{"id":637507,"date":"2023-09-26T09:04:17","date_gmt":"2023-09-26T05:04:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=637507"},"modified":"2023-09-26T09:04:17","modified_gmt":"2023-09-26T05:04:17","slug":"evl%c9%99nm%c9%99k-ucun-ideal-yas-b%c9%99s-saglamliq","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=637507","title":{"rendered":"Evl\u0259nm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ideal ya\u015f – b\u0259s sa\u011flaml\u0131q?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sosioloq: \u201cB\u0259z\u0259n o\u011flanlar 30-32 ya\u015fda da evl\u0259nm\u0259k ist\u0259mir, m\u00fck\u0259mm\u0259l\u00e7i olurlar v\u0259…\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ara\u015fd\u0131rmalar g\u00f6st\u0259rir ki, insan\u0131n evl\u0259ndiyi ya\u015f qurulan evliliyin keyfiyy\u0259tin\u0259 t\u0259sir ed\u0259 bil\u0259r. \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259, orta m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259n v\u0259 ya h\u0259tta kollecd\u0259n d\u0259rhal sonra evl\u0259nm\u0259k, \u00fcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259, yax\u015f\u0131 fikir deyil. Lisenziyal\u0131 klinik sosial i\u015f\u00e7i Kelsey Torgerson ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131 qurma\u011fa haz\u0131rla\u015fan \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259r\u0259 deyir ki, insanlar evl\u0259nm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u0259n az\u0131 25 ya\u015f\u0131na q\u0259d\u0259r g\u00f6zl\u0259m\u0259lidirl\u0259r. Niy\u0259?<\/em><\/p>\n

Onun fikrinc\u0259, 25 ya\u015f\u0131ndan \u0259vv\u0259l beyin tam inki\u015faf etm\u0259diyi \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn insan h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131 olaraq nec\u0259 birini h\u0259yat\u0131nda ist\u0259diyin\u0259 h\u0259l\u0259 \u0259min ola bilm\u0259z. \u018fn az\u0131 25 ya\u015f\u0131na q\u0259d\u0259r g\u00f6zl\u0259m\u0259k g\u0259nc c\u00fctl\u00fcy\u0259 h\u0259m yax\u015f\u0131, h\u0259m d\u0259 pis vaxtlarda uy\u011fun olub-olmad\u0131qlar\u0131na ayd\u0131nl\u0131q g\u0259tir\u0259c\u0259k, \u00e7\u0259tinlikl\u0259ri birlikd\u0259 ya\u015famaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn vaxt ver\u0259c\u0259k.<\/p>\n

M\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r \u00fczr\u0259 ixtisasla\u015fm\u0131\u015f terapevt Veena Cullins is\u0259 bildirib ki, 28 ya\u015fl\u0131 qad\u0131nlar \u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 inamlar\u0131, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc d\u0259rk etm\u0259si v\u0259 h\u0259yat t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259l\u0259ri say\u0259sind\u0259 sa\u011flam evliliy\u0259 daha \u00e7ox haz\u0131r olurlar. Dig\u0259r t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259n, o, ki\u015fil\u0259rin 32 ya\u015f\u0131nda, yetkinl\u0259\u015fib karyeras\u0131na ba\u015flayanda ail\u0259 qurmas\u0131n\u0131n \u0259n m\u00fcnasib zaman oldu\u011funu deyir. Y\u0259ni ideal evlilik ya\u015f\u0131n\u0131n 28 v\u0259 28-d\u0259n yuxar\u0131 oldu\u011fu g\u00f6st\u0259rilir.<\/p>\n

Maraql\u0131d\u0131r ki, 25 ya\u015fdan yuxar\u0131 ail\u0259 quranlar\u0131n 5 il \u0259rzind\u0259 bo\u015fanma ehtimal\u0131 daha a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 ya\u015fda evl\u0259n\u0259nl\u0259r\u0259 nisb\u0259t\u0259n 50 faiz azd\u0131r. Ail\u0259 Ara\u015fd\u0131rmalar\u0131 \u0130nstitutundan Nicholas H.Volfinger t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n apar\u0131lan ara\u015fd\u0131rmaya g\u00f6r\u0259, bo\u015fanma nisb\u0259tl\u0259ri t\u0259xmin\u0259n 30-34 ya\u015flar\u0131nda ilk d\u0259f\u0259 evl\u0259n\u0259n insanlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u0259n a\u015fa\u011f\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

B\u0259s 35 v\u0259 ya daha yuxar\u0131 ya\u015fda ilk d\u0259f\u0259 ail\u0259 quran insanlar haqq\u0131nda n\u0259 dem\u0259k olar? Volfinger bu insanlar\u0131n b\u0259zil\u0259rinin \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259tl\u0259raras\u0131 \u00e7\u0259tinlikl\u0259r s\u0259b\u0259bi il\u0259 t\u0259r\u0259fda\u015f tapmaqda \u00e7\u0259tinlik \u00e7\u0259kdiyini v\u0259 eyni s\u0259b\u0259bd\u0259n bo\u015fanma ehtimal\u0131n\u0131n daha y\u00fcks\u0259k ola bil\u0259c\u0259yini t\u0259klif edir. Lakin b\u00fct\u00fcn ekspertl\u0259r bununla raz\u0131la\u015fm\u0131r. Merilend Universitetinin sosioloqu Filip Cohen qad\u0131nlar\u0131n 45-49 ya\u015flar\u0131 aras\u0131nda ilk d\u0259f\u0259 evl\u0259ndikd\u0259 bo\u015fanma ehtimal\u0131n\u0131n \u0259n az oldu\u011funu v\u0259 bo\u015fanman\u0131n \u0259n vacib proqnozla\u015fd\u0131r\u0131c\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n oldu\u011funu g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259n bir model t\u0259qdim edir. T\u0259hsil s\u0259viyy\u0259si y\u00fcks\u0259k olanlar\u0131n, universitet m\u0259zunlar\u0131n\u0131n bo\u015fanma nisb\u0259tl\u0259ri daha a\u015fa\u011f\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Evlilik \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ideal ya\u015f \u00f6z yerind\u0259, b\u0259s sa\u011flaml\u0131q faktoru? M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, bel\u0259 bir \u201cda\u015fla\u015fm\u0131\u015f\u201d q\u0259na\u0259t var ki, gec ail\u0259 quran qad\u0131nlar\u0131n sa\u011flam \u00f6vlad d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259tirm\u0259k \u015fans\u0131 azal\u0131r, \u00e7\u00fcnki zamanla yan x\u0259st\u0259likl\u0259r meydana \u00e7\u0131xa bil\u0259r, qad\u0131n\u0131n reproduktivlik d\u00f6vr\u00fc is\u0259 \u00e7ox da b\u00f6y\u00fck deyil.<\/p>\n

\u015e\u00fcbh\u0259siz, xo\u015fb\u0259xt olma\u011f\u0131n vahid resepti yoxdur.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cQeyd olunan statistikalar\u0131n h\u0259r birinin bir m\u0259qs\u0259d g\u00fcdd\u00fcy\u00fcn\u00fc d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u0259m. \u00c7\u00fcnki he\u00e7 bir statistika m\u0259qs\u0259dsiz apar\u0131lm\u0131r. X\u00fcsusil\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fck universitetl\u0259rin, institutlar\u0131n, ara\u015fd\u0131rma m\u0259rk\u0259zl\u0259rinin statistikalar\u0131n\u0131n h\u0259r birinin alt\u0131nda gizli m\u0259qs\u0259dl\u0259r var\u201d.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zl\u0259ri \u201cYeni M\u00fcsavat\u201da a\u00e7\u0131qlamas\u0131nda sosioloq Lal\u0259 Mehral\u0131 bildirib. Sosioloq qeyd edib ki, qad\u0131nlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn 23, ki\u015fil\u0259r \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn is\u0259 25 ya\u015f evlilik \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ideal d\u00f6vrd\u00fcr:<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"\u018ft<\/strong><\/p>\n

Lal\u0259 Mehral\u0131\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201c28-30 ya\u015f aras\u0131 evlilik t\u0259r\u0259fdar\u0131 olan hans\u0131sa ara\u015fd\u0131rma\u00e7\u0131, m\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssis bunu \u0259sasland\u0131rmal\u0131d\u0131r, sad\u0259c\u0259, \u015fablon s\u00f6zl\u0259rl\u0259 ifad\u0259 etm\u0259m\u0259lidir ki, bu ya\u015fda evl\u0259n\u0259nl\u0259r aras\u0131nda bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n say\u0131 az olur, daha dayan\u0131ql\u0131 ail\u0259 qurulur v\u0259 sair\u0259. Bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 f\u0259rdd\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131 olaraq d\u0259yi\u015fir.<\/p>\n

\u00dcmumilikd\u0259 28-30 ya\u015f\u0131nda evl\u0259n\u0259n qad\u0131n ail\u0259 qurma\u011fa gecikmi\u015f say\u0131l\u0131r. Hesab edir\u0259m ki, qad\u0131n \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ideal evlilik ya\u015f\u0131 23-d\u00fcr. Bu ya\u015f d\u00f6vr\u00fcnd\u0259 qad\u0131n art\u0131q universitetin bakalavr s\u0259viyy\u0259sini bitirir, i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259k iqtidar\u0131nda olur. Bundan sonra t\u0259hsil s\u0259viyy\u0259sini art\u0131rmaq, magistaturaya v\u0259 dig\u0259r pill\u0259l\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 daxil olmaq ist\u0259yirs\u0259, bunu ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131 qurduqdan sonra da ed\u0259 bil\u0259r. Ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131 buna mane deyil v\u0259 \u0259traf\u0131m\u0131zdan da g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u00fck ki, m\u0259qs\u0259di, m\u0259ram\u0131, h\u0259d\u0259fi olan insan \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn he\u00e7 n\u0259 mane deyil. Sad\u0259c\u0259, b\u0259zi insanlar \u201cail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131 qurdum, t\u0259hsilim v\u0259 yaxud karyeram qald\u0131\u201d kimi b\u0259han\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 s\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131r. Bir daha qeyd edir\u0259m, ist\u0259y\u0259n h\u0259d\u0259fin\u0259 \u00e7atar.<\/p>\n

O\u011flanlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn is\u0259 hesab edir\u0259m ki, 25-27 ya\u015f evlilik \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ideal ya\u015fd\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnki o\u011flanlar universiteti bitirdikd\u0259n sonra i\u015f t\u0259minat\u0131 realla\u015f\u0131r v\u0259 sabit g\u0259liri t\u0259nziml\u0259ndikd\u0259n sonra evlilik bar\u0259d\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr. Bu da t\u0259xmin\u0259n 25 ya\u015f d\u00f6vr\u00fcn\u0259 g\u0259lib \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r.\u00a0\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

B\u0259z\u0259n o\u011flanlar 30-32 ya\u015fa q\u0259d\u0259r subay qal\u0131rlar. Bu ya\u015fda da art\u0131q bir \u00e7oxu evl\u0259nm\u0259k ist\u0259mir, m\u00fck\u0259mm\u0259l\u00e7i olur, h\u0259r \u015feyin \u0259n yax\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 ist\u0259yir, qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259f\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 kriteriyalar\u0131, \u015f\u0259rtl\u0259ri \u00e7ox olur. El\u0259c\u0259 d\u0259 qad\u0131nlarda bu c\u00fcr olur. V\u0259 bildiyimiz kimi, ideal insan yoxdur, ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 b\u0259z\u0259n bu ya\u015fdan sonra evlilik al\u0131nm\u0131r. Buna g\u00f6r\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n qar\u015f\u0131m\u0131za \u00e7\u0131xartd\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015fanslardan vaxt\u0131nda istifad\u0259 etm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r. Karyeran\u0131 nec\u0259 inki\u015faf etdiririks\u0259, ail\u0259ni d\u0259 o c\u00fcr inki\u015faf etdirm\u0259liyik”.<\/p>\n

Tan\u0131nm\u0131\u015f mama-ginekoloq h\u0259kim R\u0259\u015fad Sultan is\u0259 m\u00f6vzu il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 qeyd edib: \u201cGinekologiya elmi bax\u0131m\u0131ndan evlilik v\u0259 hamil\u0259lik \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ideal, ya\u015f bax\u0131m\u0131ndan risksiz d\u00f6vr 20-35 ya\u015f aral\u0131\u011f\u0131d\u0131r. 20 ya\u015f alt\u0131 hamil\u0259likl\u0259rd\u0259 erk\u0259n do\u011fu\u015f riski\u00a0 3 d\u0259f\u0259 art\u0131q olur. 35 ya\u015fdan sonra is\u0259 \u00fcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259 yumurtal\u0131q rezervi s\u00fcr\u0259tl\u0259 azald\u0131\u011f\u0131na g\u00f6r\u0259 hamil\u0259 qalmaq qabiliyy\u0259ti d\u0259 azal\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Hamil\u0259likd\u0259 is\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fck, erk\u0259n do\u011fu\u015f, preeklampsiya, vaxt\u0131ndan qabaq do\u011fu\u015f riskl\u0259ri art\u0131r. U\u015faq bax\u0131m\u0131ndan da ba\u015fda daun sindromu olmaqla, q\u00fcsurlar daha \u00e7ox g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcr”.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Sosioloq: \u201cB\u0259z\u0259n o\u011flanlar 30-32 ya\u015fda da evl\u0259nm\u0259k ist\u0259mir, m\u00fck\u0259mm\u0259l\u00e7i olurlar v\u0259…\u201d Ara\u015fd\u0131rmalar g\u00f6st\u0259rir ki, insan\u0131n evl\u0259ndiyi ya\u015f qurulan evliliyin keyfiyy\u0259tin\u0259 t\u0259sir ed\u0259 bil\u0259r. \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259, orta m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259n v\u0259 ya h\u0259tta kollecd\u0259n d\u0259rhal sonra evl\u0259nm\u0259k, \u00fcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259, yax\u015f\u0131 fikir deyil. Lisenziyal\u0131 klinik sosial i\u015f\u00e7i Kelsey Torgerson ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131 qurma\u011fa haz\u0131rla\u015fan \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259r\u0259 deyir ki, insanlar evl\u0259nm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u0259n az\u0131…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":637509,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[26],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-637507","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-sosial"],"aioseo_notices":[],"aioseo_head":"\n\t\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t