{"id":694899,"date":"2024-02-26T14:29:16","date_gmt":"2024-02-26T10:29:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=694899"},"modified":"2024-02-26T14:29:16","modified_gmt":"2024-02-26T10:29:16","slug":"bunu-ets%c9%99niz-ovladlariniz-faci%c9%99l%c9%99rl%c9%99-uzl%c9%99s%c9%99c%c9%99k-valideynl%c9%99r%c9%99-x%c9%99b%c9%99rdarliq","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=694899","title":{"rendered":"Bunu ets\u0259niz, \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131z faci\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 \u00fczl\u0259\u015f\u0259c\u0259k &#8211; Valideynl\u0259r\u0259 X\u018fB\u018fRDARLIQ"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>M\u00fcasir valideynl\u0259rin tez-tez \u201cbizim d\u00f6vr\u00fcm\u00fczd\u0259 \u015fagirdl\u0259r bel\u0259 deyildi, biz bel\u0259 h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259r etm\u0259zdik, biz bu c\u00fcr dan\u0131\u015fmazd\u0131q\u201d kimi fikirl\u0259rl\u0259 \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259nqid etdikl\u0259rinin \u015fahidi oluruq. \u00c7ox q\u0259rib\u0259dir ki, h\u0259r d\u00f6vr\u00fcn orta ya\u015fl\u0131 ata v\u0259 anas\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr ki, onlar \u00f6z d\u00f6vrl\u0259rind\u0259 f\u0259rqli olublar.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Son g\u00fcnl\u0259r Az\u0259rbaycan m\u0259kt\u0259bl\u0259rind\u0259 ba\u015f ver\u0259n biab\u0131r\u00e7\u0131 hadis\u0259l\u0259r d\u0259 g\u00f6st\u0259rir ki, yeniyetm\u0259lik d\u00f6vr\u00fc \u00e7\u0259tindir.<\/p>\n<p>B\u0259s psixoloji d\u0259yi\u015fiklikl\u0259r \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc hans\u0131 davran\u0131\u015flarda b\u00fcruz\u0259 verir? Yeniyetm\u0259l\u0259r bu d\u00f6vrd\u0259 n\u0259l\u0259r hiss edirl\u0259r?<\/p>\n<p><strong>ARANTV.AZ\u00a0 <\/strong>x\u0259b\u0259r verir ki, m\u00f6vzu il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 Yenisabah.az-a dan\u0131\u015fan psixoloq K\u00f6n\u00fcl \u018fhm\u0259dova bildirib ki, bu probleml\u0259rin k\u00f6k\u00fc m\u0259hz ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259dir:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBu g\u00fcn \u015fagirdl\u0259rin kobud davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 aktual m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n biridir. B\u00fct\u00fcn bu probleml\u0259r \u0259vv\u0259lc\u0259 ail\u0259d\u0259, daha sonra t\u0259rbiy\u0259 ocaqlar\u0131nda yaran\u0131r. Bel\u0259 hallar\u0131n qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 almaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn valideynl\u0259rin u\u015faqlar\u0131 \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 t\u0259lim-t\u0259rbiy\u0259si g\u00fccl\u00fc olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Valideynl\u0259r birinci \u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259, sonra is\u0259 evd\u0259ki u\u015faqlar\u0131na qar\u015f\u0131 d\u00fczg\u00fcn olmal\u0131d\u0131rlar. Yeniyetm\u0259l\u0259rin \u00fcz\u0259rin\u0259 \u00e7ox getm\u0259k olmaz. Onlar\u0131n ya\u015fam t\u0259rzi, geyim t\u0259rzi, se\u00e7diyi filml\u0259r, yediyi yem\u0259kl\u0259r, oturub-durduqlar\u0131 dostlar\u0131, r\u0259fiq\u0259l\u0259ri d\u00fczg\u00fcn olmal\u0131d\u0131r. B\u00fct\u00fcn bunlara ail\u0259daxili diqq\u0259t yetirilm\u0259lidir. Bu g\u00fcn h\u0259r iki valideyn i\u015f\u0259 getm\u0259y\u0259, ail\u0259 b\u00fcdc\u0259sin\u0259 yard\u0131m etm\u0259y\u0259 m\u0259cbur oldu\u011fu \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn u\u015faqlar \u00f6zba\u015f\u0131na b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u00fcr. Yeniyetm\u0259lik d\u00f6vr\u00fc d\u0259 ke\u00e7id d\u00f6vr\u00fc oldu\u011fu \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bu \u0259r\u0259f\u0259d\u0259 \u00f6zba\u015f\u0131na b\u00f6y\u00fcm\u0259k ciddi probleml\u0259r yarad\u0131r v\u0259 bu tip hadis\u0259l\u0259r ba\u015f verir. T\u0259bii ki, bu h\u0259r ail\u0259y\u0259 aid deyil, amma \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259td\u0259 bu c\u00fcr olur. M\u0259n d\u0259f\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 demi\u015f\u0259m ki, h\u0259r ail\u0259nin \u00f6z psixoloqu olmal\u0131d\u0131r. M\u0259kt\u0259bl\u0259rd\u0259 imkan verilm\u0259lidir ki, psixoloqlar \u00f6z i\u015fl\u0259rini yerin\u0259 yetirsinl\u0259r, anket sor\u011fular\u0131 apars\u0131nlar, valideynl\u0259rl\u0259 b\u0259rab\u0259r i\u015fl\u0259sinl\u0259r. Valideynl\u0259r d\u0259 \u00f6z u\u015faqlar\u0131 il\u0259 ail\u0259daxili i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259lidirl\u0259r\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Psixoloq qeyd edib ki, yeniyetm\u0259lik d\u00f6vr\u00fcnd\u0259 u\u015fa\u011fa s\u0259rt reaksiyan\u0131n verilm\u0259si d\u0259h\u015f\u0259tli hadis\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259n\u0259 bil\u0259r:<\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u00dcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259, valideynl\u0259r \u00f6z \u00f6vladlar\u0131nda h\u0259r hans\u0131 narahatl\u0131q g\u00f6rd\u00fckd\u0259 d\u0259rhal u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n \u00fcz\u0259rin\u0259 getm\u0259m\u0259lidirl\u0259r. \u00c7\u00fcnki yeniyetm\u0259lik ke\u00e7id d\u00f6vr\u00fcd\u00fcr v\u0259 onlar ani q\u0259rarlar ver\u0259 bilirl\u0259r. Bu q\u0259rara intihar, ba\u015fqas\u0131na t\u0259cav\u00fcz etm\u0259k, h\u0259yatdan qisas almaq kimi davran\u0131\u015flar aid ola bil\u0259r. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 valideynl\u0259r \u00e7ox t\u0259mkinli olmal\u0131 v\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259ldirl\u0259r ki, \u00f6zl\u0259ri hans\u0131 s\u0259hvi edib ki, u\u015faq da bu add\u0131m\u0131 at\u0131b. Onlar ayd\u0131nla\u015fd\u0131rmal\u0131d\u0131r ki, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n n\u0259yi \u00e7atm\u0131r ki, m\u0259hz bu yolu se\u00e7ib. Onlar psixoloqlara, b\u00f6y\u00fckl\u0259r\u0259 m\u00fcraci\u0259t etm\u0259lidirl\u0259r. D\u0259rhal t\u0259pki g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259k olmaz! Bel\u0259 etdikd\u0259 yeniyetm\u0259 \u0259ks istiqam\u0259td\u0259 h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259t etm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131r\u201d.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>M\u00fcasir valideynl\u0259rin tez-tez \u201cbizim d\u00f6vr\u00fcm\u00fczd\u0259 \u015fagirdl\u0259r bel\u0259 deyildi, biz bel\u0259 h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259r etm\u0259zdik, biz bu c\u00fcr dan\u0131\u015fmazd\u0131q\u201d kimi fikirl\u0259rl\u0259 \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259nqid etdikl\u0259rinin \u015fahidi oluruq. \u00c7ox q\u0259rib\u0259dir ki, h\u0259r d\u00f6vr\u00fcn orta ya\u015fl\u0131 ata v\u0259 anas\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr ki, onlar \u00f6z d\u00f6vrl\u0259rind\u0259 f\u0259rqli olublar. Son g\u00fcnl\u0259r Az\u0259rbaycan m\u0259kt\u0259bl\u0259rind\u0259 ba\u015f ver\u0259n biab\u0131r\u00e7\u0131 hadis\u0259l\u0259r d\u0259 g\u00f6st\u0259rir ki, yeniyetm\u0259lik d\u00f6vr\u00fc \u00e7\u0259tindir. B\u0259s psixoloji d\u0259yi\u015fiklikl\u0259r \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc hans\u0131 davran\u0131\u015flarda b\u00fcruz\u0259 verir? Yeniyetm\u0259l\u0259r bu d\u00f6vrd\u0259 n\u0259l\u0259r hiss edirl\u0259r? ARANTV.AZ\u00a0 x\u0259b\u0259r verir ki, m\u00f6vzu il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 Yenisabah.az-a dan\u0131\u015fan psixoloq K\u00f6n\u00fcl \u018fhm\u0259dova bildirib ki, bu probleml\u0259rin k\u00f6k\u00fc m\u0259hz ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259dir: \u201cBu g\u00fcn \u015fagirdl\u0259rin&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":694900,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/resize_13.jpg",750,422,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/resize_13.jpg",750,422,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/resize_13.jpg",750,422,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/resize_13-500x280.jpg",500,280,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/resize_13-649x365.jpg",649,365,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/resize_13.jpg",640,360,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/resize_13.jpg",750,422,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/resize_13.jpg",750,422,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/resize_13-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/resize_13.jpg",750,422,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"<a href=\"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?cat=1\" rel=\"category\">C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"M\u00fcasir valideynl\u0259rin tez-tez \u201cbizim d\u00f6vr\u00fcm\u00fczd\u0259 \u015fagirdl\u0259r bel\u0259 deyildi, biz bel\u0259 h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259r etm\u0259zdik, biz bu c\u00fcr dan\u0131\u015fmazd\u0131q\u201d kimi fikirl\u0259rl\u0259 \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259nqid etdikl\u0259rinin \u015fahidi oluruq. \u00c7ox q\u0259rib\u0259dir ki, h\u0259r d\u00f6vr\u00fcn orta ya\u015fl\u0131 ata v\u0259 anas\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr ki, onlar \u00f6z d\u00f6vrl\u0259rind\u0259 f\u0259rqli olublar. Son g\u00fcnl\u0259r Az\u0259rbaycan m\u0259kt\u0259bl\u0259rind\u0259 ba\u015f ver\u0259n biab\u0131r\u00e7\u0131 hadis\u0259l\u0259r d\u0259 g\u00f6st\u0259rir ki, yeniyetm\u0259lik d\u00f6vr\u00fc \u00e7\u0259tindir. 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