{"id":63788,"date":"2019-06-03T13:52:17","date_gmt":"2019-06-03T10:52:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=63788"},"modified":"2019-06-03T13:52:17","modified_gmt":"2019-06-03T10:52:17","slug":"sevgilisind%c9%99n-ayrilanlar-oxusun-psixoloji-yanasma-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=63788","title":{"rendered":"Sevgilisind\u0259n ayr\u0131lanlar oxusun – PS\u0130XOLOJ\u0130 YANA\u015eMA"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sevgi – b\u0259z\u0259n qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131, b\u0259z\u0259n platonik; b\u0259z\u0259n a\u011fr\u0131l\u0131, b\u0259z\u0259n sevincli; b\u0259z\u0259n g\u00f6z ya\u015f\u0131, b\u0259z\u0259n is\u0259 \u00e7ox y\u00fcng\u00fcl bir t\u0259b\u0259ss\u00fcm…<\/p>\n

Sevgi kainat\u0131n m\u00f6ht\u0259\u015f\u0259m g\u00f6z\u0259llik v\u0259 nizam i\u00e7ind\u0259 yarad\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 zamandan b\u0259ri m\u00f6vcuddur. \u0130lk insanla birlikd\u0259 insanlar aras\u0131nda \u0259n r\u0259ngli, \u0259n z\u00f6vql\u00fc, \u0259n z\u0259ngin bir duy\u011fudur e\u015fq. \u0130nsanlar\u0131 g\u00f6z\u00fc ba\u011fl\u0131 c\u0259zb ed\u0259n bu sirr k\u00fcr\u0259si \u00e7ox \u015firindir, \u00e7ox g\u00f6z\u0259ldir v\u0259 \u00e7ox z\u00f6vq vericidir…<\/p>\n

Sevgi \u00f6z\u00fc il\u0259 birlikd\u0259 sahibl\u0259nm\u0259yi g\u0259tirir, sahib oldu\u011fumuz \u015feyl\u0259ri itirm\u0259ks\u0259 a\u011fr\u0131 verir. A\u015fiq oldu\u011fumuz zaman sevdiyimiz insan\u0131 o q\u0259d\u0259r sahibl\u0259nirik ki, ayr\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00f6l\u00fcm kimi qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndiririk. Sevgilid\u0259n uzaqla\u015fma \u00f6l\u00fcm\u0259 m\u0259hkumlu\u011fu ya\u015fad\u0131r. Sevgini bir n\u00f6v siqaret\u0259 b\u0259nz\u0259tm\u0259k olar: as\u0131l\u0131l\u0131q yaradan b\u00fct\u00fcn madd\u0259l\u0259r kimi yoxluq v\u0259ziyy\u0259tind\u0259 sev\u0259n insana \u0259zab verir.
\nH\u0259r ayr\u0131l\u0131q sonras\u0131 sanc\u0131l\u0131 bir m\u00fcdd\u0259tdir. Bir m\u00fcnasib\u0259ti davam etdirm\u0259k ad\u0131na g\u00f6st\u0259rdiyimiz c\u0259hdl\u0259rin v\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn qurdu\u011fumuz x\u0259yallar\u0131n bird\u0259n sonlanmas\u0131 bizi d\u0259rin bo\u015flu\u011fa at\u0131r. H\u0259yatda \u0259n d\u0259y\u0259rli varl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 itirmi\u015f\u00a0 kimi hiss edirik. Sanki sahib oldu\u011fumuz t\u0259k d\u0259y\u0259rli \u015fey odur v\u0259 bir daha he\u00e7 vaxt \u0259ld\u0259 ed\u0259 bilm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259yik kimi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u00fck.
\nAyr\u0131l\u0131qdan sonra hiss olunan d\u0259rin bo\u015fluq o q\u0259d\u0259r narahat edicidir ki, ayr\u0131l\u0131q k\u0259d\u0259rini y\u00fcng\u00fcll\u0259\u015fdirm\u0259k, sakitl\u0259\u015fdirm\u0259k v\u0259 sevgi \u0259zab\u0131ndan xilas olmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn h\u0259r \u015fey etm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r\u0131q. \u018fks\u0259r insanlar bu v\u0259ziyy\u0259td\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc \u00e7ox g\u00fccs\u00fcz v\u0259 \u00e7ar\u0259siz hiss edir, bu k\u0259d\u0259rin he\u00e7 vaxt bitm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259yini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr. B\u0259z\u0259n onu geri qazanmaq ist\u0259yirik, amma ed\u0259 bilm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259yimizi anlay\u0131r\u0131q.<\/p>\n

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Bu halda n\u0259 etm\u0259k olar? Nec\u0259 ed\u0259k ki, bu \u0259zabdan qurtulaq?
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\u0130lk n\u00f6vb\u0259d\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc m\u00fchakim\u0259 edin; “M\u0259n niy\u0259 bu q\u0259d\u0259r q\u0259mgin\u0259m? M\u0259nd\u0259 n\u0259 \u0259skikdir? Yoxsa \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc d\u0259y\u0259rsizmi hiss edir\u0259m?”
\n\u00c7\u0259kdiyimiz a\u011fr\u0131lar probleml\u0259rimizi g\u00f6rm\u0259y\u0259 k\u00f6m\u0259k edir. Duy\u011fular\u0131m\u0131z is\u0259 h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259t\u0259 ke\u00e7m\u0259yimiz \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn avtomatik siqnal rolunu oynay\u0131r. Nec\u0259 ki, b\u0259d\u0259nimizd\u0259 hiss etdiyimiz a\u011fr\u0131 biz\u0259 x\u0259st\u0259likl\u0259rin siqnal\u0131n\u0131 verir, ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z k\u0259d\u0259r dolu duy\u011fular da bir \u015feyin qaydas\u0131nda getm\u0259diyi haqq\u0131nda siqnallar \u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcr. O siqnallara diqq\u0259t yetirm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r, \u00e7\u00fcnki bu zaman \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc d\u0259yi\u015fdirm\u0259 yoluna giririk. \u018fg\u0259r a\u011fr\u0131 varsa, o zaman d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259 t\u0259l\u0259bata \u00e7evrilir.
\n\u0130lk \u00f6nc\u0259 sizin \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn vacib olanlar\u0131 m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259nl\u0259\u015fdirin. N\u0259 ist\u0259diyinizi ara\u015fd\u0131r\u0131n. H\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 nec\u0259 bir insanla davam etdirm\u0259k ist\u0259rdiniz? \u018fsas vacib v\u0259 \u00e7\u0259tin m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 q\u0259rar q\u0259bul etm\u0259kdir. \u018fg\u0259r o insanla \u00f6mr\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc davam etdir\u0259 bil\u0259c\u0259yinizi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrs\u00fcn\u00fczs\u0259, onda\u00a0 b\u00fct\u00fcn probleml\u0259rinizi h\u0259ll etm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n. \u018fg\u0259r ayr\u0131lma\u011fa q\u0259rar vermisinizs\u0259, o zaman ayr\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n yaratd\u0131\u011f\u0131 f\u0259sadlar\u0131 ortadan qald\u0131r\u0131n.<\/p>\n

Ayr\u0131l\u0131q ac\u0131s\u0131ndan nec\u0259 xilas ola bil\u0259rik?
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1) Bunun ke\u00e7ici proses oldu\u011funa \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc inand\u0131rmaq
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\u0130lk n\u00f6vb\u0259d\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc prosesin ke\u00e7\u0259c\u0259yin\u0259 inand\u0131r\u0131n, \u00e7\u00fcnki insan h\u0259r \u015feyi unudur v\u0259 he\u00e7 bir k\u0259d\u0259r bo\u015funa olmaz. \u018fg\u0259r o h\u00fczn\u00fcn i\u00e7ind\u0259 h\u0259diyy\u0259ni g\u00f6rm\u0259yi se\u00e7s\u0259niz, siz\u0259 \u00e7ox \u015fey \u00f6yr\u0259d\u0259c\u0259k. Afrika atalar s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 \u0259sas\u0259n: “H\u0259r tragediya dig\u0259r \u0259lind\u0259 h\u0259diyy\u0259 il\u0259 g\u0259lir; amma biz k\u0259d\u0259rl\u0259 o q\u0259d\u0259r m\u0259\u015f\u011ful oluruq ki, veril\u0259n m\u00fckafat\u0131 g\u00f6rm\u00fcr\u00fck, o da g\u0259ldiyi kimi itib gedir”.<\/p>\n

2) Geri d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00fcmidl\u0259nm\u0259!
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H\u0259r t\u0259rk edil\u0259n, t\u0259rk edib ged\u0259nin s\u0259hvini ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015f\u0259c\u0259yini, pe\u015fman olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 v\u0259 bir g\u00fcn geri qay\u0131daca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u00fcmid edir. \u00c7\u00fcnki \u00f6z\u00fc h\u0259l\u0259 sevir. Bu, qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131qs\u0131z sevginin a\u011f\u0131rl\u0131\u011f\u0131 alt\u0131nda \u0259zilm\u0259kdir. Bu a\u011fr\u0131n\u0131 ya\u015fayan insan el\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr ki, problemin h\u0259lli qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fin geri d\u00f6nm\u0259si v\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rin b\u0259rpas\u0131d\u0131r. Onun da \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc sevdiyini, amma ba\u015fqa \u015f\u0259rtl\u0259r\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 getm\u0259k m\u0259cburiyy\u0259tind\u0259 qald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr. Lakin bilm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r ki, ged\u0259n geri qay\u0131tmaz, \u00e7\u00fcnki onun ged\u0259rk\u0259n s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259ri var, geri d\u00f6n\u0259c\u0259yi haqq\u0131nda d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrs\u0259n, \u00fcmid edirs\u0259ns\u0259, he\u00e7 vaxt unuda bilm\u0259rs\u0259n.<\/p>\n

3) Hadis\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 adaptiv yana\u015fma
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\u0130nsanlar st\u0259kan\u0131n bo\u015f t\u0259r\u0259fini g\u00f6rm\u0259y\u0259 meyllidirl\u0259r, h\u0259l\u0259 \u00fcst\u0259lik bu sevgi k\u0259d\u0259ri \u00e7\u0259kdikl\u0259ri zaman. Bir daha xo\u015fb\u0259xt olmayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131, bir daha onun kimi birini tapa bilm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259yini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr. Halbuki onun xaricind\u0259 h\u0259r k\u0259s bunun yanl\u0131\u015f oldu\u011funu bilir. Hans\u0131sa bir hadis\u0259y\u0259 neqativ baxark\u0259n \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc d\u00fcz\u0259ltm\u0259y\u0259 v\u0259 m\u00fcsb\u0259t yana\u015fma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n. Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n hadis\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 utanc qayna\u011f\u0131 olaraq baxmaq yerin\u0259 onlar\u0131n s\u0259ni daha da g\u00fccl\u00fc etdiyin\u0259 fokuslan\u0131n. Etdiyin s\u0259hvl\u0259r\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc c\u0259zaland\u0131rmaq \u0259v\u0259zin\u0259 onlardan d\u0259rs alma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n.<\/p>\n

4) Ke\u00e7mi\u015f sevgilinizi g\u00fcnahland\u0131rmay\u0131n
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Ona olan b\u00fct\u00fcn nifr\u0259tinizi yox edin. Nifr\u0259t vasit\u0259si il\u0259 ke\u00e7mi\u015f sevgilinizl\u0259 enerji ba\u011flant\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 saxlayacaqs\u0131n\u0131z, daima onu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u0259c\u0259ksiz v\u0259 bel\u0259likl\u0259, \u00f6z enerjinizi neqativ\u00a0 fikirl\u0259r\u0259 s\u0259rf etmi\u015f olacaqs\u0131n\u0131z. Bu, siz\u0259 laz\u0131md\u0131r?<\/p>\n

5) Ke\u00e7mi\u015fi v\u0259 ke\u00e7mi\u015f sevgilinizi xat\u0131rladan h\u0259r \u015feyd\u0259n azad olun
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Onun verdiyi h\u0259diyy\u0259l\u0259ri, yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131 mesajlar\u0131, \u015f\u0259kill\u0259rini silin, birlikd\u0259 dinl\u0259diyiniz mahn\u0131lar\u0131, baxd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z kinolar\u0131 unutma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n. Ke\u00e7mi\u015f g\u00f6z\u0259l anlar\u0131 xat\u0131rlamaq n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r yax\u015f\u0131d\u0131rsa, ayr\u0131ld\u0131qdan sonra onun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn dar\u0131xmaq insanda neqativ duy\u011fular\u0131n yaranmas\u0131na s\u0259b\u0259b olur.<\/p>\n

6) \u00d6z\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00fcnahland\u0131rma
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Ayr\u0131ld\u0131qdan sonra qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fin ya\u015fad\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u0259 aid edirsiniz, davaml\u0131 olaraq onu izl\u0259y\u0259rsiniz. Onun add\u0131mlar\u0131 il\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc yoxlay\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z. \u018fg\u0259r o, pis olarsa, h\u0259yat\u0131na kims\u0259ni alm\u0131rsa xo\u015fb\u0259xt olur, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc d\u0259y\u0259rli hiss edirsiniz. Lakin o, \u00e7ox xo\u015fb\u0259xtdirs\u0259, sevgilisi varsa, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc h\u0259m d\u0259y\u0259rsiz hiss ed\u0259r, h\u0259m d\u0259 k\u0259d\u0259r i\u00e7ind\u0259 olars\u0131n\u0131z. Bunlar\u0131n t\u0259k s\u0259b\u0259bi is\u0259 onu izl\u0259m\u0259k, ya da ondan daim x\u0259b\u0259r almaqd\u0131r. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, ayr\u0131landan sonra ke\u00e7mi\u015f sevgilinizin facebookda \u0259yl\u0259nc\u0259li musiqi payla\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 siz\u0259 \u00fcnvanlad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 hiss ed\u0259r, romantik\u00a0 mahn\u0131 payla\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131 zaman is\u0259 sizi unutmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u0259rsiniz. Halbuki bunlar\u0131n he\u00e7 biri do\u011fru olmaya bil\u0259r.<\/p>\n

8) Yeni m\u00fcnasib\u0259t\u0259 haz\u0131rl\u0131q
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\u00c7ox vaxt b\u0259zi insanlar \u00f6t\u0259n m\u00fcnasib\u0259td\u0259 \u00e7\u0259tinlikl\u0259r ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 v\u0259 bunlar\u0131n t\u0259krarlanmas\u0131ndan qorxdu\u011fu \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn yeni m\u00fcnasib\u0259t\u0259 ba\u015flamaqdan qorxurlar. \u00c7\u00fcnki dig\u0259r insan\u0131n da \u00f6nc\u0259ki kimi onu t\u0259rk ed\u0259c\u0259yind\u0259n \u00e7\u0259kinirl\u0259r. Lakin situasiyaya psixoloji aspektd\u0259n yana\u015fanda g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u00fck ki, \u0259slind\u0259 h\u0259min insanlarda \u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 g\u00fcv\u0259n olmur.
\nB\u0259zi m\u0259nb\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 qeyd olunur ki, \u00f6nc\u0259ki m\u00fcnasib\u0259tin a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131ndan qurtulmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn yeni m\u00fcnasib\u0259t\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131n. Lakin bu, do\u011fru yana\u015fma deyil. \u00c7\u00fcnki insan ke\u00e7mi\u015f travman\u0131 unutmay\u0131bsa, g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259y\u0259 k\u00f6kl\u0259n\u0259 bilm\u0259z. \u018fg\u0259r unuda bilmirs\u0259, bu zaman ke\u00e7mi\u015fd\u0259ki \u015f\u0259xsi yeni insanda axtarma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r, onun x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259tl\u0259rini h\u0259min insanda formala\u015fd\u0131rmaq ist\u0259yir.<\/p>\n

B\u00fct\u00fcn bunlardan qa\u00e7maq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n, ke\u00e7mi\u015f sevgilinizi ideal partnyor olaraq g\u00f6rm\u0259yin. Unutmay\u0131n ki, sizi xo\u015fb\u0259xt ed\u0259c\u0259k yegan\u0259 insan o deyil.<\/p>\n

H\u0259yat ke\u00e7mi\u015fd\u0259 ili\u015fib qalacaq q\u0259d\u0259r uzun deyil, \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n bu g\u00fcn\u00fc v\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259yi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn, sevin v\u0259 sevilin!<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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