D\u00f6y\u00fcl\u0259n u\u015faqlar kinli olur.\u00a0D\u00f6ym\u0259k, u\u015faqlar\u0131 n\u0259zar\u0259td\u0259 saxlamaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn tez-tez istifad\u0259 edil\u0259n \u00fcsullardan biridir.<\/p>\n
B\u0259z\u0259n valideynl\u0259r d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcb yax\u015f\u0131 yollar axtarmaq \u0259v\u0259zin\u0259 daha asan olan fiziki g\u00fcc t\u0259dbiq etm\u0259yi se\u00e7irl\u0259r.<\/p>\n
T\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, bu tip \u201ct\u0259rbiy\u0259\u201d \u00fcsulu \u00f6lk\u0259mizd\u0259 \u00e7ox istifad\u0259 olunur. Bu \u00fcsul u\u015faqda vicdan v\u0259 \u0259xlaq\u0131n z\u0259if \u00a0formala\u015fmas\u0131na g\u0259tirib \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131r. M\u00fcasir d\u00f6vrd\u0259 insan s\u0259rb\u0259st d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u0259 bilm\u0259li, h\u0259r v\u0259ziyy\u0259t uy\u011funla\u015fma\u011f\u0131 bacarmal\u0131d\u0131r. D\u00f6y\u00fcl\u0259n u\u015faqlarda is\u0259 bu al\u0131nm\u0131r. Bel\u0259 u\u015faqlar daha kinli olur.<\/p>\n
U\u015fa\u011f\u0131n d\u00f6y\u00fcl\u0259r\u0259k c\u0259zaland\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131 vicdan\u0131n\u0131n z\u0259if formala\u015fmas\u0131na g\u0259tirib \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnki:<\/strong><\/p>\n – U\u015faq d\u0259c\u0259llik ed\u0259rk\u0259n d\u00f6y\u00fcl\u0259rs\u0259, etdiyinin qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 art\u0131q \u00f6d\u0259diyini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr v\u0259 bu zaman h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259rini, davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fcz\u0259ltm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn s\u0259y gost\u0259rm\u0259yi vacib saym\u0131r.<\/p>\n – D\u00f6y\u00fclm\u0259k u\u015faqda valideynl\u0259rin\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 aqressiya formala\u015fd\u0131r\u0131r. U\u015faq etdiyinin pis bir \u015fey oldu\u011funu bilib \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00fcnahkar hiss etm\u0259k \u0259v\u0259zin\u0259 onu d\u00f6y\u0259ni g\u00fcnahland\u0131r\u0131r.<\/p>\n – U\u015fa\u011f\u0131n valideynl\u0259rind\u0259n daha z\u0259if, g\u00fccs\u00fcz, aciz oldu\u011funu bu formada \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259si onu utand\u0131r\u0131r v\u0259 sars\u0131d\u0131r. O, valideynl\u0259rin\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 g\u00fcv\u0259nini itirir.<\/p>\n – U\u015faq valideynl\u0259rinin davran\u0131\u015f\u0131nlar\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259qlid ed\u0259r\u0259k probleml\u0259rini t\u0259cav\u00fczkarl\u0131qla h\u0259ll etm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r. \u018fs\u0259bl\u0259\u015f\u0259nd\u0259 d\u00f6ym\u0259y\u0259 \u0259l at\u0131r. Bel\u0259likl\u0259 fiziki c\u0259za u\u015fa\u011fa vicdanl\u0131 olmama\u011f\u0131 \u00f6yr\u0259dir!<\/p>\n – B\u0259zi hallarda valideynl\u0259r u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 s\u0259hv bir h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259td\u0259n qorumaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn vurmaqdan ba\u015fqa \u00e7ar\u0259 tapa bilmirl\u0259r. \u018fg\u0259r valideynl\u0259r u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 d\u00f6ym\u0259y\u0259 m\u0259cbur qal\u0131rlarsa, he\u00e7 olmasa a\u015fa\u011f\u0131dak\u0131 qeydl\u0259ri n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 als\u0131nlar:<\/p>\n – Deyil\u0259n s\u00f6z\u00fc ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015f\u0259n 6 ya\u015fdan yuxar\u0131 olan u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 vurma\u011f\u0131n g\u0259r\u0259yi d\u0259, faydas\u0131 da yoxdur.<\/p>\n S\u00f6zl\u0259 anlamayan u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n arxas\u0131ndan v\u0259 ya \u0259lind\u0259n bir-iki sill\u0259 vurmaq b\u0259sdir. Ba\u015fa – \u00fcz\u0259 sill\u0259 vurmaq, k\u0259m\u0259r, \u00e7ubuq kimi \u015feyl\u0259rl\u0259 d\u00f6ym\u0259k \u00e7ox z\u0259r\u0259rlidir. Bu ana-ataya deyil, z\u00fcl\u00fcmkara yara\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n U\u015fa\u011f\u0131 d\u00f6ym\u0259yin \u0259slind\u0259 z\u0259r\u0259rli oldu\u011funu anlamaq v\u0259 buna ancaq a\u015fa\u011f\u0131dak\u0131 hallarda son \u00e7ar\u0259 kimi \u0259l atmaq olar:<\/strong><\/p>\n – U\u015faq ba\u015fqas\u0131na q\u0259sd\u0259n v\u0259 bil\u0259r\u0259k z\u0259r\u0259r ver\u0259rs\u0259;<\/p>\n – Davaml\u0131 x\u0259b\u0259rdarl\u0131\u011fa baxmayaraq pis h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tind\u0259 israr edirs\u0259 (m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, elektrik c\u0259r\u0259yan\u0131 il\u0259, qazla oynamaq).<\/p>\n Yen\u0259 d\u0259, \u0259sas qaydam\u0131z\u0131 t\u0259krarlayaq:<\/strong><\/p>\n \u018flinizd\u0259n g\u0259ldiyi q\u0259d\u0259r u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 d\u00f6ym\u0259kd\u0259n uzaq olma\u011fa, s\u00f6z ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015f\u0259n ya\u015fda s\u00f6zl\u0259 izah etm\u0259y\u0259, d\u00f6ym\u0259yi faydas\u0131 oldu\u011fu zaman se\u00e7m\u0259y\u0259, \u0259s\u0259b v\u0259 g\u0259rginlik ke\u00e7irdikd\u0259 fiziki g\u00fcc\u00fc q\u0259ti t\u0259dbiq etm\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n.<\/strong><\/p>\n Sonda is\u0259 onu dem\u0259k ist\u0259yir\u0259m ki, u\u015faq sahibi olmaq b\u00f6y\u00fck bir m\u0259suliyy\u0259tdir. Ana v\u0259 ata birg\u0259 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n t\u0259rbiy\u0259sin\u0259 ciddi fikir verm\u0259lidirl\u0259r.<\/em><\/p>\n \u0130nan\u0131n, n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r m\u00fcmk\u00fcns\u00fcz g\u00f6r\u00fcns\u0259 d\u0259, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 x\u0259t\u0259r yetirm\u0259d\u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fctm\u0259k m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr.<\/em><\/p>\n \u201cNARINC\u201d U\u015faq Psixologiya M\u0259rk\u0259zinin\u00a0r\u0259hb\u0259ri, psixoloq Nar\u0131nc R\u00fcst\u0259mova<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" D\u00f6y\u00fcl\u0259n u\u015faqlar kinli olur.\u00a0D\u00f6ym\u0259k, u\u015faqlar\u0131 n\u0259zar\u0259td\u0259 saxlamaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn tez-tez istifad\u0259 edil\u0259n \u00fcsullardan biridir. B\u0259z\u0259n valideynl\u0259r d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcb yax\u015f\u0131 yollar axtarmaq \u0259v\u0259zin\u0259 daha asan olan fiziki g\u00fcc t\u0259dbiq etm\u0259yi se\u00e7irl\u0259r. T\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, bu tip \u201ct\u0259rbiy\u0259\u201d \u00fcsulu \u00f6lk\u0259mizd\u0259 \u00e7ox istifad\u0259 olunur. Bu \u00fcsul u\u015faqda vicdan v\u0259 \u0259xlaq\u0131n z\u0259if \u00a0formala\u015fmas\u0131na g\u0259tirib \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131r. M\u00fcasir d\u00f6vrd\u0259 insan s\u0259rb\u0259st d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u0259 bilm\u0259li, h\u0259r…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":60924,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-60923","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-cmiyyt"],"aioseo_notices":[],"aioseo_head":"\n\t\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t