{"id":668556,"date":"2023-12-14T10:04:19","date_gmt":"2023-12-14T06:04:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=668556"},"modified":"2023-12-14T10:04:19","modified_gmt":"2023-12-14T06:04:19","slug":"arvad-%c9%99rind%c9%99n-hec-n%c9%99-ist%c9%99y%c9%99-bilm%c9%99z-psixoloqdan-qalmaqalli-aciqlama-video","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=668556","title":{"rendered":"\u201cArvad \u0259rind\u0259n he\u00e7 n\u0259 ist\u0259y\u0259 bilm\u0259z\u201d \u2013 Psixoloqdan QALMAQALLI A\u00c7IQLAMA \u2013 V\u0130DEO"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"text-content\" data-id=\"\" data-url=\"\">\n<p>Son zamanlar T\u00fcrkiy\u0259d\u0259 sosial media fenomenl\u0259ri \u00e7irkli pullar\u0131n yuyulmas\u0131 s\u0259b\u0259bil\u0259 h\u0259bs olunurlar. Bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 Az\u0259rbaycan blogerl\u0259rinin d\u0259 bahal\u0131 h\u0259yatlar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00fcnd\u0259m\u0259 g\u0259tirib. H\u0259tta bir \u00e7ox ail\u0259l\u0259r blogerl\u0259rin h\u0259yat t\u0259rzini ya\u015faya bilm\u0259dikl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 da\u011f\u0131l\u0131r. Ara\u015fd\u0131rmalar g\u00f6st\u0259rir ki, qad\u0131nlar\u0131n \u00e7oxu bloger c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259rin d\u0259bd\u0259b\u0259li h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131 ona ya\u015fada bilm\u0259diyin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, \u0259rl\u0259rini g\u00fcnahland\u0131r\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n<p>Sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259ki bahal\u0131 h\u0259yatlar ail\u0259 institutlar\u0131n\u0131n s\u0131radan \u00e7\u0131xmas\u0131nda v\u0259 ail\u0259l\u0259rin da\u011f\u0131lmas\u0131nda t\u0259siredici rol oynay\u0131rm\u0131?<\/p>\n<p>Musavat.com-un m\u0259lumat\u0131na g\u00f6r\u0259, psixoloq Elmir \u018fkb\u0259r Bizim.Media-ya bildirib ki, insanlar dan\u0131\u015f\u0131lan na\u011f\u0131llara inanma\u011fa meyllidirl\u0259r: &#8220;Birincisi, ham\u0131 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 sual verm\u0259lidir ki, bu c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259rin payla\u015fd\u0131qlar\u0131 h\u0259yata onlar n\u0259yin vasit\u0259sil\u0259 nail olublar? Biz \u00e7ox g\u00f6z\u0259l bilirik ki, onlar hans\u0131 formada, n\u0259yin hesab\u0131na b\u00f6y\u00fck m\u0259bl\u0259\u011fd\u0259 pullar\u0131 \u0259ld\u0259 edirl\u0259r. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, hans\u0131sa varl\u0131 qoca ki\u015fi \u00a0yan\u0131nda saxlad\u0131\u011f\u0131, g\u0259zdirdiyi q\u0131zlara yalan\u00e7\u0131 \u0259rl\u0259r tap\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Sonra bir g\u0259d\u0259y\u0259 pul verir ki, saxlad\u0131\u011f\u0131 favoritikas\u0131yla guya evl\u0259nmi\u015f kimi \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6st\u0259rsin. Onlar da h\u0259min pulun m\u00fcqabilind\u0259 \u00f6zl\u0259rini \u0259r-arvad kimi t\u0259qdim edirl\u0259r.<\/p>\n<p>B\u0259zil\u0259ri h\u0259tta, gedib r\u0259smi nikaha girir. Bu g\u00fcn \u00e7oxumuzun tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u0259nc m\u00fc\u011f\u0259nnil\u0259rin, apar\u0131c\u0131lar\u0131n, kiml\u0259rins\u0259 \u0259rl\u0259ri pulla sat\u0131n al\u0131n\u0131blar. Sonra bel\u0259 c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259r sosial mediada videolar, \u015f\u0259kill\u0259r payla\u015f\u0131rlar, efirl\u0259r\u0259 d\u0259v\u0259t olunurlar. Ham\u0131 da bax\u0131b onlar\u0131n x\u0259st\u0259sin\u0259 \u00e7evrilir&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>Psixoloqun s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, \u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck b\u0259la odur ki, insanlar h\u0259min bahal\u0131, b\u0259rb\u0259z\u0259kli h\u0259yatlar\u0131 efirl\u0259rd\u0259, filml\u0259rd\u0259, seriallarda m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 edirl\u0259r v\u0259 a\u011f\u0131ls\u0131zcas\u0131na tutub yap\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar ki, biz d\u0259 bel\u0259 ya\u015fayaq: &#8220;Arzu-ist\u0259y\u0259 he\u00e7 bir etiraz yoxdur. Amma onlar &#8220;bu h\u0259yat\u0131 nec\u0259 \u0259ld\u0259 etm\u0259k m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr?&#8221; qismini fikirl\u0259\u015fmirl\u0259r. \u00d6z\u00fc d\u0259 m\u0259n bir \u015feyi anlam\u0131ram. 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