{"id":690414,"date":"2024-02-13T20:45:01","date_gmt":"2024-02-13T16:45:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=690414"},"modified":"2024-02-13T20:45:01","modified_gmt":"2024-02-13T16:45:01","slug":"sevgilil%c9%99r-gunu-hansi-tarixi-qeyd-etm%c9%99li-14-fevrali-yoxsa-30-iyunu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=690414","title":{"rendered":"Sevgilil\u0259r g\u00fcn\u00fc: hans\u0131 tarixi qeyd etm\u0259li – 14 fevral\u0131, yoxsa 30 iyunu?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sevgilil\u0259r g\u00fcn\u00fc hans\u0131d\u0131r – \u0130lham-F\u0259riz\u0259 Sevgisinin s\u00fcbutu olan 30 iyun, yoxsa \u0259xlaqs\u0131zlar\u0131n iyr\u0259nc h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259rl\u0259 tarix\u0259 yap\u0131\u015fd\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 14 fevral?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Az\u0259rbaycan c\u0259miyy\u0259tind\u0259 bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259d\u0259 yekdil fikir h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 tam formala\u015fmad\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan, tarix\u0259 q\u0131sa ekskurs etm\u0259y\u0259 v\u0259 insanlar\u0131n fikirl\u0259rini \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fd\u0131q. G\u0259lin g\u00f6r\u0259k tarix, m\u0259ntiq v\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259l\u0259rimiz n\u0259 deyir…<\/p>\n

\u0130lham v\u0259 F\u0259riz\u0259… \u018fslind\u0259 k\u00f6kl\u00fc yadda\u015flar\u0131n v\u0259 t\u0259miz q\u0259lbl\u0259rin orta yerind\u0259 \u0259b\u0259dilik k\u00f6k sal\u0131blar onlar \u2013 \u00f6z t\u0259miz v\u0259 saf sevgil\u0259ri il\u0259 birlikd\u0259. Milyonlara s\u0259rgil\u0259dikl\u0259ri c\u0259sar\u0259tl\u0259ri il\u0259, \u00f6l\u00fcms\u00fczl\u00fckl\u0259ri il\u0259 \u0259b\u0259di olaraq qutsalla\u015f\u0131blar, \u00f6z ilahi e\u015fql\u0259ri il\u0259 birlikd\u0259 \u00fcr\u0259kl\u0259ri f\u0259th edibl\u0259r, sevgil\u0259rini dastanlara \u00e7eviribl\u0259r.<\/p>\n

2003-c\u00fc ild\u0259n bu yana onlar\u0131n \u0259b\u0259di sevgisi bir daha \u0259b\u0259dil\u0259\u015fdirildi, art\u0131q 8 ildir ki, onlar\u0131n toy tarixi Az\u0259rbaycan c\u0259miyy\u0259tinin \u201cSevgilil\u0259r G\u00fcn\u00fc\u201dn\u0259 \u00e7evrilib. Nakam g\u0259ncl\u0259rin qovu\u015fduqlar\u0131 g\u00fcn \u2013 30 \u0130yun tarixi indi \u00f6lk\u0259mizd\u0259 sevil\u0259r\u0259k qeyd edilir. \u00a0Amma \u0259b\u0259di e\u015fqin q\u0259hr\u0259manlar\u0131ndan dan\u0131\u015fmazdan \u00f6nc\u0259 oxuculara h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 b\u0259zil\u0259ri t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n qeyd edil\u0259n 14 fevral tarixinin \u00f6z\u0259llikl\u0259rind\u0259n ( ! ) dan\u0131\u015fmaq ist\u0259dik.<\/p>\n

Tarix\u0259 q\u0131sa ekskurs v\u0259 ya 14 fevral g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fcn \u201c\u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259ti\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

M\u0259lumdur ki, h\u0259r il fevral ay\u0131 g\u0259l\u0259nd\u0259 bir canlanma olur c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259. Kimi 14 fevral deyil\u0259n o g\u00fcn\u0259 haz\u0131rla\u015f\u0131r, kimi d\u0259 o g\u00fcn\u0259 haz\u0131rla\u015fanlar\u0131 t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf v\u0259 q\u0131naq at\u0259\u015fin\u0259 tutur. D\u00fczd\u00fcr, ikincil\u0259r \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck t\u0259\u015fkil ets\u0259 d\u0259, m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n qism k\u00fctl\u0259 var ki, beyinl\u0259r\u0259 olur-olmaz fikirl\u0259r yeridir, fikir v\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259l\u0259ri tam formala\u015fmam\u0131\u015f g\u0259nc v\u0259 yeniyetm\u0259l\u0259rin a\u011fl\u0131n\u0131 qar\u0131\u015fd\u0131r\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Fevral\u0131n ilk ong\u00fcnl\u00fcy\u00fcnd\u0259n ba\u015flayaraq h\u0259diyy\u0259 ma\u011fazalar\u0131nda n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 \u00e7arpan canlanma 14 fevralad\u0259k davam edir. Daha \u00e7ox g\u0259ncl\u0259rin qeyd etdiyi 14 fevral tarixi ya\u015fl\u0131 n\u0259sili o q\u0259d\u0259r d\u0259 maraqland\u0131rm\u0131r. Bunu<\/p>\n

ma\u011fazalar\u0131n sat\u0131c\u0131lar\u0131 da t\u0259sdiql\u0259yir. Maraql\u0131d\u0131r, g\u00f6r\u0259s\u0259n g\u0259ncl\u0259rin bel\u0259 h\u0259v\u0259sl\u0259 haz\u0131rla\u015fd\u0131qlar\u0131 14 fevral haqq\u0131nda kim n\u0259 bilir?
\nBununla ba\u011fl\u0131 \u201cSa\u011flam Toplum\u201d \u0130ctimai Birliyinin \u0259m\u0259kda\u015flar\u0131 Bak\u0131 k\u00fc\u00e7\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259 sor\u011fu ke\u00e7iribl\u0259r. \u018fks\u0259riyy\u0259t bu g\u00fcn\u00fcn tarixi bar\u0259d\u0259 he\u00e7 n\u0259 bilmir, b\u0259zil\u0259ri d\u0259 tarix boyu xristianlar\u0131n uydurulmu\u015f na\u011f\u0131llar\u0131n\u0131 dan\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar. Sor\u011funun n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259ri bar\u0259d\u0259 bir az sonra…<\/p>\n

H\u0259l\u0259lik is\u0259, bu \u201cValentin g\u00fcn\u00fc\u201dn\u00fcn tarixi bar\u0259d\u0259…<\/p>\n

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\"\"\u201cValentin g\u00fcn\u00fc\u201d d\u00fcnyan\u0131n bir s\u0131ra \u00f6lk\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259 14 fevralda qeyd edilir. D\u00fcnya \u00f6lk\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259, bu g\u00fcn\u00fcn h\u0259v\u0259skarlar\u0131n\u0131n bir-biri \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn h\u0259diyy\u0259l\u0259r ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 v\u0259 k\u00fctl\u0259vi qeyd etdiyi faktlar\u0131 dan\u0131lmazd\u0131r. Valentin g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fcn atributlar\u0131 da var, bunlar \u00fcr\u0259k \u015f\u0259kill\u0259ri v\u0259 g\u00f6y\u0259r\u00e7in fiqurudur. B\u0259s indi bir \u00e7ox m\u00fcs\u0259lman \u00f6lk\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259, t\u00fcrk d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda bel\u0259 qeyd edil\u0259n bu xristian g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fcn \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259ti n\u0259dir?<\/p>\n

Katolik xristianlar\u0131n “M\u00fcq\u0259dd\u0259s Valentin” dedikl\u0259ri v\u0259 \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259ti il\u0259 \u00f6y\u00fcnd\u00fckl\u0259ri bu ke\u015fi\u015f \u00e7ox m\u00fc\u0259mmal\u0131 bir kimliy\u0259 sahibdir. \u018fslind\u0259 14 Fevral\u0131n sevgilil\u0259r g\u00fcn\u00fc kimi qeyd edilm\u0259si onun d\u00f6vr\u00fcnd\u0259n xeyli \u00f6nc\u0259l\u0259r\u0259, t\u0259xmin\u0259n 1500 il \u0259vv\u0259l\u0259 gedib \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r. Bunun \u0259sas\u0131 xristianl\u0131\u011fa deyil, \u0259ski Roma \u0259n\u0259n\u0259l\u0259rin\u0259 dayan\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Q\u0259dim Romada 14 fevral tarixi b\u00fct\u00fcn Roma xalq\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn is\u0259 x\u00fcsusi \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259t k\u0259sb edirdi. H\u0259min g\u00fcn inanclar\u0131na g\u00f6r\u0259, Roma “Tanr\u0131” v\u0259 “Tanr\u0131\u00e7alar\u0131”n\u0131n krali\u00e7as\u0131 olan Junoya duyulan say\u011f\u0131dan dolay\u0131 bayram elan olunurdu. S\u0259h\u0259risi g\u00fcn is\u0259 Lupercalia bayram\u0131 ba\u015flay\u0131rd\u0131. Bu bayram xalq\u0131n g\u0259nc k\u00fctl\u0259si \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn b\u00f6y\u00fck \u201c\u00f6n\u0259m\u201d da\u015f\u0131y\u0131rd\u0131.<\/p>\n

Bu \u201c\u00f6n\u0259m\u201din s\u0259b\u0259bi is\u0259 h\u0259yatlar\u0131 q\u0259ti qanun-qaydalarla m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259nl\u0259\u015fdirilmi\u015f v\u0259 bunun da t\u0259bii n\u0259tic\u0259si olaraq g\u0259zib-\u0259yl\u0259nm\u0259 \u015fans\u0131 \u00e7ox m\u0259hdud olan g\u0259ncl\u0259rin bu bayramda bir-birl\u0259ri il\u0259 iyr\u0259nc \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 \u0259yl\u0259nm\u0259l\u0259ri idi. Bu \u201cbayram\u201dda hans\u0131 g\u0259ncin hans\u0131 q\u0131z\u0131 se\u00e7m\u0259si d\u0259 \u00f6z ist\u0259kl\u0259rin\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 deyildi. Romal\u0131 g\u0259nc q\u0131zlar adlar\u0131n\u0131 ki\u00e7ik ka\u011f\u0131z par\u00e7alar\u0131na yazaraq, bir \u00e7\u0259ll\u0259y\u0259 at\u0131r, h\u0259min ka\u011f\u0131zlardan birini se\u00e7\u0259n romal\u0131 g\u0259nc d\u0259 se\u00e7diyi ka\u011f\u0131zda ad\u0131 yaz\u0131lan q\u0131zla h\u0259min gec\u0259 bir yataqda olaraq ist\u0259nil\u0259n cinsi arzusunu h\u0259yata ke\u00e7irm\u0259kd\u0259 s\u0259rb\u0259st burax\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131 v\u0259 onlar bayram boyunca ayr\u0131lm\u0131rd\u0131lar. Dini n\u00f6qteyi-n\u0259z\u0259rd\u0259n yana\u015fsaq, h\u0259min g\u00fcn minl\u0259rl\u0259 ki\u015fi v\u0259 qad\u0131n Tanr\u0131n\u0131 danaraq \u0259xlaqs\u0131zl\u0131qla m\u0259\u015f\u011ful olurdu. Y\u0259ni bir s\u00f6zl\u0259 14 Fevral tarixi k\u00fctl\u0259vi \u0259xlaqs\u0131zl\u0131q g\u00fcn\u00fcd\u00fcr.<\/p>\n

B\u0259s bu Valentin kimdir?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Burada bel\u0259 bir sual meydana \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r, \u0259g\u0259r bu \u0259xlaqs\u0131z h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259r Valentind\u0259n \u00f6nc\u0259y\u0259 dayan\u0131rsa, o zaman Valentin niy\u0259 \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fcl\u00fcb? Y\u0259ni 1500 il \u0259vv\u0259lki \u0259xlaqs\u0131zl\u0131qlarla Valentinin n\u0259 \u0259laq\u0259si olub?
\nAz sonra…..<\/p>\n

Bu yaz\u0131n\u0131 haz\u0131rlamazdan \u00f6nc\u0259 m\u00f6vzunu internetin sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259n birind\u0259 m\u00fczakir\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7\u0131xard\u0131m v\u0259 dostlardan fikir v\u0259 t\u0259klifl\u0259rini soru\u015fdum. Do\u011frudur, \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259t m\u00fcsb\u0259t t\u0259pki verdi v\u0259 d\u0259st\u0259kl\u0259di. Amma bir qisim g\u0259nc d\u0259 etiraz etdi. O etirazlardan bir ne\u00e7\u0259si:<\/p>\n

1. \u0130st\u0259diyimiz g\u00fcn\u00fc qeyd ed\u0259 bil\u0259rik, amma Valentin \u00f6z \u0259m\u0259li il\u0259 el\u0259 bir \u0259sas yaratmay\u0131b ki, kiml\u0259rs\u0259 burada, pafoslar\u0131nda onu m\u0259n\u0259viyyats\u0131z adland\u0131rs\u0131n.<\/p>\n

2. B\u00fctun d\u00fcnyada 14 fevral sevgilil\u0259r g\u00fcn\u00fc kimi qeyd olunur, biz 30 \u0130yunu g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259kl\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc g\u00fcl\u00fcnc v\u0259ziyy\u0259t\u0259 sal\u0131r\u0131q.<\/p>\n

3. H\u0259r qeyd olunan g\u00fcn\u00fcn tarixin\u0259 varsaq \u00e7ox m\u0259tl\u0259bl\u0259r ortaya \u00e7\u0131xa bil\u0259r, amma \u0259sas olan tarixilik v\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fck \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259tin fikridir.<\/p>\n

4. El\u0259 v\u0259t\u0259np\u0259rv\u0259rsinizs\u0259, torpaqlar\u0131n bir hiss\u0259si i\u015f\u011falda ik\u0259n, ne\u00e7\u0259 n\u0259f\u0259r h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 \u0259sirlikd\u0259 ik\u0259n siz bayram qeyd edirsiniz? M\u0259n\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, ona g\u00f6r\u0259, buna g\u00f6r\u0259 deyil. Valentinin \u0259m\u0259ll\u0259rind\u0259 m\u0259n\u0259viyyats\u0131zl\u0131q g\u00f6rm\u0259dim. G\u00f6r\u0259n varsa, izah etsin.<\/p>\n

Q\u0259rara ald\u0131m ki, yaz\u0131n\u0131 izahl\u0131 \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 v\u0259 faktlara dayanaraq yaz\u0131m. Qoy oxucular n\u0259tic\u0259ni \u00f6zl\u0259ri \u00e7\u0131xars\u0131n.
\nValentini edam etdir\u0259n imperator II Kladius tarix qaynaqlar\u0131nda bu hallara son qoymaq ist\u0259y\u0259n \u0259xlaql\u0131 v\u0259 namuslu bir imerator kimi xarakteriz\u0259 olunub. Onun h\u0259tta ordunun g\u00fccl\u0259nm\u0259si v\u0259 nizam-intizam\u0131n qorunmas\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn orduda xidm\u0259t ed\u0259n g\u0259ncl\u0259r\u0259 m\u00fcv\u0259qq\u0259ti olaraq evl\u0259nm\u0259yi qada\u011fan etdiyi d\u0259 tarixi qaynaqlarda yer tapmaqdad\u0131r.<\/p>\n

O zamanlar Valentin Romada rahib idi. Onun \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc bar\u0259d\u0259 m\u00fcxt\u0259lif f\u0259rziyy\u0259l\u0259r var. Bunlardan \u0259n geni\u015f yay\u0131lm\u0131\u015f olan\u0131 v\u0259 h\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259 dayanan\u0131 budur ki, h\u0259min ke\u015fi\u015f imperatorun qada\u011fan etm\u0259sin\u0259 baxmayaraq, art\u0131q ke\u00e7mi\u015fd\u0259 qalm\u0131\u015f o iyr\u0259nc ad\u0259ti b\u0259rpa edib gizli \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 q\u0131zlarla o\u011flanlar\u0131 qeyri-qanuni olaraq g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fd\u00fcrm\u0259kd\u0259 davam edirmi\u015f, y\u0259ni \u0259xlaqs\u0131z\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 yay\u0131rm\u0131\u015f. \u0130mperator da onun bu h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259rind\u0259n x\u0259b\u0259r tutaraq zindana atd\u0131r\u0131r v\u0259 14 fevralda – m\u0259hz romal\u0131lar\u0131n \u0259xlaqs\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n t\u00fc\u011fyan etdiyi bir g\u00fcnd\u0259 d\u00f6yd\u00fcr\u0259r\u0259k, t\u0259hqiramiz formada \u00f6ld\u00fcrtd\u00fcr\u00fcr.<\/p>\n

\u0130ndi insanlarda bel\u0259 bir fikir formala\u015fd\u0131r\u0131blar ki, guya Valentin h\u0259bsxana r\u0259isinin q\u0131z\u0131na a\u015fiq olubmu\u015f, ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 edam edilib. Bu arada, katolikl\u0259r d\u0259 iddia edir ki, Valentin xristianl\u0131\u011f\u0131 t\u0259bli\u011f etdiyi \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fcl\u00fcb. Amma az \u00f6nc\u0259 qeyd etdiyimiz kimi, tarixd\u0259ki daha etibarl\u0131 qaynaqlardan \u0259ld\u0259 etdiyimiz m\u0259lumatlara g\u00f6r\u0259 is\u0259 Valentinin imperator II Kladiusun \u0259xlaqs\u0131zl\u0131\u011fa qar\u015f\u0131 d\u00f6z\u00fcms\u00fcz m\u00fcnasib\u0259tinin layiqli qurban\u0131 olub.<\/p>\n

Bu \u0259n\u0259n\u0259 tarixin b\u00fct\u00fcn d\u00f6vrl\u0259rind\u0259 ke\u00e7\u0259rli say\u0131l\u0131b \u2013 h\u0259r hans\u0131 bir idealogiyan\u0131, ad\u0259ti, \u0259n\u0259n\u0259ni l\u0259\u011fv etm\u0259k, k\u00f6k\u00fcnd\u0259n qoparmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn onun banisini aradan g\u00f6t\u00fcrm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r.<\/p>\n

S\u00f6z\u00fcged\u0259n qeyri-\u0259xlaqi davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 aradan g\u00f6t\u00fcrm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn h\u0259min d\u00f6vrd\u0259 d\u0259 k\u00fctl\u0259ni y\u00f6nl\u0259ndir\u0259n \u015f\u0259xsi aradan g\u00f6t\u00fcrm\u0259k kifay\u0259t idi ki, bu hal\u0131n qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131 al\u0131ns\u0131n, y\u0259ni \u0259xlaqs\u0131zl\u0131q dayans\u0131n. II Kladius da bunu edir, 14 fevral tarixind\u0259 Valentini t\u0259hqiramiz i\u015fg\u0259nc\u0259 il\u0259 \u00f6ld\u00fcrtd\u00fcr\u00fcr.<\/p>\n

Maraql\u0131d\u0131r ki, onun h\u0259bsxanadan \u00f6z yolda\u015flar\u0131na, x\u00fcsus\u0259n d\u0259 ke\u015fi\u015f dostu Mariusa “Valentini unutma”, “S\u0259ni sevir\u0259m” dey\u0259 m\u0259ktublar g\u00f6nd\u0259rm\u0259si fakt\u0131 da var. Bu fakt \u00fcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259, Valentinin hans\u0131sa bir q\u0131za g\u00f6r\u0259 \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fcld\u00fcy\u00fc v\u0259 yaxud da xristianl\u0131\u011f\u0131 t\u0259bli\u011f etdiyin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 edam edildiyi faktlar\u0131n\u0131 \u015f\u00fcbh\u0259 alt\u0131na al\u0131r v\u0259 onun haqq\u0131nda s\u00f6yl\u0259n\u0259n “homoseksualist” ifad\u0259sinin do\u011fruluq d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259sini art\u0131r\u0131r. Ax\u0131 ki\u015finin ki\u015fiy\u0259 “s\u0259ni sevir\u0259m” dem\u0259sin\u0259 “homoseksualist” s\u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259n ba\u015fqa hans\u0131 ad\u0131 verm\u0259k olar? \u018fg\u0259r olarsa, hans\u0131 ad\u0131?<\/p>\n

Kims\u0259 dey\u0259 bil\u0259r ki, Valentini d\u0259 Tanr\u0131 yarad\u0131b, y\u0259ni onun hemoseksual olmas\u0131 \u00f6z g\u00fcnah\u0131 deyil. Tutal\u0131m ki, bel\u0259dir, tutaq ki, o \u00f6z hissl\u0259rin\u0259 qalib g\u0259l\u0259 bilmir, bunu anlamaq olar. Amma o yaln\u0131z \u00f6z t\u0259rbiy\u0259sini deyil, c\u0259miyy\u0259tin t\u0259rbiyy\u0259sini pozmaqla m\u0259\u015f\u011ful olub. Yen\u0259 kims\u0259 dey\u0259 bil\u0259r ki, bundan biz\u0259 n\u0259, y\u0259ni bizim c\u0259miyy\u0259t\u0259 n\u0259?<\/p>\n

Bax, m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 el\u0259 buras\u0131ndad\u0131r! Bundan biz\u0259 n\u0259? Y\u0259ni, bu \u0259xlaqs\u0131zlar g\u00fcn\u00fcnd\u0259n, bu 14 fevral tarixind\u0259n biz\u0259 n\u0259? B\u0259y\u0259m biz \u0259xlaqs\u0131z\u0131q? B\u0259y\u0259m biz xristian\u0131q? Ba\u015fqa vaxt \u201c\u018flhamd\u00fclillah, m\u00fcs\u0259lman\u0131q\u201d deyib gur-gur guruldayan adamlar niy\u0259 qeyd edir bu xristian g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fc? Hans\u0131 xristian m\u00fcs\u0259lmanlar\u0131n \u0259lam\u0259tdar bir g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fc qeyd edir?<\/p>\n

Valentinin edam\u0131ndan sonra \u0259xlaqs\u0131zl\u0131q s\u0259ngidi, amma tamamil\u0259 dayanmad\u0131. \u018fvv\u0259ll\u0259r a\u00e7\u0131q-a\u015fkarda ke\u00e7iril\u0259n bu \u201cbayram\u201d indi k\u00fcnc-bucaqda gizli \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 davam etdirilirdi.<\/p>\n

\u018fxlaqs\u0131zl\u0131q g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fcn \u201cValentin g\u00fcn\u00fc\u201dad\u0131 alt\u0131nda a\u00e7\u0131q-a\u015fkar qeyd edilm\u0259si is\u0259 onun \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcnd\u0259n t\u0259xmin\u0259n 226 il sonraya t\u0259sad\u00fcf edir. Y\u0259ni Papa Gelasius t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n 496-c\u0131 ild\u0259 “Lupercalia” bayram\u0131n\u0131n ad\u0131 Valentinin \u015f\u0259r\u0259fin\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015fdirilir. Add\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259nin s\u0259b\u0259bin\u0259 g\u0259linc\u0259 is\u0259, xristian ruhanil\u0259r Romadak\u0131 b\u00fctp\u0259r\u0259stl\u0259rin “Lupercalia” bayram\u0131na xristian g\u0259ncl\u0259rin d\u0259 qat\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan v\u0259 b\u00fctp\u0259r\u0259st q\u0131zlarla \u0259yl\u0259nm\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259n narahat olduqlar\u0131ndan buna bir \u00e7ar\u0259 axtar\u0131rd\u0131lar.<\/p>\n

El\u0259 bu zaman vaxtil\u0259 xristian q\u0259bristanl\u0131\u011f\u0131nda d\u0259fn olunan Valentin yada d\u00fc\u015fd\u00fc v\u0259 ruhani xristianlar bununla v\u0259ziyy\u0259td\u0259n \u00e7\u0131x\u0131\u015f yolu tapd\u0131lar. Onlar bu bayram\u0131n sad\u0259c\u0259 v\u0259 sad\u0259c\u0259 ad\u0131n\u0131 d\u0259yi\u015f\u0259r\u0259k g\u0259ncl\u0259rin xristianl\u0131\u011fa ba\u011fl\u0131 ad\u0131 olan bir \u015f\u0259nlikd\u0259 – \u201cM\u00fcq\u0259dd\u0259s Valentin g\u00fcn\u00fc\u201dnd\u0259 \u0259yl\u0259nm\u0259l\u0259rini, daha do\u011frusu \u0259n\u0259n\u0259vi k\u00fctl\u0259vi \u0259xlaqs\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 davam etdirm\u0259l\u0259rini t\u0259min etdil\u0259r. Bununla da h\u0259min bu \u201cValentin g\u00fcn\u00fc\u201d meydana \u00e7\u0131xd\u0131. Bir s\u00f6zl\u0259, Papa Gelasius \u0259xlaqs\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 r\u0259smil\u0259\u015fdirdi.<\/p>\n

E\u015fqdir mehrab\u0131 uca g\u00f6yl\u0259rin, E\u015fqsiz ey d\u00fcnya n\u0259dir d\u0259y\u0259rin?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"\"T\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcfedici hald\u0131r ki, bir-biri il\u0259 m\u00fcqayis\u0259 edil\u0259si olmayan bu iki g\u00fcn\u00fc m\u0259cburiyy\u0259td\u0259n bir yaz\u0131da yerl\u0259\u015fdirm\u0259li olduq, oxucular asanl\u0131qla f\u0259rqi hiss ed\u0259 bilsin dey\u0259. 30 \u0130yun kimi t\u0259rt\u0259miz bir g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc 14 fevralla b\u0259rab\u0259r tutmaq a\u011fl\u0131m\u0131zdan bel\u0259 ke\u00e7m\u0259yib, \u00e7\u00fcnki bu m\u00fcmk\u00fcn deyil. Biri m\u0259sum bir e\u015fqin g\u00fcn\u00fc, biri d\u0259 sonsuz iyr\u0259nclikl\u0259rin g\u00fcn\u00fc \u2013 b\u0259rab\u0259r tutulmas\u0131 m\u00fcmk\u00fcnm\u00fc sizc\u0259?<\/p>\n

Dan\u0131lmazd\u0131r, \u0130lham-F\u0259riz\u0259 sevgisi adi m\u0259h\u0259b\u0259t olmay\u0131b. \u00d6nc\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u0259k- biz niy\u0259 sevm\u0259y\u0259 v\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 kiminl\u0259s\u0259 birl\u0259\u015fdirm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r\u0131q? Fikir vermisinizs\u0259, h\u0259r sev\u0259n \u015f\u0259xs he\u00e7 olmasa bir d\u0259f\u0259 \u00f6z sevgilisin\u0259 \u201cruhumun yar\u0131s\u0131\u201d dey\u0259 m\u00fcraci\u0259t edir. T\u0259biidir, \u00e7\u00fcnki \u00f6z tay\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 tapmad\u0131qca \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc b\u00fct\u00f6v hiss ed\u0259 bilmirik, h\u0259yat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 yar\u0131m\u00e7\u0131q hesab edirik.<\/p>\n

Ruhumuzu b\u00f6t\u00f6vl\u0259\u015fdir\u0259n, m\u0259n\u0259viyyat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6z\u0259ll\u0259\u015fdir\u0259n, h\u0259yat\u0131m\u0131za i\u015f\u0131q ver\u0259n Tanr\u0131 pay\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 tapandan sonra h\u0259yat ba\u015fqa c\u00fcr g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr g\u00f6zl\u0259rimiz\u0259, daha i\u015f\u0131ql\u0131, daha nurlu, daha cazib\u0259dar… Sevgimizi doya-doya ya\u015famaq ist\u0259yirik, ruhumuzun yar\u0131s\u0131ndan m\u0259n\u0259vi qida al\u0131r\u0131q, e\u015fqd\u0259n-sevgid\u0259n bihu\u015f oluruq. Do\u011frudur, bu c\u00fcr m\u0259h\u0259bb\u0259t h\u0259r k\u0259s\u0259 qism\u0259t olmur, nec\u0259 dey\u0259rl\u0259r bu e\u015fq Tanr\u0131n\u0131n l\u00fctf\u00fcd\u00fcr sevdiyi b\u0259nd\u0259l\u0259rin\u0259..<\/p>\n

\u0130lham-F\u0259riz\u0259 c\u00fctl\u00fcy\u00fc d\u0259 Tanr\u0131n\u0131n sevimli b\u0259nd\u0259si olub. O c\u00fcr saf m\u0259h\u0259bb\u0259t, o c\u00fcr sadiq h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131 \u0130lhama Tanr\u0131 h\u0259diyy\u0259sidir b\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259. El\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u00fck ki, \u0130lham\u0131n v\u0259 F\u0259riz\u0259nin \u00f6m\u00fcr hekay\u0259tini bilm\u0259y\u0259n yoxdur. Amma yen\u0259 d\u0259 q\u0131sa x\u00fclas\u0259…<\/p>\n

30 \u0130yun 1989\u2013dan\u00a0 20 yanvar 1990-a ged\u0259n uzun-q\u0131sa yol<\/strong><\/p>\n

30 iyun 1989-cu il.. S\u0259rin mehli, bir az da isti yay g\u00fcn\u00fc… Bu g\u00fcn Az\u0259rbaycan xalq\u0131n\u0131n tarixin\u0259, \u0259d\u0259biyyat\u0131na v\u0259 \u0259n \u0259sas\u0131 q\u0259lbl\u0259r\u0259 \u0130lham v\u0259 F\u0259riz\u0259 dastan\u0131n\u0131 h\u0259kk edib. U\u015faql\u0131q dostlar\u0131 olan \u0130lham v\u0259 F\u0259riz\u0259 \u0259sil sevginin simvolu oldu. 30 \u0130yun tarixind\u0259 onlar h\u0259yatlar\u0131n\u0131 \u0259b\u0259dilik birl\u0259\u015fdirm\u0259y\u0259 and i\u00e7dil\u0259r \u2013 ail\u0259 qurdular. \u00a0C\u0259mi 6 ay ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131 ya\u015fayan g\u0259ncl\u0259rd\u0259n biri- \u0130lham o qara gec\u0259nin- 20 Yanvar\u0131n qurban\u0131 oldu.. V\u0259t\u0259nin dar g\u00fcn\u00fcnd\u0259 evind\u0259, o soyuq yanvar gec\u0259sind\u0259 isti soban\u0131n k\u0259nar\u0131nda oturma\u011f\u0131 yara\u015fd\u0131rmad\u0131 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259, bay\u0131ra at\u0131ld\u0131 v\u0259 ilk andaca h\u0259yatla vidala\u015fd\u0131. \u0130lham v\u0259t\u0259n\u0259 olan m\u0259h\u0259bb\u0259ti u\u011frunda \u015f\u0259hid oldu.<\/p>\n

O v\u0259t\u0259n\u0259 olan e\u015fqin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 g\u00f6z yumdu h\u0259yata, F\u0259riz\u0259 is\u0259 v\u0259t\u0259nin azadl\u0131\u011f\u0131 u\u011frunda \u015f\u0259hid olan \u0130lham\u0131n e\u015fqi yolunda h\u0259yat\u0131na son qoydu. Ax\u0131 o s\u00f6z vermi\u015fdi ruhunun yar\u0131s\u0131na, \u201cs\u0259nsiz h\u0259yat m\u0259n\u0259 dar\u201d demi\u015fdi.<\/p>\n

\u018fg\u0259r fikir vermisinizs\u0259, d\u00fcnyan\u0131n m\u00fcxt\u0259lif dill\u0259rind\u0259 \u201c\u0259r\u201d v\u0259 \u201carvad\u201d bir c\u00fcr deyilir v\u0259 ham\u0131s\u0131 da bizim dilimiz\u0259 t\u0259rc\u00fcm\u0259d\u0259 h\u0259rfi olaraq \u201c\u0259r\u201d v\u0259 ya \u201carvad\u201d dey\u0259 t\u0259rc\u00fcm\u0259 edilir. Amma bizim \u00f6z dilimizd\u0259 bu anlam \u201cH\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131\u201d ad\u0131n\u0131 da\u015f\u0131y\u0131r. H\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131….<\/p>\n

F\u0259riz\u0259 par\u00e7alanm\u0131\u015f ruhunu birl\u0259\u015fdirm\u0259k, b\u00fct\u00f6vl\u0259\u015fdirm\u0259k ist\u0259di yenid\u0259n. \u0130lham\u0131na, h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131na, ruhunun yar\u0131s\u0131na qovu\u015fmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn onun \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcn\u00fcn 2-ci g\u00fcn\u00fcnd\u0259 sirk\u0259 tur\u015fusu i\u00e7di. Onsuz da \u0130lhams\u0131z d\u00fcnya g\u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259 d\u0259y\u0259rd\u0259n d\u00fc\u015fm\u00fc\u015fd\u00fc, h\u0259r \u015fey anlam\u0131n\u0131 itirmi\u015fdi….. Bu da onun h\u0259yatdan k\u00f6\u00e7m\u0259d\u0259n yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131 son s\u0259tirl\u0259r: “Ana, a\u011flamay\u0131n. M\u0259n \u0130lhams\u0131z ya\u015faya bilm\u0259dim. O, m\u0259nim gec\u0259l\u0259r ulduzum, g\u00fcnd\u00fczl\u0259r g\u00fcn\u0259\u015fim idi. S\u00f6n\u0259n g\u00fcn\u0259\u015f, ulduz m\u0259ni \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r\u0131r, salamat qal\u0131n”…( ail\u0259nin arxivind\u0259n-L.M)<\/p>\n

F\u0259riz\u0259 intihar ed\u0259nd\u0259 hamil\u0259 olub, b\u0259tnind\u0259 \u0130lham\u0131n k\u00f6rp\u0259sini g\u0259zdirib. Yazd\u0131qca d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u0259m, Tanr\u0131m, o nec\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fck \u00fcr\u0259y\u0259, nec\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fck sevgiy\u0259 sahib olub ki, k\u00f6rp\u0259sin\u0259 q\u0131yma\u011f\u0131 da g\u00f6z\u0259 al\u0131b… Bir yandan da d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u0259m, \u0130lahi, g\u00f6r\u0259s\u0259n ona q\u0259z\u0259bin tutubmu \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 v\u0259 k\u00f6rp\u0259sin\u0259 q\u0131yd\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn? Anlamaq \u00e7\u0259tindir, anlamaq \u00fcr\u0259k ist\u0259r, c\u0259sar\u0259t ist\u0259r, m\u0259h\u0259bb\u0259t ist\u0259r.<\/p>\n

Anlay\u0131ram, \u0130lhams\u0131z ya\u015fama\u011f\u0131 v\u0259 k\u00f6rp\u0259sini ya\u015fatma\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6z\u0259 ala bilm\u0259yib F\u0259riz\u0259… Ruhunun yar\u0131s\u0131, h\u0259yat yolunda b\u0259rab\u0259r ir\u0259lil\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 and i\u00e7diyi yolda\u015f\u0131 olmadan ya\u015fama\u011f\u0131 haram bilib \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259… D\u00fcnya d\u0259y\u0259rsiz g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcb ona… Dill\u0259r \u0259zb\u0259ri o q\u0259z\u0259l h\u0259zin-h\u0259zin s\u00fcz\u00fcl\u00fcr qula\u011f\u0131ma: \u201cE\u015fqsiz ey d\u00fcnya, n\u0259dir d\u0259y\u0259rin?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u018fks\u0259riyy\u0259t 30 \u0130yunu d\u0259st\u0259kl\u0259yir!<\/strong><\/p>\n

B\u0259s 30 \u0130yunun \u201cSevgilil\u0259r G\u00fcn\u00fc\u201d kimi qeyd olunmas\u0131 t\u0259\u015f\u0259bb\u00fcs\u00fc kim\u0259 m\u0259xsusdur? B\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259 \u00e7oxlar\u0131 bilir bu tarix\u00e7\u0259ni. \u201cXural\u201d q\u0259zetinin ba\u015f redaktoru \u018fv\u0259z Zeynall\u0131ya m\u0259xsus olan t\u0259\u015f\u0259bb\u00fcs 2003-c\u00fc ild\u0259 ir\u0259li s\u00fcr\u00fcld\u00fc. El\u0259 ilk g\u00fcnd\u0259n d\u0259 mara\u011fa, sevgiy\u0259, bir az da k\u0259d\u0259r\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259b oldu. Maraq ondan \u00f6tr\u00fc idi ki, qeyri-adi bir t\u0259\u015f\u0259bb\u00fcs idi. Sevgi ondan \u00f6tr\u00fc idi ki, bu g\u00fcn biz\u0259 dogma idi. K\u0259d\u0259r ondan \u00f6tr\u00fc idi ki, s\u0259b\u0259bkarlar\u0131 aram\u0131zda deyildi.<\/p>\n

Bir az \u00f6nc\u0259 qeyd etdiyimiz kimi, bu yaz\u0131n\u0131 haz\u0131rlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z m\u00fcdd\u0259td\u0259 \u0259m\u0259kda\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z \u015f\u0259h\u0259rimizd\u0259 sor\u011fu da ke\u00e7irdil\u0259r. M\u0259qs\u0259d insanlar\u0131n hans\u0131 g\u00fcn\u00fc \u201cSevgilil\u0259r G\u00fcn\u00fc\u201d kimi qeyd etdiyini \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259k idi. 63 n\u0259f\u0259r m\u00fcxt\u0259lif ya\u015fl\u0131 insanlara yax\u0131nla\u015fan \u0259m\u0259kda\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z dey\u0259-g\u00fcl\u0259 qay\u0131td\u0131lar. Ayd\u0131n idi ki, sor\u011fudan raz\u0131 qal\u0131blar. Sor\u011funun n\u0259tic\u0259sin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 fikri \u00f6yr\u0259nil\u0259n 63 n\u0259f\u0259r respondentd\u0259n 51-i milli \u201cSevgilil\u0259r G\u00fcn\u00fc\u201dn\u00fc, y\u0259ni 30 \u0130yun tarixini qeyd edir. Q\u00fcrur duydu\u011fumuz cavablardan bir ne\u00e7\u0259si;<\/p>\n

– Sevinc Pa\u015fayeva (23 ya\u015f) \u2013 M\u0259n 14 \u0130yun kimi iyr\u0259nc bir g\u00fcn\u00fc qeyd ed\u0259nl\u0259ri he\u00e7 vaxt ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259mi\u015f\u0259m v\u0259 onlar\u0131n t\u0259miz t\u00fcrk oldu\u011funa da h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 \u015f\u00fcbh\u0259 etmi\u015f\u0259m. \u0130lham-F\u0259riz\u0259 c\u00fctl\u00fcy\u00fcn\u00fcn evlilik tarixi bizim \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u0259sl \u201cSevgilil\u0259r G\u00fcn\u00fc\u201dd\u00fcr v\u0259 m\u0259n d\u0259 h\u0259min g\u00fcn sevgilimd\u0259n \u00fcr\u0259k dolusu t\u0259brik al\u0131ram.<\/p>\n

– Ayd\u0131n Allahverdiyev (44 ya\u015f) \u2013 Bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 \u00e7ox vacib bir m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259dir, televiziyalar\u0131n \u00fcz\u0259rin\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fck i\u015f d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr bu bar\u0259d\u0259. \u00d6z g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc t\u0259bli\u011f etm\u0259lidirl\u0259r, 30 \u0130yunu anlatmal\u0131d\u0131rlar g\u0259ncl\u0259r\u0259. 14 fevrala m\u0259nim he\u00e7 \u00fcr\u0259yim isinmirdi, bir-iki il \u00f6nc\u0259 d\u0259 bu Valentinin kim oldu\u011fu bar\u0259d\u0259 maraqland\u0131m, e\u015fitdikl\u0259rimd\u0259n d\u0259h\u015f\u0259t\u0259 g\u0259ldim. Bizim g\u0259ncl\u0259r indiy\u0259d\u0259k bu g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fc qeyd edib? \u018fvv\u0259ll\u0259r m\u0259n 14 fevral\u0131 qeyd etm\u0259mi\u015f\u0259m, amma 30 \u0130yun t\u0259sis olunandan b\u0259ri h\u0259r il 30 \u0130yunda xan\u0131m\u0131ma bir d\u0259n\u0259 q\u0131rm\u0131z\u0131 g\u00fcl al\u0131ram, kas\u0131b\u0131n olan\u0131ndan.<\/p>\n

-S\u0259f\u0259r \u018fliyev (31 ya\u015f) \u2013 H\u0259l\u0259 evli deyil\u0259m, iki ildir ki, ni\u015fanlanl\u0131yam, bu il toy ed\u0259c\u0259yik. Sevdiyim qad\u0131na h\u0259r il 30 \u0130yunu bacard\u0131\u011f\u0131m kimi ya\u015fatma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131ram, ke\u00e7\u0259n ild\u0259n q\u0259rara alm\u0131\u015f\u0131q ki, bu il \u201cSevgilil\u0259r G\u00fcn\u00fc\u201dnd\u0259 \u015e\u0259hidl\u0259r Xiyaban\u0131na ged\u0259k, \u0130lham-F\u0259riz\u0259ni ziyar\u0259t ed\u0259k.<\/p>\n

-Nar\u0131n Babayeva (51 ya\u015f) \u2013 30 ildi evliy\u0259m, \u0259vv\u0259ll\u0259r bel\u0259 \u015feyl\u0259ri o q\u0259d\u0259r d\u0259 \u00f6n\u0259ms\u0259m\u0259zdik, b\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259 \u00f6z milli g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz olmay\u0131b, qan\u0131m\u0131z isinm\u0259yib. 5-6 il olar ki, 30 \u0130yunda yolda\u015f\u0131m m\u0259n\u0259 h\u0259diyy\u0259 al\u0131r. He\u00e7 yad\u0131mdan \u00e7\u0131xm\u0131r, bir d\u0259f\u0259 d\u0259 pulu olmay\u0131b, parkdan g\u00fcl d\u0259rib g\u0259tirmi\u015fdi m\u0259n\u0259. M\u0259n d\u0259 bacard\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 edir\u0259m, g\u00f6z\u0259l s\u00fcfr\u0259 a\u00e7\u0131ram.<\/p>\n

-Aynur Al\u0131yeva (19 ya\u015f) \u2013 Universitetd\u0259 h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 bu g\u00fcn\u00fcn \u00f6z\u0259lliyind\u0259n dan\u0131\u015f\u0131r\u0131q, m\u0259lumat\u0131 olmayanlara 14 fevral\u0131 deyil, 30 \u0130yunu qeyd etm\u0259yin \u00f6n\u0259mli oldu\u011funu ba\u015fa sal\u0131r\u0131q. Ke\u00e7\u0259n il b\u00fct\u00fcn qrup \u015e\u0259hidl\u0259r Xiyaban\u0131na getdik, 4 m\u00fc\u0259llimimiz d\u0259 biziml\u0259 idi. M\u0259n bu bayram\u0131 h\u0259l\u0259 ki, sevgili olaraq qeyd etmir\u0259m, amma g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 sevgiliml\u0259 30 \u0130yunu qeyd etm\u0259k ist\u0259rdim, 14 fevral\u0131 yox.<\/p>\n

C\u0259miyy\u0259tin ziyal\u0131 t\u0259b\u0259q\u0259sinin fikirl\u0259ri d\u0259 oxucu k\u00fctl\u0259si \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn maraql\u0131 olar dey\u0259 tan\u0131nm\u0131\u015f simalar\u0131n fikirl\u0259rini d\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259ndik. Art\u0131q 8 ildir ki, qeyd edil\u0259n \u201cSevgilil\u0259r G\u00fcn\u00fc\u201dn\u00fcn qeyd edilm\u0259sini m\u00fcsb\u0259t qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndir\u0259n sosioloq \u018fhm\u0259d Q\u0259\u015f\u0259mo\u011flunun s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, bu, h\u0259m milli bayramd\u0131r, h\u0259m q\u0259hr\u0259manl\u0131q tariximizdir, h\u0259m d\u0259 sevgi kimi m\u00fcq\u0259dd\u0259s bir hissl\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r. 14 fevral\u0131n b\u00fct\u00fcn d\u00fcnyada oldu\u011fu kimi Az\u0259rbaycanda da qeyd olunmas\u0131na t\u0259bii yana\u015fan sosioloq, 30 iyunun sevgilil\u0259r \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn daha b\u00f6y\u00fck bir bayrama \u00e7evrilm\u0259sini m\u0259qs\u0259d\u0259uy\u011fun hal kimi qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndirir.<\/p>\n

Onun fikrinc\u0259, milli sevgilil\u0259r g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fcn daha b\u00f6y\u00fck bir s\u0259viyy\u0259d\u0259 ke\u00e7irilm\u0259 \u0259n\u0259n\u0259si formala\u015fsa, bu, \u00f6lk\u0259mizin d\u0259 m\u00f6vqeyin\u0259 xo\u015f t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcratlar g\u0259tir\u0259r: “B\u00fct\u00fcn d\u00fcnya c\u0259miyy\u0259tl\u0259rinin h\u0259r zaman t\u0259miz sevgiy\u0259 ehtiyac\u0131 olub. \u018ftraf al\u0259md\u0259 ba\u015f ver\u0259n neqativ situasiyalarla m\u0259hz \u0259sl sevgi vasit\u0259sil\u0259 m\u00fcbariz\u0259 aparmaq olar. Odur ki, \u00fcr\u0259k v\u0259 a\u011f\u0131l\u0131n birg\u0259 q\u0259rar verdiyi bu \u00fclvi hissl\u0259ri ya\u015famaqdan \u00e7\u0259kinm\u0259yin. El\u0259 bu g\u00fcn – Sevgilil\u0259r g\u00fcn\u00fcnd\u0259 sevginizi bir daha etiraf etm\u0259kd\u0259n d\u0259”.<\/p>\n

\u201cXural\u201d q\u0259zetinin ba\u015f redaktoru \u018fv\u0259z Zeynall\u0131 deyir: \u201cAz\u0259rbaycan ictimaiyy\u0259ti v\u0259 g\u0259ncliyi art\u0131q \u00f6z se\u00e7imini edib v\u0259 30 iyunu Milli Sevgilil\u0259r G\u00fcn\u00fc kimi se\u00e7ib. V\u0259 \u00e7ox sevinirik ki, qurum v\u0259 t\u0259\u015fkilatlar da bu q\u0259rara say\u011f\u0131 il\u0259 yana\u015f\u0131b 14 fevralda he\u00e7 bir t\u0259dbir ke\u00e7irmirl\u0259r. \u018fslind\u0259 biz he\u00e7 vaxt dem\u0259mi\u015fik ki, kims\u0259 14 fevral\u0131 bayram etm\u0259sin. Bu h\u0259r k\u0259sin \u015f\u0259xsi i\u015fidir, amma bunu k\u00fctl\u0259vil\u0259\u015fdirm\u0259k olmaz\u201d.<\/p>\n

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\n\u0130lahi sevginin \u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck n\u00fcmun\u0259si sevgin v\u0259 sevdiyin u\u011fruna can\u0131n\u0131 qurban verm\u0259kdir. F\u0259riz\u0259 \u0130lhams\u0131z bir h\u0259yat\u0131 ya\u015faya bilm\u0259di v\u0259 sevgid\u0259n y\u00fcks\u0259k he\u00e7 n\u0259 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u0259yani g\u00f6st\u0259rdi.<\/p>\n

Biz h\u0259r iki g\u00fcn\u00fcn tarix\u00e7\u0259sind\u0259n b\u0259hs etdik. Se\u00e7imi sizl\u0259r\u0259 burax\u0131r\u0131q. \u0130ndi \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn, bizim g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz hans\u0131d\u0131r? \u0130lham-F\u0259riz\u0259 m\u0259h\u0259bb\u0259tinin s\u00fcbutu 30 \u0130yun, yoxsa \u0259xlaqs\u0131zlar\u0131n iyr\u0259nc h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259rl\u0259 tarix\u0259 yap\u0131\u015fd\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 14 Fevral?
\nD\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259y\u0259 d\u0259y\u0259r (mi?) …
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P.S. M\u0259qal\u0259d\u0259 istifad\u0259 edilmi\u015f qaynaqlar:<\/p>\n

\u201cOxford University Press\u201d q\u0259zeti, 1997-ci il, 14 fevral burax\u0131l\u0131\u015f\u0131
\n\u201cCentre Daily Times\u201d q\u0259zeti, 2009-cu il, 14 fevral burax\u0131l\u0131\u015f\u0131
\n\u201cNew York Times\u201d q\u0259zeti, 1993-c\u00fc il, 14 fevral burax\u0131l\u0131\u015f\u0131<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Sevgilil\u0259r g\u00fcn\u00fc hans\u0131d\u0131r – \u0130lham-F\u0259riz\u0259 Sevgisinin s\u00fcbutu olan 30 iyun, yoxsa \u0259xlaqs\u0131zlar\u0131n iyr\u0259nc h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259rl\u0259 tarix\u0259 yap\u0131\u015fd\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 14 fevral? Az\u0259rbaycan c\u0259miyy\u0259tind\u0259 bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259d\u0259 yekdil fikir h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 tam formala\u015fmad\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan, tarix\u0259 q\u0131sa ekskurs etm\u0259y\u0259 v\u0259 insanlar\u0131n fikirl\u0259rini \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fd\u0131q. G\u0259lin g\u00f6r\u0259k tarix, m\u0259ntiq v\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259l\u0259rimiz n\u0259 deyir… \u0130lham v\u0259 F\u0259riz\u0259… \u018fslind\u0259 k\u00f6kl\u00fc yadda\u015flar\u0131n v\u0259 t\u0259miz q\u0259lbl\u0259rin orta yerind\u0259 \u0259b\u0259dilik k\u00f6k sal\u0131blar onlar \u2013 \u00f6z t\u0259miz v\u0259 saf sevgil\u0259ri il\u0259 birlikd\u0259. Milyonlara s\u0259rgil\u0259dikl\u0259ri c\u0259sar\u0259tl\u0259ri il\u0259, \u00f6l\u00fcms\u00fczl\u00fckl\u0259ri il\u0259 \u0259b\u0259di olaraq qutsalla\u015f\u0131blar, \u00f6z ilahi e\u015fql\u0259ri il\u0259 birlikd\u0259 \u00fcr\u0259kl\u0259ri f\u0259th edibl\u0259r, sevgil\u0259rini dastanlara \u00e7eviribl\u0259r. 2003-c\u00fc ild\u0259n…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":690415,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/247125.jpg",482,361,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/247125.jpg",482,361,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/247125.jpg",482,361,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/247125-482x280.jpg",482,280,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/247125.jpg",482,361,false],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/247125.jpg",482,361,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/247125.jpg",482,361,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/247125.jpg",482,361,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/247125-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/247125.jpg",482,361,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"Sevgilil\u0259r g\u00fcn\u00fc hans\u0131d\u0131r – \u0130lham-F\u0259riz\u0259 Sevgisinin s\u00fcbutu olan 30 iyun, yoxsa \u0259xlaqs\u0131zlar\u0131n iyr\u0259nc h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259rl\u0259 tarix\u0259 yap\u0131\u015fd\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 14 fevral? Az\u0259rbaycan c\u0259miyy\u0259tind\u0259 bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259d\u0259 yekdil fikir h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 tam formala\u015fmad\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan, tarix\u0259 q\u0131sa ekskurs etm\u0259y\u0259 v\u0259 insanlar\u0131n fikirl\u0259rini \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fd\u0131q. G\u0259lin g\u00f6r\u0259k tarix, m\u0259ntiq v\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259l\u0259rimiz n\u0259 deyir… \u0130lham v\u0259 F\u0259riz\u0259… \u018fslind\u0259 k\u00f6kl\u00fc yadda\u015flar\u0131n v\u0259 t\u0259miz q\u0259lbl\u0259rin orta…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/690414"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=690414"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/690414\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/690415"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=690414"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=690414"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=690414"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}