G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczd\u0259 \u0259trafda a\u015fa\u011f\u0131-yuxar\u0131 h\u0259r k\u0259s motivasiya verir. 15 izl\u0259yicisi olan da, h\u0259yatda he\u00e7 bir u\u011furu olmayan da \u201cu\u011fur hekay\u0259si\u201d b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr.<\/p>\n
B\u0259s g\u00f6r\u0259s\u0259n, bu z\u0259rur\u0259t n\u0259d\u0259n ir\u0259li g\u0259lir?<\/p>\n
Psixoloq\u00a0Elmir \u018fkb\u0259r\u00a0m\u00f6vzu il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131\u00a0Bizim.media-ya dan\u0131\u015f\u0131b.<\/p>\n
O qeyd edib ki, bu hal ikinci d\u00fcnya \u00f6lk\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259 \u00e7ox yay\u0131lm\u0131\u015f m\u0259\u015fhur bir fenomendir:<\/p>\n
\u201cGuya kims\u0259 insanlar\u0131 \u00e7ox sevir, onlar\u0131n hal\u0131na yan\u0131r, s\u0259mimi q\u0259lbd\u0259n d\u0259st\u0259k olmaq ist\u0259yir v\u0259 buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 h\u0259yati m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259tl\u0259r verir. H\u0259tta na\u011f\u0131llardak\u0131 d\u0259y\u0259rli m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t ver\u0259n m\u00fcdrikl\u0259r h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 deyirl\u0259r ki, bu m\u00fcdrik cavab\u0131 almaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn haqq\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6d\u0259m\u0259lis\u0259n. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, 10 il i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259lis\u0259n, yaxud da hans\u0131sa i\u015fi g\u00f6rm\u0259lis\u0259n v\u0259 s. Amma bizim dan\u0131\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259r guya onlardan da m\u0259rh\u0259m\u0259tli, xeyirxah \u201cTereza ana\u201dd\u0131rlar v\u0259 insanlara \u00f6d\u0259ni\u015fsiz m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259tl\u0259r verirl\u0259r.<\/p>\n
\u018fslind\u0259, onlar\u0131n toxundu\u011fu m\u0259qamlar \u00e7ox a\u011f\u0131r m\u00f6vzulard\u0131r. T\u0259bii ki, bu m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259tl\u0259r\u0259 qulaq asan insan \u00e7ox h\u0259ssas durumda ola bil\u0259r. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, kims\u0259 ail\u0259sind\u0259 problem ya\u015fay\u0131r, bunlara qulaq as\u0131r v\u0259 t\u0259bii ki, dinl\u0259dikl\u0259ri onun q\u0259lbin\u0259 \u00e7ox ciddi t\u0259sir ed\u0259c\u0259k.<\/p>\n
Biz bu videolar\u0131 g\u00f6r\u0259nd\u0259 \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259n ke\u00e7irik, amma el\u0259 insanlar ola bil\u0259r ki, h\u0259ssas m\u0259qamda olduqlar\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn a\u011f\u0131llar\u0131na bats\u0131n. Motivasiya m\u00f6vzular\u0131 dan\u0131\u015fan \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259rin toxundu\u011fu m\u0259qamlar s\u0131rf pe\u015f\u0259kar psixologiyan\u0131n m\u00f6vzular\u0131d\u0131r. Bunu da ancaq y\u00fcks\u0259k ali t\u0259hsili olan psixoloq v\u0259 ya h\u0259kim psixoterapevt ver\u0259 bil\u0259r.<\/p>\n
Ancaq sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t ver\u0259nl\u0259ri ara\u015fd\u0131rsaq, b\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259, he\u00e7 birinin ali t\u0259hsili yoxdur. Az\u0259rbaycanda efirl\u0259rd\u0259 psixoloq kimi \u00e7\u0131x\u0131\u015f el\u0259y\u0259nl\u0259rin 80 faizinin t\u0259hsili yoxdur. Yalandan \u00f6zl\u0259ri kimi hans\u0131sa d\u0259l\u0259duzun kursunda i\u015ftirak edirl\u0259r, daha sonra \u201cpsixoloq\u201d olurlar.<\/p>\n
T\u00fcrkdilli v\u0259 ya rusdilli internet \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259sind\u0259 kifay\u0259t q\u0259d\u0259r bel\u0259 d\u0259l\u0259duzlar var. Psixiatriyada bel\u0259 bir fenomen var, psixi problemi olan insanlar \u00f6z probleml\u0259rini ba\u015fqalar\u0131n\u0131n \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 h\u0259ll etm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar. Bir psixoloqun uzun ill\u0259r\u0259 s\u00f6yk\u0259n\u0259n bir t\u0259hsili olmal\u0131d\u0131r ki, kimis\u0259 konsultasiya el\u0259sin.<\/p>\n
Psixoloqun bakalavr t\u0259hsili olmal\u0131d\u0131r, sonra iki il magistr t\u0259hsili almal\u0131d\u0131r, konsultasiya prosesini aparmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn is\u0259 sonda x\u00fcsusi \u0259lav\u0259 t\u0259hsil olmal\u0131d\u0131r. \u00a0F\u0259aliyy\u0259td\u0259 olan psixoloqun v\u0259 yaxud da psixoterapevtin \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc h\u0259ft\u0259d\u0259 bir d\u0259f\u0259 konsultasiya ed\u0259n ba\u015fqa bir supervayzeri olmal\u0131d\u0131r. M\u0259nim supervayzerim var.<\/p>\n
Elizabet Lukasla h\u0259ft\u0259d\u0259 bir d\u0259f\u0259 Vyanada g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f ke\u00e7irir\u0259m. O m\u0259nim supervayzerimdir. B\u00fct\u00fcn bu x\u0259rc, \u0259ziyy\u0259t ona g\u00f6r\u0259dir ki, he\u00e7 bir psixoloq, yaxud da psixoterapevt \u00a0seansda \u00f6z problemini pasiyent\u0259 y\u00fckl\u0259m\u0259sin\u201d.<\/p>\n
E.\u018fkb\u0259r bildirib ki, bu insanlar ba\u015fqas\u0131na m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t verib \u00f6z daxili bo\u015fluqlar\u0131n\u0131 dolduraraq \u00f6zl\u0259rini xo\u015fb\u0259xt hiss etm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar:<\/p>\n
\u201c\u015e\u00fcuralt\u0131 olaraq el\u0259 bilirl\u0259r ki, dan\u0131\u015fd\u0131qlar\u0131 sah\u0259d\u0259 probleml\u0259ri yoxdur. \u018fslind\u0259, \u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 t\u0259s\u0259lli verirl\u0259r, ba\u015fqalar\u0131na yox.<\/p>\n
Bu d\u0259l\u0259duzlar\u0131n ar\u0131qlama\u011f\u0131n, milyon\u00e7u olma\u011f\u0131n sirl\u0259ri il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 dan\u0131\u015fd\u0131qlar\u0131 b\u00fct\u00fcn fikirl\u0259r c\u0259f\u0259ngiyyatd\u0131r. Milyon\u00e7u olma\u011f\u0131n sirri h\u0259min \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259rin t\u0259liml\u0259rin\u0259 getm\u0259kd\u0259dir, yava\u015f-yava\u015f h\u0259min \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259r t\u0259liml\u0259rin\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259n insanlar\u0131n hesab\u0131na milyon\u00e7u olurlar.<\/p>\n
30 saniy\u0259d\u0259 he\u00e7 kim milyon\u00e7u olma\u011f\u0131n sirrini dey\u0259 bilm\u0259z.<\/p>\n
\u018fn b\u00f6y\u00fck b\u0259la v\u0259 f\u0259lak\u0259t odur ki, s\u00f6z\u00fcged\u0259n videolarda narsizm kimi a\u011f\u0131r x\u0259st\u0259liyi insanlara normalm\u0131\u015f kimi t\u0259qdim edirl\u0259r. Y\u0259ni bel\u0259 olun, \u00a0ancaq \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ya\u015fay\u0131n, d\u00fcnya s\u0259nin \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn yaran\u0131b, ba\u015fqa insanlar\u0131 veciniz\u0259 almay\u0131n v\u0259 s. Narsizm is\u0259 \u0259n a\u011f\u0131r psixi x\u0259st\u0259likdir v\u0259 dem\u0259k olar ki, bir faiz sa\u011falar, ya sa\u011falmaz\u201d.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczd\u0259 \u0259trafda a\u015fa\u011f\u0131-yuxar\u0131 h\u0259r k\u0259s motivasiya verir. 15 izl\u0259yicisi olan da, h\u0259yatda he\u00e7 bir u\u011furu olmayan da \u201cu\u011fur hekay\u0259si\u201d b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr. B\u0259s g\u00f6r\u0259s\u0259n, bu z\u0259rur\u0259t n\u0259d\u0259n ir\u0259li g\u0259lir? Psixoloq\u00a0Elmir \u018fkb\u0259r\u00a0m\u00f6vzu il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131\u00a0Bizim.media-ya dan\u0131\u015f\u0131b. O qeyd edib ki, bu hal ikinci d\u00fcnya \u00f6lk\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259 \u00e7ox yay\u0131lm\u0131\u015f m\u0259\u015fhur bir fenomendir: \u201cGuya kims\u0259 insanlar\u0131 \u00e7ox sevir, onlar\u0131n hal\u0131na yan\u0131r, s\u0259mimi q\u0259lbd\u0259n d\u0259st\u0259k olmaq ist\u0259yir v\u0259 buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 h\u0259yati m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259tl\u0259r verir. H\u0259tta na\u011f\u0131llardak\u0131 d\u0259y\u0259rli m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t ver\u0259n m\u00fcdrikl\u0259r h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 deyirl\u0259r ki, bu m\u00fcdrik cavab\u0131 almaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn haqq\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6d\u0259m\u0259lis\u0259n. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, 10 il i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259lis\u0259n, yaxud da hans\u0131sa i\u015fi…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":711060,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/1712923643_1.jpg",620,413,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/1712923643_1.jpg",620,413,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/1712923643_1.jpg",620,413,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/1712923643_1-500x280.jpg",500,280,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/1712923643_1-548x365.jpg",548,365,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/1712923643_1.jpg",620,413,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/1712923643_1.jpg",620,413,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/1712923643_1.jpg",620,413,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/1712923643_1-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/1712923643_1.jpg",620,413,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczd\u0259 \u0259trafda a\u015fa\u011f\u0131-yuxar\u0131 h\u0259r k\u0259s motivasiya verir. 15 izl\u0259yicisi olan da, h\u0259yatda he\u00e7 bir u\u011furu olmayan da \u201cu\u011fur hekay\u0259si\u201d b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr. B\u0259s g\u00f6r\u0259s\u0259n, bu z\u0259rur\u0259t n\u0259d\u0259n ir\u0259li g\u0259lir? Psixoloq\u00a0Elmir \u018fkb\u0259r\u00a0m\u00f6vzu il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131\u00a0Bizim.media-ya dan\u0131\u015f\u0131b. O qeyd edib ki, bu hal ikinci d\u00fcnya \u00f6lk\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259 \u00e7ox yay\u0131lm\u0131\u015f m\u0259\u015fhur bir fenomendir: \u201cGuya kims\u0259 insanlar\u0131 \u00e7ox sevir, onlar\u0131n hal\u0131na yan\u0131r, s\u0259mimi…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/711059"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=711059"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/711059\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/711060"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=711059"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=711059"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=711059"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}