Az\u0259rbaycanda g\u0259nc ail\u0259l\u0259r aras\u0131nda bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n say\u0131n\u0131n art\u0131\u011f\u0131 bildirilir. Lakin\u00a0 haz\u0131rda \u0259n diqq\u0259t \u00e7\u0259k\u0259n\u00a0 ba\u015fqa m\u0259qam var, g\u0259nc ail\u0259l\u0259r deyil, ill\u0259rdir bir yerd\u0259 ya\u015fayan ya\u015fl\u0131 ail\u0259l\u0259r bo\u015fan\u0131r.<\/p>\n
V\u0259 v\u0259ziyy\u0259t\u00a0 g\u0259nc ail\u0259l\u0259r aras\u0131ndak\u0131 bo\u015fanmalar\u0131 ke\u00e7ir. Bu istiqam\u0259td\u0259 ara\u015fd\u0131rma aparan psixoloq-psixoterapevt Xanim Nift\u0259liyeva problemin k\u00f6k\u00fc v\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259ri il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 Modern.az sayt\u0131na m\u00fcsahib\u0259 verib. Onunla s\u00f6hb\u0259ti t\u0259qdim edirik.<\/p>\n
– G\u0259nc ail\u0259l\u0259r hardasa ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcl\u0259ndir. Sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259r, \u00e7\u0131l\u011f\u0131nl\u0131q, x\u0259yan\u0259t v\u0259 s. B\u0259s uzun \u00f6m\u00fcrl\u00fc ail\u0259l\u0259r niy\u0259 ayr\u0131l\u0131r? Bunun k\u00f6k\u00fcnd\u0259 n\u0259 durur?<\/strong><\/p>\n – Bo\u015fanmalr\u0131n say\u0131 b\u00fct\u00fcn d\u00fcnya \u00fczr\u0259, o c\u00fcml\u0259d\u0259n Az\u0259rbaycanda da norman\u0131 ke\u00e7ib. Bu,bir\u00a0 SOS siqnald\u0131r. Bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 almaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn\u00a0 m\u00fctl\u0259q t\u0259dbir g\u00f6r\u00fclm\u0259lidir.\u00a0 Biz \u018fdliyy\u0259 Nazirliyinin t\u0259\u015fkil etdiyi pilot layih\u0259sin\u0259, ASAN xidm\u0259t m\u0259rk\u0259zl\u0259rind\u0259 psixoloq kimi f\u0259aliyy\u0259t g\u00f6st\u0259ririrk. Nikaha son qoymaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn\u00a0 biz\u0259 m\u00fcraci\u0259t ed\u0259n \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259rl\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcb, s\u00f6hb\u0259t edirik.\u00a0 \u018fg\u0259r ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259-qad\u0131n v\u0259 ya ki\u015fid\u0259 psixoloji travma varsa, bunu aradan qald\u0131r\u0131b, onlar\u0131n bar\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn yard\u0131m edirik. Yeni qurulan ail\u0259l\u0259r aras\u0131nda\u00a0 ba\u015f ver\u0259n bo\u015fanmalara \u201cail\u0259 krizl\u0259ri\u201d deyirik. Bu krizl\u0259ri hardasa ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259k olur. Amma g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczd\u0259 \u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck faci\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n biri budur ki, bo\u015fanma \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn m\u00fcraci\u0259t ed\u0259n 5 ail\u0259d\u0259n 4-\u00fc uzun ill\u0259r ail\u0259ni qoruyub evliliyi 30-35 il\u0259 \u00e7atd\u0131ran insanlard\u0131r.\u00a0 Siz\u0259 konkret bir misal \u00e7\u0259kim. Ke\u00e7\u0259n h\u0259ft\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259diyim 5 ail\u0259d\u0259n 4-\u00fc ill\u0259rdir nikahda olan insanlar idi.\u00a0 R\u0259q\u0259ml\u0259r\u0259 diqq\u0259t edin, bir insan \u00f6mr\u00fcn\u0259 b\u0259rab\u0259r r\u0259q\u0259ml\u0259rdir. 25, 28, 30, 32 ildir ki, bir yerd\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131blar.\u00a0 Onu da deyim ki, son 3-4 ayd\u0131r ki, bel\u0259 hallarla\u00a0 daha tez-tez qar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131ram. Yeni qurulan ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 qeyd etdiyim kimi\u00a0 kriz-y\u0259ni b\u00f6hran\u00a0 d\u00f6vr\u00fc var. H\u0259min vaxt m\u00fcraci\u0259t etdikd\u0259 biz\u00a0 m\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssisl\u0259r\u00a0 onlarla i\u015fl\u0259yirik v\u0259 krizd\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131r\u0131q, bel\u0259likl\u0259 onlar\u00a0 yenid\u0259n evlilik h\u0259yat\u0131na davam etm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131rlar. Son zamanlar m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 edir\u0259m ki, ill\u0259rin \u00e7\u0259tinliyin\u0259 d\u00f6z\u0259nl\u0259r bu g\u00fcn bo\u015fan\u0131r. S\u0259b\u0259b kimi d\u0259 deyilir ki, yola getmirik, anla\u015fa bilmirik.<\/p>\n – Bu nec\u0259 olur?\u00a0 \u0130ll\u0259rdir yola gedirl\u0259r, ac\u0131n\u0131, \u015firini\u00a0 birg\u0259 dad\u0131rlar, h\u0259tta n\u0259n\u0259- baba olduqdan sonra bir-birl\u0259rini anlaya bilm\u0259dikl\u0259rini dil\u0259 g\u0259tirirl\u0259r.<\/strong><\/p>\n – G\u0259ncl\u0259r maddi durumu, x\u0259yan\u0259ti s\u0259b\u0259b kimi g\u00f6st\u0259rir. Bu ya\u015fl\u0131lar is\u0259 ill\u0259rdir \u00f6z ayaqlar\u0131 \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 dayan\u0131b, b\u00fct\u00fcn \u00e7\u0259tinlikl\u0259ri a\u015f\u0131blar, \u00f6vladlar\u0131na t\u0259hsil veribl\u0259r, evl\u0259ndiribl\u0259r. S\u0259b\u0259bi soru\u015fanda b\u0259yin, yaxud qad\u0131n\u0131n sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n, telefondan, televiziordan \u00e7ox istifad\u0259 etdiyini deyirl\u0259r. Burada \u00e7ox zaman ittiham olunan t\u0259r\u0259f b\u0259yl\u0259r olur. Onlar \u00f6zl\u0259ri d\u0259 bunu etiraf edir. \u0130nan\u0131n, i\u015fl\u0259diyimiz ail\u0259l\u0259rin problemini ara\u015fd\u0131randa onlar\u0131n x\u0259yan\u0259t\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 bo\u015fand\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131n \u015fahidi oluruq.\u00a0 Bu zaman ortaya sual \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r. Bu insan \u0259vv\u0259l x\u0259yan\u0259t etmirdi,\u00a0 indi ortaya \u00e7\u0131xd\u0131? Xeyr. Qad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z c\u0259fake\u015fdir, z\u0259hm\u0259tke\u015fdir. Ba\u015flar\u0131 \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131 b\u00f6y\u00fctm\u0259y\u0259, evin s\u0131x\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 h\u0259ll etm\u0259y\u0259 qar\u0131\u015f\u0131r v\u0259 \u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 baxm\u0131rlar. O c\u00fcml\u0259d\u0259n d\u0259, h\u0259yat yolda\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 diqq\u0259td\u0259n k\u0259narda qoyurlar.<\/p>\n Bel\u0259 olanda is\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259r ba\u015fqa liman axtar\u0131r. Xan\u0131m \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131 b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fcr, evl\u0259ndirir. Evi il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 b\u00fct\u00fcn i\u015fl\u0259ri qaydas\u0131na qoyur v\u0259 bax\u0131r ki, \u00f6m\u00fcr gedir, h\u0259yatda ist\u0259diyi \u00e7ox \u015fey\u0259 nail olub. \u00d6vladlar\u0131 xo\u015fb\u0259xtdir, \u00f6z\u00fc is\u0259 m\u0259n\u0259vi olaraq h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131 itirib, o ba\u015fqas\u0131n\u0131n yan\u0131ndad\u0131r.<\/p>\n Bu zaman xan\u0131m bunu q\u0259bul ed\u0259 bilmir. \u0130ll\u0259rdir c\u0259fa \u00e7\u0259k\u0259n, \u0259zab \u00e7\u0259k\u0259n, yolda\u015f\u0131na sevginin z\u0259rr\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r azalmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 dey\u0259n qad\u0131n x\u0259yan\u0259ti q\u0259bul etmir. \u00d6vlad d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259ldikd\u0259n sonra qad\u0131nlar h\u0259yat yolda\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 2ci, 3-c\u00fc plana at\u0131r. \u00d6vlad d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259tirdikd\u0259n sonra onlara bir rahatl\u0131q g\u0259lir ki, art\u0131q h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131m he\u00e7 yer\u0259 ged\u0259 bilm\u0259z, m\u0259ni ata bilm\u0259z. Xan\u0131mlar ilk n\u00f6vb\u0259d\u0259 b\u00fct\u00fcn sevgi, diqq\u0259t v\u0259 qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131\u00a0 h\u0259yat yolda\u015flar\u0131na verm\u0259lidirl\u0259r. \u00c7\u00fcnki onlar\u0131n h\u0259r an bir qad\u0131n t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259n diqq\u0259t\u0259, qay\u011f\u0131ya, n\u0259vazi\u015f\u0259 ehtiyac\u0131 var. \u00c7\u00fcnki onlar\u0131 bir qad\u0131n d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259tirib, naz\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u0259kib, qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131na qal\u0131b. Ail\u0259 qurduqdan sonra h\u0259r bir b\u0259y evl\u0259ndiyi qad\u0131n\u0131 anas\u0131n\u0131n yerin\u0259 qoyur. Anas\u0131 v\u0259 xan\u0131m\u0131n etdiyini \u00f6z\u00fc d\u0259 bilm\u0259d\u0259n \u015f\u00fcuralt\u0131 hesablay\u0131r. N\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259 xan\u0131m\u0131n\u0131n diqq\u0259tinin az oldu\u011funu g\u00f6rd\u00fckd\u0259 ba\u015fqas\u0131na meyl edir.<\/p>\n Bir m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259tim var, ist\u0259yir\u0259m ki, x\u0259yan\u0259t\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 he\u00e7 bir qad\u0131n z\u0259if olmas\u0131n, \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc t\u0259r\u0259f\u0259 \u015fans verm\u0259sin. \u00d6z h\u0259yat yolda\u015flar\u0131na sahib \u00e7\u0131xs\u0131nlar, he\u00e7 vaxt he\u00e7 n\u0259 gec deyil. Sevgi, qay\u011f\u0131, diqq\u0259tl\u0259 h\u0259yat yolda\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 geri qaytarma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015fs\u0131nlar. Bo\u015fanmaq \u00e7ar\u0259 deyil, ilk n\u00f6vb\u0259d\u0259 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc \u015f\u0259xs\u0259 \u015fans verm\u0259kdir. \u018fksin\u0259 g\u00fccl\u00fc olub h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131na sahib \u00e7\u0131xamaq laz\u0131md\u0131r.\u00a0 M\u0259h\u0259mm\u0259d pey\u011f\u0259mb\u0259r \u201cc\u0259nn\u0259t analar\u0131n ayaqlar\u0131 alt\u0131ndad\u0131r\u201d deyib. M\u0259n xan\u0131mlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 \u00e7i\u00e7\u0259y\u0259, q\u0131z\u0131lg\u00fcl l\u0259\u00e7\u0259yin\u0259 b\u0259nz\u0259dir\u0259m. H\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r ki, o g\u00f6z\u0259lliyi, t\u0259rav\u0259ti qorusunlar. H\u0259r \u015feyd\u0259n \u0259vv\u0259l xan\u0131m \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 baxmal\u0131d\u0131r. Bel\u0259 olduqda h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131 onu qoyub ba\u015fqas\u0131n\u0131n yan\u0131na getm\u0259z.<\/p>\n – X\u0259yan\u0259t n\u0259dir? Kimis\u0259 sevm\u0259k v\u0259 buna g\u00f6r\u0259 ail\u0259ni t\u0259rk etm\u0259k x\u0259yan\u0259tdir?<\/strong><\/p>\n – Bu s\u00f6z insana a\u011f\u0131r g\u0259ls\u0259 d\u0259, unutmayaq ki, hiss h\u0259m d\u0259 bir \u015f\u0259hv\u0259t, heyvani, fiziki hissdir.\u00a0 Bu, ruhi olarsa, ora sevgi, ist\u0259k, xo\u015fb\u0259xtlik daxil olar v\u0259 uzun m\u00fcdd\u0259t davam ed\u0259r.\u00a0 Biz\u0259 bo\u015fanma il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 m\u00fcraci\u0259t ed\u0259n qad\u0131nlar sual verirl\u0259r ki, x\u0259yan\u0259ti ba\u011f\u0131\u015flamaq olarm\u0131? \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259 olar.<\/p>\n \u018fg\u0259r bu fiziki, hans\u0131sa bir t\u0259l\u0259bat\u0131 \u00f6d\u0259m\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnd\u00fcrs\u0259, niy\u0259 d\u0259 ba\u011f\u0131\u015flanmas\u0131n? \u018frinin x\u0259yan\u0259tini ba\u011f\u0131\u015flamamaq xan\u0131m\u0131n z\u0259ifliyidir. Sev\u0259n insan sevdiyini b\u00fct\u00fcn q\u00fcsurlar\u0131 il\u0259 q\u0259bul edir. Yax\u015f\u0131 g\u00fcnd\u0259, pis g\u00fcnd\u0259 b\u0259rab\u0259r olmaq ist\u0259yiriks\u0259, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u0259k ki, tamah\u0131 g\u00fcc g\u0259lib x\u0259yan\u0259t edib. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u0259k ki, bu, bir x\u0259st\u0259likdir. Bir \u00f6vlad d\u00fcnyaya x\u0259st\u0259 g\u0259ldikd\u0259 onu atm\u0131r\u0131q, \u0259ksin\u0259 daha \u00e7ox qay\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6st\u0259rir, sevgimizl\u0259 qoruyuruq. X\u0259yan\u0259t ed\u0259n haqq\u0131nda da bel\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u0259k, daha \u00e7ox qay\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259k, ona. Onu bu x\u0259st\u0259likd\u0259n qurtarma\u011f\u0131n yolu bo\u015fanmaq deyil. Burada diqq\u0259timi \u00e7\u0259k\u0259n bir m\u0259qam da var. Niy\u0259 m\u00fcdrikliy\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259m qoyduqda ki\u015fil\u0259r x\u0259yan\u0259t\u0259 daha \u00e7ox meyilli olur? Ki\u015fil\u0259r ya\u015fa dolduqca onlarda g\u0259nclik, yeniyetm\u0259lik d\u00f6vr\u00fcnd\u0259ki kimi cins\u0259l ist\u0259kl\u0259r \u00e7oxalma\u011fa ba\u015flay\u0131r. Onlar d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr ki, h\u0259yatlar\u0131nda n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7ox qad\u0131n olsa, o q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7ox qazanarlar. O s\u0259b\u0259bd\u0259n d\u0259 meyillilikl\u0259ri art\u0131r. Qad\u0131nlar g\u00fccl\u00fc olsun, h\u0259yat yolda\u015flar\u0131na sahib \u00e7\u0131xs\u0131n. \u00d6zl\u0259rini sevm\u0259yi, diqq\u0259t etm\u0259yi bacars\u0131nlar. Qad\u0131nlar \u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 d\u0259y\u0259r versinl\u0259r v\u0259 g\u00f6z\u0259llikl\u0259rini qorusunlar.<\/p>\n – Dem\u0259k hissl\u0259rin, sevginin ya\u015fa d\u0259xli yoxdur? H\u0259r zaman h\u0259r k\u0259sin qap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 d\u00f6y\u0259 bil\u0259r?<\/strong><\/p>\n – B\u0259z\u0259n deyirl\u0259r ki, filank\u0259s ikinci bahar\u0131n\u0131 ya\u015fay\u0131r. Ola bil\u0259r ki, bu s\u00f6z\u00fc vaxt\u0131 il\u0259 ail\u0259si t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n m\u0259cbur evl\u0259ndiril\u0259nl\u0259r deyir. G\u0259nclik ya\u015f\u0131nda bir \u015f\u0259xs ail\u0259nin se\u00e7diyi bir q\u0131zla evl\u0259nir. \u0130lk vaxtlar sevdiyini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr. Amma g\u00f6r\u00fcr ki, h\u0259r \u015fey ideal deyil. M\u00fcsb\u0259tl\u0259 yana\u015f\u0131, m\u0259nfi t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259rimiz d\u0259 var v\u0259 qad\u0131n bunlar\u0131 \u00e7ox m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n ed\u0259 bilmir. \u00c7\u00fcnki m\u0259i\u015f\u0259t qay\u011f\u0131lar\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 qat\u0131r. B\u0259yl\u0259r is\u0259 xan\u0131m\u0131n ki\u00e7ik q\u00fcsurunu b\u00f6y\u00fck g\u00f6r\u00fcr.<\/p>\n \u00c7\u00fcnki sevm\u0259d\u0259n ail\u0259 qurur v\u0259 bunu q\u0259bul ed\u0259 bilmir. Zaman ke\u00e7dikc\u0259, 40 ya\u015fdan sonra ikinci bahar\u0131n\u0131 ya\u015famaq ist\u0259yir, sevm\u0259k, sevilm\u0259k ist\u0259yir. Bunun\u00a0 tam bioloji, fizioloji, yoxsa psixoloji oldu\u011fu m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n edilm\u0259yib.\u00a0 Amma m\u0259n bunun psixoloji oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u0259m. D\u0259d\u0259-babalar\u0131m\u0131zdan g\u0259l\u0259n bu s\u00f6z \u015f\u00fcuralt\u0131m\u0131za bu c\u00fcr oturub. Ah\u0131ll\u0131\u011fa do\u011fru getdiyini g\u00f6r\u00fcr v\u0259 g\u0259nclik ill\u0259rind\u0259 tam ya\u015faya bilm\u0259diyi duy\u011fular\u0131 doya-doya ya\u015famaq ist\u0259yir. Yeni enerji il\u0259 sevgiy\u0259, qay\u011f\u0131ya ehtiyac duyurlar. El\u0259 x\u0259yan\u0259tl\u0259rin d\u0259 \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259ti yen\u0259 buradan qaynaqlan\u0131r. Qad\u0131n onu anlam\u0131r, ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015fm\u00fcrs\u0259 ba\u015fqa biri il\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259t qurur. \u00c7ox d\u0259y\u0259r verdiyim bir m\u00fc\u0259llimim Vaqif \u018fbd\u00fclh\u00fcseynov h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 deyirdi ki, qad\u0131nlar \u00f6m\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcn sonuna kimi bir ki\u015fini sev\u0259r\u0259k ya\u015faya bilir, amma ki\u015fil\u0259r bir qad\u0131nla he\u00e7 vaxt kifay\u0259tl\u0259n\u0259 bilmir. \u00c7\u00fcnki onlar m\u0259n\u0259vi, ruhi olaraq acd\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n Biz h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdak\u0131 insan\u0131 g\u00f6rm\u0259k ist\u0259diyimiz kimi g\u00f6rm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r\u0131q. Amma unutmayaq ki, h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131m\u0131z Allah\u0131n biz\u0259 bir mesaj\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n Biz onlarla k\u00fcs\u0259nd\u0259, stress ya\u015fadanda sanki bunlar\u0131 Allaha edirik. Bu Allah\u0131n biz\u0259 f\u00fcrs\u0259ti, s\u0131na\u011f\u0131d\u0131r. Onu yox, \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmal\u0131y\u0131q.<\/p>\n Bir insanda n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r q\u00fcsur axtarsan, o q\u0259d\u0259r probleml\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131la\u015farsan. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmal\u0131y\u0131q ki, ail\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rind\u0259 az q\u00fcsur axtaraq. N\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r az q\u00fcsur, o q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7ox xo\u015fb\u0259xtlik g\u0259tir\u0259r. Buna \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck vers\u0259k, ail\u0259 probleml\u0259rimiz o q\u0259d\u0259r tez h\u0259ll olunar. Birind\u0259 axtard\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z q\u00fcsur \u00f6z \u015f\u00fcuralt\u0131m\u0131zda, \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fczd\u0259 daha \u00e7ox oldu\u011fu \u00fcz\u0259 \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r. Bir ki\u015fi, yaxud qad\u0131n \u00f6z h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131nda bir problem axtar\u0131rsa, bu, psixoloji amildir. O dem\u0259kdir ki,\u00a0 onun \u015f\u00fcuralt\u0131nda daha d\u0259rin problem var. Nec\u0259 ki,\u00a0 biz yolda\u015f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131na qal\u0131r, yem\u0259k verir, paltarlar\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259miz edirik, onun m\u0259n\u0259vi \u0259ziyy\u0259tl\u0259rini \u00e7\u0259kirik , amma bir \u015feyi unuduruq ki,\u00a0 ruhunu doyurtmuruq. Ruhu ac olduqda insan\u0131n fikri ba\u015fqa yerd\u0259 olur. Ruhu tox insan sevdiyi qad\u0131na da, ail\u0259sin\u0259, dostuna da sadiq olur.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Az\u0259rbaycanda g\u0259nc ail\u0259l\u0259r aras\u0131nda bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n say\u0131n\u0131n art\u0131\u011f\u0131 bildirilir. Lakin\u00a0 haz\u0131rda \u0259n diqq\u0259t \u00e7\u0259k\u0259n\u00a0 ba\u015fqa m\u0259qam var, g\u0259nc ail\u0259l\u0259r deyil, ill\u0259rdir bir yerd\u0259 ya\u015fayan ya\u015fl\u0131 ail\u0259l\u0259r bo\u015fan\u0131r. V\u0259 v\u0259ziyy\u0259t\u00a0 g\u0259nc ail\u0259l\u0259r aras\u0131ndak\u0131 bo\u015fanmalar\u0131 ke\u00e7ir. Bu istiqam\u0259td\u0259 ara\u015fd\u0131rma aparan psixoloq-psixoterapevt Xanim Nift\u0259liyeva problemin k\u00f6k\u00fc v\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259ri il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 Modern.az sayt\u0131na m\u00fcsahib\u0259 verib. Onunla s\u00f6hb\u0259ti t\u0259qdim edirik. – G\u0259nc ail\u0259l\u0259r hardasa ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcl\u0259ndir. Sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259r, \u00e7\u0131l\u011f\u0131nl\u0131q, x\u0259yan\u0259t v\u0259 s. B\u0259s uzun \u00f6m\u00fcrl\u00fc ail\u0259l\u0259r niy\u0259 ayr\u0131l\u0131r? Bunun k\u00f6k\u00fcnd\u0259 n\u0259 durur? – Bo\u015fanmalr\u0131n say\u0131 b\u00fct\u00fcn d\u00fcnya \u00fczr\u0259, o c\u00fcml\u0259d\u0259n Az\u0259rbaycanda da norman\u0131 ke\u00e7ib. Bu,bir\u00a0 SOS…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":64778,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/xeyanet_006.jpg",640,435,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/xeyanet_006.jpg",640,435,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/xeyanet_006.jpg",640,435,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/xeyanet_006-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/xeyanet_006-300x204.jpg",300,204,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/xeyanet_006.jpg",640,435,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/xeyanet_006.jpg",640,435,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/xeyanet_006.jpg",640,435,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/xeyanet_006-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/xeyanet_006.jpg",640,435,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"Az\u0259rbaycanda g\u0259nc ail\u0259l\u0259r aras\u0131nda bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n say\u0131n\u0131n art\u0131\u011f\u0131 bildirilir. Lakin\u00a0 haz\u0131rda \u0259n diqq\u0259t \u00e7\u0259k\u0259n\u00a0 ba\u015fqa m\u0259qam var, g\u0259nc ail\u0259l\u0259r deyil, ill\u0259rdir bir yerd\u0259 ya\u015fayan ya\u015fl\u0131 ail\u0259l\u0259r bo\u015fan\u0131r. V\u0259 v\u0259ziyy\u0259t\u00a0 g\u0259nc ail\u0259l\u0259r aras\u0131ndak\u0131 bo\u015fanmalar\u0131 ke\u00e7ir. Bu istiqam\u0259td\u0259 ara\u015fd\u0131rma aparan psixoloq-psixoterapevt Xanim Nift\u0259liyeva problemin k\u00f6k\u00fc v\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259ri il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 Modern.az sayt\u0131na m\u00fcsahib\u0259 verib. Onunla s\u00f6hb\u0259ti t\u0259qdim edirik. –…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/64777"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=64777"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/64777\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/64778"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=64777"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=64777"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=64777"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}