\u018fks\u0259r qad\u0131nlar\u0131n xasiyy\u0259tini q\u0131sa m\u00fcdd\u0259t \u0259rzind\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n psixoloji m\u0259qamlara fikir verm\u0259kl\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259k olsa da, ki\u015fil\u0259r, x\u00fcsusil\u0259 d\u0259, az dan\u0131\u015fanlar \u0259ks cinsin n\u00fcmay\u0259nd\u0259si \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn oxunmam\u0131\u015f kitab kimi qal\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Qad\u0131nlar ki\u015fil\u0259r\u0259 nisb\u0259t\u0259n daha \u00e7ox dan\u0131\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131, emosiyalar\u0131n\u0131 gizl\u0259d\u0259 bilm\u0259dikl\u0259ri \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn onlar\u0131 tan\u0131maq daha asan olur. Lakin bir s\u0131ra psixoloji sirrl\u0259ri bilm\u0259kl\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259ri ilk bax\u0131\u015fdan oxumaq olar.<\/p>\n
Psixoloq Elnur\u0259 Ba\u011f\u0131rovan\u0131n s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, bel\u0259 psixoloji sirl\u0259rd\u0259n biri ki\u015fil\u0259rin \u0259l v\u0259 \u0259l h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259rin\u0259 baxaraq onlar\u0131 tan\u0131maqd\u0131r. Bu \u00fcsulu x\u00fcsusil\u0259 d\u0259, q\u0131sa m\u00fcdd\u0259t \u0259rzind\u0259 ki\u015finin xasiyy\u0259tini \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u0259v\u0259zsiz sayan psixoloq bildirir ki, ki\u015fil\u0259rin jestl\u0259ri s\u00f6hb\u0259t zaman\u0131 onun n\u0259 hissl\u0259ri ke\u00e7irdiyini v\u0259 h\u0259ms\u00f6hb\u0259tin\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 m\u00fcnasib\u0259ti d\u0259 g\u00f6st\u0259rir. “M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, \u0259g\u0259r ki\u015fi b\u00fct\u00fcn s\u00f6hb\u0259t zaman\u0131 \u0259lini belinin arxas\u0131na qoyur v\u0259 sanki qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259n gizl\u0259dirs\u0259, bu, onun \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 \u0259min olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6st\u0259rir”.<\/p>\n
E.Ba\u011f\u0131rova bildirib ki, dizinin \u00fcst\u00fcn\u0259 qoyulmu\u015f \u0259ll\u0259r ki\u015finin n\u0259s\u0259 haqda d\u0259rin d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259y\u0259 qap\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 v\u0259 yor\u011fun oldu\u011funu g\u00f6st\u0259rir: Bir-birinin \u00fcst\u00fcn\u0259 qoyulmu\u015f \u0259ll\u0259r ki\u015finin \u015f\u00fcuralt\u0131 olaraq h\u0259ms\u00f6hb\u0259tind\u0259n qorundu\u011funan x\u0259b\u0259r verir. Bu, s\u00f6hb\u0259t etdiyi insan\u0131n \u00f6z daxili al\u0259min\u0259 buraxmaq ist\u0259m\u0259m\u0259sin\u0259 bir i\u015far\u0259 d\u0259 ola bil\u0259r. B\u0259zi bel\u0259 insanlar qapal\u0131 olur v\u0259 h\u0259r adamla \u015f\u0259xsi m\u00fcnasib\u0259t qurmurlar.<\/p>\n
S\u00f6hb\u0259t etdiyiniz ki\u015fi \u0259ll\u0259rini qoyma\u011fa yer tapm\u0131rsa, tez-tez \u0259ll\u0259rinin v\u0259ziyy\u0259tini d\u0259yi\u015firs\u0259, ovuclar\u0131n\u0131 bir-birin\u0259 s\u00fcrt\u00fcrs\u0259, \u00e7ox \u0259s\u0259bidir v\u0259 narahatd\u0131r. “Bu, \u015f\u0259xsin d\u0259rdli bir insan oldu\u011funu da g\u00f6st\u0259rir. Ola bilsin ki, s\u00f6hb\u0259t zaman\u0131 onun b\u00fct\u00fcn fikri problemi il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r”.<\/p>\n
M\u00fcsahibimizin s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, \u0259ll\u0259rin qurulu\u015fu da ki\u015fini b\u00fcruz\u0259 verir. Bel\u0259 ki, bel v\u0259 ya trapesiya formas\u0131nda olan \u0259l sahibinin q\u0259tiyy\u0259tli, sadiq, enerjili oldu\u011fundan x\u0259b\u0259r verir. Uzun v\u0259 nazik barmaqlar\u0131n sahibi \u00e7ox yarad\u0131c\u0131 insand\u0131r. G\u00f6z\u0259llik v\u0259 inc\u0259s\u0259n\u0259td\u0259n z\u00f6vq al\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Ki\u015finin \u0259li m\u00f6hk\u0259mdirs\u0259, enerjili v\u0259 i\u015fg\u00fczard\u0131r. N\u0259yis\u0259 ist\u0259dis\u0259, n\u0259s\u0259 beynin\u0259 d\u00fc\u015fd\u00fcs\u0259, onu m\u00fctl\u0259q etm\u0259lidir. Geri \u00e7\u0259kilm\u0259yi q\u0259bul etmir. Al\u0131nmasa bel\u0259 ax\u0131ra kimi gedir. Bu x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259tin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 ist\u0259dikl\u0259rin\u0259 nail ola bilir.<\/p>\n
Yum\u015faq \u0259ll\u0259r insan\u0131n a\u011f\u0131ll\u0131 v\u0259 h\u0259ssas oldu\u011funu g\u00f6st\u0259rir. Z\u0259rif \u0259ll\u0259r sahibinin a\u011f\u0131r v\u0259 ciddi i\u015f g\u00f6r\u0259 bilm\u0259m\u0259sind\u0259n x\u0259b\u0259r verir. Bel\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259r t\u0259nb\u0259l v\u0259 \u0259zgin olur. Qaydalara v\u0259 s\u0259liq\u0259y\u0259 riay\u0259t etmir, i\u015fd\u0259 u\u011furlar qazana bilmir.<\/p>\n
Barmaqlar\u0131n formas\u0131na g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 ki\u015finin xasiyy\u0259tini \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259k olar. Bel\u0259 ki, E.Ba\u011f\u0131rovan\u0131n dediyin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, barmaqlar\u0131n uc hiss\u0259si \u00fc\u00e7bucaq formada olan ki\u015fil\u0259rd\u0259 m\u00fck\u0259mm\u0259l\u00e7iliy\u0259 meyl olur. Onlar h\u0259ssasl\u0131\u011f\u0131 v\u0259 dinar olmalar\u0131 il\u0259 se\u00e7ilir.<\/p>\n
D\u00f6rdk\u00fcnc formal\u0131 barmaqlar\u0131n sahibi s\u0259liq\u0259li v\u0259 \u0259xlaql\u0131 olur. Maddi d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259r\u0259 \u00f6n\u0259m verir.<\/p>\n
Xarakterin m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259nl\u0259\u015fdirilm\u0259sind\u0259 barmaqlar\u0131n uzunlu\u011fu da rol oynay\u0131r. \u018fg\u0259r g\u00f6st\u0259rici barmaq ads\u0131z barmaqdan q\u0131sad\u0131rsa, sahibi harizmatik v\u0259 cazib\u0259dard\u0131r. Bel\u0259 adamlarla \u00fcnsiyy\u0259t qurmaq maraql\u0131 olur. Onlar risk\u0259 meylli olur v\u0259 m\u0259suliyy\u0259ti \u00f6z \u00fcz\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u0259 bilir.<\/p>\n
\u018fg\u0259r g\u00f6st\u0259rici barmaq ads\u0131z barmaqdan daha uzundursa, sahibi \u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259n \u0259mindir. Bel\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259r t\u0259nhal\u0131\u011f\u0131 xo\u015flay\u0131r. Onlar\u0131 \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259tsiz m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 narahat ed\u0259nd\u0259 q\u0131c\u0131qlan\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n
\u018fg\u0259r ads\u0131z v\u0259 g\u00f6st\u0259rici barmaq eyni uzunluqdad\u0131rsa, bel\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259r mehriban v\u0259 xeyirxah olur. Konfliktli hadis\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n qa\u00e7\u0131rlar. Onlar\u0131n \u0259s\u0259bil\u0259\u015fm\u0259si \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ciddi n\u0259s\u0259 ba\u015f verm\u0259lidir.<\/p>\n
Psixoloqun dediyin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, barmaqlarla yana\u015f\u0131 d\u0131rnaqlar da ki\u015finin xasiyy\u0259tini g\u00f6st\u0259rir: “Oval d\u0131rnaqlar sahibinin \u00fcz\u00fcyola oldu\u011funa i\u015far\u0259 edir. D\u00f6rdk\u00fcnc v\u0259 yast\u0131 d\u0131rnaqlar\u0131 ki\u015finin utancaq oldu\u011funu bildirir. Sad\u0259c\u0259 yast\u0131 d\u0131rnaqlar\u0131 olan ki\u015fil\u0259rs\u0259 \u0259s\u0259bidir. D\u0131rnaqlar\u0131 dar olan ki\u015fil\u0259rd\u0259 pisliy\u0259 meyllilik olur. \u00c7ox dar, s\u0259liq\u0259li, g\u00f6z\u0259l d\u0131rnaqlarsa \u015f\u0259xsin h\u0259ssas v\u0259 k\u00fcbar oldu\u011funu g\u00f6st\u0259rir. Bir n\u00f6v bas\u0131lm\u0131\u015f yast\u0131 d\u0131rnaqlar da ki\u015finin h\u0259ssas, emosional oldu\u011funa i\u015far\u0259 edir”.<\/p>\n
Ba\u011f\u0131rova bildirib ki, b\u0259zi ki\u015fil\u0259rin d\u0131rnaqlar\u0131 q\u0131r\u0131\u015fl\u0131, \u00e7\u0131x\u0131nt\u0131l\u0131 olur: “Bel\u0259 d\u0131rnaqlar sahibinin z\u0259if oldu\u011fundan x\u0259b\u0259r verir. K\u0259narlar\u0131 di\u015fl\u0259nmi\u015f d\u0131rnaqlar ki\u015finin irad\u0259 z\u0259ifliyini, \u0259s\u0259biliyini, gizli f\u0259aliyy\u0259tinin oldu\u011funu g\u00f6st\u0259rir”.<\/p>\n
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\u018fks\u0259r qad\u0131nlar\u0131n xasiyy\u0259tini q\u0131sa m\u00fcdd\u0259t \u0259rzind\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n psixoloji m\u0259qamlara fikir verm\u0259kl\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259k olsa da, ki\u015fil\u0259r, x\u00fcsusil\u0259 d\u0259, az dan\u0131\u015fanlar \u0259ks cinsin n\u00fcmay\u0259nd\u0259si \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn oxunmam\u0131\u015f kitab kimi qal\u0131r. Qad\u0131nlar ki\u015fil\u0259r\u0259 nisb\u0259t\u0259n daha \u00e7ox dan\u0131\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131, emosiyalar\u0131n\u0131 gizl\u0259d\u0259 bilm\u0259dikl\u0259ri \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn onlar\u0131 tan\u0131maq daha asan olur. Lakin bir s\u0131ra psixoloji sirrl\u0259ri bilm\u0259kl\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259ri ilk bax\u0131\u015fdan oxumaq olar. Psixoloq Elnur\u0259 Ba\u011f\u0131rovan\u0131n s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, bel\u0259 psixoloji sirl\u0259rd\u0259n biri ki\u015fil\u0259rin \u0259l v\u0259 \u0259l h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259rin\u0259 baxaraq onlar\u0131 tan\u0131maqd\u0131r. Bu \u00fcsulu x\u00fcsusil\u0259 d\u0259, q\u0131sa m\u00fcdd\u0259t \u0259rzind\u0259 ki\u015finin xasiyy\u0259tini \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u0259v\u0259zsiz sayan psixoloq bildirir ki, ki\u015fil\u0259rin jestl\u0259ri s\u00f6hb\u0259t zaman\u0131…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":63923,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/kisi-eli.jpg",460,322,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/kisi-eli.jpg",460,322,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/kisi-eli.jpg",460,322,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/kisi-eli-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/kisi-eli-300x210.jpg",300,210,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/kisi-eli.jpg",460,322,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/kisi-eli.jpg",460,322,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/kisi-eli.jpg",460,322,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/kisi-eli-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/kisi-eli.jpg",460,322,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"\u018fks\u0259r qad\u0131nlar\u0131n xasiyy\u0259tini q\u0131sa m\u00fcdd\u0259t \u0259rzind\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n psixoloji m\u0259qamlara fikir verm\u0259kl\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259k olsa da, ki\u015fil\u0259r, x\u00fcsusil\u0259 d\u0259, az dan\u0131\u015fanlar \u0259ks cinsin n\u00fcmay\u0259nd\u0259si \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn oxunmam\u0131\u015f kitab kimi qal\u0131r. Qad\u0131nlar ki\u015fil\u0259r\u0259 nisb\u0259t\u0259n daha \u00e7ox dan\u0131\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131, emosiyalar\u0131n\u0131 gizl\u0259d\u0259 bilm\u0259dikl\u0259ri \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn onlar\u0131 tan\u0131maq daha asan olur. Lakin bir s\u0131ra psixoloji sirrl\u0259ri bilm\u0259kl\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259ri ilk bax\u0131\u015fdan oxumaq olar. Psixoloq Elnur\u0259…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/63922"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=63922"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/63922\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/63923"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=63922"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=63922"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=63922"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}