{"id":670746,"date":"2023-12-19T14:19:21","date_gmt":"2023-12-19T10:19:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=670746"},"modified":"2023-12-19T14:19:21","modified_gmt":"2023-12-19T10:19:21","slug":"bosananlarin-sayini-azaltmaq-ucun-unikal-t%c9%99klif-f%c9%99rqli-r%c9%99yl%c9%99r","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=670746","title":{"rendered":"Bo\u015fananlar\u0131n say\u0131n\u0131 azaltmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn unikal t\u0259klif – f\u0259rqli r\u0259yl\u0259r"},"content":{"rendered":"

Cari ilin yanvar-oktyabr aylar\u0131 \u0259rzind\u0259 Az\u0259rbaycanda 44 643 nikah v\u0259 17 988 bo\u015fanma hal\u0131 qeyd\u0259 al\u0131n\u0131b. \u00d6t\u0259n ilin m\u00fcvafiq d\u00f6vr\u00fc il\u0259 m\u00fcqayis\u0259d\u0259 \u0259halinin h\u0259r 1000 n\u0259f\u0259rin\u0259 nikahlar\u0131n say\u0131 azalaraq 6,2-d\u0259n 5,3-\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcb. \u00d6lk\u0259 \u00fczr\u0259 bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n say\u0131 is\u0259 1,6-dan 2,1-\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r art\u0131b. Bu bar\u0259d\u0259 r\u0259smi statistikada bildirilir.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Psixoloq \u00dclviyy\u0259 Murtuzovaya g\u00f6r\u0259, iki hal bo\u015fanmaya s\u0259b\u0259b ola bil\u0259r: \u201cAil\u0259d\u0259 zorak\u0131l\u0131q v\u0259 x\u0259yan\u0259t varsa, o ail\u0259 da\u011f\u0131lma\u011fa m\u0259hkumdur: Bu g\u00fcn olmasa da, g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 onun f\u0259sadlar\u0131 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc bariz \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259c\u0259k. Buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 b\u0259zi islam c\u0259miyy\u0259tl\u0259ri kimi bizd\u0259 d\u0259 yersiz s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rd\u0259n bo\u015fanmalar\u0131 aradan qald\u0131rmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn c\u0259rim\u0259 sistemi t\u0259tbiq olunmal\u0131d\u0131r\u201d.<\/p>\n

Onun q\u0259na\u0259tinc\u0259, bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n say\u0131n\u0131 azaltmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn t\u0259kc\u0259 psixoloqlar\u0131n f\u0259aliyy\u0259ti yet\u0259rli deyil, ail\u0259 probleml\u0259ri il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 f\u0259aliyy\u0259t g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259n b\u00fct\u00fcn qurumlar bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259d\u0259 birg\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

C\u0259rim\u0259 sisteminin t\u0259tbiqi bo\u015fanmalara qar\u015f\u0131 n\u0259 d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259d\u0259 s\u0259m\u0259r\u0259li ola bil\u0259r? M\u00fcmk\u00fcnm\u00fc? Bu, ail\u0259nin daxili i\u015fin\u0259 m\u00fcdaxil\u0259 anlam\u0131na g\u0259lm\u0259zmi?<\/p>\n

\"Fazil<\/p>\n

Fazil Mustafa: \u201cC\u0259rim\u0259 t\u0259tbiq etm\u0259kl\u0259 kimis\u0259 bo\u015fanmadan \u00e7\u0259kindirm\u0259k m\u00fcmk\u00fcn deyil, birinci n\u00f6vb\u0259d\u0259 sosial \u015f\u0259rtl\u0259ri ortadan qald\u0131rmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

M\u00f6vzu il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 mill\u0259t v\u0259kili Fazil Mustafa \u201cYeni M\u00fcsavat\u201da dan\u0131\u015f\u0131b: \u201cBu c\u00fcr c\u0259rim\u0259 sisteminin t\u0259tbiq olunmas\u0131 bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 almayacaq. Hesab edir\u0259m ki, birinci n\u00f6vb\u0259d\u0259 sosial \u015f\u0259rtl\u0259ri ortadan qald\u0131rmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r. Daha sonra narkomaniya il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 problem d\u0259 \u00e7ox ciddi \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 bo\u015fanmalara \u00f6z t\u0259sirini g\u00f6st\u0259rir.<\/p>\n

\u00d6lk\u0259d\u0259 t\u0259hsil sisteminin b\u0259rbad v\u0259ziyy\u0259td\u0259 olmas\u0131 m\u0259d\u0259ni\u00a0 s\u0259viyy\u0259ni a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 sal\u0131r. Bu g\u00fcn t\u0259hsilin idar\u0259 olunmas\u0131nda m\u00f6vcud olan probleml\u0259r \u0259slind\u0259 sonradan yerl\u0259rd\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc hiss etdirm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131r. Diqq\u0259t edirsinizs\u0259, t\u0259hsil v\u0259 t\u0259lim anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131 h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 bir yerd\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259dilir. Bizd\u0259 is\u0259 t\u0259hsil bir \u00e7ox hallarda keyfiyy\u0259tli deyil, h\u0259m\u00e7inin t\u0259lim d\u0259 a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 s\u0259viyy\u0259d\u0259dir. \u00dcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259, m\u0259kt\u0259bl\u0259rd\u0259 t\u0259lim m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259si bir problemdir.<\/p>\n

Bu bax\u0131mdan, bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n\u00a0 s\u0259b\u0259bini bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 axtarmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r. C\u0259rim\u0259 t\u0259tbiq etm\u0259kl\u0259 kimis\u0259 bo\u015fanmadan \u00e7\u0259kindirm\u0259k m\u00fcmk\u00fcn deyil. D\u00f6z\u00fcms\u00fczl\u00fck hallar\u0131 o s\u0259viyy\u0259d\u0259dir ki, onun qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 almaq yaln\u0131z c\u0259miyy\u0259tin m\u0259d\u0259ni inki\u015faf\u0131 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r. Y\u0259ni insanlar \u0259vv\u0259lc\u0259d\u0259n do\u011fru se\u00e7im etm\u0259kl\u0259 ail\u0259 qurmal\u0131d\u0131rlar. Burada valideynl\u0259rin d\u0259 t\u0259siri var v\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n probleml\u0259r m\u0259hz oradan yaran\u0131r”.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Deputat qeyd edib ki, \u00f6lk\u0259d\u0259 nikahlar\u0131n say\u0131n\u0131n azalmas\u0131, \u0259ksin\u0259, bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n say\u0131n\u0131n artmas\u0131 h\u0259r k\u0259si narahat etm\u0259lidir: \u201c\u00c7\u00fcnki bu h\u0259m d\u0259 ail\u0259 institutunun da\u011f\u0131lmas\u0131 dem\u0259kdir. Biz bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 daha h\u0259ssas davran\u0131b, b\u00fct\u00fcn c\u0259miyy\u0259tin bu istiqam\u0259td\u0259 s\u0259f\u0259rb\u0259rliyini t\u0259min etm\u0259liyik\u201d.<\/p>\n

Sosioloq \u00dczeyir \u015e\u0259fiyev is\u0259 qeyd edib:<\/strong>\u00a0\u201cHesab edir\u0259m ki, psixoloqun bu fikri \u00e7ox absurddur. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 ki, bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 c\u0259rim\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 almaq m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olsayd\u0131, bo\u015fanmaya t\u0259\u015f\u0259bb\u00fcs g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259n t\u0259r\u0259f t\u0259zminat \u00f6d\u0259yir, onda t\u0259sir ed\u0259rdi.<\/p>\n

\"C\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259r<\/p>\n

\u00dczeyir \u015e\u0259fiyev: \u201cBu bar\u0259d\u0259 s\u0259sl\u0259n\u0259n fikirl\u0259ri absurd hesab edir\u0259m, \u00e7\u00fcnki…\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u0130kinci m\u0259qam is\u0259 ondan ibar\u0259tdir ki, \u0259g\u0259r bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 c\u0259rim\u0259 il\u0259 alma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015fsalar, c\u0259rim\u0259 baryerind\u0259n qorxan, bo\u015fanmadan \u00e7\u0259kin\u0259n insanlar r\u0259smi olaraq bo\u015fanmasalar da, ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 ail\u0259daxili konfliktl\u0259r davam ed\u0259c\u0259k. Y\u0259ni formal olaraq ail\u0259 qal\u0131r, amma reall\u0131qda dem\u0259k olar ki, ail\u0259 olmur. Bu is\u0259 daha b\u00f6y\u00fck ail\u0259daxili konfliktl\u0259ri k\u00f6r\u00fckl\u0259yir”.<\/p>\n

Sosioloq bo\u015fanma s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259ri v\u0259 onlar\u0131n aradan qald\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131 istiqam\u0259tind\u0259 d\u0259 dan\u0131\u015f\u0131b: \u201cHesab edir\u0259m ki, Az\u0259rbaycanda bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n say\u0131n\u0131n artmas\u0131 dinamikas\u0131 bu v\u0259 dig\u0259r s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rd\u0259n h\u0259l\u0259 bir ne\u00e7\u0259 il d\u0259 davam ed\u0259c\u0259k. S\u0259b\u0259b is\u0259 odur ki, \u0259vv\u0259ll\u0259r c\u0259miyy\u0259timizd\u0259 b\u0259zi stereotipl\u0259r var idi ki, onlar ail\u0259l\u0259rin da\u011f\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131n qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 al\u0131rd\u0131. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, \u0259vv\u0259ll\u0259r Az\u0259rbaycan ki\u015fisi bo\u015fanman\u0131 q\u0259bullanm\u0131r, qad\u0131nlar bo\u015fanma\u011fa b\u00f6y\u00fck bir faci\u0259 kimi yana\u015f\u0131rd\u0131. Bu g\u00fcn is\u0259 ail\u0259 f\u0259ls\u0259f\u0259sind\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259l\u0259r var, h\u0259m qad\u0131nlar, h\u0259m d\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259r bo\u015fanmaya \u00e7ox normal yana\u015f\u0131r ki, bu da bu v\u0259 dig\u0259r s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259 izah olunur.<\/p>\n

Bel\u0259 ki, Az\u0259rbaycan qlobal d\u00fcnyaya a\u00e7\u0131landan sonra qloballa\u015fma fonunda bir s\u0131ra ba\u015fqa \u00f6lk\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 ba\u015f ver\u0259n d\u0259yi\u015fiklikl\u0259r Az\u0259rbaycan ail\u0259sin\u0259 d\u0259 t\u0259sir g\u00f6st\u0259rdi. \u0130nsanlar seriallardan, filml\u0259rd\u0259n v\u0259 yaxud gedib-g\u0259ldiyi xarici \u00f6lk\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n g\u00f6r\u00fcr ki, xaric\u0259 bo\u015fanmalar rahat \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131lan\u0131r, bunu faci\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7evirmirl\u0259r. Y\u0259ni, h\u0259yat t\u0259rzl\u0259rinin imitasiyas\u0131 ba\u015f verir.<\/p>\n

Bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 almaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ilk \u00f6nc\u0259 ail\u0259l\u0259r sa\u011flam s\u00fctunlar, sa\u011flam sevgi \u0259sas\u0131nda qurulmal\u0131d\u0131r. Hesab \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 ail\u0259l\u0259r qurulmamal\u0131d\u0131r. Hesab \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 qurulan ail\u0259l\u0259r bo\u015fanmalara m\u0259ruz qal\u0131r.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

G\u0259ncl\u0259r ail\u0259 b\u00f6hranlar\u0131na haz\u0131r olmurlar. M\u0259lum oldu\u011fu kimi, ad\u0259t\u0259n yeni ail\u0259 qurulark\u0259n 3-5 il \u0259rzind\u0259 b\u00f6hranl\u0131 d\u00f6vr olur. \u018fvv\u0259ll\u0259r a\u011fsaqqallar\u0131n, a\u011fbir\u00e7\u0259kl\u0259rin m\u00fcsb\u0259t m\u00fcdaxil\u0259si il\u0259 bu b\u00f6hranlar t\u0259nziml\u0259nirdi. Amma indiki ail\u0259l\u0259r ad\u0259t\u0259n ayr\u0131 ya\u015fama\u011fa \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck verirl\u0259r, n\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259 3-5 il \u0259rzind\u0259 bir-birind\u0259n doyduqdan sonra b\u00f6hranlar yaran\u0131r v\u0259 emosional \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 ayr\u0131l\u0131r, bo\u015fan\u0131rlar. G\u00fcman edir\u0259m ki, ail\u0259 quran g\u0259ncl\u0259r\u0259 h\u0259m d\u0259 ail\u0259 b\u00f6hranlar\u0131ndan \u00e7\u0131xma\u011f\u0131n yollar\u0131 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 h\u0259m orta, h\u0259m d\u0259 ali m\u0259kt\u0259bl\u0259rd\u0259 t\u0259liml\u0259r vasit\u0259sil\u0259 d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259r a\u015f\u0131lanmal\u0131d\u0131r. Y\u0259ni g\u0259ncl\u0259r ail\u0259 qurma\u011fa haz\u0131rlanmal\u0131d\u0131rlar. M\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 ed\u0259nd\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u00fck ki, indiki g\u0259ncl\u0259rin xeyli hiss\u0259sinin ail\u0259 d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ri haqq\u0131nda bilgil\u0259ri \u00e7ox b\u0259sitdir.<\/p>\n

Daha bir m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259, bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rind\u0259n biri d\u0259 sosial-iqtisadi \u0259saslar da ola bilir. G\u0259nc ail\u0259l\u0259rin m\u0259nzil-m\u0259i\u015f\u0259t probleml\u0259ri olur. \u00c7ox yax\u015f\u0131 olard\u0131 ki, g\u0259nc ail\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 m\u0259nzil \u015f\u0259raitinin yax\u015f\u0131la\u015fd\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 \u0259lav\u0259 sosial d\u0259st\u0259k t\u0259dbirl\u0259ri h\u0259yata ke\u00e7irilsin, sosial paketl\u0259r t\u0259sdiq olunsun. El\u0259c\u0259 d\u0259 onlarla ba\u011fl\u0131 rayonlarda, b\u00f6lg\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 g\u0259nc ail\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 pay torpaqlar ayr\u0131ls\u0131n ki, onlar \u00f6z h\u0259yatlar\u0131n\u0131 orada qura bilsinl\u0259r, \u015f\u0259h\u0259r\u0259 ax\u0131n etm\u0259sinl\u0259r”.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Cari ilin yanvar-oktyabr aylar\u0131 \u0259rzind\u0259 Az\u0259rbaycanda 44 643 nikah v\u0259 17 988 bo\u015fanma hal\u0131 qeyd\u0259 al\u0131n\u0131b. \u00d6t\u0259n ilin m\u00fcvafiq d\u00f6vr\u00fc il\u0259 m\u00fcqayis\u0259d\u0259 \u0259halinin h\u0259r 1000 n\u0259f\u0259rin\u0259 nikahlar\u0131n say\u0131 azalaraq 6,2-d\u0259n 5,3-\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcb. \u00d6lk\u0259 \u00fczr\u0259 bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n say\u0131 is\u0259 1,6-dan 2,1-\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r art\u0131b. Bu bar\u0259d\u0259 r\u0259smi statistikada bildirilir. Psixoloq \u00dclviyy\u0259 Murtuzovaya g\u00f6r\u0259, iki hal bo\u015fanmaya s\u0259b\u0259b ola bil\u0259r: \u201cAil\u0259d\u0259 zorak\u0131l\u0131q v\u0259 x\u0259yan\u0259t varsa, o ail\u0259 da\u011f\u0131lma\u011fa m\u0259hkumdur: Bu g\u00fcn olmasa da, g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 onun f\u0259sadlar\u0131 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc bariz \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259c\u0259k. Buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 b\u0259zi islam c\u0259miyy\u0259tl\u0259ri kimi bizd\u0259 d\u0259 yersiz s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rd\u0259n bo\u015fanmalar\u0131 aradan qald\u0131rmaq…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":670747,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/9b288470bdaf1960ea87922389900458.jpg",700,394,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/9b288470bdaf1960ea87922389900458.jpg",700,394,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/9b288470bdaf1960ea87922389900458.jpg",700,394,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/9b288470bdaf1960ea87922389900458-500x280.jpg",500,280,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/9b288470bdaf1960ea87922389900458-648x365.jpg",648,365,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/9b288470bdaf1960ea87922389900458.jpg",640,360,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/9b288470bdaf1960ea87922389900458.jpg",700,394,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/9b288470bdaf1960ea87922389900458.jpg",700,394,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/9b288470bdaf1960ea87922389900458-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/9b288470bdaf1960ea87922389900458.jpg",700,394,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"Cari ilin yanvar-oktyabr aylar\u0131 \u0259rzind\u0259 Az\u0259rbaycanda 44 643 nikah v\u0259 17 988 bo\u015fanma hal\u0131 qeyd\u0259 al\u0131n\u0131b. \u00d6t\u0259n ilin m\u00fcvafiq d\u00f6vr\u00fc il\u0259 m\u00fcqayis\u0259d\u0259 \u0259halinin h\u0259r 1000 n\u0259f\u0259rin\u0259 nikahlar\u0131n say\u0131 azalaraq 6,2-d\u0259n 5,3-\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcb. \u00d6lk\u0259 \u00fczr\u0259 bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n say\u0131 is\u0259 1,6-dan 2,1-\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r art\u0131b. Bu bar\u0259d\u0259 r\u0259smi statistikada bildirilir. Psixoloq \u00dclviyy\u0259 Murtuzovaya g\u00f6r\u0259, iki hal bo\u015fanmaya s\u0259b\u0259b ola…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/670746"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=670746"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/670746\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/670747"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=670746"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=670746"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=670746"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}