{"id":703285,"date":"2024-03-19T11:30:05","date_gmt":"2024-03-19T07:30:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=703285"},"modified":"2024-03-19T11:30:05","modified_gmt":"2024-03-19T07:30:05","slug":"qadinlar-kisil%c9%99ri-passiv-gorm%c9%99y%c9%99-baslayiblar-%c9%99slind%c9%99-v%c9%99hsi-kisi-psixoloq-qalmaqalli-aciqlama","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=703285","title":{"rendered":"\u201cQad\u0131nlar ki\u015fil\u0259ri passiv g\u00f6rm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131blar, \u0259slind\u0259 \u201cv\u0259h\u015fi ki\u015fi\u201d…\u201d – Psixoloq qalmaqall\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131qlama"},"content":{"rendered":"

“\u0130btidai icma qurulu\u015fu zaman\u0131 ki\u015finin \u0259sas v\u0259zif\u0259l\u0259ri evi qorumaq, tonqal qalamaq, ail\u0259sinin t\u0259hl\u00fcl\u0259sizliyini t\u0259min etm\u0259k, heyvan ovlamaq v\u0259 onu do\u011framaq idi”.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bu s\u00f6zl\u0259ri m\u0259\u015fhur psixoloq \u018ffsan\u0259 R\u00fcst\u0259mova Cebhe.info-ya a\u00e7\u0131qlamas\u0131nda deyib.<\/p>\n

O bildirib ki, ataerkil (patriyarka) toplumlarda bu funksiyalar m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n q\u0259d\u0259r d\u0259yi\u015fib, amma yen\u0259 d\u0259 davam edir:<\/p>\n

“M\u00fcasir d\u00f6vrd\u0259 “avropala\u015fan” m\u0259d\u0259niyy\u0259tl\u0259r ki\u015fini “v\u0259h\u015fi” obraz\u0131ndan \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131r v\u0259 maskulan hala sal\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Art\u0131q b\u0259zi ki\u015fil\u0259r qa\u015f\u0131n\u0131 al\u0131r, manik\u00fcr\u0259, pedik\u00fcr\u0259 gedir, sa\u00e7 dibl\u0259rini boyay\u0131r v\u0259 \u00fcz t\u0259ra\u015f\u0131nda x\u00fcsusi bax\u0131m vasit\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259n istifad\u0259 edirl\u0259r. Burada \u0259sas m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 ki\u015finin bax\u0131ml\u0131 olub-olmamas\u0131 dem\u0259k deyil. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 \u00f6z bax\u0131m\u0131na zaman ay\u0131ran ki\u015finin “v\u0259h\u015fi” olma\u011fa daha az zaman\u0131 qal\u0131r. Bu da ki\u015finin \u00f6z t\u0259bi\u0259tini d\u0259 qism\u0259n d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259sin\u0259 g\u0259tirib \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131r. Amma yegan\u0259 problem bu da deyil”.<\/p>\n

Onun s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, b\u0259zi qad\u0131nlar da “ki\u015fil\u0259\u015fm\u0259y\u0259” ba\u015flay\u0131b:<\/strong><\/p>\n

“Bel\u0259 ki, qad\u0131n i\u015fl\u0259di v\u0259 n\u0259tc\u0259d\u0259 ki\u015fi il\u0259 eyni i\u015f saatlar\u0131n\u0131 b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015fd\u00fc. H\u0259m\u00e7inin, qad\u0131n funksional olaraq c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 “ki\u015fi kimi” g\u00f6r\u00fcnm\u0259y\u0259 v\u0259 hadis\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 reaksiya verm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flad\u0131. Lakin qad\u0131nlar\u0131n g\u00fcc\u00fc d\u0259yi\u015fdiyi \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ki\u015fil\u0259r daha passiv g\u00f6rm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flad\u0131lar. \u018fslind\u0259 m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 sad\u0259c\u0259 ki\u015finin d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259yi deyil.<\/p>\n

M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 ki\u015fi d\u0259yi\u015fdiyi zaman qad\u0131n\u0131n da g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fcn d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259sidir. Y\u0259ni qad\u0131nla ki\u015fi aras\u0131ndak\u0131 f\u0259rq artma\u011fa ba\u015flay\u0131b. Bundan ba\u015fqa, m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n maddiyyata v\u0259 rifaha \u00e7atan b\u0259zi qad\u0131nlar da maddi v\u0259saitl\u0259ri hesab\u0131na ki\u015fi t\u0259min edirl\u0259r. M\u0259hz “Alfons” adland\u0131r\u0131lan ki\u015fil\u0259r d\u0259 bel\u0259 ortaya \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r”.<\/p>\n

Psixoloq onu da diqq\u0259t\u0259 \u00e7atd\u0131r\u0131b ki, qad\u0131n hans\u0131 g\u00fcc\u0259 sahib olmas\u0131ndan as\u0131l\u0131 olmayaraq, yarad\u0131l\u0131\u015f olaraq ki\u015finin g\u00fcc hissin\u0259 ehtiyac duyur:<\/strong><\/p>\n

“\u00dcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259, qad\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc bu q\u0259d\u0259r inki\u015faf etdirm\u0259sinin s\u0259b\u0259bi d\u0259 ki\u015fiy\u0259 m\u00f6htac olmadan g\u00fcc\u00fc \u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259 tapmaqd\u0131r. Lakin bu, yarad\u0131l\u0131\u015fa ziddir. Qad\u0131nlar bunu ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015f\u0259nd\u0259 art\u0131q \u00f6zl\u0259rind\u0259n daha g\u00fccl\u00fc ki\u015fini tapmaqda \u00e7ox \u00e7\u0259tinlik \u00e7\u0259kdil\u0259r. Qad\u0131nlar bir n\u00f6v \u0259vv\u0259lki kimi masaya yumruq vuran, qa\u015f\u0131 qalxanda evd\u0259 iqtidar sahibinin oldu\u011fu bilin\u0259n v\u0259 \u00f6nd\u0259 dayanan ki\u015fi olmaq arzusundad\u0131r. Amma bir \u00e7ox ki\u015fi art\u0131q el\u0259 deyil. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 qad\u0131nlar yenid\u0259n ki\u015fid\u0259 o x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259tl\u0259ri yaratma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n

Fikrimc\u0259, qad\u0131nlar \u00f6zl\u0259rini d\u0259yi\u015f\u0259r\u0259k ki\u015fil\u0259rin g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc b\u0259rpa ed\u0259 bil\u0259rl\u0259r. Y\u0259ni qad\u0131n \u0259vv\u0259lki t\u0259yinat\u0131na qay\u0131tmal\u0131d\u0131r ki, ki\u015finin d\u0259 g\u00fcc\u00fc yenid\u0259n ortaya \u00e7\u0131xs\u0131n. \u00c7\u00fcnki qad\u0131n\u0131n g\u00fcc\u00fc artd\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ki\u015fi passiv g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr. Haz\u0131rda bu v\u0259 buna b\u0259nz\u0259r kifay\u0259t q\u0259d\u0259r probleml\u0259r var”.<\/p>\n

\u018ffsan\u0259 R\u00fcst\u0259mova zaman-zaman b\u0259zi qad\u0131nlar\u0131n “v\u0259h\u015fi ki\u015fi” xo\u015flad\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131 dem\u0259sini d\u0259 bel\u0259 izah edib:<\/strong><\/p>\n

“\u018fslind\u0259, “v\u0259h\u015fi ki\u015fi” xo\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 dey\u0259n qad\u0131nlar\u0131n b\u00f6y\u00fck \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259ti m\u00fcsb\u0259t m\u0259nada “y\u0131rt\u0131c\u0131” tipli olurlar. Amma onlar g\u00fcc qazanandan sonra ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015fd\u00fcl\u0259r ki, m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 g\u00fcc deyil.<\/p>\n

N\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 almaq laz\u0131md\u0131r ki, h\u0259r bir qad\u0131n\u0131n ki\u015fiy\u0259 ehtiyac\u0131 var. Qad\u0131nlar\u0131n “g\u00fccl\u00fc ki\u015fi”, “v\u0259h\u015fi ki\u015fi” ist\u0259diyini dem\u0259si s\u0259b\u0259bi onlar\u0131n qar\u015f\u0131 cinsd\u0259n g\u00f6zl\u0259ntisinin ki\u015fi obraz\u0131n\u0131n \u0259vv\u0259lki hal\u0131d\u0131r. Haz\u0131rk\u0131 d\u00f6vrd\u0259 is\u0259 sanki h\u0259r \u015fey yar\u0131-yar\u0131yad\u0131r. B\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259 maddi, fiziki v\u0259 psixoloji kimi bir \u00e7ox i\u015fl\u0259rin 60-70 faizi qad\u0131n t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n icra olunur. \u00dcst\u0259lik, insanlar\u0131n gec evl\u0259nm\u0259sinin v\u0259 erk\u0259n bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rinin k\u00f6k\u00fc d\u0259 budur.<\/p>\n

\u00dcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259, qad\u0131nlar onlar\u0131 d\u00f6y\u0259n ki\u015fi ist\u0259mirl\u0259r. Onlar qay\u011f\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131n ham\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u0259k\u0259n ki\u015fi ist\u0259yirl\u0259r. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, qad\u0131nlar kiray\u0259nin ham\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n ki\u015fil\u0259r t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n \u00f6d\u0259nilm\u0259sini ist\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259r. Lakin onlar ifad\u0259ni bel\u0259 qurmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 v\u0259 quranda bir az aciz kimi bax\u0131laca\u011f\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00f6zl\u0259rini bu c\u00fcr “aqressiv” ifad\u0259 etm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u0259m ki, ki\u015finin funksiyas\u0131n\u0131 d\u0259yi\u015fdirm\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmal\u0131y\u0131q. Qad\u0131n \u00f6z funksiyas\u0131n\u0131 ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcb “obraz”\u0131na geri qay\u0131tsa, ki\u015finin g\u00fcc\u00fc nisb\u0259t\u0259n \u00fcz\u0259 \u00e7\u0131xma\u011fa ba\u015flayacaq”.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

“\u0130btidai icma qurulu\u015fu zaman\u0131 ki\u015finin \u0259sas v\u0259zif\u0259l\u0259ri evi qorumaq, tonqal qalamaq, ail\u0259sinin t\u0259hl\u00fcl\u0259sizliyini t\u0259min etm\u0259k, heyvan ovlamaq v\u0259 onu do\u011framaq idi”. Bu s\u00f6zl\u0259ri m\u0259\u015fhur psixoloq \u018ffsan\u0259 R\u00fcst\u0259mova Cebhe.info-ya a\u00e7\u0131qlamas\u0131nda deyib. O bildirib ki, ataerkil (patriyarka) toplumlarda bu funksiyalar m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n q\u0259d\u0259r d\u0259yi\u015fib, amma yen\u0259 d\u0259 davam edir: “M\u00fcasir d\u00f6vrd\u0259 “avropala\u015fan” m\u0259d\u0259niyy\u0259tl\u0259r ki\u015fini “v\u0259h\u015fi” obraz\u0131ndan \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131r v\u0259 maskulan hala sal\u0131r. Art\u0131q b\u0259zi ki\u015fil\u0259r qa\u015f\u0131n\u0131 al\u0131r, manik\u00fcr\u0259, pedik\u00fcr\u0259 gedir, sa\u00e7 dibl\u0259rini boyay\u0131r v\u0259 \u00fcz t\u0259ra\u015f\u0131nda x\u00fcsusi bax\u0131m vasit\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259n istifad\u0259 edirl\u0259r. Burada \u0259sas m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 ki\u015finin bax\u0131ml\u0131 olub-olmamas\u0131 dem\u0259k deyil. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 \u00f6z bax\u0131m\u0131na zaman ay\u0131ran…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":703286,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/b06bc1b8ab727e4f6dff4b01bf15096a.jpg",670,420,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/b06bc1b8ab727e4f6dff4b01bf15096a.jpg",670,420,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/b06bc1b8ab727e4f6dff4b01bf15096a.jpg",670,420,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/b06bc1b8ab727e4f6dff4b01bf15096a-500x280.jpg",500,280,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/b06bc1b8ab727e4f6dff4b01bf15096a-582x365.jpg",582,365,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/b06bc1b8ab727e4f6dff4b01bf15096a.jpg",640,401,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/b06bc1b8ab727e4f6dff4b01bf15096a.jpg",670,420,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/b06bc1b8ab727e4f6dff4b01bf15096a.jpg",670,420,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/b06bc1b8ab727e4f6dff4b01bf15096a-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/b06bc1b8ab727e4f6dff4b01bf15096a.jpg",670,420,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"“\u0130btidai icma qurulu\u015fu zaman\u0131 ki\u015finin \u0259sas v\u0259zif\u0259l\u0259ri evi qorumaq, tonqal qalamaq, ail\u0259sinin t\u0259hl\u00fcl\u0259sizliyini t\u0259min etm\u0259k, heyvan ovlamaq v\u0259 onu do\u011framaq idi”. Bu s\u00f6zl\u0259ri m\u0259\u015fhur psixoloq \u018ffsan\u0259 R\u00fcst\u0259mova Cebhe.info-ya a\u00e7\u0131qlamas\u0131nda deyib. O bildirib ki, ataerkil (patriyarka) toplumlarda bu funksiyalar m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n q\u0259d\u0259r d\u0259yi\u015fib, amma yen\u0259 d\u0259 davam edir: “M\u00fcasir d\u00f6vrd\u0259 “avropala\u015fan” m\u0259d\u0259niyy\u0259tl\u0259r ki\u015fini “v\u0259h\u015fi” obraz\u0131ndan \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131r v\u0259…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/703285"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=703285"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/703285\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/703286"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=703285"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=703285"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=703285"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}