ba\u015fqa \u015fanslar\u0131 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00f6mr\u00fcn\u00fcn qalan hiss\u0259sini eyni \u0259ziyy\u0259tl\u0259 ya\u015fama\u011fa m\u0259hkum olurlar.
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\nD\u0259f\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 bu c\u00fcr hallarla qar\u015f\u0131la\u015fan qad\u0131nlar\u0131n \u00e7\u0131x\u0131\u015f yolu ya intihara c\u0259hd edirl\u0259r, ya da evd\u0259n ba\u015f g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcb qa\u00e7\u0131rlar. S\u0131\u011f\u0131nacaq is\u0259 a\u011f\u0131r v\u0259 \u0259zabl\u0131 taleyi olan qad\u0131nlar\u0131n \u00fcmid yeridir. H\u0259yatlar\u0131n\u0131n d\u0259rdl\u0259rind\u0259n, \u0259zablar\u0131ndan qa\u00e7\u0131b burda m\u0259skunla\u015f\u0131rlar. Burda k\u0259d\u0259rl\u0259rini ovudurlar, probleml\u0259rin\u0259 k\u00f6m\u0259k axtar\u0131rlar, sonucda bura s\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131rlar. Amma m\u00fcv\u0259qq\u0259ti… burdan ayr\u0131landan sonra \u00e7ox vaxt onlar\u0131 eyni h\u0259yat g\u00f6zl\u0259yir. \u00c7\u00fcnki problemin k\u00f6kl\u00fc h\u0259lli t\u0259kc\u0259 bu divarlar aras\u0131nda \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcl\u0259 bilm\u0259z.
\nU\u015faqk\u0259n ail\u0259si, sonra h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011fa m\u0259ruz qalan Ludmila (ad \u015f\u0259rtidir- red.) haz\u0131rda s\u0131\u011f\u0131nacaqda ya\u015fay\u0131r. Onun getm\u0259y\u0259 yeri yoxdur. O, Az\u0259rbaycanda k\u00f6m\u0259ksiz qalan y\u00fczl\u0259rl\u0259 qad\u0131ndan biridir.<\/p>\n

ARANTV.AZ<\/strong>\u00a0\u00a0sonxeber.az<\/a>-a istinad\u0259n35 ya\u015fl\u0131 Ludmilan\u0131n (ad \u015f\u0259rtidir- red.) h\u0259yat hekay\u0259tini t\u0259qdim edir:<\/p>\n

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Bayaqdan fikrim s\u0259nd\u0259dir, \u00f6z-\u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 dan\u0131\u015f\u0131rsan. N\u0259 olub?
\nBalalar\u0131ma g\u00f6r\u0259 narahatam . Onlardan bir saniy\u0259 bel\u0259 ayr\u0131 qalmaq ist\u0259mir\u0259m. \u00dcr\u0259yim partlayar, b\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259\u00f6l\u0259r\u0259m. M\u0259n onlara \u00e7ox ba\u011fl\u0131yam. Onlar olmasayd\u0131, t\u0259k ba\u015f\u0131m olsayd\u0131 b\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131m\u0131 ba\u015fqa c\u00fcr qurard\u0131m (doluxsunur- red.)<\/p>\n

-B\u0259lk\u0259 bir az ke\u00e7mi\u015f\u0259 qay\u0131daq. \u00d6z haqq\u0131nda \u0259trafl\u0131 dan\u0131\u015fasan?<\/b><\/p>\n

<\/b>Sual\u0131mdan pis oldu… \u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fc p\u0259nc\u0259r\u0259y\u0259 tutub d\u0259rind\u0259n “ah” \u00e7\u0259kib v\u0259 dan\u0131\u015fma\u011fa ba\u015flad\u0131:<\/p>\n

– M\u0259n u\u015faqk\u0259n atamla anam ayr\u0131ld\u0131. Anam atamdan ayr\u0131landan sonra m\u0259ni yola verm\u0259di. M\u0259n atama ox\u015fay\u0131rd\u0131m dey\u0259 m\u0259nd\u0259n xo\u015fu g\u0259lmrdi. El\u0259 bil d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259ni idim, \u00f6vlad\u0131 deyil. G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fc qara, \u00e7\u00f6r\u0259yimi para el\u0259mi\u015fdi. Art\u0131q bezmi\u015fdim. Bel\u0259c\u0259 ill\u0259ri yola verib, 17 ya\u015f\u0131m\u0131 tamamlad\u0131m. \u0130\u015fl\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flad\u0131m, i\u015fl\u0259diyim yerd\u0259 brinci h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131mla tan\u0131\u015f oldum. \u018fsl\u0259n Nax\u00e7\u0131vanl\u0131 idi. El\u0259 oldu ki, bir d\u0259f\u0259 yolda\u015f\u0131mla g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u0259nd\u0259 m\u0259n\u0259 dedi ki, s\u0259ni qa\u00e7\u0131rtmaq ist\u0259yir\u0259m. \u018fvv\u0259l inanmad\u0131m, g\u00fcld\u00fcm, zarafat etdiyini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcm. Sa\u011folla\u015fanda dedi ki, “d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn v\u0259 q\u0259rar\u0131n\u0131 m\u0259n\u0259 de”. Bir ne\u00e7\u0259 g\u00fcn dan\u0131\u015fmaqd\u0131q. Sonra \u00f6z\u00fc z\u0259ng etdi v\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fm\u0259k ist\u0259diyini dedi. G\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fd\u00fck, yen\u0259 qa\u00e7\u0131rmaq ist\u0259diyini v\u0259 fikrinin q\u0259ti oldu\u011funu bildirdi. D\u00fcz\u00fc, m\u0259nd\u0259 evd\u0259 anam\u0131n \u0259lind\u0259n bezmi\u015fdim. El\u0259 h\u0259min g\u00fcn yolda\u015f\u0131ma qo\u015fulub qa\u00e7d\u0131m. Getdik Nax\u015f\u0131vana atasgil\u0259. Yolda\u015f\u0131m\u0131n valideynl\u0259ri \u00e7ox yax\u015f\u0131 insanlar idi. Bir m\u00fcdd\u0259t yolda\u015f\u0131m Nax\u015f\u0131vanda i\u015fl\u0259di, v\u0259ziyy\u0259timiz yax\u015f\u0131 idi. M\u0259niml\u0259 d\u0259 \u00e7ox yax\u015f\u0131 davran\u0131rd\u0131. Sonra el\u0259 oldu ki, yolda\u015f\u0131m Bak\u0131ya i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 g\u0259ldi. Ne\u00e7\u0259 ay Bak\u0131da i\u015fl\u0259di, ev\u0259 d\u0259 pul g\u00f6nd\u0259rdi. M\u0259nd\u0259 hamil\u0259 idim. Bir g\u00fcn g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcb anama z\u0259ng el\u0259dim, dedi ki “n\u0259n\u0259 olacaqsan”. Anam telefonda m\u0259n\u0259 pis-pis s\u00f6y\u00fc\u015fl\u0259r verdi, bir d\u0259 onu narahat etm\u0259yim dedi. Pis oldum, a\u011flad\u0131m. V\u0259 onda h\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n d\u0259 kims\u0259siz oldu\u011fumu d\u0259rk etdim. N\u0259s\u0259, q\u0131z\u0131m d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259ldi. Yolda\u015f\u0131m ne\u00e7\u0259 aydan sonra ev\u0259 qay\u0131td\u0131. M\u0259ni g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcb Bak\u0131ya qay\u0131d\u0131q. Ancaq \u00e7ox d\u0259yi\u015fmi\u015fdi, el\u0259 bil \u0259vv\u0259lki insan deyildi. Onun davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 he\u00e7 xo\u015fuma g\u0259lm\u0259di. \u0130\u00e7kiy\u0259 qur\u015fanm\u0131\u015fd\u0131, h\u0259tta narkotikd\u0259n istifad\u0259 edirdi. Bak\u0131ya g\u0259l\u0259nd\u0259n sonra \u00f6z\u00fcmd\u0259 g\u00f6rd\u00fcm n\u0259\u015f\u0259 \u00e7\u0259kdiyini. \u0130\u00e7irdi araqdan, \u00e7\u0259kirdi n\u0259\u015f\u0259d\u0259n ev\u0259 dava sal\u0131rd\u0131, s\u0259b\u0259bsiz yer\u0259 m\u0259ni d\u00f6y\u00fcrd\u00fc.<\/p>\n

– B\u0259s, ay\u0131landa s\u0259b\u0259bini soru\u015fmurdun?
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\n– (Hikk\u0259 il\u0259) Ay\u0131q g\u00fcn\u00fc olurdu ki, n\u0259s\u0259 soru\u015fum da. H\u0259l\u0259 bir d\u0259f\u0259 d\u0259 q\u0131\u015fda gec\u0259nin bir al\u0259mi ev\u0259 g\u0259ldi, ba\u015flad\u0131 m\u0259nn\u0259n he\u00e7 n\u0259d\u0259n dala\u015fma\u011fa. Biz d\u0259 Bk\u0131da h\u0259y\u0259t evind\u0259 qal\u0131rd\u0131q. Ax\u0131r\u0131 bezdim dill\u0259ndim, dedim \u0259l\u00e7\u0259k d\u0259 m\u0259nn\u0259n. T\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcr edin m\u0259ni soyundurub, h\u0259y\u0259tin ortas\u0131nda o q\u0259d\u0259r d\u00f6yd\u00fc ki, h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 o a\u011fr\u0131lar can\u0131mdad\u0131r. M\u0259niml\u0259 qad\u0131n\u0131 kimi yox, fahi\u015f\u0259si kimi davran\u0131rd\u0131. A\u011fl\u0131na n\u0259 g\u0259lirdis\u0259 onu da t\u0259l\u0259b edirdi. \u018fxlaqs\u0131z h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259r t\u0259l\u0259b edirdi, m\u0259nd\u0259 etm\u0259y\u0259nd\u0259 bas\u0131b d\u00f6y\u00fcrd\u00fc. Buz suyu \u00fcst\u00fcm\u0259 t\u00f6k\u00fcb, h\u0259y\u0259td\u0259ki a\u011faca ba\u011flay\u0131b s\u0259h\u0259r\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r \u0259zab verirdi. Yen\u0259 d\u0259 \u00f6vlad\u0131ma g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u00f6z\u00fcb s\u0259br edirdim. Deyirdim ki, c\u0259h\u0259nn\u0259m\u0259, bir q\u0131z\u0131m var, atas\u0131z b\u00f6y\u00fcm\u0259sin. Ax\u0131rda o bir q\u0131z\u0131m\u0131 da m\u0259nd\u0259n ald\u0131.<\/p>\n

Q\u0131z\u0131n\u0131 dey\u0259nd\u0259 h\u00f6nk\u00fcrt\u00fc il\u0259 a\u011flama\u011fa ba\u015flad\u0131. Sakitl\u0259\u015fdirm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fd\u0131m. Bir ne\u00e7\u0259 d\u0259qiq\u0259 sonra s\u00f6hb\u0259td\u0259n yay\u0131nmay\u0131b suala ke\u00e7id etdim:<\/p>\n

– Q\u0131z\u0131n atas\u0131ndad\u0131r?
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\n– Yox! Q\u0131z\u0131m\u0131 \u00f6ld\u00fcrd\u00fc.<\/p>\n

– Nec\u0259 \u00f6ld\u00fcrd\u00fc?
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\n– Bir d\u0259f\u0259 \u00e7ox i\u00e7kili halda ev\u0259 g\u0259lib m\u0259nd\u0259n onunla intim m\u00fcnasib\u0259td\u0259 olma\u011f\u0131 t\u0259l\u0259b etdi. M\u0259ns\u0259 u\u015fa\u011fa s\u00fcd verirdim dey\u0259 mane olmama\u011f\u0131 xahi\u015f etdim. O, m\u0259nd\u0259n \u0259l\u00e7\u0259km\u0259yib zor t\u0259tbiq etdi. \u0130\u00e7kili oldu\u011funa g\u00f6r\u0259 fikir verm\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fd\u0131m. Ona reaksiya verm\u0259diyimi g\u00f6r\u00fcb \u00e7\u00f6l\u0259 \u00e7\u0131xd\u0131. Bir ne\u00e7\u0259 d\u0259qiq\u0259d\u0259n sonra ev\u0259 qay\u0131td\u0131qda u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 quca\u011f\u0131mda g\u00f6r\u00fcb d\u0259liy\u0259 d\u00f6nd\u00fc. G\u00f6zl\u0259m\u0259diyim anda u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 \u0259limd\u0259n al\u0131b \u00fcz\u00fcn\u0259 sill\u0259l\u0259r vurdu. U\u015fa\u011f\u0131 onun\u0259lind\u0259n almaq ist\u0259y\u0259nd\u0259, m\u0259ni it\u0259l\u0259di arxas\u0131 \u00fcst\u0259 ba\u015f\u0131m divara d\u0259ydi. \u00d6z\u00fcm\u00fc \u00e7ox pis hiss etdim, q\u0131z\u0131m\u0131 onun \u0259lind\u0259n ala bilm\u0259dim. U\u015faq a\u011flay\u0131b ke\u00e7indi. \u00d6z\u00fcm\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259nd\u0259n sonra gec\u0259nin yar\u0131s\u0131 T\u0259cili Tibbi Yard\u0131m \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r\u0131b u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 tez x\u0259st\u0259xanaya \u00e7atd\u0131rd\u0131m. U\u015faq x\u0259st\u0259xanaya \u00e7atanda n\u0259f\u0259si k\u0259sildi, sill\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n beynin\u0259 qan s\u0131zm\u0131\u015fd\u0131. Q\u0131z\u0131m \u0259limd\u0259 \u00f6ld\u00fc. X\u0259st\u0259xanada h\u0259kim u\u015fa\u011fa n\u0259 oldu\u011fu soru.du. M\u0259n h\u0259kimi aldad\u0131b u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n ehtiyats\u0131zl\u0131q ucbat\u0131ndan \u0259limd\u0259n d\u00fc\u015fd\u00fcy\u00fcn\u00fc dedim. \u0130ndi d\u0259 o\u011furlu\u011fa g\u00f6r\u0259 t\u00fcrm\u0259d\u0259dir. O h\u0259m o\u011fru, h\u0259m d\u0259 qatildir. D\u00f6rd ayl\u0131q k\u00f6rp\u0259nin can\u0131na q\u0131yd\u0131.<\/p>\n

– Sonra n\u0259 oldu?
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\n– He\u00e7 n\u0259… u\u015fa\u011f\u0131m\u0131 itirdim. U\u015faqdan sonra d\u0259li oldum, \u00f6z\u00fcm\u0259 x\u0259sar\u0259tl\u0259r yetirdim, can\u0131ma q\u0259sd el\u0259dim. Ancaq \u00f6lm\u0259dim. Bel\u0259c\u0259 bir m\u00fcdd\u0259 h\u0259kim n\u0259zar\u0259tind\u0259 qald\u0131m. \u00d6z\u00fcm\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259nd\u0259n sonra evim\u0259 qay\u0131td\u0131m. Yolda\u015f\u0131mdan ayr\u0131lmaq ist\u0259yirdim. Qaynanamgil yalvar-yap\u0131\u015f el\u0259dil\u0259r ayr\u0131lmad\u0131m. Yolda\u015f\u0131m \u00f6z\u00fc d\u0259 \u00e7ox pis olmu\u015fdu. Q\u0131zdan sonra bir az d\u00fcz\u0259ldi, bir m\u00fcdd\u0259t i\u00e7m\u0259di, ev\u0259 baxd\u0131. Sonra ikinci u\u015fa\u011fa hamil\u0259 qald\u0131m. N\u0259s\u0259, ikinci u\u015faq da q\u0131z oldu. U\u015faqdan sobra yolda\u015f\u0131m yen\u0259 ba\u015flad\u0131 i\u00e7m\u0259y\u0259. Yen\u0259 k\u00f6hn\u0259 hamam, k\u00f6hn\u0259 tas. Art\u0131q bezdim u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 da g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcb evd\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xd\u0131m. Getdim anamgil\u0259. Anam u\u015fa\u011fa g\u00f6r\u0259 m\u0259ni q\u0259bul el\u0259di. M\u0259nd\u0259 kafel\u0259rin birind\u0259 administratorkimi i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flad\u0131m. Uzun m\u00fcdd\u0259t orda i\u015fl\u0259dikd\u0259n sonra ikinci h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131mla tan\u0131\u015f oldum.<\/p>\n

– S\u0259n evd\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xandan sonra birinci h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n s\u0259ninl\u0259 mraqlanmad\u0131?
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\n– (\u018fs\u0259bl\u0259) Yox! M\u0259n onunla bo\u015fand\u0131m, ikinci d\u0259f\u0259 ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131 qurdum. Anamda raz\u0131 oldu ikinci d\u0259f\u0259 ail\u0259 qurma\u011f\u0131ma. \u0130kinci h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131mdan 3 \u00f6vlad\u0131m var. \u0130kinci h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131m \u00e7ox yax\u015f\u0131 idi, ancaq qay\u0131natam imkan vermirdi biz\u0259. Be\u015f il bir yerd\u0259 ya\u015fad\u0131q, bir d\u0259f\u0259 d\u0259 olsun o m\u0259ni n\u0259 d\u00f6yd\u00fc, n\u0259 d\u0259 s\u00f6yd\u00fc. Qay\u0131natam h\u0259r g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc z\u0259h\u0259r\u0259 d\u00f6nd\u0259rirdi, imkan vermirdi adam kimi ya\u015fayaq. Ax\u0131r\u0131 bezib ayr\u0131ld\u0131m. \u0130ndi d\u0259 bel\u0259.<\/p>\n

A\u011flad\u0131, g\u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259n ya\u015f sel kimi ax\u0131rd\u0131. \u00dcz\u00fcn\u00fc \u0259ll\u0259ri il\u0259 silib “qorxuram yen\u0259 “pristupum” tutar”, deyib, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc sakitl\u0259\u015fdirm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fd\u0131.<\/p>\n

– Nec\u0259 oldu s\u0131\u011f\u0131naca\u011fa g\u0259ldin?
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\n– Yolda\u015f\u0131mdan ayr\u0131landan sonra anam m\u0259ni q\u0259bul etm\u0259di. Ged\u0259c\u0259k yerim yox idi, k\u00fc\u00e7\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 gec\u0259l\u0259yirdim. Kimin yaz\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u0259ls\u0259ydi bir tik\u0259 \u00e7\u00f6r\u0259k al\u0131rd\u0131. Balalar\u0131mla qarn\u0131m\u0131 doyururdum. Bir d\u0259f\u0259 d\u0259 bir qad\u0131n biz\u0259 yax\u0131nla\u015fd\u0131 u\u015faqlarabazarl\u0131q etdi. Sonra niy\u0259 k\u00fc\u00e7\u0259d\u0259 qald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 soru\u015fdu. M\u0259nd\u0259 getm\u0259y\u0259 yerim olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 dedim. O qad\u0131n\u0131n k\u00f6m\u0259kliyi il\u0259 poli\u0259 getdim,polis d\u0259 s\u0131\u011f\u0131naca\u011fa y\u00f6nl\u0259ndirdi. Bir aydan \u00e7oxdur burdayam, sa\u011folsunlar biz\u0259 \u00e7ox yax\u015f\u0131 bax\u0131rlar. Balalar\u0131m doyunca yem\u0259k yeyir, s\u0259liq\u0259li paltar geyinir. \u00d6z\u00fcm d\u0259 i\u015f axtar\u0131ram, g\u00f6r\u0259k, nec\u0259 olur. \u0130\u015f tapsam u\u015faqlar\u0131 internata verm\u0259liy\u0259m, ancaq \u00fc\u0259yim g\u0259lmir. M\u0259n onlarla n\u0259f\u0259s al\u0131ram, nec\u0259 el\u0259yim bilmir\u0259m.<\/p>\n

– \u0130kinci h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n bilir ba\u015f\u0131na g\u0259l\u0259nl\u0259ri?
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\n– Yox, bilmir. \u00c7\u00fcnki m\u0259n ayr\u0131landan sonra qay\u0131natam tez-bazar onu evl\u0259ndirib. M\u0259n c\u0259h\u0259nn\u0259m, he\u00e7 u\u015faqlar\u0131 il\u0259 maraqlanm\u0131r. \u0130ki d\u0259f\u0259 ail\u0259 qurdum, ikisi d\u0259 u\u011fursuz. Yen\u0259 balalar\u0131ma \u015f\u00fck\u00fcr edir\u0259m. Gec\u0259-g\u00fcnd\u00fcz Allaha yalvar\u0131ram, balalar\u0131m\u0131 m\u0259n\u0259 \u00e7ox g\u00f6rm\u0259sin, bir d\u0259 m\u0259n\u0259 \u00f6vlad d\u0259rdi ya\u015fatmas\u0131n. M\u0259n balalar\u0131mla ac-susuz, k\u00fc\u00e7\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 ya\u015fama\u011fa da raz\u0131yam. Ancaq onlar\u0131n da\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rm\u0259yim.<\/p>\n

S\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc bitirm\u0259mi\u015f yen\u0259 h\u00f6nk\u00fcrt\u00fc il\u0259 a\u011flad\u0131. Bizs\u0259 sakitc\u0259 ota\u011f\u0131 t\u0259rk edib, s\u0131\u011f\u0131nacaqdan \u00e7\u0131xd\u0131q. Onunsa g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k taleyi nec\u0259 olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131, yaln\u0131z bir Allah bilir\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

C\u0259miyy\u0259timizin \u0259n ciddi probleml\u0259rind\u0259n biri erk\u0259n nikah v\u0259 m\u0259i\u015f\u0259t zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131d\u0131r. Yetkinlik ya\u015f\u0131na \u00e7atmayan q\u0131zlar ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131 qurma\u011fa m\u0259cbur edilir, m\u0259i\u015f\u0259t zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n qurban\u0131 olurlar. \u018fks\u0259r hallarda bu zorak\u0131l\u0131qlar ail\u0259 daxili “ad\u0259t”l\u0259r \u00e7\u0259r\u00e7iv\u0259sind\u0259 “h\u0259ll edilir”. \u0130ll\u0259rl\u0259 \u0259zablara d\u00f6z\u0259n qad\u0131nlar ya \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131 n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 alaraq \u00e7\u0259tinlikl\u0259r\u0259, ya da ba\u015fqa \u015fanslar\u0131 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00f6mr\u00fcn\u00fcn qalan hiss\u0259sini eyni \u0259ziyy\u0259tl\u0259 ya\u015fama\u011fa m\u0259hkum olurlar. 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