{"id":659474,"date":"2023-11-21T15:17:59","date_gmt":"2023-11-21T11:17:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=659474"},"modified":"2023-11-21T15:17:59","modified_gmt":"2023-11-21T11:17:59","slug":"h%c9%99y%c9%99can-t%c9%99bili-atasi-il%c9%99-dalasan-yoldasi-il%c9%99-kus%c9%99n-qacir-siginacaga-c%c9%99miyy%c9%99td%c9%99-n%c9%99-bas-verir-foto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=659474","title":{"rendered":"H\u018fY\u018fCAN T\u018fB\u0130L\u0130: Atas\u0131 il\u0259 dala\u015fan, yolda\u015f\u0131 il\u0259 k\u00fcs\u0259n qa\u00e7\u0131r s\u0131\u011f\u0131naca\u011fa – C\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 n\u0259 ba\u015f verir? + FOTO"},"content":{"rendered":"

Son vaxtlar s\u0131\u011f\u0131naca\u011fa m\u00fcraci\u0259t ed\u0259n insanlar\u0131n say\u0131 artmaqdad\u0131r. H\u0259tta v\u0259ziyy\u0259t o yer\u0259 \u00e7at\u0131b ki, gender \u0259sasl\u0131 zorak\u0131l\u0131q qurbanlar\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn olan s\u0131\u011f\u0131nacaqlarda onlar\u0131n \u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 bel\u0259 yer tapmaq \u00e7\u0259tinl\u0259\u015fib. Niy\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259timizd\u0259 qad\u0131nlar isti yuvalar\u0131n\u0131 qoyub, \u00f6vladlar\u0131 il\u0259 birlikd\u0259 s\u0131\u011f\u0131nacaqlara \u00fcz tutma\u011fa m\u0259cbur qal\u0131rlar? M\u00fczakir\u0259 olunmal\u0131 m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259\u00a0\u00e7oxdur.<\/p>\n

M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, 40-50 il \u00f6nc\u0259 ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 s\u00f6z-s\u00f6hb\u0259t olmurdu? \u018fr-arvad aras\u0131nda m\u00fcbahis\u0259, valideyn \u00f6vlad aras\u0131nda k\u00fcs\u00fcl\u00fcl\u00fck ya\u015fanm\u0131rd\u0131? Yoxsa o vaxtlar dolan\u0131\u015f\u0131q s\u0259viyy\u0259si ham\u0131da y\u00fcks\u0259k s\u0259viyy\u0259d\u0259 olub?<\/p>\n

Dem\u0259li, h\u0259r d\u00f6vrd\u0259 bu g\u00fcn m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 edil\u0259n probleml\u0259r olub, amma problem\u0259, onun h\u0259llin\u0259\u00a0insanlar\u0131n yana\u015fmas\u0131 d\u0259yi\u015fib. T\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, bu g\u00fcn atas\u0131 il\u0259 dala\u015fan, yolda\u015f\u0131 il\u0259 k\u00fcs\u0259n\u00a0s\u0131\u011f\u0131naca\u011fa\u00a0\u00fcz tutur. \u0130nsanlar problemi h\u0259ll etm\u0259k, \u00e7\u0131x\u0131\u015f yolu axtarmaqdansa, s\u0131\u011f\u0131naca\u011fa qa\u00e7ma\u011f\u0131 se\u00e7irl\u0259r. B\u0259s bu tendensiya nec\u0259 v\u0259 niy\u0259 formala\u015f\u0131b?<\/p>\n

Az\u0259rbaycanda s\u0131\u011f\u0131nacaqlar\u0131n say\u0131 kifay\u0259t q\u0259d\u0259r deyil, keyfiyy\u0259ti y\u00fcks\u0259k s\u0259viyy\u0259d\u0259 deyil, o, ayr\u0131 m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259dir. Amma bu\u00a0onu dem\u0259y\u0259 \u0259sas verirmi ki, b\u00fct\u00fcn b\u00f6lg\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 \u00e7oxlu s\u0131\u011f\u0131nacaq\u00a0yarad\u0131ls\u0131n? H\u0259r ki\u00e7ik problemd\u0259 d\u0259 ham\u0131 \u00fcz tutsun s\u0131\u011f\u0131nacaqlara, b\u0259s sonra?<\/p>\n

Ondansa insanlar\u0131n probleml\u0259rini s\u0131\u011f\u0131naca\u011fa q\u0259d\u0259r h\u0259ll ed\u0259 bilm\u0259si \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn alternativ h\u0259ll yollar\u0131, profilaktik s\u00f6hb\u0259tl\u0259r daha effektiv olmazm\u0131? Bunun bir mexanizmi olmal\u0131d\u0131r, ya yox?<\/p>\n

Sosioloq\u00a0\u018fhm\u0259d Q\u0259\u015f\u0259mo\u011flu<\/strong>\u00a0Oxu.Az<\/strong>-a a\u00e7\u0131qlamas\u0131nda qeyd edib ki, bunun s\u0259b\u0259bi son 10 il \u0259rzind\u0259 Az\u0259rbaycanda qad\u0131nlara qar\u015f\u0131 zorak\u0131l\u0131qla ba\u011fl\u0131 h\u0259yata ke\u00e7iril\u0259n layih\u0259l\u0259rdir:<\/p>\n

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\u201cAz\u0259rbaycanda 20 il\u0259 yax\u0131nd\u0131r ki, bir s\u0131ra beyn\u0259lxalq t\u0259\u015fkilatlar qad\u0131nlara qar\u015f\u0131 zorak\u0131l\u0131qlar\u0131n qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n al\u0131nmas\u0131 istiqam\u0259tind\u0259 bir s\u0131ra t\u0259dbirl\u0259r h\u0259yata ke\u00e7irirl\u0259r. \u201cQad\u0131nlar \u00f6z h\u00fcquqlar\u0131n\u0131 bilmir\u201d, \u201cQad\u0131nlar\u0131 m\u00fcdafi\u0259 etm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r\u201d, \u201cQad\u0131nlara zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011fa son\u201d \u015f\u00fcarlar\u0131 alt\u0131nda ke\u00e7iril\u0259n layih\u0259l\u0259r ilk bax\u0131\u015fda insana xo\u015f g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr. \u00c7\u00fcnki do\u011furdan da t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcfl\u0259 dem\u0259liyik ki, qad\u0131nlara qar\u015f\u0131 zorak\u0131l\u0131q var v\u0259 bunun qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 almaq laz\u0131md\u0131r. Amma bunun qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 nec\u0259 almaq laz\u0131md\u0131r? Bax\u0131n, \u0259sas sual budur.<\/p>\n

M\u0259n d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u0259m ki, tamam ba\u015fqa t\u0259dbirl\u0259r g\u00f6r\u00fclm\u0259li idi. Bu problemi h\u0259ll ed\u0259rk\u0259n \u00f6n\u0259mli olan ail\u0259ni nec\u0259 m\u00fcdafi\u0259 etm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259si olmal\u0131 idi. Qad\u0131n\u0131n ail\u0259si il\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tinin daha yax\u015f\u0131 olmas\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn t\u0259dbirl\u0259r g\u00f6r\u00fclm\u0259li idi.<\/p>\n

Amma \u201cey\u00a0qad\u0131nlar, qoymay\u0131n siz\u0259 zorak\u0131l\u0131q olunsun\u201d kimi \u015f\u00fcarlar s\u0259sl\u0259ndirm\u0259k, \u201csiz azads\u0131n\u0131z\u201d dem\u0259k bir t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259n b\u0259zi qad\u0131nlar\u0131 q\u0131z\u0131\u015fd\u0131rma\u011fa g\u0259tirib \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131r. Ki\u015fil\u0259rin m\u00f6vqeyi is\u0259 unudulur. Fikirl\u0259\u015fin, qad\u0131nlar\u0131 kimd\u0259n qoruyuruq? Do\u011fma atas\u0131ndan, qarda\u015f\u0131ndan, ya da \u0259rind\u0259n… Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259ri v\u0259h\u015fi, zorak\u0131 kimi t\u0259svir etm\u0259kl\u0259 bu problemi h\u0259ll ed\u0259 bilm\u0259rik\u201d.<\/p>\n

\u201cQ\u0131z t\u0259r\u0259fi q\u0131z\u0131n\u0131, o\u011flan t\u0259r\u0259fi o\u011flunu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcns\u0259, ortada ail\u0259 qalmaz\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u018f.Q\u0259\u015f\u0259mo\u011flu ail\u0259 modelinin b\u0259z\u0259n valideynl\u0259r t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n ist\u0259m\u0259d\u0259n d\u0259 olsa, m\u0259hv edildiyin\u0259 diqq\u0259t \u00e7\u0259kib:<\/p>\n

\u201cG\u0259nc ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 bir m\u00fcbahis\u0259 olanda q\u0131z t\u0259r\u0259fi g\u0259lir q\u0131z\u0131n t\u0259r\u0259fini saxlay\u0131r, o\u011flan t\u0259r\u0259fi d\u0259 o\u011flan\u0131n. Bel\u0259 olan halda o ail\u0259d\u0259 sa\u011flam m\u00fcnasib\u0259t ola bilm\u0259z. Do\u011fru olan a\u011fsaqqal\u0131n, a\u011fbir\u00e7\u0259yin h\u0259r iki t\u0259r\u0259f \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn q\u0131z\u0131l ortan\u0131 se\u00e7m\u0259si v\u0259 ail\u0259ni m\u00fcdafi\u0259 etm\u0259sidir. T\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259r aras\u0131nda ayr\u0131-se\u00e7kilik etm\u0259k yox. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 bu m\u00f6vzularda ki\u015fini, qad\u0131n\u0131 yox, ail\u0259ni v\u0259 ail\u0259d\u0259ki ah\u0259ngdar m\u00fcnasib\u0259ti b\u0259rpa etm\u0259k namin\u0259 layih\u0259l\u0259r h\u0259yata ke\u00e7irilm\u0259li idi.<\/p>\n

Bununla ba\u011fl\u0131 m\u0259nim \u00e7ox ciddi layih\u0259m d\u0259 var. \u018fvv\u0259ll\u0259r bizim bu istiqam\u0259td\u0259 t\u0259dbirl\u0259r h\u0259yata ke\u00e7ir\u0259n m\u0259rk\u0259zimiz var idi. T\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, m\u0259rk\u0259zin f\u0259aliyy\u0259ti dayand\u0131 v\u0259 bu kimi layih\u0259l\u0259r yar\u0131m\u00e7\u0131q qald\u0131. 10 il \u0259vv\u0259lki a\u00e7\u0131qlamalar\u0131ma da diqq\u0259t ets\u0259niz, g\u00f6r\u0259rsiniz ki, m\u0259n uzun m\u00fcdd\u0259tdir SOS siqnal\u0131 verir, c\u0259miyy\u0259t\u0259 \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r\u0131\u015f edir\u0259m. Ail\u0259d\u0259 arvad\u0131 v\u0259 ya ki\u015fini birt\u0259r\u0259fli m\u00fcdafi\u0259 etm\u0259kl\u0259 \u00e7\u0131x\u0131\u015f yolu tapa bilm\u0259rik. D\u00fcz 10 ildir\u00a0m\u0259n deyir\u0259m ki, t\u0259cili olaraq c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 bu prosesl\u0259rin daha da d\u0259rinl\u0259\u015fm\u0259m\u0259si \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ciddi i\u015fl\u0259r g\u00f6r\u00fcls\u00fcn. Elmi \u0259saslarla t\u0259sdiql\u0259n\u0259n proqram haz\u0131rlanmal\u0131d\u0131r. Orada aidiyy\u0259ti qurumlar\u0131n g\u00f6rm\u0259li oldu\u011fu i\u015fl\u0259r, h\u00fcquq-m\u00fchafiz\u0259 orqanlar\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6hd\u0259likl\u0259ri v\u0259 h\u0259tta m\u0259tbuat\u0131n bel\u0259 m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259ni hans\u0131 formada ictimail\u0259\u015fdirm\u0259li oldu\u011fu \u00f6z \u0259ksini tapmal\u0131d\u0131r. Sosial i\u015f xidm\u0259tl\u0259ri yarad\u0131lmal\u0131, sosial i\u015f\u00e7i anlay\u0131\u015flar\u0131 formala\u015fmal\u0131d\u0131r\u201d.<\/p>\n

H\u0259r il bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n say\u0131 art\u0131r<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sosioloq deyir ki, bu, \u00e7ox d\u0259h\u015f\u0259tli hadis\u0259dir:<\/p>\n

\u201cAz\u0259rbaycanda r\u0259smi statistikaya g\u00f6r\u0259, 100 nikahdan 40-\u0131 bo\u015fanmaya gedir. \u00dcst\u0259lik k\u0259nd yerl\u0259rind\u0259 r\u0259smi nikahda olmay\u0131b, molla k\u0259bini il\u0259 evl\u0259nib ayr\u0131lanlar\u0131 n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 alsaq, bu g\u00f6st\u0259rici\u00a0daha ac\u0131nacaql\u0131 olur. \u00c7\u00fcnki k\u0259nd yerl\u0259rind\u0259 molla k\u0259bini il\u0259 evl\u0259nib sonra ayr\u0131lanlar daha \u00e7oxdur. Bu prosesl\u0259r \u0130taliyada, Norve\u00e7d\u0259, Kanadada ba\u015f vermir, t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, Az\u0259rbaycanda ba\u015f verir. B\u00f6y\u00fcy\u0259n g\u0259nclik d\u0259h\u015f\u0259tli m\u00fchit\u0259, c\u0259miyy\u0259t\u0259 do\u011fru gedir. Bu \u00f6lk\u0259d\u0259 he\u00e7 kim ixtisasla\u015fm\u0131\u015f kadrlar\u0131n t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259sind\u0259n istifad\u0259 etm\u0259k ist\u0259mir. Ham\u0131 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc \u201ca\u011f\u0131ll\u0131\u201d hesab edir v\u0259 d\u00fczg\u00fcn istiqam\u0259t ver\u0259nd\u0259 s\u0259ni dinl\u0259m\u0259k ist\u0259mir.<\/p>\n

T\u0259cili t\u0259dbirl\u0259r g\u00f6r\u00fclm\u0259zs\u0259, bu prosesl\u0259r yeni n\u0259slin keyfiyy\u0259tin\u0259 m\u0259nfi t\u0259sir g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259c\u0259k. Yeni n\u0259sil bizim xalq\u0131n d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rini g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259y\u0259 aparacaq. H\u0259min d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rin sa\u011flam qalmas\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn gecikm\u0259d\u0259n t\u0259dbirl\u0259r g\u00f6r\u00fclm\u0259lidir\u201d.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Son vaxtlar s\u0131\u011f\u0131naca\u011fa m\u00fcraci\u0259t ed\u0259n insanlar\u0131n say\u0131 artmaqdad\u0131r. H\u0259tta v\u0259ziyy\u0259t o yer\u0259 \u00e7at\u0131b ki, gender \u0259sasl\u0131 zorak\u0131l\u0131q qurbanlar\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn olan s\u0131\u011f\u0131nacaqlarda onlar\u0131n \u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 bel\u0259 yer tapmaq \u00e7\u0259tinl\u0259\u015fib. Niy\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259timizd\u0259 qad\u0131nlar isti yuvalar\u0131n\u0131 qoyub, \u00f6vladlar\u0131 il\u0259 birlikd\u0259 s\u0131\u011f\u0131nacaqlara \u00fcz tutma\u011fa m\u0259cbur qal\u0131rlar? M\u00fczakir\u0259 olunmal\u0131 m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259\u00a0\u00e7oxdur. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, 40-50 il \u00f6nc\u0259 ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 s\u00f6z-s\u00f6hb\u0259t olmurdu? \u018fr-arvad aras\u0131nda m\u00fcbahis\u0259, valideyn \u00f6vlad aras\u0131nda k\u00fcs\u00fcl\u00fcl\u00fck ya\u015fanm\u0131rd\u0131? Yoxsa o vaxtlar dolan\u0131\u015f\u0131q s\u0259viyy\u0259si ham\u0131da y\u00fcks\u0259k s\u0259viyy\u0259d\u0259 olub? Dem\u0259li, h\u0259r d\u00f6vrd\u0259 bu g\u00fcn m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 edil\u0259n probleml\u0259r olub, amma problem\u0259, onun h\u0259llin\u0259\u00a0insanlar\u0131n yana\u015fmas\u0131 d\u0259yi\u015fib. T\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, bu g\u00fcn atas\u0131 il\u0259 dala\u015fan,…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":659478,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/5d4aed2f79da3e21c86a9080.jpg",620,413,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/5d4aed2f79da3e21c86a9080.jpg",620,413,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/5d4aed2f79da3e21c86a9080.jpg",620,413,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/5d4aed2f79da3e21c86a9080-500x280.jpg",500,280,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/5d4aed2f79da3e21c86a9080-548x365.jpg",548,365,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/5d4aed2f79da3e21c86a9080.jpg",620,413,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/5d4aed2f79da3e21c86a9080.jpg",620,413,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/5d4aed2f79da3e21c86a9080.jpg",620,413,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/5d4aed2f79da3e21c86a9080-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/5d4aed2f79da3e21c86a9080.jpg",620,413,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"Son vaxtlar s\u0131\u011f\u0131naca\u011fa m\u00fcraci\u0259t ed\u0259n insanlar\u0131n say\u0131 artmaqdad\u0131r. H\u0259tta v\u0259ziyy\u0259t o yer\u0259 \u00e7at\u0131b ki, gender \u0259sasl\u0131 zorak\u0131l\u0131q qurbanlar\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn olan s\u0131\u011f\u0131nacaqlarda onlar\u0131n \u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 bel\u0259 yer tapmaq \u00e7\u0259tinl\u0259\u015fib. Niy\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259timizd\u0259 qad\u0131nlar isti yuvalar\u0131n\u0131 qoyub, \u00f6vladlar\u0131 il\u0259 birlikd\u0259 s\u0131\u011f\u0131nacaqlara \u00fcz tutma\u011fa m\u0259cbur qal\u0131rlar? M\u00fczakir\u0259 olunmal\u0131 m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259\u00a0\u00e7oxdur. 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