Bak\u0131da anadan olub. Orta m\u0259kt\u0259bi bitirdikd\u0259n sonra t\u0259hsilini ADA Universitetind\u0259 \u0130nformasiya Texnologiyalar\u0131 v\u0259 Sisteml\u0259r M\u00fch\u0259ndisliyi ixtisas\u0131 \u00fczr\u0259 davam etdirib. H\u0259m\u00e7inin, Az\u0259rbaycan D\u00f6vl\u0259t \u0130qtisad Universitetind\u0259 biznesin idar\u0259 edilm\u0259si \u00fczr\u0259 magistr t\u0259hsili al\u0131b. Daha sonra t\u0259hsil ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 universitetl\u0259rd\u0259 v\u0259 \u00f6z\u0259l kurslarda m\u00fc\u0259llim kimi \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131b.<\/p>\n
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\u201cU\u015faqlar\u0131n h\u0259yatlar\u0131n\u0131 d\u0259yi\u015fdiyimi f\u0259rq etdim\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n – Rasim b\u0259y, ilk m\u00fc\u0259llimlik t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259niz 1-ci kursda olub. M\u00fc\u0259llim olma\u011fa o zaman q\u0259rar verdiniz, yoxsa \u0259vv\u0259ld\u0259n plan\u0131n\u0131zda var idi?<\/strong><\/p>\n – \u00a0\u018fvv\u0259ld\u0259n planla\u015fd\u0131rmam\u0131\u015fd\u0131m. H\u0259tta u\u015faq vaxt\u0131 deyirdim ki, yax\u015f\u0131 ki, 3-c\u00fc qrupu se\u00e7m\u0259mi\u015f\u0259m, yoxsa m\u00fc\u0259llim olard\u0131m. Birinci kursda oxuyanda ADA il\u0259 T\u0259hsil Nazirliyinin layih\u0259si var idi. Professor Fuad Hac\u0131yev \u0130T \u00fczr\u0259 bilikl\u0259ri art\u0131rmaq v\u0259 \u015fagirdl\u0259rd\u0259 \u0130T-y\u0259 maraq yaratmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bizi m\u0259kt\u0259bl\u0259r\u0259 g\u00f6nd\u0259rirdi. \u00d6yr\u0259ndikl\u0259rimizi \u015fagirdl\u0259r\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259dirdik. Yad\u0131mdad\u0131r, ilk d\u0259rsd\u0259 sinifd\u0259 3-4 \u015fagird var idi. \u0130kinci d\u0259rsd\u0259 is\u0259 art\u0131q 20 \u015fagird\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259llimlik edirdim. Bu pe\u015f\u0259y\u0259 maraq da m\u0259hz o zaman yarand\u0131. \u00c7\u00fcnki orada bir ne\u00e7\u0259 \u015fagird var idi ki, d\u0259rsl\u0259rimd\u0259n sonra informatika olimpiadalar\u0131nda yer tutdu. Dig\u0259r \u015fagirdim is\u0259 dedi ki, \u201cTam ba\u015fqa sah\u0259d\u0259 t\u0259hsil alma\u011f\u0131 planla\u015fd\u0131r\u0131rd\u0131m, indi \u0130T t\u0259hsili almaq ist\u0259yir\u0259m\u201d. U\u015faqlar\u0131n h\u0259yatlar\u0131n\u0131 d\u0259yi\u015fdiyimi f\u0259rq etdim. Bu, m\u00fc\u0259llim s\u0259n\u0259tini sevm\u0259y\u0259 kifay\u0259t edirdi.<\/p>\n – Bu pe\u015f\u0259 il\u0259 insanlar\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131na toxuna bilm\u0259k c\u0259lbedici idi?<\/strong><\/p>\n – B\u0259li. \u015eagirdin yad\u0131nda qalmaq, g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k h\u0259yat\u0131nda ona m\u00fcsb\u0259t m\u0259nada t\u0259sir ed\u0259 bilm\u0259k c\u0259lbedicidir. B\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259 eqoist s\u0259sl\u0259nir, amma bu, m\u0259n\u0259 motivasiya verirdi. M\u0259n d\u0259rs ke\u00e7\u0259n vaxt \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc konsertd\u0259 m\u00fc\u011f\u0259nni kimi hiss edir\u0259m. T\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcr edin, sinifd\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131nda \u0259n az 20 n\u0259f\u0259r t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259 s\u0259ni dinl\u0259yir v\u0259 \u00e7\u0131x\u0131\u015f edirs\u0259n. El\u0259 performans g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259liy\u0259m ki, o \u015fagirdl\u0259rin yad\u0131ndan uzun m\u00fcdd\u0259t \u00e7\u0131xmas\u0131n. H\u0259r detala fikir verir\u0259m ki, t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259l\u0259r d\u0259rsi \u201cvao\u201d hissi il\u0259 bitirsinl\u0259r.<\/p>\n \u201cBu ixtisasa sev\u0259r\u0259k g\u0259l\u0259nl\u0259r azd\u0131r\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n – S\u0259n\u0259tinizin vur\u011funusunuz. Bir ne\u00e7\u0259 il bundan \u00f6nc\u0259y\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r m\u00fc\u0259llimlik s\u0259n\u0259tinin \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259ti d\u0259rk edilmir, daha az bal toplad\u0131qlar\u0131, yaxud \u201cq\u0131z s\u0259n\u0259ti\u201d kimi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fckl\u0259ri \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bu sah\u0259y\u0259 \u00fcz tuturdular. N\u0259 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bu pe\u015f\u0259y\u0259 sev\u0259r\u0259k yiy\u0259l\u0259n\u0259nl\u0259r azd\u0131r?<\/strong><\/p>\n – T\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, m\u00fc\u0259llimlikl\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 bel\u0259 fikirl\u0259r m\u00f6vcuddur. Amma haz\u0131rda bu pe\u015f\u0259nin prestijini art\u0131rmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn modell\u0259r t\u0259tbiq edilir. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, Pedaqoji Universitetl\u0259 Amerikan\u0131n Corc Va\u015finqton Universitetinin birlikd\u0259 layih\u0259si var. Y\u0259ni orada t\u0259hsil alan m\u00fc\u0259lliml\u0259r iki diploma sahib ola bilirl\u0259r. Qazaxda M\u00fc\u0259lliml\u0259r Seminariyas\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131ld\u0131. D\u00f6vl\u0259t m\u00fc\u0259llimliyin prestijini qald\u0131rmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn maksimum d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259d\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r. Lakin insanlar\u0131n d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259sind\u0259 bunu d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259k vaxt apar\u0131r. \u201cQad\u0131nsansa, m\u00fc\u0259llim olmal\u0131san\u201d kimi stereotipl\u0259rimiz h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 var. Bu ixtisasa sev\u0259r\u0259k g\u0259l\u0259nl\u0259r azd\u0131r, \u00e7\u00fcnki orta m\u0259kt\u0259bl\u0259rd\u0259 g\u00f6rd\u00fckl\u0259ri bu s\u0259n\u0259t\u0259 d\u0131rnaqaras\u0131 baxd\u0131r\u0131r. S\u0259b\u0259b odur ki, m\u0259kt\u0259bl\u0259rin d\u0259 \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259tind\u0259 sev\u0259r\u0259k, s\u0259n\u0259tini layiqinc\u0259 t\u0259msil ed\u0259nl\u0259r azd\u0131r. M\u0259n m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259n universitet\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259nd\u0259, sanki ba\u015fqa d\u00fcnyaya d\u00fc\u015fm\u00fc\u015fd\u00fcm. M\u00fc\u0259lliml\u0259r tam f\u0259rqli idi. D\u00fczd\u00fcr, orta m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259 d\u0259 \u00e7ox yax\u015f\u0131 m\u00fc\u0259lliml\u0259rim olub, amma bu r\u0259q\u0259m az idi. Bel\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259lliml\u0259r \u00e7ox olsa, bu pe\u015f\u0259y\u0259 d\u0259 sevgi, maraq \u00e7oxalacaq. \u018fg\u0259r \u015fagird 9-cu sinifd\u0259n sonra repetitor yan\u0131na gedir, m\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259 g\u0259lm\u0259k ist\u0259mirs\u0259, bu pe\u015f\u0259nin \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259tini nec\u0259 d\u0259rk etsin?<\/p>\n \u201cM\u00fc\u0259llimi menecer kimi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u0259 bil\u0259rik\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n – B\u0259s sizc\u0259, \u0259sl m\u00fc\u0259llimlik n\u0259dir? M\u00fc\u0259llimd\u0259 hans\u0131 keyfiyy\u0259tl\u0259r m\u00fctl\u0259q olmal\u0131d\u0131r?\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n – M\u0259nc\u0259, m\u00fc\u0259llimi menecer kimi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u0259 bil\u0259rik. Sinfind\u0259 olan t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259l\u0259ri is\u0259 onun i\u015f\u00e7il\u0259ridir. M\u00fc\u0259llim \u015fagirdl\u0259rin qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131na \u201cBu g\u00fcn bunlar\u0131 etm\u0259lis\u0259n\u201d kimi \u015f\u0259rtl\u0259r qoysa, bu, m\u00fcdirlikdir. Bu i\u015fi g\u00f6rm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn motivasiya verib, onda inam yaratsa, bu, liderlikdir. M\u00fc\u0259llim m\u00fcdir yox, lider olmal\u0131d\u0131r. M\u00fc\u0259llimd\u0259 olan keyfiyy\u0259tl\u0259r\u0259 g\u0259ldikd\u0259 is\u0259, \u0259n \u0259sas\u0131 h\u0259ssas olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Y\u0259ni siz \u015fagirdin n\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcy\u00fcn\u00fc anlamal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. H\u0259ssas olmayan insan m\u00fc\u0259llim ola bilm\u0259z. H\u0259m\u00e7inin, empatiya hissin olmal\u0131d\u0131r. T\u00fcrk professor deyir ki, t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259nin, yaxud \u015fagirdin \u00fcr\u0259yin\u0259 girm\u0259d\u0259n beynin\u0259 girm\u0259k m\u00fcmk\u00fcn deyil. \u018fg\u0259r o, sizi sevmirs\u0259, d\u0259rsd\u0259 oturacaq v\u0259 sizi dinl\u0259m\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k. F\u0259nni sevs\u0259 bel\u0259, sizi sevmirs\u0259, \u00f6yr\u0259n\u0259 bilm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k. \u018fsl m\u00fc\u0259llim t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc sevdirm\u0259yi bacarmal\u0131d\u0131r. D\u0259rs dem\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn laz\u0131m olan dig\u0259r n\u00fcanslar\u0131 \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259k m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr. \u00c7ox adam deyir ki, m\u00fc\u0259llim m\u00fctl\u0259q t\u0259dris etdiyi sah\u0259nin alimi olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Xeyr. H\u0259ssasl\u0131q v\u0259 empatiya m\u00fc\u0259llimin alim olmas\u0131ndan \u00f6n\u0259mlidir. H\u0259min ilin proqram\u0131n\u0131 bilm\u0259si kifay\u0259tdir. M\u0259kt\u0259b m\u00fc\u0259llimi professor deyil. Professor universitetd\u0259 olur. Anatomiya d\u0259rsi deyirs\u0259, o dem\u0259k deyil ki, bu adam h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131 Tibb Universitetind\u0259 laboratoriyalarda ke\u00e7irib. O, sad\u0259c\u0259 universitetd\u0259 biologiyan\u0131 \u00f6yr\u0259nib. Amma s\u0259n\u0259 f\u0259nni sevdirm\u0259kl\u0259 ara\u015fd\u0131rma\u011fa h\u0259v\u0259s yarada bil\u0259r. Y\u0259ni, m\u00fc\u0259llim d\u0259 n\u0259yis\u0259 bilm\u0259y\u0259, \u00f6yr\u0259n\u0259 bil\u0259r. Amma b\u0259zi x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259tl\u0259r var ki, onlar \u00e7ox vacibdir v\u0259 \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259nilm\u0259lidir.<\/p>\n \u201cHe\u00e7 bir m\u00fc\u0259llimin buna haqq\u0131 yoxdur\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n – \u015eagird oldu\u011funuz d\u00f6vrl\u0259rd\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259lliml\u0259rinizin hans\u0131 x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259ti var ki, onu bu g\u00fcn t\u0259tbiq edirsiniz, yaxud hans\u0131n\u0131 he\u00e7 vaxt t\u0259tbiq etm\u0259zsiniz?<\/strong><\/p>\n – Yuxar\u0131da sayd\u0131\u011f\u0131m n\u00fcanslar h\u0259yat t\u0259rzim\u0259 \u00e7evrilib. D\u0259rs\u0259 ba\u015flayanda d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u0259m ki, \u0259n az\u0131ndan t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259l\u0259rin 80 faizi m\u0259ni sevm\u0259lidir. He\u00e7 vaxt etm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259yim m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259y\u0259 g\u0259ldikd\u0259 is\u0259, son vaxtlar sosial mediada qar\u015f\u0131ma m\u00fc\u0259llim-\u015fagird konfliktl\u0259ri \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r. S\u00f6y\u00fc\u015f, \u015fidd\u0259t – videolarda h\u0259r \u015fey var. S\u00f6zs\u00fcz ki, bunu da ara\u015fd\u0131rsaq, g\u00f6r\u0259rik ki, t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259llimi sevmir v\u0259 d\u0259rsi pozmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u0259lind\u0259n g\u0259l\u0259n edir. Dig\u0259r t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259n, Az\u0259rbaycanda m\u00fc\u0259lliml\u0259r v\u0259 valideynl\u0259r aras\u0131nda sovet d\u00f6vr\u00fcnd\u0259n qalan b\u0259zi x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259tl\u0259r var. Onlardan \u0259n \u00e7ox yay\u0131lan\u0131 \u201cM\u00fc\u0259llim \u015fagirdi d\u00f6y\u0259 bil\u0259r\u201d kimi fikirl\u0259rdir. Bununla raz\u0131 deyil\u0259m. T\u0259l\u0259b\u0259nin, yaxud \u015fagirdin yolda\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n yan\u0131nda ist\u0259r d\u0259rsl\u0259, ist\u0259rs\u0259 d\u0259 davran\u0131\u015fla ba\u011fl\u0131 aya\u011fa qald\u0131r\u0131l\u0131b, utanc obyektin\u0259 \u00e7evrilm\u0259sini he\u00e7 vaxt etm\u0259r\u0259m. Xo\u015fb\u0259xtlikd\u0259n \u015fagird olanda ba\u015f\u0131ma g\u0259lm\u0259yib, amma sinif yolda\u015flar\u0131mda g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015f\u0259m. T\u0259bii ki, \u015fagirdl\u0259rl\u0259 problemi h\u0259ll etm\u0259nin alternativ yollar\u0131 var. D\u0259rsd\u0259n sonra h\u0259min u\u015faqla t\u0259k qal\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z v\u0259 f\u0259rdi olaraq dan\u0131\u015f\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z. Problemin n\u0259 oldu\u011fu, ona nec\u0259 k\u00f6m\u0259k ed\u0259c\u0259yinizl\u0259 maraqlan\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z. Camaat\u0131n i\u00e7ind\u0259 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131b al\u00e7altmaq d\u00fczg\u00fcn deyil. Sizin qar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdak\u0131 b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u0259n \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259tdir. He\u00e7 bir m\u00fc\u0259llimin \u015fagirdin psixologiyas\u0131n\u0131 korlama\u011fa haqq\u0131 yoxdur. \u018fmin\u0259m ki, Az\u0259rbaycanda d\u00f6vl\u0259t m\u0259kt\u0259bl\u0259rind\u0259 t\u0259hsil alanlar\u0131n 99 faizi bununla rastla\u015f\u0131b.<\/p>\n – Rasim b\u0259y, n\u0259 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn Niderlanda getm\u0259y\u0259 q\u0259rar verdiniz?<\/strong><\/p>\n – M\u00fc\u0259lliml\u0259rimin \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259tinin Niderlandda ya magistr, ya doktorantura t\u0259hsili var idi. Buran\u0131n universitetl\u0259ri d\u00fcnyan\u0131n top universitetl\u0259ri s\u0131ras\u0131ndad\u0131r. \u00c7al\u0131\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131m yer reputasiyas\u0131na g\u00f6r\u0259 \u0259n ideal universitetl\u0259rd\u0259n biridir. T\u0259l\u0259b\u0259 vaxt\u0131 Niderland\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcb, sevmi\u015fdim. O zaman q\u0259rar verdim ki, buraya m\u00fctl\u0259q g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259y\u0259m. Az\u0259rbaycanda m\u00fc\u0259llim \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn n\u0259 laz\u0131md\u0131rsa, b\u00fct\u00fcn pill\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259dim. N\u00f6vb\u0259ti pill\u0259 Niderland idi. Haz\u0131rda buradak\u0131 t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259ni \u00f6yr\u0259nir\u0259m.<\/p>\n \u201cProblemimiz \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc k\u0259\u015ff etm\u0259m\u0259kdir\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n – B\u0259zi insanlar d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrl\u0259r ki, inki\u015faf etmi\u015f \u00f6lk\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 olan t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259l\u0259r \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259 daha \u00e7ox meyillidirl\u0259r. Niderland t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259l\u0259ri il\u0259 az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131 t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259l\u0259rin f\u0259rqi n\u0259dir?<\/strong><\/p>\n – Bizim t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259l\u0259r \u00e7al\u0131\u015fqanl\u0131q bax\u0131m\u0131ndan buradak\u0131 t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 eyni, h\u0259tta bir \u00e7ox hallarda \u00fcst\u00fcnd\u00fcrl\u0259r. T\u0259k f\u0259rq odur ki, burada olan t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259l\u0259r se\u00e7iml\u0259rini ist\u0259y\u0259r\u0259k v\u0259 sev\u0259r\u0259k edibl\u0259r. Burada davamiyy\u0259t anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131 yoxdur. Siz Az\u0259rbaycanda universitetd\u0259 bunun olmama\u011f\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcr edirsiniz? He\u00e7 kim d\u0259rs\u0259 g\u0259lm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k. Burada is\u0259, \u0259ksin\u0259, sinfimd\u0259 oturma\u011fa yer olmur, \u0259lav\u0259 stul g\u0259tirirl\u0259r. \u00c7\u00fcnki t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259l\u0259r n\u0259yi n\u0259 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn se\u00e7dikl\u0259rini bilirl\u0259r. Bunun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn d\u0259 \u00f6z pe\u015f\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259 u\u011furlu olurlar. N\u0259 bacar\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda problem var, n\u0259 a\u011fl\u0131m\u0131zda, n\u0259 d\u0259 d\u00fcnyag\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm\u00fczd\u0259. AB\u015e-d\u0259 \u00f6lk\u0259l\u0259rini x\u0259rit\u0259d\u0259 g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259 bilm\u0259y\u0259n t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259l\u0259r var. Bizim t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259l\u0259r, h\u0259tta ba\u011f\u00e7ada u\u015faqlar bel\u0259, AB\u015e-ni d\u0259 g\u00f6st\u0259rir, \u0259traf\u0131ndak\u0131 adalar\u0131 da. Bizim problemimiz \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc k\u0259\u015ff etm\u0259m\u0259kdir. G\u0259l\u0259c\u0259yi arzulamaq anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u0131z da yoxdur. \u018fks\u0259riyy\u0259tinin m\u0259qs\u0259di hans\u0131 ixtisas\u0131n olmas\u0131ndan f\u0259rqli olmayaraq diplom almaqd\u0131r.<\/p>\n – N\u0259 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bel\u0259dir?\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n – Biz pe\u015f\u0259 se\u00e7imini 17 ya\u015f\u0131nda edirik. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u0259m ki, bu ya\u015fda d\u00fczg\u00fcn q\u0259rar verm\u0259k m\u00fcmk\u00fcn deyil. \u00c7\u00fcnki insan h\u0259l\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc tan\u0131m\u0131r. Problem odur ki, biz d\u0259yi\u015fiklik etm\u0259kd\u0259 d\u0259 \u00e7\u0259tinlik \u00e7\u0259kirik. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc burada tapm\u0131r\u0131qsa, d\u0259yi\u015fmir, qism\u0259t deyib raz\u0131la\u015f\u0131r\u0131q. \u00d6yr\u0259nm\u0259yin ya\u015f\u0131 yoxdur. Niderlandda el\u0259 vaxt olub ki, m\u00fc\u0259llim olaraq auditoriyada \u0259n g\u0259nci m\u0259n olmu\u015fam. Onlar bakalavr oxuma\u011fa 35 ya\u015fda g\u0259libl\u0259r. \u0130kinci m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259, valideyn m\u00fcdaxil\u0259sidir. M\u0259n kursda i\u015fl\u0259y\u0259nd\u0259, \u015fagirdl\u0259r\u0259 bacar\u0131qlar, imtahanlarla ba\u011fl\u0131 z\u0259ng edir, onlar\u0131 seminarlara d\u0259v\u0259t edirdik. Ana olurdu ki, telefonda m\u0259n\u0259 deyirdi ki, \u201cQ\u0131z\u0131m keydir, o he\u00e7 n\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259n\u0259 bilm\u0259z, m\u0259ni yormay\u0131n\u201d. Valideynin \u00f6z \u00f6vlad\u0131na inam\u0131 yoxdursa, bunu d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259k \u00e7\u0259tindir. Ata olub ki, s\u0131naq n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259rini bildirm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn z\u0259ng etmi\u015fik, deyib ki, \u201cS\u0259n kims\u0259n q\u0131z\u0131ma z\u0259ng edirs\u0259n, n\u00f6mr\u0259sini sil, q\u0131z\u0131ma sabah-biri g\u00fcn el\u00e7i g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k, n\u0259 kurs?\u201d Savadl\u0131l\u0131q c\u0259h\u0259td\u0259n qon\u015fuluqdak\u0131 b\u00fct\u00fcn \u00f6lk\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n \u00fcst\u00fcn\u00fck, amma stereotipl\u0259r biz\u0259 inki\u015faf etm\u0259y\u0259 imkan vermir. Ail\u0259l\u0259r u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131n yerin\u0259 q\u0259rar verir, onlara inanm\u0131r v\u0259 ba\u015fqa istiqam\u0259tl\u0259r\u0259 y\u00f6n\u0259ldirl\u0259r. B\u0259zi u\u015faqlar is\u0259 \u015fansl\u0131 ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 do\u011fulublar v\u0259 n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259ri d\u0259 g\u00f6z qaba\u011f\u0131ndad\u0131r.<\/p>\n \u201cT\u0259l\u0259b\u0259 d\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259llimi \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259 m\u0259cbur edir\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n – Rasim b\u0259y, m\u00fc\u0259llimlik f\u0259aliyy\u0259tinizd\u0259 daim \u00f6yr\u0259tmisiniz. B\u0259s t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259l\u0259rinizd\u0259n n\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259nmisiniz?\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n – Zaman ke\u00e7dikc\u0259, m\u00fc\u0259llimlik anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131 d\u0259yi\u015fir. B\u0259zi insanlar d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr ki, bir semestrd\u0259 15 m\u00f6vzu var, m\u00fc\u0259llim \u0259zb\u0259rl\u0259yir, \u00f6yr\u0259dir v\u0259 bu, \u00e7ox asand\u0131r. \u0130ndi t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259y\u0259 15 m\u00f6vzu verm\u0259y\u0259 ehtiyac yoxdur. \u00c7\u00fcnki art\u0131q o m\u00f6vzular\u0131n h\u0259r n\u00f6v\u00fcn\u00fc internetd\u0259 tapmaq m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr. M\u00fc\u0259llimin \u0259sas v\u0259zif\u0259si bunu t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7atd\u0131rmaqd\u0131r. H\u0259r t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259 yeni t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259dir. Siz kim\u0259s\u0259 2+2-nin 4 etdiyini izah edirsiniz, amma dig\u0259ri anlam\u0131r. Ona da f\u0259rqli yolla izah etm\u0259lisiniz. Yaxud ba\u015fqa t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259 deyir ki, m\u0259n 4 olmas\u0131 il\u0259 raz\u0131 deyil\u0259m, s\u00fcbut et. Bunun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn daha \u00e7ox ara\u015fd\u0131r\u0131rsan ki, isbat ed\u0259s\u0259n. T\u0259l\u0259b\u0259 d\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259llimi \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259 m\u0259cbur edir. M\u0259n b\u00fct\u00fcn t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259l\u0259rimd\u0259n \u00f6yr\u0259nmi\u015f\u0259m. D\u0259f\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 olub ki, verdikl\u0259ri suala cavab verm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00e7ox uzun ara\u015fd\u0131rmalar etmi\u015f\u0259m. El\u0259 t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259 olub ki, ail\u0259si il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 \u00e7\u0259tin anlardan ke\u00e7ib, h\u0259min vaxt psixoloqluq etm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015fam. B\u0259zil\u0259rin\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259tm\u0259yin f\u0259rqli yolunu k\u0259\u015ff etmi\u015f\u0259m. Bu m\u00fcdd\u0259td\u0259 daim \u00f6z\u00fcm d\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259nmi\u015f\u0259m.<\/p>\n – Sizin haqq\u0131n\u0131zda h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 iddial\u0131 u\u015faq olub deyirl\u0259r. Bu xarakteriniz karyeran\u0131zda tramplin olubmu?<\/strong><\/p>\n – \u018fg\u0259r n\u0259yis\u0259 ist\u0259yir\u0259ms\u0259, onu \u0259ld\u0259 etm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00e7ox \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131ram. Al\u0131nmasa bel\u0259, vicdan\u0131m rahat olur ki, \u00e7al\u0131\u015fd\u0131m, al\u0131nmad\u0131. Valideynl\u0259rim deyir ki, 3 ya\u015f\u0131mda F\u00fczulinin \u201cm\u0259ni candan usand\u0131rd\u0131\u201d q\u0259z\u0259lini \u0259vv\u0259ld\u0259n ax\u0131ra kimi deyirdim. Tez dan\u0131\u015fmaq, \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaq, \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc s\u00fcbut etm\u0259k iddial\u0131 olmaqdan ir\u0259li g\u0259lib. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, 1-ci kursda dedim ki, Niderlanda k\u00f6\u00e7m\u0259liy\u0259m v\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259llim olmal\u0131yam. Bura g\u0259lm\u0259yi o q\u0259d\u0259r beynim\u0259 qoymu\u015fdum ki, indi maill\u0259rim\u0259 bax\u0131ram, 1 il \u0259rzind\u0259 191 d\u0259f\u0259 r\u0259dd cavab\u0131 alm\u0131\u015fam. Bu, m\u0259ni yolumdan d\u00f6nd\u0259rm\u0259di. \u0130ndi is\u0259 burada t\u0259k m\u00fc\u0259llim deyil\u0259m. 1 il \u0259rzind\u0259 beyn\u0259lxalq biznes fak\u00fclt\u0259sinin birinci kurslar\u0131n\u0131n r\u0259hb\u0259ri, informasiyan\u0131n idar\u0259 olunmas\u0131 d\u0259rsinin d\u0259 elmi, metodik r\u0259hb\u0259ri olma\u011fa nail oldum. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 deyir\u0259m ki, Az\u0259rbaycan insan\u0131 \u00e7ox f\u0259rqlidir. G\u00f6rd\u00fcy\u00fcm\u00fcz \u00e7\u0259tinlikl\u0259r bizi \u0259zmkar olma\u011fa \u00f6yr\u0259dib. Bizim insan\u0131m\u0131z daha \u00e7ox u\u011fur qazanma\u011fa meyillidir. Y\u0259ni biz\u0259 bir qap\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131ld\u0131sa, dig\u0259rl\u0259rini \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz a\u00e7a-a\u00e7a gedirik. Niderlandda v\u0259 dem\u0259k olar d\u00fcnyan\u0131n b\u00fct\u00fcn inki\u015faf etmi\u015f \u00f6lk\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259 h\u0259r universitetd\u0259, h\u0259r top \u015firk\u0259td\u0259 \u0259n az\u0131 bir az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131 i\u015fl\u0259yir. Bu, bizim xalq\u0131n nec\u0259 savadl\u0131, h\u0259r yerd\u0259 u\u011fur qazanan olmas\u0131n\u0131n s\u00fcbutudur.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Niderlandda m\u00fc\u0259llim i\u015fl\u0259y\u0259n az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131 Rasim Mollayev: \u201cD\u0259rs ke\u00e7\u0259n vaxt \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc konsertd\u0259 m\u00fc\u011f\u0259nni kimi hiss edir\u0259m. T\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcr edin, sinifd\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131nda \u0259n az 20 n\u0259f\u0259r t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259 s\u0259ni dinl\u0259yir v\u0259 \u00e7\u0131x\u0131\u015f edirs\u0259n. El\u0259 performans g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259liy\u0259m ki, o \u015fagirdl\u0259rin yad\u0131ndan uzun m\u00fcdd\u0259t \u00e7\u0131xmas\u0131n\u201d. \u018fzmkarl\u0131\u011f\u0131, iddias\u0131, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259g\u00fcv\u0259ni onu daim ir\u0259li apar\u0131b. \u0130\u015f\u0259 q\u0259bul \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn g\u00f6nd\u0259rdiyi elanlardan 191 d\u0259f\u0259 r\u0259dd cavab\u0131 alsa da, yolundan d\u00f6nm\u0259yib. N\u0259hay\u0259t, t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259 vaxt\u0131 qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131na qoydu\u011fu m\u0259qs\u0259din\u0259 \u00e7at\u0131b v\u0259 karyeras\u0131n\u0131 arzulad\u0131\u011f\u0131 m\u00fchitd\u0259 davam etdirib. H\u0259tta 191 d\u0259f\u0259 r\u0259dd cavab\u0131 ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00f6lk\u0259d\u0259 r\u0259hb\u0259r v\u0259zif\u0259y\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r y\u00fcks\u0259lib. \u201cKaspi\u201d\u00a0q\u0259zetinin m\u00fcsahibi\u00a0Niderlandda Haaqa T\u0259tbiqi Elml\u0259r Universitetind\u0259 Beyn\u0259lxalq…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":633700,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/agas.jpg",620,413,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/agas.jpg",620,413,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/agas.jpg",620,413,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/agas-500x280.jpg",500,280,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/agas-548x365.jpg",548,365,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/agas.jpg",620,413,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/agas.jpg",620,413,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/agas.jpg",620,413,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/agas-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/agas.jpg",620,413,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"Niderlandda m\u00fc\u0259llim i\u015fl\u0259y\u0259n az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131 Rasim Mollayev: \u201cD\u0259rs ke\u00e7\u0259n vaxt \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc konsertd\u0259 m\u00fc\u011f\u0259nni kimi hiss edir\u0259m. T\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcr edin, sinifd\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131nda \u0259n az 20 n\u0259f\u0259r t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259 s\u0259ni dinl\u0259yir v\u0259 \u00e7\u0131x\u0131\u015f edirs\u0259n. El\u0259 performans g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259liy\u0259m ki, o \u015fagirdl\u0259rin yad\u0131ndan uzun m\u00fcdd\u0259t \u00e7\u0131xmas\u0131n\u201d. \u018fzmkarl\u0131\u011f\u0131, iddias\u0131, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259g\u00fcv\u0259ni onu daim ir\u0259li apar\u0131b. \u0130\u015f\u0259 q\u0259bul \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn g\u00f6nd\u0259rdiyi elanlardan 191 d\u0259f\u0259 r\u0259dd cavab\u0131…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/633697"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=633697"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/633697\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/633700"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=633697"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=633697"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=633697"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}<\/p>\n
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