\u018fn yax\u015f\u0131 t\u0259rbiy\u0259 \u00f6rn\u0259k ola bilm\u0259kdir. Bir \u015feyi y\u00fcz d\u0259f\u0259 dem\u0259kd\u0259ns\u0259, bir d\u0259f\u0259 ya\u015fayaraq g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259k daha t\u0259sirli v\u0259 inand\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 olur.<\/p>\n
Ail\u0259d\u0259 u\u015faqlar b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u00fcr, onlar\u0131n t\u0259rbiy\u0259si valideynl\u0259rin \u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131d\u0131r. T\u0259bii ki, b\u00fct\u00fcn valideynl\u0259r \u00f6z \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6z\u0259l t\u0259rbiy\u0259 il\u0259 sa\u011flam yeti\u015fm\u0259sini arzu edirl\u0259r. \u201cG\u00f6z\u0259l t\u0259rbiy\u0259\u201d dedikd\u0259, \u0259lb\u0259tt\u0259, ilk n\u00f6vb\u0259d\u0259 adam\u0131n a\u011fl\u0131na \u0259dal\u0259tli olmaq, haqq\u0131n t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259 durmaq, ba\u015fqalar\u0131na qar\u015f\u0131 s\u0259mimi, t\u0259vaz\u00f6kar davranmaq, insanlara xeyir verm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaq, z\u00fclm\u0259 boyun \u0259ym\u0259m\u0259k… kimi keyfiyy\u0259tl\u0259r g\u0259lir.<\/p>\n
Bu sayd\u0131qlar\u0131m\u0131n i\u00e7\u0259risind\u0259 \u0259dal\u0259t v\u0259 t\u0259vaz\u00f6karl\u0131q, he\u00e7 \u015f\u00fcbh\u0259siz, \u00e7ox m\u00fch\u00fcm yer tutur. \u018fslin\u0259 qalanda \u0259ks\u0259r m\u00fcsb\u0259t keyfiyy\u0259tl\u0259r eyni a\u011fac\u0131n budaqlar\u0131 kimi bir-birin\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Biz insan\u0131q v\u0259 x\u0259talardan, g\u00fcnahlardan s\u0131\u011fortalanmam\u0131\u015f\u0131q. Bil\u0259r\u0259k v\u0259 ya bilm\u0259y\u0259r\u0259k x\u0259talar edirik. X\u0259tam\u0131z\u0131 anlayan kimi onu d\u00fcz\u0259ltm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmal\u0131y\u0131q. Bizim \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u0259n do\u011fru yol, \u0259n xeyirli se\u00e7im d\u0259 budur.<\/p>\n
Siz ail\u0259 ba\u015f\u00e7\u0131s\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z v\u0259 \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131z sizin h\u0259r \u0259m\u0259ll\u0259riniz\u0259 g\u00f6z qoyur, sizd\u0259n \u00f6yr\u0259nirl\u0259r. \u00d6yr\u0259nm\u0259k dey\u0259nd\u0259, s\u0131nanm\u0131\u015f bir ger\u00e7\u0259k var ki, u\u015faq e\u015fitdiyini yox, g\u00f6rd\u00fcy\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcr. \u018fg\u0259r siz \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131za s\u00f6z verib yerin\u0259 yetirm\u0259misinizs\u0259, bir d\u0259 onunla d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fckd\u0259n, m\u0259rdlikd\u0259n, \u0259dal\u0259tli olmaqdan dan\u0131\u015fma\u011f\u0131n\u0131z \u0259b\u0259sdir. \u00c7\u00fcnki u\u015faq o yalan\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 \u00fcz\u0259 vurmasa da, \u00fcr\u0259yind\u0259 s\u00f6yl\u0259dikl\u0259riniz\u0259 yox, el\u0259dikl\u0259riniz\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 siz\u0259 d\u0259y\u0259r ver\u0259c\u0259k. Valideyn \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn d\u0259 bu, \u00e7ox a\u011f\u0131r f\u0259lak\u0259tdir ki, \u00f6vlad\u0131 ona inanm\u0131r, s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 etimad el\u0259mir, amma bunu \u00fcz\u0259 vurub onu \u00fczm\u00fcr, sad\u0259c\u0259, a\u011f\u0131r y\u00fck kimi \u00fcr\u0259yinin bir t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259 saxlay\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Ola bilsin ki, bir s\u00f6z vermisiniz v\u0259 nec\u0259 olubsa, o v\u0259dinizi unutmusunuz. \u00d6vlad\u0131n\u0131z da o s\u00f6z\u00fc siz\u0259 xat\u0131rlatma\u011fa h\u0259ya edir, ist\u0259mir ki, q\u0259lbinizi q\u0131rs\u0131n v\u0259 ya siz\u0259 inanmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 \u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fcz\u0259 desin. \u00dcst\u00fcnd\u0259n xeyli ke\u00e7\u0259nd\u0259n sonra bird\u0259n verdiyiniz o s\u00f6z yad\u0131n\u0131za d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr. \u00d6vlad\u0131n n\u0259z\u0259rind\u0259 \u00f6z etimad\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 b\u0259rpa etm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn m\u00fctl\u0259q \u00fczr ist\u0259m\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r. T\u0259kc\u0259 \u00fczr ist\u0259m\u0259k yet\u0259rli deyil, verdiyiniz s\u00f6z\u00fc d\u0259 yerin\u0259 yetirm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. \u018fg\u0259r i\u015f i\u015fd\u0259n ke\u00e7ibs\u0259, y\u0259ni o v\u0259diniz daha bir \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259t da\u015f\u0131m\u0131rsa v\u0259 ya onu yerin\u0259 yetirm\u0259k m\u00fcmk\u00fcn deyils\u0259, o x\u0259tan\u0131 kompensasiya ed\u0259 bilm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn t\u0259klifl\u0259r ir\u0259li s\u00fcrm\u0259lisiniz. Y\u0259ni \u0259sas m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 etimad\u0131 b\u0259rpa etm\u0259k, \u00f6vlad\u0131n n\u0259z\u0259rind\u0259 yalan\u00e7\u0131 valideyn kimi tan\u0131nmamaqd\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Ba\u015fqa misallar g\u0259tir\u0259k: siz\u0259 laz\u0131m olub v\u0259 he\u00e7 f\u0259rqin\u0259 varmadan \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131z \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00e7ox g\u0259r\u0259kli bir ka\u011f\u0131z\u0131 v\u0259 ya h\u0259r hans\u0131 yaz\u0131n\u0131 onun icaz\u0259si olmadan g\u00f6t\u00fcrm\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fcz. \u0130ndi \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131z o itkinin yerini doldurmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn xeyli \u0259ziyy\u0259t \u00e7\u0259km\u0259lidir. \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259, \u00fczr ist\u0259m\u0259k laz\u0131m g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k.<\/p>\n
Ba\u015fqa bir misal: d\u0259rs ili ba\u015flay\u0131b, amma siz hans\u0131sa problem \u00fcz\u00fcnd\u0259n \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131za v\u0259d etdiyiniz \u015feyl\u0259ri h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 ala bilm\u0259misiniz. \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259, h\u0259m \u00fczr ist\u0259m\u0259k, h\u0259m d\u0259 h\u0259qiq\u0259ti onunla payla\u015fmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r.<\/p>\n
D\u0259rs ilini u\u011furla ba\u015fa vuraca\u011f\u0131 t\u0259qdird\u0259, ona velosiped h\u0259diyy\u0259 ed\u0259c\u0259yinizi demi\u015fdiniz, yen\u0259 sizd\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131 olmayan v\u0259 ya hans\u0131sa \u00fczrl\u00fc s\u0259b\u0259b\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 gecikir v\u0259 \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131z o x\u0259yal\u0131na qovu\u015fmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00e7ox s\u0259birsizlik edir. Yen\u0259 h\u0259m \u00fczr ist\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k, h\u0259m d\u0259 ger\u00e7\u0259yi s\u00f6yl\u0259yib, bir q\u0259d\u0259r d\u0259 g\u00f6zl\u0259m\u0259sini xahi\u015f ed\u0259c\u0259ksiniz.<\/p>\n
T\u0259kc\u0259 \u00f6vladdan deyil, h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131ndan, bac\u0131dan, qarda\u015fdan, qon\u015fudan, daha do\u011frusu, kim\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 x\u0259ta i\u015fl\u0259misinizs\u0259, ondan \u00fczr ist\u0259m\u0259k sizi a\u011f\u0131ll\u0131 \u00f6vlad\u0131n g\u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259 daha da ucaldar.<\/p>\n
T\u0259bii ki, h\u0259ssas davranmal\u0131 v\u0259 m\u00fcmk\u00fcn q\u0259d\u0259r x\u0259talardan, g\u00fcnahlardan uzaq durma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmal\u0131y\u0131q. Amma \u0259limizd\u0259n bir x\u0259ta \u00e7\u0131xd\u0131sa, onu aradan qald\u0131rmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn d\u0259 \u0259limizd\u0259n g\u0259l\u0259ni etm\u0259liyik. Sizin \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131z ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259lidir ki, insan ba\u015fqalar\u0131n\u0131n haqq\u0131n\u0131 tapdamama\u011f\u0131, tapdad\u0131sa, x\u0259tas\u0131n\u0131 anlayan kimi haqq\u0131, \u0259dal\u0259ti b\u0259rpa etm\u0259yi \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn h\u0259yat prinsipin\u0259 \u00e7evirm\u0259lidir.<\/p>\n
\u018fg\u0259r siz ail\u0259d\u0259, u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n qula\u011f\u0131 e\u015fid\u0259-e\u015fid\u0259 qon\u015funun qeyb\u0259tini edirsinizs\u0259, onun haqq\u0131nda iftira dan\u0131\u015f\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131zsa, inan\u0131n ki, \u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck ziyan \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u0259 d\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k. \u00c7\u00fcnki bu q\u0259d\u0259r a\u011f\u0131r bir hadis\u0259d\u0259n sonra \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131z n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7al\u0131\u015fsa da, \u00f6z n\u0259z\u0259rind\u0259 sizin d\u00fcr\u00fcst insan obraz\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 formala\u015fd\u0131ra bilm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k.<\/p>\n
\u00dczr ist\u0259m\u0259k m\u0259n\u0259vi y\u00fcks\u0259klikdir, \u00fczr ist\u0259y\u0259n \u0259dal\u0259tli adamd\u0131r. H\u0259m d\u0259 c\u0259za alaca\u011f\u0131ndan qorxmadan, g\u00fccl\u00fc, \u00fcst\u00fcn oldu\u011fu halda \u00fczr ist\u0259m\u0259k, qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fin kim olmas\u0131ndan, sosial durumundan as\u0131l\u0131 olmayaraq ondan halall\u0131q ist\u0259m\u0259k b\u00f6y\u00fckl\u00fckd\u00fcr.<\/p>\n
\u00dczr ist\u0259m\u0259yi \u0259skiklik sayan, haqs\u0131z oldu\u011funu bil\u0259-bil\u0259 inad ed\u0259n, t\u0259k\u0259bb\u00fcrl\u00fc davranan he\u00e7 vaxt yax\u015f\u0131 adam ola bilm\u0259z.<\/p>\n
T\u0259vaz\u00f6karl\u0131q insan\u0131n b\u00f6y\u00fckl\u00fcy\u00fcn\u00fcn, t\u0259k\u0259bb\u00fcr is\u0259 ki\u00e7ikliyinin \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcs\u00fcd\u00fcr. El aras\u0131nda deyildiyi kimi, a\u011fac n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7ox bar verirs\u0259, ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 o q\u0259d\u0259r a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 dik\u0259r. Barl\u0131 a\u011fac kimi dolu olub, t\u0259vaz\u00f6kar davranmaq \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fckd\u00fcr.<\/p>\n
Bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259d\u0259 orta yolu tutmaq \u00e7ox \u00f6n\u0259mlidir. T\u0259k\u0259bb\u00fcr g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259k z\u0259r\u0259rli, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 z\u00fclm etm\u0259k oldu\u011fu kimi, x\u0259ta i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259yi v\u0259 \u00fczr ist\u0259m\u0259yi ad\u0259t hal\u0131na g\u0259tirm\u0259k d\u0259 insana bir \u015fey qazand\u0131rmaz. Amma b\u00fct\u00fcn hallarda \u00fczr ist\u0259m\u0259k t\u0259k\u0259bb\u00fcrd\u0259n daha yax\u015f\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Biz u\u015faqlar\u0131m\u0131zdan \u00fczr ist\u0259m\u0259yi bacarmal\u0131y\u0131q ki, onlar da bir x\u0259ta i\u015fl\u0259dikl\u0259rini anlayan kimi \u00fczr ist\u0259y\u0259 bilsinl\u0259r. Y\u0259ni t\u0259rbiy\u0259nin t\u0259m\u0259li valideynl\u0259rin \u00fcz\u0259rin\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr. Bu m\u00f6vzuda valideynl\u0259r n\u0259 \u0259k\u0259rl\u0259rs\u0259, onu da bi\u00e7\u0259rl\u0259r. Do\u011frudur, b\u0259z\u0259n bu prinsip d\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc do\u011frultmur, amma h\u0259r halda biz valideyn olaraq boynumuza d\u00fc\u015f\u0259nl\u0259ri q\u00fcsursuz \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 yerin\u0259 yetirm\u0259kl\u0259 m\u00fck\u0259ll\u0259fik.<\/p>\n
\u00dczr ist\u0259m\u0259yi bacarmayan \u00f6vlad ya bunun qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 n\u0259 zamansa a\u011f\u0131r c\u0259za il\u0259 \u00f6d\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 m\u0259hkum olur, ya da bu t\u0259k\u0259bb\u00fcr\u00fcn\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xda\u015f edilir. \u018fslind\u0259 bu c\u00fcr insanlar\u0131 kims\u0259 sevm\u0259z, onlara etibar, etimad etm\u0259z. \u00dcst\u0259lik d\u0259, t\u0259k\u0259bb\u00fcr el\u0259 bir m\u0259n\u0259vi x\u0259st\u0259likdir ki, uzaq \u00e7evr\u0259d\u0259n ba\u015flayaraq m\u0259rk\u0259z\u0259 do\u011fru yax\u0131nla\u015f\u0131r v\u0259 bir g\u00fcn \u00f6vlad eyni m\u00fcnasib\u0259ti \u0259n yax\u0131nlar\u0131na, valideynl\u0259rin\u0259 bel\u0259 g\u00f6st\u0259rir.<\/p>\n
\u00dczr ist\u0259y\u0259ni ba\u011f\u0131\u015flamaq da m\u0259n\u0259vi ucal\u0131\u011f\u0131n, b\u00f6y\u00fckl\u00fcy\u00fcn \u0259lam\u0259tidir. B\u0259nd\u0259l\u0259rinin g\u00fcnahlar\u0131n\u0131 ba\u011f\u0131\u015flayan Allah bu yolu tutan qullar\u0131n\u0131 sev\u0259r.<\/p>\n
Evd\u0259 \u00f6vladlar b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u00fcr. Siz b\u0259z\u0259n onlarla s\u00f6hb\u0259t edirsiniz v\u0259 bu s\u00f6hb\u0259t zaman\u0131 \u00f6y\u00fcd-n\u0259sih\u0259t verirsiniz, amma \u0259min olun ki, onlar sizd\u0259n e\u015fitdikl\u0259rini deyil, g\u00f6rd\u00fckl\u0259rini g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcrl\u0259r. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 n\u0259 dediyinizi v\u0259 n\u0259 dey\u0259c\u0259yinizi ir\u0259lic\u0259d\u0259n yax\u015f\u0131-yax\u015f\u0131 \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcb-bi\u00e7m\u0259lisiniz. \u00d6vlad\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n \u0259dal\u0259tli, t\u0259vaz\u00f6kar, s\u0259mimi, xeyirxah olmas\u0131n\u0131 ist\u0259yirsiniz. Bunun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn g\u0259r\u0259k onda g\u00f6rm\u0259k ist\u0259diyiniz keyfiyy\u0259tl\u0259ri \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz ya\u015fayaraq n\u00fcmayi\u015f etdir\u0259siniz. U\u015faq sizin s\u00f6yl\u0259dikl\u0259rinizi s\u00f6zd\u0259n deyil, g\u00f6rd\u00fckl\u0259rind\u0259n alaraq \u00f6z ruhuna, xarakterin\u0259 hopdurmal\u0131d\u0131r. \u018fg\u0259r bunu bacarsan\u0131z, dem\u0259k, m\u0259qs\u0259diniz\u0259 nail ola bilmisiniz.<\/p>\n
\u00dczr ist\u0259m\u0259kd\u0259n \u00e7\u0259kinm\u0259yin. Siz \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131zdan \u00fczr ist\u0259yin ki, o da b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u00fcb bir x\u0259ta i\u015fl\u0259y\u0259nd\u0259 ba\u015fqalar\u0131ndan \u00fczr ist\u0259y\u0259 bilsin. Yoxsa hans\u0131 \u0259m\u0259l bo\u015fa ged\u0259c\u0259k ki?! Bir g\u00fcn h\u0259r \u015feyin hesab-kitab\u0131 olmayacaqm\u0131?- \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259, olacaq. Var, inan\u0131n ki, var, h\u0259r al\u0131nan n\u0259f\u0259sin, h\u0259r at\u0131lan add\u0131m\u0131n hesab-kitaba \u00e7\u0259kil\u0259c\u0259yi bir g\u00fcn var. \u00d6vlad\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 o g\u00fcn\u0259 haz\u0131rlamaq ist\u0259yirsinizs\u0259, bu dedikl\u0259rimiz haqq\u0131nda ciddi-ciddi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259lisiniz. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn, do\u011fru istiqam\u0259td\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259k d\u0259 ibad\u0259tdir. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn, Allah k\u00f6m\u0259yiniz olsun!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\u018fn yax\u015f\u0131 t\u0259rbiy\u0259 \u00f6rn\u0259k ola bilm\u0259kdir. Bir \u015feyi y\u00fcz d\u0259f\u0259 dem\u0259kd\u0259ns\u0259, bir d\u0259f\u0259 ya\u015fayaraq g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259k daha t\u0259sirli v\u0259 inand\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 olur. Ail\u0259d\u0259 u\u015faqlar b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u00fcr, onlar\u0131n t\u0259rbiy\u0259si valideynl\u0259rin \u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131d\u0131r. T\u0259bii ki, b\u00fct\u00fcn valideynl\u0259r \u00f6z \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6z\u0259l t\u0259rbiy\u0259 il\u0259 sa\u011flam yeti\u015fm\u0259sini arzu edirl\u0259r. \u201cG\u00f6z\u0259l t\u0259rbiy\u0259\u201d dedikd\u0259, \u0259lb\u0259tt\u0259, ilk n\u00f6vb\u0259d\u0259 adam\u0131n a\u011fl\u0131na \u0259dal\u0259tli olmaq, haqq\u0131n t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259 durmaq, ba\u015fqalar\u0131na qar\u015f\u0131 s\u0259mimi, t\u0259vaz\u00f6kar davranmaq, insanlara xeyir verm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaq, z\u00fclm\u0259 boyun \u0259ym\u0259m\u0259k… kimi keyfiyy\u0259tl\u0259r g\u0259lir. Bu sayd\u0131qlar\u0131m\u0131n i\u00e7\u0259risind\u0259 \u0259dal\u0259t v\u0259 t\u0259vaz\u00f6karl\u0131q, he\u00e7 \u015f\u00fcbh\u0259siz, \u00e7ox m\u00fch\u00fcm yer tutur. \u018fslin\u0259 qalanda \u0259ks\u0259r m\u00fcsb\u0259t keyfiyy\u0259tl\u0259r eyni a\u011fac\u0131n budaqlar\u0131…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":59612,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/uzr-istemek.jpg",400,280,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/uzr-istemek.jpg",400,280,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/uzr-istemek.jpg",400,280,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/uzr-istemek-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/uzr-istemek-300x210.jpg",300,210,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/uzr-istemek.jpg",400,280,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/uzr-istemek.jpg",400,280,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/uzr-istemek.jpg",400,280,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/uzr-istemek-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/uzr-istemek.jpg",400,280,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"\u018fn yax\u015f\u0131 t\u0259rbiy\u0259 \u00f6rn\u0259k ola bilm\u0259kdir. Bir \u015feyi y\u00fcz d\u0259f\u0259 dem\u0259kd\u0259ns\u0259, bir d\u0259f\u0259 ya\u015fayaraq g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259k daha t\u0259sirli v\u0259 inand\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 olur. Ail\u0259d\u0259 u\u015faqlar b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u00fcr, onlar\u0131n t\u0259rbiy\u0259si valideynl\u0259rin \u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131d\u0131r. T\u0259bii ki, b\u00fct\u00fcn valideynl\u0259r \u00f6z \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6z\u0259l t\u0259rbiy\u0259 il\u0259 sa\u011flam yeti\u015fm\u0259sini arzu edirl\u0259r. \u201cG\u00f6z\u0259l t\u0259rbiy\u0259\u201d dedikd\u0259, \u0259lb\u0259tt\u0259, ilk n\u00f6vb\u0259d\u0259 adam\u0131n a\u011fl\u0131na \u0259dal\u0259tli olmaq, haqq\u0131n t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259 durmaq,…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/59611"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=59611"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/59611\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/59612"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=59611"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=59611"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=59611"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}