{"id":695980,"date":"2024-02-29T10:49:51","date_gmt":"2024-02-29T06:49:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=695980"},"modified":"2024-02-29T10:49:51","modified_gmt":"2024-02-29T06:49:51","slug":"c%c9%99miyy%c9%99t-m%c9%99kt%c9%99b-v%c9%99-valideyn-usaqdan-n%c9%99-ist%c9%99diyini-bilmir-psixoloq-r%c9%99yi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=695980","title":{"rendered":"\u201cC\u0259miyy\u0259t, m\u0259kt\u0259b v\u0259 valideyn u\u015faqdan n\u0259 ist\u0259diyini bilmir\u201d \u2013PS\u0130XOLOQ R\u018fY\u0130"},"content":{"rendered":"

B\u0259zi valideynl\u0259rin sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 qeyri-etik davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 art\u0131q onlar\u0131n h\u0259yat t\u0259rzin\u0259 \u00e7evrilib. Onlar h\u0259tta \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131, b\u0259z\u0259n azya\u015fl\u0131 u\u015faqlar\u0131 da canl\u0131 yay\u0131mlara \u00e7\u0131xararaq \u00f6z \u0259m\u0259ll\u0259rin\u0259 al\u0259t edirl\u0259r. Bel\u0259 hallar u\u015faqlar\u0131n t\u0259rbiy\u0259sin\u0259 m\u0259nfi t\u0259sir g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259kl\u0259 yana\u015f\u0131, c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 d\u0259 q\u0131c\u0131q yarad\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Bu kimi hallarla m\u00fcbariz\u0259y\u0259 dair sosial mediada t\u0259\u015fkil olunan m\u00fczakir\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 bir \u00e7ox t\u0259klifl\u0259r, t\u00f6vsiy\u0259l\u0259r s\u0259sl\u0259ndirilir. Bel\u0259 t\u0259klifl\u0259rd\u0259n biri b\u0259zi \u00f6lk\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 oldu\u011fu kimi, Az\u0259rbaycanda da \u0259xlaq polisi adl\u0131 qurumun yarad\u0131lmas\u0131d\u0131r. \u0130ddia olunur ki, g\u0259nc n\u0259sli d\u00fczg\u00fcn t\u0259rbiy\u0259 etm\u0259k, onlar\u0131n \u0259xlaq\u0131n\u0131 qorumaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn m\u0259hz \u0259xlaq polisi vasit\u0259sil\u0259 n\u0259zar\u0259ti g\u00fccl\u0259ndirm\u0259k m\u00fcsb\u0259t effekt ver\u0259r.<\/p>\n

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Maraql\u0131d\u0131r, yeniyetm\u0259 v\u0259 g\u0259ncl\u0259rin, g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k n\u0259sill\u0259rin \u0259xlaq\u0131n\u0131 qorumaq, d\u00fczg\u00fcn t\u0259rbiy\u0259 etm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn biz\u0259 m\u0259hz \u0259xlaq polisi laz\u0131md\u0131rm\u0131? \u00d6vladlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131, g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259yimiz olan g\u0259ncl\u0259rimizi sosial median\u0131n z\u0259r\u0259rli t\u0259sirind\u0259n, pis t\u0259rbiy\u0259d\u0259n nec\u0259 qorumal\u0131y\u0131q?<\/p>\n

M\u00f6vzu il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 Medianews.az-a dan\u0131\u015fan psixoloq \u018ffsan\u0259 R\u00fcst\u0259mova bildirib ki,<\/strong>\u00a0bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259y\u0259 yana\u015fmada ilk olaraq hans\u0131 ya\u015f qrupundan s\u00f6hb\u0259t getdiyini d\u0259qiql\u0259\u015fdirm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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Onun s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, t\u0259rbiy\u0259d\u0259 \u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck prioritet, \u00f6z\u0259llik v\u0259 ya qorunmas\u0131 laz\u0131m olan t\u0259l\u0259b vahidlikdir: \u201cY\u0259ni, valideynl\u0259rin \u00f6vladlar\u0131ndan, m\u0259kt\u0259b v\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259llimin \u015fagirdd\u0259n, \u00f6lk\u0259nin v\u0259t\u0259nda\u015fdan, u\u015faqdan g\u00f6zl\u0259ntil\u0259ri eyni olmal\u0131d\u0131r. \u018fg\u0259r biz bu \u00fc\u00e7 istiqam\u0259t \u00fczr\u0259 eyniyy\u0259t yarada bils\u0259k, \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz c\u0259miyy\u0259t olaraq effektli \u0259xlaq polisini yarada bil\u0259rik. Ayr\u0131ca olaraq \u0259xlaq polisinin yarad\u0131lmas\u0131na g\u0259linc\u0259, s\u00f6z\u00fcged\u0259n qurumun hans\u0131 d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259r\u0259 s\u00f6yk\u0259n\u0259r\u0259k bu yoxlaman\u0131 ed\u0259c\u0259yini m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n etm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r. N\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 almaq laz\u0131md\u0131r ki, Az\u0259rbaycan kifay\u0259t q\u0259d\u0259r tolerant bir \u00f6lk\u0259dir. Bura m\u00fcxt\u0259lif dinl\u0259rin, m\u0259d\u0259niyy\u0259tl\u0259rin, meyar olaraq \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcl\u0259 bil\u0259ndirs\u0259, m\u00fcxt\u0259lif \u0259xlaq sahibl\u0259rinin ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 c\u0259miyy\u0259tdir. Bel\u0259 olan halda \u0259xlaq polisinin hans\u0131 ail\u0259y\u0259, hans\u0131 t\u0259rzd\u0259 yana\u015fa bil\u0259c\u0259yi, yaxud yarad\u0131lacaq bu qurumun qanunla nec\u0259 \u00fcmumil\u0259\u015f\u0259c\u0259yi sual alt\u0131ndad\u0131r. \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259, maraql\u0131 t\u0259klifdir v\u0259 hans\u0131sa formada d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ndirm\u0259k olar. Sad\u0259c\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u0259m ki, n\u0259yi n\u0259 il\u0259 v\u0259 nec\u0259 \u0259laq\u0259l\u0259ndirm\u0259yi n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 almaq laz\u0131md\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnki, biz bir q\u0259rar ver\u0259nd\u0259, add\u0131m atanda v\u0259 ya c\u00fcml\u0259 quranda m\u00fctl\u0259q onun s\u00f6yk\u0259ndiyi ara\u015fd\u0131rma, n\u0259tic\u0259si olmal\u0131d\u0131r\u201d.<\/p>\n

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Psixoloq deyib ki, he\u00e7 k\u0259s durdu\u011fu yerd\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259n \u201cm\u0259n bel\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u0259m\u201d dey\u0259 qanun-qayda t\u0259tbiq ed\u0259, t\u0259\u015f\u0259bb\u00fcs ir\u0259li s\u00fcr\u0259 bilm\u0259z. Onun q\u0259na\u0259tinc\u0259, \u0259g\u0259r c\u0259miyy\u0259t, m\u0259kt\u0259b v\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259llim yax\u015f\u0131 m\u0259nada \u201c\u00e7\u0259kici eyni yer\u0259 vurarsa\u201d, el\u0259 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fc birl\u0259\u015fib \u0259n g\u00f6z\u0259l, s\u0259ri\u015ft\u0259li qaydada \u0259xlaq polisin ed\u0259c\u0259yi n\u0259zar\u0259ti h\u0259yata ke\u00e7ir\u0259 bil\u0259r: \u201cLakin t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcfl\u0259r olsun ki, c\u0259miyy\u0259t, m\u0259kt\u0259b v\u0259 valideyn ba\u015fqa yer\u0259 bax\u0131r dey\u0259, indi b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u0259n u\u015faqlar\u0131n, h\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n d\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131, sa\u011flam, psixologiyas\u0131n\u0131n d\u00fczg\u00fcn formala\u015fmas\u0131 bir m\u00f6c\u00fcz\u0259 \u0259s\u0259ri say\u0131la bil\u0259r. \u0130ndi meyarlar \u00e7ox qar\u0131\u015f\u0131b v\u0259 bu q\u0259d\u0259r qar\u0131\u015f\u0131q meyarlar i\u00e7ind\u0259 do\u011frunu se\u00e7m\u0259k, g\u00f6rm\u0259k, anlamaq v\u0259 t\u0259tbiq edib yax\u015f\u0131 n\u0259tic\u0259 almaq \u00e7ox \u00e7\u0259tindir. Bizim do\u011fru hesab etdiyimizi \u00f6vladlar\u0131m\u0131za ver\u0259nd\u0259, \u00f6vladlar\u0131m\u0131z c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 v\u0259 ya sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 bunun \u0259ksin g\u00f6r\u0259nd\u0259, art\u0131q valideyn onun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn m\u00fczakir\u0259 oluna bil\u0259n bir predmet\u0259 \u00e7evrilir. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 birinci n\u0259 ist\u0259diyimizi bilm\u0259liyik. Sonra is\u0259 onu t\u0259tbiq etm\u0259y\u0259 fokuslanmal\u0131y\u0131q. M\u0259nc\u0259, haz\u0131rda \u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck problem budur ki, c\u0259miyy\u0259t, m\u0259kt\u0259b v\u0259 valideyn u\u015faqdan n\u0259 ist\u0259diyini bilmir. Bunun m\u0259nfi n\u0259tic\u0259si olaraq u\u015faqlar\u0131 h\u0259r\u0259 \u00f6z t\u0259r\u0259fin\u0259 \u00e7\u0259kir v\u0259 u\u015faqlar ortada qal\u0131rlar. H\u0259min u\u015faqlar\u0131 da sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259 istiqam\u0259tl\u0259ndirir. S\u00f6zs\u00fcz ki, bu istiqam\u0259tl\u0259ndirm\u0259 m\u0259nfi y\u00f6n\u00fcml\u00fcd\u00fcr\u201d.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

B\u0259zi valideynl\u0259rin sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 qeyri-etik davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 art\u0131q onlar\u0131n h\u0259yat t\u0259rzin\u0259 \u00e7evrilib. Onlar h\u0259tta \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131, b\u0259z\u0259n azya\u015fl\u0131 u\u015faqlar\u0131 da canl\u0131 yay\u0131mlara \u00e7\u0131xararaq \u00f6z \u0259m\u0259ll\u0259rin\u0259 al\u0259t edirl\u0259r. Bel\u0259 hallar u\u015faqlar\u0131n t\u0259rbiy\u0259sin\u0259 m\u0259nfi t\u0259sir g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259kl\u0259 yana\u015f\u0131, c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 d\u0259 q\u0131c\u0131q yarad\u0131r. Bu kimi hallarla m\u00fcbariz\u0259y\u0259 dair sosial mediada t\u0259\u015fkil olunan m\u00fczakir\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 bir \u00e7ox t\u0259klifl\u0259r, t\u00f6vsiy\u0259l\u0259r s\u0259sl\u0259ndirilir. Bel\u0259 t\u0259klifl\u0259rd\u0259n biri b\u0259zi \u00f6lk\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 oldu\u011fu kimi, Az\u0259rbaycanda da \u0259xlaq polisi adl\u0131 qurumun yarad\u0131lmas\u0131d\u0131r. \u0130ddia olunur ki, g\u0259nc n\u0259sli d\u00fczg\u00fcn t\u0259rbiy\u0259 etm\u0259k, onlar\u0131n \u0259xlaq\u0131n\u0131 qorumaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn m\u0259hz \u0259xlaq polisi vasit\u0259sil\u0259 n\u0259zar\u0259ti g\u00fccl\u0259ndirm\u0259k m\u00fcsb\u0259t effekt ver\u0259r. Maraql\u0131d\u0131r, yeniyetm\u0259 v\u0259…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":695981,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/5a2548ff76b120cd58942c95107f42b4.jpg",700,432,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/5a2548ff76b120cd58942c95107f42b4.jpg",700,432,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/5a2548ff76b120cd58942c95107f42b4.jpg",700,432,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/5a2548ff76b120cd58942c95107f42b4-500x280.jpg",500,280,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/5a2548ff76b120cd58942c95107f42b4-591x365.jpg",591,365,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/5a2548ff76b120cd58942c95107f42b4.jpg",640,395,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/5a2548ff76b120cd58942c95107f42b4.jpg",700,432,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/5a2548ff76b120cd58942c95107f42b4.jpg",700,432,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/5a2548ff76b120cd58942c95107f42b4-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/5a2548ff76b120cd58942c95107f42b4.jpg",700,432,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"B\u0259zi valideynl\u0259rin sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 qeyri-etik davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 art\u0131q onlar\u0131n h\u0259yat t\u0259rzin\u0259 \u00e7evrilib. Onlar h\u0259tta \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131, b\u0259z\u0259n azya\u015fl\u0131 u\u015faqlar\u0131 da canl\u0131 yay\u0131mlara \u00e7\u0131xararaq \u00f6z \u0259m\u0259ll\u0259rin\u0259 al\u0259t edirl\u0259r. Bel\u0259 hallar u\u015faqlar\u0131n t\u0259rbiy\u0259sin\u0259 m\u0259nfi t\u0259sir g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259kl\u0259 yana\u015f\u0131, c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 d\u0259 q\u0131c\u0131q yarad\u0131r. Bu kimi hallarla m\u00fcbariz\u0259y\u0259 dair sosial mediada t\u0259\u015fkil olunan m\u00fczakir\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 bir \u00e7ox t\u0259klifl\u0259r, t\u00f6vsiy\u0259l\u0259r s\u0259sl\u0259ndirilir. Bel\u0259 t\u0259klifl\u0259rd\u0259n biri…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/695980"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=695980"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/695980\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/695981"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=695980"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=695980"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=695980"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}