{"id":705800,"date":"2024-03-28T11:00:55","date_gmt":"2024-03-28T07:00:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=705800"},"modified":"2024-03-28T11:00:55","modified_gmt":"2024-03-28T07:00:55","slug":"n%c9%99n%c9%99-baba-adlarini-usaqlara-verm%c9%99yin-f%c9%99sadlari-var-h%c9%99qiq%c9%99ti-qulaqlari-il%c9%99-gorurl%c9%99r","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=705800","title":{"rendered":"N\u0259n\u0259, baba adlar\u0131n\u0131 u\u015faqlara verm\u0259yin f\u0259sadlar\u0131 var? – H\u0259qiq\u0259ti qulaqlar\u0131 il\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fcrl\u0259r"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cD\u00f6vl\u0259td\u0259 d\u0259v\u0259, \u00f6vladda n\u0259v\u0259\u201d deyib atalar\u0131m\u0131z. N\u0259n\u0259l\u0259r, babalar n\u0259v\u0259l\u0259rini sevdikl\u0259ri \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00f6z adlar\u0131n\u0131 onlara qoymaqda maraql\u0131d\u0131rlar. \u00c7ox ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 n\u0259n\u0259 v\u0259 babalar\u0131n \u00f6z ist\u0259yi il\u0259 n\u0259v\u0259y\u0259 ad\u0131n\u0131n verilm\u0259sinin \u015fahidi oluruq. Bundan \u0259lav\u0259 valideynl\u0259r d\u0259 h\u0259tta \u00f6l\u0259n ata-anas\u0131n\u0131n ruhuna h\u00f6rm\u0259t \u0259lam\u0259ti olaraq \u00f6z \u00f6vladlar\u0131na onlar\u0131n ad\u0131n\u0131 qoyurlar.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bu \u0259n\u0259n\u0259 ill\u0259rdir davam edir v\u0259 dem\u0259k olar ki, bir \u00e7ox ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 ad\u0259t hal\u0131na \u00e7evrilib. Lakin sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 bir psixoloq xan\u0131m\u0131n \u00e7\u0131x\u0131\u015f\u0131 h\u0259r k\u0259si t\u0259\u0259cc\u00fcbl\u0259ndirib. Onun s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, n\u0259n\u0259, baba adlar\u0131n\u0131n u\u015faqlara qoyulmas\u0131 d\u00fczg\u00fcn deyil:<\/p>\n

\u201cH\u0259r bir ad\u0131n \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 \u201ckarma\u201d var. N\u0259n\u0259-baban\u0131n ad\u0131 u\u015fa\u011fa qoyulduqda onlar\u0131n \u015f\u0259xsi h\u0259yat\u0131ndak\u0131 ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 probleml\u0259r u\u015fa\u011fa ke\u00e7ir. H\u0259r birinin \u201ckarma\u201dlar\u0131n\u0131 u\u015faq ba\u015flay\u0131r ya\u015fama\u011fa. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259, n\u0259n\u0259, baba ad\u0131n\u0131 u\u015fa\u011fa qoymaq olmaz\u201d- dey\u0259, psixoloq etiraz\u0131n\u0131 bildirib.<\/p>\n

Maraql\u0131d\u0131r, g\u00f6r\u0259s\u0259n h\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n d\u0259 bel\u0259dirmi? N\u0259n\u0259, baba adlar\u0131n\u0131 u\u015faqlara qoymaq d\u00fczg\u00fcnd\u00fcrm\u00fc? \u00dcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259 u\u015fa\u011fa qoyulan ad onun g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k h\u0259yat\u0131nda n\u0259 kimi rol oynay\u0131r? Ad u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n taleyini d\u0259yi\u015f\u0259 bilirmi?<\/p>\n

Publika.az<\/a>-\u0131n<\/strong>\u00a0\u0259m\u0259kda\u015f\u0131 m\u00f6vzu il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 ekspertl\u0259rin fikirl\u0259rini \u00f6yr\u0259nib.<\/p>\n

Tan\u0131nm\u0131\u015f ilahiyyat\u00e7\u0131 T\u0259yyar H\u00fcseynli bildirdi ki, bu fikirl\u0259r \u0259sass\u0131z bir yana\u015fmad\u0131r:<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201c\u00dcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259 ad se\u00e7imind\u0259 insanlar diqq\u0259tli olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Burada milli, ideoloji kriteriyalar var. Bunlar\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r ki, u\u015faq g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 \u00f6z ad\u0131ndan raz\u0131 qals\u0131n. H\u0259r bir mill\u0259ti ad\u0131 il\u0259 tan\u0131y\u0131r\u0131q. X\u00fcsusil\u0259 d\u0259 ad\u0131ndan, soyad\u0131ndan, onun t\u0259qdimat\u0131ndan bilirik ki, bu az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131d\u0131r v\u0259 yaxud da dig\u0259r xarici v\u0259t\u0259nda\u015fd\u0131r, ba\u015fqa mill\u0259t\u0259 m\u0259nsub bir insand\u0131r. \u0130slam dinin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, Allah r\u0259sulu \u00f6vladlarla ba\u011fl\u0131 \u0259n ciddi m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n ilk olaraq onlara d\u00fczg\u00fcn ad se\u00e7m\u0259k oldu\u011funu bildirmi\u015f, bununla ba\u011fl\u0131 t\u00f6vsiy\u0259l\u0259r, n\u0259sih\u0259tl\u0259r etmi\u015fdir.<\/p>\n

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Ad m\u00f6vzusu bar\u0259d\u0259 \u00e7ox dan\u0131\u015fmaq olar. Allah\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn d\u0259 99 ad\u0131 var. Qald\u0131 ki, n\u0259n\u0259nin, baban\u0131n, d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131 d\u0259yi\u015fmi\u015f insanlar\u0131n ad\u0131n\u0131 ya\u015fatmaq, bununla ba\u011fl\u0131 he\u00e7 bir qada\u011fa yoxdur, \u0259ksin\u0259 bu bur sevgidir, duy\u011fudur, qay\u011f\u0131d\u0131r. Ruhlara da xo\u015f ged\u0259n \u00e7ox g\u00f6z\u0259l bir x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259tdir. Qald\u0131 ki, hans\u0131sa psixoloqun \u201cadlarda karma var, ba\u015fa n\u0259s\u0259 var\u201d dem\u0259sini bu m\u00f6vzu il\u0259 he\u00e7 uy\u011funla\u015fd\u0131rmazd\u0131m. M\u0259n bunu \u0259sass\u0131z bir yana\u015fma hesab edir\u0259m. Ad\u0131n n\u0259 \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259ti var ki? Tutaq ki, h\u0259r hans\u0131 bir ad\u0131 yeni do\u011fulmu\u015f k\u00f6rp\u0259y\u0259 qoyaq v\u0259 bunu test ed\u0259k. G\u00f6r\u0259rik ki, h\u0259min psixoloqun dediyi versiya il\u0259 ir\u0259li s\u00fcrd\u00fcy\u00fc fikir, n\u0259z\u0259riyy\u0259, yana\u015fma t\u0259bii ki, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc do\u011frultmur. Y\u0259ni \u201cn\u0259n\u0259nin, baban\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131nda n\u0259 ba\u015f veribs\u0259, ad\u0131n\u0131 da\u015f\u0131yan n\u0259v\u0259d\u0259 d\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259c\u0259k\u201d fikrini d\u00fczg\u00fcn hesab el\u0259mir\u0259m.<\/p>\n

\u0130lahiyyat\u00e7\u0131 u\u015faqlara veril\u0259n b\u0259zi adlara da irad bildirdi:<\/p>\n

\u201cEl\u0259 insanlar ki, r\u0259smid\u0259 bir add\u0131r, deyil\u0259n ad ba\u015fqa olur. Bunlara da irad\u0131m var. M\u0259n t\u0259klif ed\u0259rdim ki, valideynl\u0259r \u00f6vladlar\u0131na \u00e7ox \u00f6z\u0259l adlar se\u00e7sinl\u0259r, h\u0259r\u0259 bir ad se\u00e7m\u0259sin.<\/p>\n

G\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 bu ad h\u0259r k\u0259s\u0259 xo\u015f olsun. Biz h\u0259r c\u00fcr\u0259 adlara rast g\u0259lirik. U\u015fa\u011fa el\u0259 ad qoyurlar ki, b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u0259nd\u0259 bu ada qar\u0131\u015f\u0131 kompleks yaran\u0131r v\u0259 gedir ad\u0131n\u0131 d\u0259yi\u015fir\u201d.<\/p>\n

Yuxar\u0131dak\u0131 suallara ayd\u0131nl\u0131q g\u0259tir\u0259n klinik psixoloq, psixoterapevt R\u00f6v\u015f\u0259n N\u0259c\u0259fov u\u015faqlara ad qoyulan zaman onun m\u0259nas\u0131na diqq\u0259t etm\u0259k laz\u0131m oldu\u011funu bildirdi:<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201c\u0130nsan d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259si s\u0259rh\u0259dsizdir. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259nin s\u0259rh\u0259di is\u0259 bilik v\u0259 t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259 il\u0259 t\u0259nziml\u0259nir. U\u015faqlara n\u0259n\u0259 v\u0259 baba adlar\u0131 qoymaq ona \u0259lav\u0259 m\u0259suliyy\u0259t verm\u0259kdir. Bu, g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 onun ba\u015fqalar\u0131 il\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tin\u0259 t\u0259sir ed\u0259c\u0259kdir. \u00c7\u00fcnki o, ba\u015fqas\u0131 kimi b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fcl\u00fcb, ona ail\u0259d\u0259 n\u0259n\u0259 v\u0259 ya baba kimi yana\u015f\u0131l\u0131b.<\/p>\n

\u0130nsan\u0131n ad\u0131n\u0131n onun taleyin\u0259 t\u0259sir etm\u0259sinin elmi \u0259sas\u0131 yoxdur, amma \u0259d\u0259bi meyard\u0131r. \u018fd\u0259biyyatda v\u0259 dig\u0259r yarad\u0131c\u0131 sah\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 obrazlar\u0131n xarakterl\u0259ri ifad\u0259 olunanda ad\u0131 da xarakterin\u0259 uy\u011fun m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n edilir. B\u00fct\u00fcn ideoloji bax\u0131\u015flarda bu aspekt m\u00f6vcuddur v\u0259 m\u00fcxt\u0259lif tarixi hadis\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r. Elmi \u0259sas\u0131 olmayan d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n dan\u0131\u015fmaq v\u0259 insanlara istiqam\u0259t verm\u0259k xurafatd\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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Psixologiya elmdir. Psixologiya sah\u0259sind\u0259 istifad\u0259 olunan metodlar da elmidir. \u0130nsanlar b\u0259z\u0259n e\u015fitm\u0259k ist\u0259dikl\u0259rini e\u015fitm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn elmi \u0259sas\u0131 olmayan \u201ckarma\u201d v\u0259 ya bu kimi anlay\u0131\u015flara s\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131rlar. \u0130nsanlar h\u0259r zaman m\u0259n\u0259vi rahatl\u0131q axtar\u0131rlar. H\u0259qiq\u0259ti qulaqlar\u0131 il\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fcrl\u0259r. Y\u0259ni t\u0259rsin\u0259 olan anlay\u0131\u015flar insanlara maraql\u0131d\u0131r. Mifologiya kimi sah\u0259l\u0259r tarix boyu saraylarda x\u00fcsusi idi. \u0130nsanlar h\u0259r zaman mistikaya inanmaq ist\u0259yirl\u0259r. Sor\u011fu-suals\u0131z olan fikirl\u0259r insan\u0131n rahatl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 pozmur. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 reall\u0131q olmayan d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259l\u0259r insanlar\u0131 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 c\u0259lb ed\u0259 bilir.<\/p>\n

U\u015faqlara ad qoyulan zaman onun m\u0259nas\u0131na diqq\u0259t etm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 yox ki, ad insan\u0131n taleyin\u0259 t\u0259sir edir, ona g\u00f6r\u0259 ki, ad insan\u0131n taleyini t\u0259svir edir. U\u015faqlar\u0131 \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259t kimi yeti\u015fdirm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn valideynl\u0259r \u015f\u0259xsi niyy\u0259tl\u0259rini ortaya qoymamal\u0131d\u0131rlar. U\u015faqlar\u0131 valideynl\u0259r \u00f6z d\u00f6vrl\u0259rin\u0259 uy\u011fun yox, g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn, y\u0259ni onlar\u0131n d\u00f6vrl\u0259rin\u0259 uy\u011fun haz\u0131rlamal\u0131d\u0131rlar\u201d.<\/p>\n

G\u00fclnar S\u00fcleymanova<\/strong><\/p>\n

M\u0259qal\u0259 Az\u0259rbaycan Respublikas\u0131n\u0131n Median\u0131n \u0130nki\u015faf\u0131 Agentliyinin (MED\u0130A) maliyy\u0259 d\u0259st\u0259yi il\u0259 \u201cGender, ail\u0259 v\u0259 demoqrafiya m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259rinin i\u015f\u0131qland\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131\u201d istiqam\u0259ti \u00fczr\u0259 haz\u0131rlan\u0131b.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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\u201cD\u00f6vl\u0259td\u0259 d\u0259v\u0259, \u00f6vladda n\u0259v\u0259\u201d deyib atalar\u0131m\u0131z. N\u0259n\u0259l\u0259r, babalar n\u0259v\u0259l\u0259rini sevdikl\u0259ri \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00f6z adlar\u0131n\u0131 onlara qoymaqda maraql\u0131d\u0131rlar. \u00c7ox ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 n\u0259n\u0259 v\u0259 babalar\u0131n \u00f6z ist\u0259yi il\u0259 n\u0259v\u0259y\u0259 ad\u0131n\u0131n verilm\u0259sinin \u015fahidi oluruq. Bundan \u0259lav\u0259 valideynl\u0259r d\u0259 h\u0259tta \u00f6l\u0259n ata-anas\u0131n\u0131n ruhuna h\u00f6rm\u0259t \u0259lam\u0259ti olaraq \u00f6z \u00f6vladlar\u0131na onlar\u0131n ad\u0131n\u0131 qoyurlar. Bu \u0259n\u0259n\u0259 ill\u0259rdir davam edir v\u0259 dem\u0259k olar ki, bir…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":705801,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[26],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-705800","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-sosial"],"aioseo_notices":[],"aioseo_head":"\n\t\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t