{"id":670548,"date":"2023-12-19T10:21:28","date_gmt":"2023-12-19T06:21:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=670548"},"modified":"2023-12-19T10:21:28","modified_gmt":"2023-12-19T06:21:28","slug":"bu-adlari-usaqlara-ver%c9%99nd%c9%99-depressiyaya-dusurl%c9%99r-psixoloq","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=670548","title":{"rendered":"Bu adlar\u0131 u\u015faqlara ver\u0259nd\u0259 depressiyaya d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrl\u0259r &#8211; Psixoloq"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>\u201cAd\u0131n insan taleyind\u0259, davran\u0131\u015f\u0131nda, \u015f\u0259xsi h\u0259yat\u0131nda \u00e7ox b\u00f6y\u00fck rolu var. Biz is\u0259 bunu d\u0259rk etmirik. B\u0259z\u0259n ata-anam\u0131za xo\u015f olsun dey\u0259 \u00f6vlad\u0131m\u0131za valideynl\u0259rimizin ad\u0131n\u0131 qoyuruq. Yaxud ata-anam\u0131z deyir ki, n\u0259slim-k\u00f6k\u00fcm davam etsin dey\u0259 u\u015fa\u011fa m\u0259nim ad\u0131m qoyulmal\u0131d\u0131r. Q\u0259rib\u0259 bir s\u00f6z var &#8211; ad\u0131m yerd\u0259 qalmas\u0131n&#8230; S\u0259nin ad\u0131n niy\u0259 yerd\u0259 qal\u0131r ki? Ad\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6z\u00fcn da\u015f\u0131y\u0131rsan, \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259t v\u0259siq\u0259nd\u0259 d\u0259 var. Sonra da m\u0259zar da\u015f\u0131nda ad\u0131n yaz\u0131lacaq. Y\u0259ni ad\u0131n he\u00e7 vaxt yerd\u0259 qalmayacaq. Bizd\u0259 is\u0259 bel\u0259 deyil. B\u0259z\u0259n bizi m\u0259cbur edirl\u0259r ki, u\u015fa\u011fa anam\u0131n ad\u0131n\u0131 qoymal\u0131san. Yaxud da qaynana deyir ki, u\u015fa\u011fa anam\u0131n ad\u0131n\u0131 qoymal\u0131san. G\u0259nc ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 b\u0259z\u0259n bunun \u00fcst\u00fcnd\u0259 h\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n s\u00f6z-s\u00f6hb\u0259t d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr, dava-dala\u015f olur. \u018fn vacibi bizim \u00f6vlad\u0131m\u0131zd\u0131r. U\u015fa\u011fa ad verm\u0259k m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259sini ata-anan\u0131n \u00f6hd\u0259sin\u0259 buraxmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r, onlar \u00f6z aralar\u0131nda h\u0259ll etm\u0259lidirl\u0259r\u201d.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Bu s\u00f6zl\u0259ri\u00a0\u00a0tan\u0131nm\u0131\u015f psixoloq\u00a0<strong>G\u00fclnar Orucova\u00a0<\/strong>deyib.<\/p>\n<p>Psixoloq bildirib ki, b\u0259zi adlar var, dini bax\u0131mdan da qoyulmas\u0131 qada\u011fan olunub: \u201cM\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, \u201cQ\u0259z\u0259nf\u0259r\u201d ad\u0131n\u0131n qoyulmas\u0131 dinimiz t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n qada\u011fand\u0131r. Bir ne\u00e7\u0259 ad var ki, dinimiz h\u0259min adlar\u0131 u\u015fa\u011fa verm\u0259yi m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t g\u00f6rm\u00fcr. B\u0259z\u0259n u\u015faqlara psixoloji olaraq adlar verilir. \u201cU\u011fur\u201d, \u201cQalib\u201d ad\u0131 veril\u0259n u\u015faqlar el\u0259 bilirl\u0259r ki, h\u0259r zaman u\u011furlu olacaqlar, qalib g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259r. Bel\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131n sonradan depressiyaya d\u00fc\u015fd\u00fckl\u0259rini g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u00fck. \u00c7\u00fcnki ad\u0131n \u201cU\u011fur\u201d olmas\u0131 insan\u0131n h\u0259r zaman u\u011fur qazanaca\u011f\u0131 dem\u0259k deyil. B\u0259z\u0259n \u201c\u0130gid\u201d, \u201cC\u0259sar\u0259t\u201d adlar\u0131n\u0131 qoyub u\u015fa\u011fa bo\u015f yer\u0259 \u00f6zg\u00fcv\u0259n verirl\u0259r. U\u015faq da ad\u0131n\u0131n c\u0259sar\u0259tind\u0259n \u00e7\u0131x\u0131\u015f ed\u0259r\u0259k el\u0259 davran\u0131\u015flar s\u0259rgil\u0259yir ki, dig\u0259r insanlar t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n t\u0259rbiy\u0259siz, \u00f6zba\u015f\u0131na, a\u011f\u0131ldank\u0259m kimi qar\u015f\u0131lan\u0131r. Dinimiz buyurur ki, M\u0259h\u0259mm\u0259d, \u018fli adlar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6vlad\u0131na qoy. H\u0259tta deyirl\u0259r ki, 4 o\u011flu olan bir insan\u0131n m\u00fctl\u0259q evind\u0259 bu adlardan biri olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Bunu n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 alanlar o q\u0259d\u0259r M\u0259h\u0259mm\u0259d, \u018fli ad\u0131n\u0131 u\u015faqlar\u0131na qoyublar ki, \u018fli, M\u0259h\u0259mm\u0259d ad\u0131 sistemd\u0259, do\u011frudan da, h\u0259ddind\u0259n art\u0131q \u00e7oxdur. Sistemd\u0259 \u00e7ox oldu\u011fu \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn, e\u015fitdiyim\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, art\u0131q \u018fli v\u0259 M\u0259h\u0259mm\u0259d adlar\u0131n\u0131n qoyulmas\u0131 qada\u011fan olunub. Buna baxmayaraq, insanlar yen\u0259 d\u0259 h\u0259min adlar\u0131 qoyurlar. Ke\u00e7mi\u015fd\u0259 \u201cSovet\u201d, \u201cKombayn\u201d, \u201cTraktor\u201d kimi adlar qoyurdular. Niy\u0259? Sovet h\u00f6kum\u0259tin\u0259 xo\u015f olsun dey\u0259. D\u00fczd\u00fcr, bu g\u00fcn d\u0259 h\u00f6kum\u0259t\u0259 xo\u015f olmas\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn dey\u0259 adlar qoyulur. Amma bu adlar, hardasa, azd\u0131r v\u0259 sabah u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 utand\u0131rm\u0131r\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Psixoloq deyib ki, \u00f6lk\u0259d\u0259 ad d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259k problemli m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259dir: \u201cB\u0259z\u0259n u\u015faq ad\u0131ndan utan\u0131r, amma d\u0259yi\u015f\u0259 bilmir. \u00c7\u00fcnki ad d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259k \u00e7ox problemli bir m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259dir. H\u0259tta m\u0259hk\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r m\u00fcraci\u0259t etm\u0259lis\u0259n, yaln\u0131z bundan sonra ad\u0131n\u0131 d\u0259yi\u015f\u0259 bil\u0259rs\u0259n. Numerologiya elmind\u0259 adlar\u0131n h\u0259rfl\u0259rinin bel\u0259 insan\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131na t\u0259sirind\u0259n dan\u0131\u015f\u0131l\u0131r. \u00c7ox maraql\u0131 elmdir. Bildirilir ki, u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131za h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 sonu saitl\u0259 bit\u0259n adlar qoyun. \u00c7\u00fcnki bel\u0259 adlar u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n h\u0259yat yolunun a\u00e7\u0131q v\u0259 u\u011furlu olmas\u0131na d\u0259lal\u0259t edir. \u00d6vlad\u0131m\u0131za ad se\u00e7\u0259rk\u0259n h\u0259ddind\u0259n art\u0131q diqq\u0259tli olmal\u0131y\u0131q. T\u0259krar adlar\u0131 qoymamal\u0131y\u0131q. Eyni adlar \u00e7oxalmamal\u0131d\u0131r. Ke\u00e7mi\u015fd\u0259 tarixi \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259tl\u0259rin, xanl\u0131qlar\u0131n ba\u015f\u00e7\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131n, c\u0259ngav\u0259rl\u0259rin adlar\u0131n\u0131 da u\u015faqlara qoyurdular. \u0130ndi is\u0259 prezidentl\u0259rin, \u015f\u0259hidl\u0259rin adlar\u0131n\u0131 qoyurlar. H\u0259r zaman g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015f\u00fck ki, insan ad\u0131 ucald\u0131r, ad insan\u0131 he\u00e7 vaxt ucaltm\u0131r. Kim\u0259s\u0259 ad\u0131na g\u00f6r\u0259 h\u00f6rm\u0259t etmirl\u0259r. O adam \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 h\u00f6rm\u0259t qazan\u0131rsa, bu zaman h\u0259r k\u0259s ona h\u00f6rm\u0259t edir. Adlarda x\u00fcsusi s\u0259sl\u0259r olur. Bir n\u0259f\u0259r demi\u015fdi ki, xo\u015fb\u0259xt adamlar\u0131n adlar\u0131nda h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 \u201cL\u201d, \u201cN\u201d, \u201cR\u201d h\u0259rfl\u0259ri olur. Sanki h\u0259r bir ad m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n titr\u0259m\u0259l\u0259rin yaratd\u0131\u011f\u0131 melodiyad\u0131r. Bu melodiya b\u0259z\u0259n insana m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n xat\u0131rlatmalar ed\u0259 bilir. \u0130nsan var, ad\u0131 \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r\u0131landa ona xo\u015f olur, insan da var ki, \u0259ksin\u0259dir. B\u0259zil\u0259ri ad\u0131 xo\u015funa g\u0259lmir dey\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 l\u0259q\u0259b qoyur. Yaxud ad\u0131 xo\u015funa g\u0259lmir, amma ail\u0259si ad\u0131n\u0131 d\u0259yi\u015fdirm\u0259y\u0259 qoymur. \u018fziz valideynl\u0259r, \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131za ad qoyanda m\u0259nas\u0131na diqq\u0259t yetirm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r ki, n\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259 utanmas\u0131nlar\u201d.pravda.az<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cAd\u0131n insan taleyind\u0259, davran\u0131\u015f\u0131nda, \u015f\u0259xsi h\u0259yat\u0131nda \u00e7ox b\u00f6y\u00fck rolu var. Biz is\u0259 bunu d\u0259rk etmirik. B\u0259z\u0259n ata-anam\u0131za xo\u015f olsun dey\u0259 \u00f6vlad\u0131m\u0131za valideynl\u0259rimizin ad\u0131n\u0131 qoyuruq. Yaxud ata-anam\u0131z deyir ki, n\u0259slim-k\u00f6k\u00fcm davam etsin dey\u0259 u\u015fa\u011fa m\u0259nim ad\u0131m qoyulmal\u0131d\u0131r. Q\u0259rib\u0259 bir s\u00f6z var &#8211; ad\u0131m yerd\u0259 qalmas\u0131n&#8230; S\u0259nin ad\u0131n niy\u0259 yerd\u0259 qal\u0131r ki? Ad\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6z\u00fcn da\u015f\u0131y\u0131rsan, \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259t v\u0259siq\u0259nd\u0259 d\u0259 var. Sonra da m\u0259zar da\u015f\u0131nda ad\u0131n yaz\u0131lacaq. Y\u0259ni ad\u0131n he\u00e7 vaxt yerd\u0259 qalmayacaq. Bizd\u0259 is\u0259 bel\u0259 deyil. B\u0259z\u0259n bizi m\u0259cbur edirl\u0259r ki, u\u015fa\u011fa anam\u0131n ad\u0131n\u0131 qoymal\u0131san. Yaxud da qaynana deyir ki, u\u015fa\u011fa anam\u0131n ad\u0131n\u0131&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":670549,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/gulnar665.jpg",825,550,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/gulnar665.jpg",825,550,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/gulnar665.jpg",825,550,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/gulnar665-500x280.jpg",500,280,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/gulnar665-548x365.jpg",548,365,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/gulnar665.jpg",640,427,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/gulnar665.jpg",825,550,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/gulnar665.jpg",825,550,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/gulnar665-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/gulnar665.jpg",825,550,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"<a href=\"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?cat=1\" rel=\"category\">C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"\u201cAd\u0131n insan taleyind\u0259, davran\u0131\u015f\u0131nda, \u015f\u0259xsi h\u0259yat\u0131nda \u00e7ox b\u00f6y\u00fck rolu var. Biz is\u0259 bunu d\u0259rk etmirik. B\u0259z\u0259n ata-anam\u0131za xo\u015f olsun dey\u0259 \u00f6vlad\u0131m\u0131za valideynl\u0259rimizin ad\u0131n\u0131 qoyuruq. Yaxud ata-anam\u0131z deyir ki, n\u0259slim-k\u00f6k\u00fcm davam etsin dey\u0259 u\u015fa\u011fa m\u0259nim ad\u0131m qoyulmal\u0131d\u0131r. Q\u0259rib\u0259 bir s\u00f6z var &#8211; ad\u0131m yerd\u0259 qalmas\u0131n&#8230; S\u0259nin ad\u0131n niy\u0259 yerd\u0259 qal\u0131r ki? Ad\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6z\u00fcn da\u015f\u0131y\u0131rsan, \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259t v\u0259siq\u0259nd\u0259&hellip;","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/670548"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=670548"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/670548\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/670549"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=670548"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=670548"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=670548"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}