{"id":681124,"date":"2024-01-18T14:57:42","date_gmt":"2024-01-18T10:57:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=681124"},"modified":"2024-01-18T14:57:42","modified_gmt":"2024-01-18T10:57:42","slug":"bu-cinsd%c9%99n-cins%c9%99-d%c9%99yis%c9%99n-qalmaqalli-aciqlama","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=681124","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;Bu, cinsd\u0259n-cins\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015f\u0259n&#8230;&#8221; &#8211; Qalmaqall\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131qlama"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>\u0130nsanlara xas olan neqativ x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259td\u0259n biri d\u0259 dedi-qodudur. H\u0259tta el\u0259l\u0259ri var ki, bir an bel\u0259 qiyb\u0259t etm\u0259d\u0259n dayana bilmir. \u018fvv\u0259l qiyb\u0259tcil olma\u011f\u0131 \u0259n \u00e7ox qad\u0131nlara aid edirdil\u0259r. F\u0259q\u0259t zaman d\u0259yi\u015fdikc\u0259, h\u0259min n\u00fcans ki\u015fil\u0259rin d\u0259 xarakterin\u0259 \u0259lav\u0259 olunma\u011fa ba\u015flay\u0131b. Art\u0131q el\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259r var ki, qad\u0131nlara bu m\u00f6vzuda d\u0259rs ke\u00e7\u0259c\u0259k q\u0259d\u0259r professionalla\u015f\u0131blar.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Maraql\u0131d\u0131r, s\u00f6z\u00fcged\u0259n m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259nin ki\u015fil\u0259r\u0259 d\u0259 yans\u0131mas\u0131nda hans\u0131 amill\u0259r rol oynay\u0131r?<\/p>\n<p><strong>M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 psixoloq G\u00fclnar Orucova &#8220;Yeni Sabah&#8221;a fikir bildirib. Onun s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, bu hal \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc \u0259n \u00e7ox m\u00fc\u011f\u0259nnil\u0259r v\u0259 tan\u0131nm\u0131\u015f insanlar aras\u0131nda b\u00fcruz\u0259 verm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131b:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;El\u0259 insan var ki, qad\u0131n bel\u0259 olsa, qiyb\u0259t etm\u0259yi sevmir. \u0130nsan da var ki, qiyb\u0259t \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00fcr\u0259yi gedir. Bu ail\u0259d\u0259n, veril\u0259n t\u0259rbiy\u0259d\u0259n, \u00e7\u0131xd\u0131\u011f\u0131 m\u00fchitd\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131 olur. B\u0259zi m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 is\u0259 qiyb\u0259t bel\u0259 qiyb\u0259t olmaqdan k\u0259nara \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r. Y\u0259ni insan haqq\u0131nda bilib-bilm\u0259d\u0259n el\u0259 ittihamlar ir\u0259li s\u00fcr\u00fcl\u00fcr ki, h\u0259min \u015f\u0259xsin q\u0131nan\u0131lmas\u0131na, g\u00fcnahkar v\u0259ziyy\u0259t\u0259 d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259sin\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259b olur. Son zamanlar is\u0259 qad\u0131nlarla b\u0259rab\u0259r ki\u015fil\u0259rin d\u0259 dedi-qodu etm\u0259sinin \u015fahidi oluruq. S\u00f6z\u00fcged\u0259n m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 \u0259n \u00e7ox da tan\u0131nm\u0131\u015flar aras\u0131nda c\u0259r\u0259yan edir. Ba\u015f ver\u0259n, ya da ba\u015f verm\u0259y\u0259n bir hadis\u0259d\u0259n dan\u0131\u015fmaq, h\u0259tta h\u0259min \u015f\u0259xs olmayanda bunu birin \u00fcst\u00fcn\u0259 be\u015f qoyub m\u00fczakir\u0259 etm\u0259k he\u00e7 d\u0259 do\u011fru bir hal deyil&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Psixoloq qeyd edir ki, dedi-qodu insan\u0131n xarakterind\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131d\u0131r:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Qeyb\u0259t s\u0131rf olaraq insan\u0131n xarakteri il\u0259 \u0259laq\u0259li m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259dir v\u0259 bu, insandan-insana, cinsd\u0259n-cins\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015f\u0259n bir \u015feydir. \u0130nsanlar\u0131n bu yola \u0259l atma\u011f\u0131n\u0131n k\u00f6k\u00fcnd\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn \u0259ld\u0259 ed\u0259 bilm\u0259diyi n\u0259l\u0259rins\u0259 ba\u015fqas\u0131nda olmas\u0131 dayan\u0131r. Qiyb\u0259t varsa, pax\u0131ll\u0131q, kin, h\u0259s\u0259d var. Dedi-qodu bu v\u0259ziyy\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 ortaya \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Onu da \u0259lav\u0259 edim ki, \u0259g\u0259r kims\u0259 sizin qiyb\u0259tinizi edib, arxan\u0131zdan dan\u0131\u015f\u0131rsa, dem\u0259li siz h\u0259min adamdan \u00f6nd\u0259siniz. M\u0259hz bu s\u0259b\u0259bd\u0259n o sizin u\u011furlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 h\u0259zm ed\u0259 bilm\u0259diyind\u0259n haqq\u0131n\u0131zda n\u0259 g\u0259ldi dan\u0131\u015f\u0131r. Haz\u0131rda ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z d\u00f6vr bir yar\u0131\u015f, marafondur. \u0130nsanlar maddiyyatla \u00f6zl\u0259rini s\u00fcbut edib, tan\u0131tma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar. Bu bax\u0131mdan kims\u0259 n\u0259y\u0259s\u0259 sahib olan kimi onu pisl\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131rlar. M\u0259h\u015furlarda da bel\u0259dir. Ev, villa, ma\u015f\u0131n, b\u0259d\u0259n\u015f\u0259kill\u0259ndirm\u0259 yar\u0131\u015f\u0131 gedir. Bel\u0259 olduqda yalan, ya da ger\u00e7\u0259k m\u0259lumatlar yayaraq bir-birl\u0259rini \u0259zm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar. Ancaq d\u00fczg\u00fcn olsa bel\u0259 he\u00e7 kimin bu c\u00fcr davranma\u011fa haqq\u0131 yoxdur&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u0130nsanlara xas olan neqativ x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259td\u0259n biri d\u0259 dedi-qodudur. H\u0259tta el\u0259l\u0259ri var ki, bir an bel\u0259 qiyb\u0259t etm\u0259d\u0259n dayana bilmir. \u018fvv\u0259l qiyb\u0259tcil olma\u011f\u0131 \u0259n \u00e7ox qad\u0131nlara aid edirdil\u0259r. F\u0259q\u0259t zaman d\u0259yi\u015fdikc\u0259, h\u0259min n\u00fcans ki\u015fil\u0259rin d\u0259 xarakterin\u0259 \u0259lav\u0259 olunma\u011fa ba\u015flay\u0131b. Art\u0131q el\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259r var ki, qad\u0131nlara bu m\u00f6vzuda d\u0259rs ke\u00e7\u0259c\u0259k q\u0259d\u0259r professionalla\u015f\u0131blar. Maraql\u0131d\u0131r, s\u00f6z\u00fcged\u0259n m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259nin ki\u015fil\u0259r\u0259 d\u0259 yans\u0131mas\u0131nda hans\u0131 amill\u0259r rol oynay\u0131r? M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 psixoloq G\u00fclnar Orucova &#8220;Yeni Sabah&#8221;a fikir bildirib. Onun s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, bu hal \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc \u0259n \u00e7ox m\u00fc\u011f\u0259nnil\u0259r v\u0259 tan\u0131nm\u0131\u015f insanlar aras\u0131nda b\u00fcruz\u0259 verm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131b: &#8220;El\u0259 insan var ki,&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":681125,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/004c5070fa318e623550bca7d35c0d75.jpg",750,422,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/004c5070fa318e623550bca7d35c0d75.jpg",750,422,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/004c5070fa318e623550bca7d35c0d75.jpg",750,422,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/004c5070fa318e623550bca7d35c0d75-500x280.jpg",500,280,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/004c5070fa318e623550bca7d35c0d75-649x365.jpg",649,365,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/004c5070fa318e623550bca7d35c0d75.jpg",640,360,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/004c5070fa318e623550bca7d35c0d75.jpg",750,422,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/004c5070fa318e623550bca7d35c0d75.jpg",750,422,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/004c5070fa318e623550bca7d35c0d75-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/004c5070fa318e623550bca7d35c0d75.jpg",750,422,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"<a href=\"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?cat=1\" rel=\"category\">C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"\u0130nsanlara xas olan neqativ x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259td\u0259n biri d\u0259 dedi-qodudur. H\u0259tta el\u0259l\u0259ri var ki, bir an bel\u0259 qiyb\u0259t etm\u0259d\u0259n dayana bilmir. \u018fvv\u0259l qiyb\u0259tcil olma\u011f\u0131 \u0259n \u00e7ox qad\u0131nlara aid edirdil\u0259r. F\u0259q\u0259t zaman d\u0259yi\u015fdikc\u0259, h\u0259min n\u00fcans ki\u015fil\u0259rin d\u0259 xarakterin\u0259 \u0259lav\u0259 olunma\u011fa ba\u015flay\u0131b. Art\u0131q el\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259r var ki, qad\u0131nlara bu m\u00f6vzuda d\u0259rs ke\u00e7\u0259c\u0259k q\u0259d\u0259r professionalla\u015f\u0131blar. Maraql\u0131d\u0131r, s\u00f6z\u00fcged\u0259n m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259nin ki\u015fil\u0259r\u0259 d\u0259&hellip;","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/681124"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=681124"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/681124\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/681125"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=681124"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=681124"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=681124"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}