{"id":696918,"date":"2024-03-02T10:36:13","date_gmt":"2024-03-02T06:36:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=696918"},"modified":"2024-03-02T10:36:13","modified_gmt":"2024-03-02T06:36:13","slug":"erk%c9%99n-nikahlarin-kokund%c9%99-t%c9%99hsilsizlik-cahillik-dayanir-psixoloq","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=696918","title":{"rendered":"\u201cErk\u0259n nikahlar\u0131n k\u00f6k\u00fcnd\u0259 t\u0259hsilsizlik, cahillik dayan\u0131r\u201d – psixoloq"},"content":{"rendered":"

Prezident Administrasiyas\u0131nda erk\u0259n nikahlar\u0131n qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 almaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn t\u0259klifl\u0259r haz\u0131rlan\u0131b<\/strong><\/p>\n

Az\u0259rbaycanda erk\u0259n nikahlar\u0131n qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 almaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn m\u00fcvafiq qanunlar v\u0259 dig\u0259r normativ-h\u00fcquqi aktlara \u0259lav\u0259 v\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015fiklikl\u0259r \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn t\u0259klifl\u0259r haz\u0131rlan\u0131b. Bu bar\u0259d\u0259 Prezident Administrasiyas\u0131n\u0131n Qanunvericilik v\u0259 h\u00fcquq siyas\u0259ti \u015f\u00f6b\u0259sinin sektor m\u00fcdiri R\u00fcst\u0259m Qas\u0131mov jurnalistl\u0259r\u0259 a\u00e7\u0131qlamas\u0131nda bildirib. R.Qas\u0131mov bildirib ki, \u0259sas m\u0259qs\u0259dl\u0259ri bu t\u0259klifl\u0259rin ictimaiyy\u0259tl\u0259 birg\u0259 m\u00fczakir\u0259si v\u0259 effektiv h\u0259ll yolunun tap\u0131lmas\u0131d\u0131r:<\/p>\n

\u201cErk\u0259n nikahlarla ba\u011fl\u0131 maarifl\u0259ndirm\u0259, ictimaiyy\u0259tin bu probleml\u0259rin h\u0259llin\u0259 qo\u015fulmas\u0131 m\u00fch\u00fcmd\u00fcr. T\u0259bii ki, biz anlay\u0131r\u0131q ki, erk\u0259n nikah t\u0259k Az\u0259rbaycanda deyil, d\u00fcnyada da ciddi problemdir. Bu problem bizi d\u0259 narahat edir. M\u0259qs\u0259dimiz balansl\u0131, effektiv h\u0259ll yollar\u0131n\u0131n tap\u0131lmas\u0131d\u0131r\u201d.<\/p>\n

Qeyd ed\u0259k ki, Az\u0259rbaycanda erk\u0259n nikah probleminin aradan qald\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131 istiqam\u0259tind\u0259 h\u0259m inzibati, h\u0259m d\u0259 maarifl\u0259ndirici t\u0259dbirl\u0259r apar\u0131lmas\u0131na baxmayaraq, son d\u00f6vrl\u0259r bu problemin daha da artd\u0131\u011f\u0131 m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 olunur. Erk\u0259n nikah qanunla qada\u011fan olmas\u0131na baxmayaraq, x\u00fcsus\u0259n b\u00f6lg\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 b\u0259zi ail\u0259l\u0259r buna m\u0259h\u0259l qoymur. T\u0259kc\u0259 son bir h\u0259ft\u0259 \u0259rzind\u0259 \u00f6lk\u0259d\u0259 3 erk\u0259n nikah\u0131n qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131 al\u0131n\u0131b. Bel\u0259 ki, Beyl\u0259qanda 16 ya\u015fl\u0131 q\u0131z\u0131n 42 ya\u015fl\u0131 \u015f\u0259xs\u0259 zorla \u0259r\u0259 verilm\u0259sinin, Bak\u0131 k\u0259ndl\u0259rinin birind\u0259 16 ya\u015fl\u0131 q\u0131z\u0131n toy m\u0259rasiminin, Nax\u00e7\u0131van Muxtar Respublikas\u0131nda 16 ya\u015fl\u0131 q\u0131z\u0131n evl\u0259nm\u0259k m\u0259qs\u0259dil\u0259 qa\u00e7\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131n qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131 al\u0131n\u0131b.<\/p>\n

Daxili \u0130\u015fl\u0259r Nazirliyind\u0259n bildirilib ki, 2023-c\u00fc il \u0259rzind\u0259 quruma erk\u0259n nikahla ba\u011fl\u0131 50 m\u00fcraci\u0259t daxil olub, bu m\u00fcraci\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259n 20 fakt \u00fczr\u0259 cinay\u0259t i\u015fi ba\u015flan\u0131b.<\/p>\n

Ail\u0259, Qad\u0131n v\u0259 U\u015faq Probleml\u0259ri \u00fczr\u0259 D\u00f6vl\u0259t Komit\u0259sinin (AQUPDK) s\u0259dri Bahar Muradova is\u0259 komit\u0259nin 2023-c\u00fc il f\u0259aliyy\u0259tinin yekunlar\u0131na h\u0259sr olunmu\u015f brifinqd\u0259 deyib ki, \u00f6t\u0259n il erk\u0259n nikah hadis\u0259si il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 29 fakt \u00fczr\u0259 monitorinq apar\u0131l\u0131b – ail\u0259 s\u0259f\u0259rl\u0259ri t\u0259\u015fkil edilib, 25 erk\u0259n nikah hal\u0131n\u0131n qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131 al\u0131n\u0131b.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

G\u00f6r\u00fcnd\u00fcy\u00fc kimi, erk\u0259n nikahla ba\u011fl\u0131 i\u015fl\u0259r apar\u0131lsa da, problem s\u0259ngim\u0259k bilmir.<\/p>\n

B\u0259s daha hans\u0131 t\u0259dbirl\u0259r\u0259 ehtiyac var? Niy\u0259 valideynl\u0259r q\u0131zlar\u0131n\u0131n taleyin\u0259 bu c\u00fcr m\u0259suliyy\u0259tsiz yana\u015f\u0131r?<\/p>\n

Mill\u0259t v\u0259kili Fazil Mustafa hesab edir ki, erk\u0259n nikaha daxil olan q\u0131zlar\u0131n toyu \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn restoran sahibl\u0259rinin c\u0259zaland\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131 erk\u0259n nikahla m\u00fcbariz\u0259 \u00fcsullar\u0131ndan biri ola bil\u0259r: \u201cBu toyun t\u0259\u015fkilind\u0259 kimin i\u015ftirak\u0131 varsa, onlar da m\u0259suliyy\u0259t\u0259 c\u0259lb olunmal\u0131d\u0131r\u201d.<\/p>\n

\"U\u015faql\u0131qda<\/p>\n

Taliy\u0259 \u0130brahimova<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ail\u0259, Qad\u0131n v\u0259 U\u015faq Probleml\u0259ri \u00fczr\u0259 D\u00f6vl\u0259t Komit\u0259sinin H\u00fcquqi t\u0259minat \u015f\u00f6b\u0259sinin m\u00fcdiri Taliy\u0259 \u0130brahimova bildirib ki, erk\u0259n nikahla ba\u011fl\u0131 m\u0259rasiml\u0259r\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 m\u0259suliyy\u0259tin m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259nl\u0259\u015fdirilm\u0259si t\u0259klif olunur:<\/strong>\u00a0\u201cBu hallar\u0131n qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n al\u0131nmas\u0131 va c\u0259zaland\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 m\u00f6vcud qanunvericilik bazas\u0131n\u0131n t\u0259kmill\u0259\u015fdirilm\u0259si z\u0259ruridir. Eyni zamanda nikah ya\u015f\u0131n\u0131n azald\u0131lmas\u0131 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 istisnan\u0131n l\u0259\u011fv edilm\u0259si v\u0259 erk\u0259n evlilikl\u0259 n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259n\u0259n m\u0259rasiml\u0259rin ke\u00e7irilm\u0259sin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 m\u0259suliyy\u0259tin m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n edilm\u0259si t\u0259klif olunur\u201d.<\/p>\n

M\u00f6vzu il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 tan\u0131nm\u0131\u015f psixoloq V\u0259fa R\u0259\u015fidova \u201cYeni M\u00fcsavat\u201da dan\u0131\u015f\u0131b: \u201cBu problemin arxas\u0131nda birinci n\u00f6vb\u0259d\u0259 ail\u0259 modeli v\u0259 ail\u0259d\u0259 t\u0259hsil\u0259 n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r \u00f6n\u0259m verilm\u0259sinin s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259ri yat\u0131r. Y\u0259ni hans\u0131 ail\u0259d\u0259 ki, valideyn u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 d\u00fczg\u00fcn, t\u0259hsil\u0259 istiqam\u0259tl\u0259ndirir, h\u0259min ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 q\u0131zlar \u0259r\u0259 getm\u0259k kimi bir alternativ se\u00e7mirl\u0259r, onlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ilk n\u00f6vb\u0259d\u0259 t\u0259hsil \u00f6n\u0259mli olur. T\u0259hsil\u0259 istiqam\u0259tl\u0259ndirilm\u0259y\u0259n, t\u0259hsil\u0259 meyilli olmayan q\u0131zlar da \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar ki, tez bir \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 \u0259r\u0259 getsin, \u0259r onu saxlas\u0131n, m\u0259suliyy\u0259tini \u00e7\u0259ksin. Erk\u0259n nikaha da daxil olduqdan sonra b\u0259han\u0259 g\u0259tirirl\u0259r ki, valideynl\u0259ri onu oxutmad\u0131qlar\u0131, t\u0259hsilin\u0259 pul \u00f6d\u0259m\u0259dikl\u0259ri \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bu add\u0131m\u0131 at\u0131b. Amma halbuki t\u0259hsil almaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn m\u00fcbariz\u0259 aparma\u011f\u0131n bir \u00e7ox yollar\u0131 var, y\u0259ni \u00e7\u0259tin deyil. Yet\u0259r ki, insan bunu ist\u0259sin.<\/p>\n

\"Evlilik<\/p>\n

V\u0259fa R\u0259\u015fidova<\/strong><\/p>\n

Daha bir m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259, erk\u0259n ya\u015fda \u0259r\u0259 ged\u0259n q\u0131zlar hamil\u0259liy\u0259, ana olma\u011fa haz\u0131r deyill\u0259r. Qad\u0131nda u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n inki\u015faf etdiyi orqanlar tam yeti\u015fm\u0259diyind\u0259n b\u0259tnd\u0259ki u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n da inki\u015faf\u0131 l\u0259ngiy\u0259 bilir ki, bu da anormall\u0131\u011fa g\u0259tirib \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131r. Eyni zamanda vaxt\u0131ndan tez ana olmaq qad\u0131n\u0131n tez ya\u015flanmas\u0131na, m\u00fcxt\u0259lif x\u0259st\u0259likl\u0259r\u0259 tutulmas\u0131na, orqanizmind\u0259 hormonlar balans\u0131n\u0131n pozulmas\u0131na s\u0259b\u0259b olur. S\u00fcbut olunub ki, qad\u0131n x\u0259st\u0259likl\u0259rin\u0259 \u0259ks\u0259r hallarda erk\u0259n ya\u015fda ail\u0259 quran qad\u0131nlarda rast g\u0259linir.<\/p>\n

H\u0259m\u00e7inin erk\u0259n ya\u015fda ana olan q\u0131zlar t\u0259kc\u0259 fiziki deyil, h\u0259m d\u0259 psixoloji olaraq da buna haz\u0131r deyill\u0259r. Anaya ehtiyac\u0131 olan q\u0131zlar \u00f6zl\u0259ri erk\u0259n ya\u015fda ana olur, u\u015faqlar\u0131na do\u011fru-d\u00fcr\u00fcst t\u0259rbiy\u0259 ver\u0259 bilmir. Erk\u0259n nikaha daxil olan q\u0131zlar ana olduqdan sonra \u00f6z \u00f6vladlar\u0131 il\u0259 savads\u0131z, d\u00fczg\u00fcn olmayan formada\u00a0 r\u0259ftar edir, t\u0259zyiq g\u00f6st\u0259rirl\u0259r ki, m\u0259n t\u0259hsil almam\u0131\u015fam, amma s\u0259n oxumal\u0131san. Burada bir sual yaran\u0131r ki, \u201cb\u0259s s\u0259n niy\u0259 oxumad\u0131n, kim s\u0259n\u0259 mane oldu?\u201d Bu zaman yen\u0259 d\u0259 valideynl\u0259rini \u0259sas g\u0259tirib, \u00f6zl\u0259rini m\u00fcdafi\u0259 edirl\u0259r.<\/p>\n

\u00d6vladlar\u0131n\u0131\u00a0 t\u0259hsil\u0259 meyill\u0259ndirm\u0259k m\u0259suliyy\u0259ti birinci n\u00f6vb\u0259d\u0259 valideynl\u0259rin \u00fcz\u0259rin\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr. Amma bir \u00e7ox valideynl\u0259r \u201cq\u0131z\u0131m\u0131 tez \u0259r\u0259 verim, y\u00fck\u00fcm azals\u0131n\u201d, – dey\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr. Y\u0259ni haz\u0131rda 2024-c\u00fc ildir v\u0259 h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 bu g\u00fcn q\u0131z \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131 \u201cy\u00fck\u201d, o\u011flan \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131 is\u0259 \u201c\u015fah \u0259s\u0259ri\u201d kimi g\u00f6r\u0259nl\u0259r, \u201co\u011ful d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259n \u00e7\u0259p\u0259ridir\u201d dey\u0259nl\u0259r var. \u018fsas problem d\u0259 budur. Valideynl\u0259r tez bir zamanda q\u0131zlar\u0131ndan azad olma\u011fa, \u0259r\u0259 verm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar. Bu psixologiyada do\u011fulan q\u0131z u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn d\u0259 t\u0259bii ki, \u0259r\u0259 getm\u0259k ona g\u00f6r\u0259 \u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck u\u011fur say\u0131lacaq. Bu, cahillikdir. \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259 ki, d\u0259ft\u0259r-kitab\u0131n, t\u0259hsilin, d\u00fcnyag\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn, m\u0259ntiqin olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 yerd\u0259 cahillik at oynad\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Bel\u0259likl\u0259, ata-ana, valideyn v\u0259 \u00f6vlad m\u0259suliyy\u0259tsizliyinin birl\u0259\u015fm\u0259si erk\u0259n nikaha yol a\u00e7\u0131r v\u0259 biz sonradan b\u0259db\u0259xt talel\u0259ri izl\u0259yirik”.<\/p>\n

Haz\u0131rlad\u0131:\u00a0Xalid\u0259 G\u018fRAY<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Prezident Administrasiyas\u0131nda erk\u0259n nikahlar\u0131n qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 almaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn t\u0259klifl\u0259r haz\u0131rlan\u0131b Az\u0259rbaycanda erk\u0259n nikahlar\u0131n qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 almaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn m\u00fcvafiq qanunlar v\u0259 dig\u0259r normativ-h\u00fcquqi aktlara \u0259lav\u0259 v\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015fiklikl\u0259r \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn t\u0259klifl\u0259r haz\u0131rlan\u0131b. Bu bar\u0259d\u0259 Prezident Administrasiyas\u0131n\u0131n Qanunvericilik v\u0259 h\u00fcquq siyas\u0259ti \u015f\u00f6b\u0259sinin sektor m\u00fcdiri R\u00fcst\u0259m Qas\u0131mov jurnalistl\u0259r\u0259 a\u00e7\u0131qlamas\u0131nda bildirib. R.Qas\u0131mov bildirib ki, \u0259sas m\u0259qs\u0259dl\u0259ri bu t\u0259klifl\u0259rin ictimaiyy\u0259tl\u0259 birg\u0259 m\u00fczakir\u0259si v\u0259 effektiv h\u0259ll yolunun tap\u0131lmas\u0131d\u0131r: \u201cErk\u0259n nikahlarla ba\u011fl\u0131 maarifl\u0259ndirm\u0259, ictimaiyy\u0259tin bu probleml\u0259rin h\u0259llin\u0259 qo\u015fulmas\u0131 m\u00fch\u00fcmd\u00fcr. T\u0259bii ki, biz anlay\u0131r\u0131q ki, erk\u0259n nikah t\u0259k Az\u0259rbaycanda deyil, d\u00fcnyada da ciddi problemdir. Bu problem bizi d\u0259 narahat edir. 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