G\u0259l\u0259c\u0259y\u0259 bileti almaqda u\u015faqlara g\u00f6st\u0259ril\u0259n yard\u0131m<\/strong><\/p>\n Rusiyada h\u0259yata ke\u00e7iril\u0259n \u201cG\u0259l\u0259c\u0259y\u0259 bilet\u201d m\u0259kt\u0259blil\u0259rin pe\u015f\u0259y\u00f6n\u00fcml\u00fc \u00f6d\u0259ni\u015fsiz kurslar\u0131 da m\u0259hz valideynl\u0259rin \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131n ixtisas se\u00e7imind\u0259ki roluna h\u0259sr olunub. Kurslarda karyera idar\u0259\u00e7iliyi \u00fczr\u0259 ekspertl\u0259r, psixoloqlar, pedaqoqlar, \u0259m\u0259k bazar\u0131 analitikl\u0259ri, h\u0259m\u00e7inin i\u015f\u0259g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u0259nl\u0259r u\u015faqlar\u0131n g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k pe\u015f\u0259 se\u00e7imin\u0259 nec\u0259 k\u00f6m\u0259k etm\u0259k bar\u0259d\u0259 faydal\u0131 m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259tl\u0259ri b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrl\u0259r. Kurs \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131n g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k pe\u015f\u0259sini d\u00fczg\u00fcn se\u00e7m\u0259sin\u0259 k\u00f6m\u0259k etm\u0259k, \u015fagird\u0259 t\u0259hsil se\u00e7imind\u0259 d\u0259st\u0259k olmaq, h\u0259m\u00e7inin narahatl\u0131\u011f\u0131 azaltmaq v\u0259 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259yin\u0259 inam qazand\u0131rmaq ist\u0259y\u0259n valideynl\u0259r \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn n\u0259z\u0259rd\u0259 tutulub. Layih\u0259 \u00e7\u0259r\u00e7iv\u0259sind\u0259 valideynl\u0259r m\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssisl\u0259rl\u0259 birlikd\u0259 pe\u015f\u0259l\u0259rin m\u00fcxt\u0259lifliyini d\u0259rk edir v\u0259 m\u00fcasir karyera yollar\u0131n\u0131, \u0259m\u0259k bazar\u0131nda m\u00f6vcud tendensiyalar\u0131 \u00f6yr\u0259nirl\u0259r. Bu da u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n maraq v\u0259 \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fckl\u0259rini anlama\u011fa imkan verir. Layih\u0259 valideynl\u0259r\u0259 \u00f6z bax\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259tbiq etm\u0259d\u0259n \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131 yum\u015faq \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 d\u00fczg\u00fcn yola y\u00f6n\u0259ltm\u0259y\u0259 k\u00f6m\u0259k edir.<\/p>\n \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259, sirr deyil ki, b\u00f6y\u00fckl\u0259r \u00e7ox vaxt m\u0259zun \u00f6vladlar\u0131ndan az narahat olmurlar. \u00c7\u00fcnki g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k haqq\u0131nda s\u00f6hb\u0259t ilk n\u00f6vb\u0259d\u0259 ail\u0259 daxilind\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131r. Bir u\u015faq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bir pe\u015f\u0259 se\u00e7m\u0259k n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7\u0259tindirs\u0259, valideyn \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ondan az maraql\u0131 m\u00f6vzu deyil.<\/p>\n B\u0259s pe\u015f\u0259 se\u00e7imi m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259sind\u0259 valideyn hans\u0131 m\u00f6vqeyi tutmal\u0131, \u00f6vlad\u0131na nec\u0259 d\u0259st\u0259k olmal\u0131d\u0131r?<\/p>\n \u201cSiz d\u0259 h\u0259kim v\u0259 ya m\u00fc\u0259llim olun\u201d bax\u0131\u015f\u0131<\/strong><\/p>\n ADA Universitetinin professoru G\u00fclm\u0259mm\u0259d M\u0259mm\u0259dov\u00a0sual\u0131n cavab\u0131n\u0131 \u00fcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259, birm\u0259nal\u0131 hesab etmir:<\/p>\n \u201cValideyn var ki, yaln\u0131z orta t\u0259hsili var v\u0259 x\u00fcsusi bir sah\u0259 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 he\u00e7 bir m\u0259lumat\u0131 yoxdur. Sad\u0259c\u0259 olaraq, c\u0259miyy\u0259t i\u00e7\u0259risind\u0259 u\u011fur qazanm\u0131\u015f h\u0259kim, polis, h\u00fcquq\u015f\u00fcnas v\u0259 ya m\u00fc\u0259llim n\u00fcmun\u0259sini g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259r\u0259k \u00f6vlad\u0131na t\u0259sir etm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fa bil\u0259r v\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r da. Bu c\u00fcr faktlar \u00e7oxdur.<\/p>\n \u201cSiz d\u0259 h\u0259kim v\u0259 ya m\u00fc\u0259llim olun\u201d, – dey\u0259 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n t\u0259bii mara\u011f\u0131na, istedad\u0131na fikir verm\u0259d\u0259n \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131n pe\u015f\u0259 se\u00e7imin\u0259 t\u0259sir edir. Bu, bizim c\u0259miyy\u0259tin bir reall\u0131\u011f\u0131d\u0131r. Dig\u0259r kateqoriyadan olan valideynl\u0259r ali t\u0259hsilli, \u00f6z ixtisaslar\u0131na uy\u011fun, m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n u\u011furlar\u0131 olan insanlard\u0131r.<\/p>\n \u201cM\u0259n h\u0259kim\u0259m, bu sah\u0259d\u0259 \u00e7evr\u0259m var, s\u0259n d\u0259 h\u0259kim ol, s\u0259n\u0259 d\u0259 bir yol tapar\u0131q\u201d, – dey\u0259, onlar da \u00f6vladlar\u0131na \u00f6z \u015f\u0259xsi n\u00fcmun\u0259l\u0259ri il\u0259 t\u0259sir edirl\u0259r. Bu zaman \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131n t\u0259bii istedad\u0131, ist\u0259yi k\u0259narda qal\u0131r. Bu probleml\u0259r m\u00f6vcuddur\u201d.<\/p>\n Valideyn t\u0259kidi il\u0259 se\u00e7il\u0259n ixtisas u\u015fa\u011fa maraql\u0131 g\u0259lm\u0259y\u0259 bil\u0259r<\/strong><\/p>\n S\u00fcr\u0259tl\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015f\u0259n d\u00fcnyam\u0131zda i\u015f bazar\u0131nda yeni pe\u015f\u0259l\u0259rin yarand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 dey\u0259n G.M\u0259mm\u0259dov bu prosesd\u0259n savad\u0131ndan as\u0131l\u0131 olmayaraq valideynl\u0259rin d\u0259, \u015fagirdl\u0259rin d\u0259 \u00f6zl\u0259rinin m\u0259lumatl\u0131 ola bilm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259yini bildirir:<\/p>\n \u201cD\u0259yi\u015fiklikl\u0259rl\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 m\u0259lumat\u0131 olan \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259r pe\u015f\u0259karlard\u0131r. Valideynl\u0259r universitetl\u0259rd\u0259 olan m\u00fc\u0259lliml\u0259rd\u0259n v\u0259 ya QHT-l\u0259rin, Elm v\u0259 T\u0259hsil Nazirliyinin, Sosial M\u00fcdafi\u0259 Nazirliyinin m\u0259\u015f\u011fulluqla, karyera se\u00e7imi il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 t\u0259dbirl\u0259rind\u0259n m\u0259lumat ala bil\u0259rl\u0259r. Valideynl\u0259r hans\u0131 pe\u015f\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 ehtiyac var, g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 ehtimal olunan pe\u015f\u0259l\u0259r hans\u0131lard\u0131r v\u0259 s. n\u00fcanslarla maraqlan\u0131b bu m\u0259lumatlar\u0131 \u00f6vladlar\u0131na m\u0259cburiyy\u0259t kimi deyil, se\u00e7im olaraq t\u0259qdim etm\u0259lidirl\u0259r. \u018fks halda, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n valideynin t\u0259kidi il\u0259 se\u00e7diyi ixtisas \u00fcr\u0259yinc\u0259 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ona z\u0259hm\u0259t v\u0259 enerji qoyma motivasiyas\u0131 olmayacaq. Bu da g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n u\u011fursuz olmas\u0131na g\u0259tirib \u00e7\u0131xaran \u0259n\u0259n\u0259vi faktorlardan birin\u0259 \u00e7evril\u0259c\u0259k\u201d.<\/p>\n Professor hesab edir ki, valideynl\u0259ri bu istiqam\u0259td\u0259 m\u0259lumatland\u0131ran televiziya proqramlar\u0131, media x\u0259b\u0259rl\u0259ri olmal\u0131d\u0131r:<\/p>\n \u201cKi\u00e7ik bir layih\u0259 il\u0259 bu i\u015fin \u00f6hd\u0259sind\u0259n g\u0259lm\u0259k \u00e7\u0259tin olar. Bununla ba\u011fl\u0131 sistemli bir i\u015f g\u00f6r\u00fclm\u0259li, d\u00f6vl\u0259tin siyas\u0259ti m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n olunmal\u0131d\u0131r. Biz s\u00fcr\u0259tl\u0259 inki\u015faf ed\u0259n \u00f6lk\u0259yik. \u0130\u015f bazar\u0131nda \u00f6lk\u0259nin ehtiyaclar\u0131 var. \u0130qtisadiyyat hans\u0131 istiqam\u0259t\u0259 inki\u015faf edir v\u0259 hans\u0131 ixtisaslara ehtiyac oldu\u011funu d\u00f6vl\u0259t m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n edir. Hesab edir\u0259m ki, d\u00f6vl\u0259t buna uy\u011fun da t\u0259bli\u011fat i\u015fi aparmal\u0131d\u0131r\u201d.<\/p>\n \u201cSe\u00e7imi tam olaraq u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n \u00f6hd\u0259sin\u0259 d\u0259 buraxmaq olmaz\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n bp-nin vitse-prezidenti B\u0259xtiyar Aslanb\u0259ylinin fikrinc\u0259, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n ixtisas se\u00e7imind\u0259 valideyn m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n q\u0259d\u0259r t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259sind\u0259n v\u0259 d\u00fcnyag\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u0259n \u00e7\u0131x\u0131\u015f etm\u0259lidir. Dig\u0259r t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259n, o, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131 yax\u015f\u0131 tan\u0131y\u0131r:<\/p>\n \u201cValideyn \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131n ixtisas se\u00e7imin\u0259 bigan\u0259 qalmamal\u0131, maraqlanmal\u0131, soru\u015fmal\u0131, istiqam\u0259tl\u0259ndirm\u0259lidir. Se\u00e7imi u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n \u00f6hd\u0259sin\u0259 d\u0259 buraxmaq olmaz. U\u015faq q\u0131sa m\u00fcdd\u0259tli, h\u0259v\u0259sl\u0259ndirici t\u0259sirl\u0259rin alt\u0131nda ola bil\u0259r. Valideyn ona d\u00fczg\u00fcn \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 istiqam\u0259t verm\u0259lidir\u201d.<\/p>\n B.Aslanb\u0259yli b\u0259z\u0259n valideynl\u0259rin u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131n \u0259v\u0259zin\u0259 q\u0259rar verdiyini d\u0259 bildirir:<\/p>\n \u201cValideyn se\u00e7imd\u0259 m\u00fctl\u0259q i\u015ftirak etm\u0259lidir. Amma bu, dominant i\u015ftirak olmal\u0131 deyil. U\u015fa\u011f\u0131n ist\u0259yin\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 olan i\u015ftirak olmamal\u0131d\u0131r. Y\u0259ni q\u0259rar\u0131n birg\u0259 q\u0259buluna v\u0259 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n d\u00fczg\u00fcn istiqam\u0259tl\u0259nm\u0259sin\u0259 y\u00f6n\u0259l\u0259n i\u015ftirak olmal\u0131d\u0131r. U\u015fa\u011f\u0131n mara\u011f\u0131 k\u0259narda qalmamal\u0131d\u0131r\u201d.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" \u201cB\u00f6y\u00fcy\u0259nd\u0259 hans\u0131 pe\u015f\u0259ni se\u00e7m\u0259k ist\u0259yirs\u0259n?\u201d Bu, h\u0259r bir valideynin \u00f6vlad\u0131na erk\u0259n u\u015faql\u0131qdan verdiyi suald\u0131r. M\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259q\u0259d\u0259r ya\u015fl\u0131 u\u015faqlar ad\u0259t\u0259n bu suala asanl\u0131qla cavab verirl\u0259rs\u0259, b\u00f6y\u00fck u\u015faqlar, x\u00fcsus\u0259n d\u0259 yeniyetm\u0259l\u0259r \u00e7ox vaxt sona q\u0259d\u0259r hans\u0131 pe\u015f\u0259ni se\u00e7\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259rin\u0259 q\u0259rar ver\u0259 bilmirl\u0259r. \u018fvv\u0259ll\u0259r u\u015faq ail\u0259 s\u00fclal\u0259sinin \u0259n\u0259n\u0259sini ya\u015fatmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn b\u0259z\u0259n \u00f6z arzular\u0131ndan vaz ke\u00e7m\u0259y\u0259 m\u0259cbur idi. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, \u0259g\u0259r valideyn…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":642718,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-642715","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-cmiyyt"],"aioseo_notices":[],"aioseo_head":"\n\t\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t<\/p>\n
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