{"id":711457,"date":"2024-04-15T17:00:41","date_gmt":"2024-04-15T13:00:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=711457"},"modified":"2024-04-15T17:00:41","modified_gmt":"2024-04-15T13:00:41","slug":"bosanma-zamani-%c9%99n-boyuk-psixoloji-travmani-usaqlar-yasayir-psixoloqdan-aciqlama-oz%c9%99l","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=711457","title":{"rendered":"Bo\u015fanma zaman\u0131 \u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck psixoloji travman\u0131 u\u015faqlar ya\u015fay\u0131r – PS\u0130XOLOQDAN A\u00c7IQLAMA\/\u00d6Z\u018fL"},"content":{"rendered":"

Bo\u015fanma q\u0259rar\u0131 vermi\u015f valideynl\u0259r bunu u\u015faqlar\u0131na d\u00fczg\u00fcn \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 izah etm\u0259lidirl\u0259r<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Son zamanlar\u00a0dem\u0259k olar ki, h\u0259r g\u00fcn e\u015fitdiyimiz, sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259, q\u0259zetl\u0259rd\u0259, TV-l\u0259rd\u0259, saytalarda\u00a0\u00e7ox rast g\u0259ldiyimiz, sanki reklam olunan, g\u00fcnd\u0259md\u0259 olan m\u00f6vzulardan biri d\u0259 bo\u015fanmalard\u0131r. D\u00fczg\u00fcn olmayan t\u0259bli\u011fat, sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rin t\u0259siri il\u0259 vaxtil\u0259 \u0259n q\u0259buledilm\u0259z v\u0259 xo\u015fag\u0259lm\u0259z hal kimi qar\u015f\u0131lanan bo\u015fanmalar indi adi hala \u00e7evrilm\u0259kd\u0259dir.<\/p>\n

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6739 nikah v\u0259 3456 bo\u015fanma<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u018fdliyy\u0259 Nazirliyinin rayon (\u015f\u0259h\u0259r) qeydiyyat \u015f\u00f6b\u0259l\u0259ri t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n 2024-c\u00fc ilin yanvar-fevral aylar\u0131nda 6739 nikah v\u0259 3456 bo\u015fanma hallar\u0131 qeyd\u0259 al\u0131n\u0131b. D\u00f6vl\u0259t Statistika Komit\u0259sind\u0259n (DSK) veril\u0259n m\u0259lumata g\u00f6r\u0259, \u00f6t\u0259n ilin m\u00fcvafiq d\u00f6vr\u00fc il\u0259 m\u00fcqayis\u0259d\u0259 \u0259halinin h\u0259r 1000 n\u0259f\u0259rin\u0259 nikahlar\u0131n say\u0131 azalaraq 4,6-dan 4,0-a d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcb, bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n say\u0131 is\u0259 1,8-d\u0259n 2,1-\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r art\u0131b. Nikahlarla m\u00fcqayis\u0259d\u0259 bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n say\u0131n\u0131n da artmas\u0131 balans\u0131n pozulmas\u0131na v\u0259 h\u0259tta demoqrafik stabilliyin g\u00f6st\u0259ricil\u0259rinin d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259sin\u0259 g\u0259tirib \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Bo\u015fanmadan h\u0259r iki t\u0259r\u0259f maddi v\u0259 m\u0259n\u0259vi z\u0259r\u0259r \u00e7\u0259ks\u0259 d\u0259, bu prosesd\u0259n \u0259n \u00e7ox u\u015faqlar ziyan g\u00f6r\u00fcr. T\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259r aras\u0131nda anla\u015f\u0131lmazl\u0131q pik h\u0259dd\u0259 \u00e7at\u0131bsa, bo\u015fanma qa\u00e7\u0131lmazdr. Ancaq u\u015faq varsa, bu halda valideynl\u0259r \u00e7ox diqq\u0259tli olmal\u0131d\u0131rlar. T\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, bizim valideynl\u0259rimiz ayr\u0131lan zaman \u0259r-arvad olaraq bo\u015fanm\u0131rlar, h\u0259m d\u0259 ana-ata olaraq ayr\u0131l\u0131rlar. Bel\u0259 v\u0259ziyy\u0259td\u0259 is\u0259 \u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck ziyan\u0131 \u00f6vladlar \u00e7\u0259kir. B\u0259s bo\u015fanmalar u\u015faq psixologiyas\u0131na nec\u0259 t\u0259sir g\u00f6st\u0259rir? Bu durumda u\u015faqlar\u0131 ya\u015fad\u0131qlar\u0131 psixoloji sars\u0131nt\u0131dan nec\u0259 \u00e7\u0131xarmaq olar?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\u201cLoqos\u201d Psixoloji v\u0259 Nitq M\u0259rk\u0259zinin r\u0259hb\u0259ri, \u201cPsixoloji Xidm\u0259t v\u0259 T\u0259dqiqatlar M\u0259rk\u0259zi\u201d \u0130ctimai Birliyinin s\u0259dri, psixologiya \u00fczr\u0259 f\u0259ls\u0259f\u0259 doktoru T\u0259ran\u0259 Pa\u015fayeva<\/strong>\u00a0m\u00f6vzu il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131\u00a0\u201c\u0130ki sahil<\/strong>\u201d\u0259 a\u00e7\u0131qlamas\u0131nda bildirdi ki, bu g\u00fcn bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rini bir yox, bir ne\u00e7\u0259 amill\u0259\u00a0\u0259laq\u0259l\u0259ndirm\u0259k m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr. S\u0259b\u0259bind\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131 olmayaraq t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259r bo\u015fanma zaman\u0131 f\u0259sadlar ya\u015fay\u0131r v\u0259 yeni bir h\u0259yat m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259sin\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259m qoyurlar. \u00d6vlad\u0131 olan ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 is\u0259 ayr\u0131l\u0131q m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259sind\u0259 \u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck travman\u0131 s\u00f6zs\u00fcz ki, u\u015faqlar\u00a0 ya\u015fay\u0131rlar. \u0130st\u0259r bo\u015fanmaya q\u0259d\u0259r, ist\u0259rs\u0259 d\u0259 ail\u0259d\u0259 ata v\u0259 analar\u0131 ayr\u0131ld\u0131qdan sonra u\u015faqlar psixoloji probleml\u0259r ya\u015fama\u011fa m\u0259cbur olurlar.<\/p>\n

H\u0259min u\u015faqlarda aqressiya, stress\u0259 meyillilik, asosiall\u0131q, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fct\u0259crid etm\u0259, \u00f6zg\u00fcv\u0259n yet\u0259rsizliyi, natamaml\u0131q kompleksi yaran\u0131r<\/strong><\/p>\n

M\u00fcsahibimiz diqq\u0259t\u0259 \u00e7atd\u0131rd\u0131 ki, bu g\u00fcn c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 ayr\u0131lan c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259rin he\u00e7 d\u0259 ham\u0131s\u0131 xo\u015f \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 ayr\u0131lm\u0131r v\u0259 bo\u015fanmadan sonra anla\u015f\u0131lmazl\u0131qlar, naraz\u0131l\u0131qlar davam edir. \u018fn \u00e7ox qar\u015f\u0131la\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z hallardan biri d\u0259, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131 vaxt\u0131-vaxt\u0131nda g\u00f6rm\u0259m\u0259k, alimenti zaman\u0131nda \u00f6d\u0259m\u0259m\u0259k v\u0259 s. olur.\u00a0T\u0259bii ki, bel\u0259 olan halda \u0259n \u00e7ox psixoloji g\u0259rginlik h\u0259min valideynl\u0259rl\u0259 yana\u015f\u0131 u\u015faqlar\u0131n da ya\u015famas\u0131d\u0131r. Bir m\u00fcdd\u0259t \u00f6nc\u0259y\u0259 kimi valideynl\u0259ri yan\u0131nda olan, onlar\u0131n ist\u0259dikl\u0259rini valideynl\u0259ri qar\u015f\u0131layan u\u015faqlar bo\u015fanma m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259sind\u0259n sonra tam ba\u015fqa m\u00fchit\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrl\u0259r. Valideynl\u0259rinin biri yan\u0131nda olmayan, yaranan xo\u015fag\u0259lm\u0259z s\u0259b\u0259bd\u0259n \u0259vv\u0259lki kimi h\u0259yat t\u0259rzini ya\u015famayan h\u0259min u\u015faqlar ciddi psixoloji \u00e7\u0259tinlikl\u0259rl\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131rlar. Bir psixoloq kimi qeyd etm\u0259liy\u0259m ki, yet\u0259rinc\u0259 olmayan qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131q, \u0259vv\u0259lki kimi olmayan diqq\u0259tsizlik, maddi s\u0131x\u0131nt\u0131lar h\u0259min u\u015faqlar\u0131n psixologiyas\u0131na birba\u015fa v\u0259 ya dolay\u0131 formada t\u0259sirini g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131r. Apard\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259l\u0259r v\u0259 biz\u0259 bu istiqam\u0259td\u0259 edil\u0259n m\u00fcraci\u0259tl\u0259r g\u00f6st\u0259rir ki, h\u0259min u\u015faqlarda bir qayda olaraq aqressiya, stress\u0259 meyillilik, asosiall\u0131q, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fct\u0259crid etm\u0259, \u00f6zg\u00fcv\u0259n yet\u0259rsizliyi, natamaml\u0131q kompleksi, depressiv hallar v\u0259 dig\u0259r psixoloji narahatl\u0131qlar \u00fcz\u0259 \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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H\u0259ms\u00f6hb\u0259timiz vur\u011fulad\u0131 ki, x\u00fcsusil\u0259 erk\u0259n ya\u015flarla m\u00fcqayis\u0259d\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fckc\u0259 h\u0259min u\u015faqlar daha \u00e7ox ata v\u0259 ana qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131ndan m\u0259hrum olduqlar\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 d\u0259y\u0259rsiz, kims\u0259siz, \u0259zilmi\u015f kimi hiss edirl\u0259r. Ya\u015f\u0131dlar\u0131n\u0131n h\u0259yat t\u0259rzi, onlar\u0131n tam ail\u0259 tablosunu g\u00f6rd\u00fckd\u0259, ata v\u0259 ana n\u0259vazi\u015fini hiss etdikd\u0259, \u00f6zl\u0259rind\u0259 bu hissl\u0259ri ya\u015faya bilm\u0259dikl\u0259ri \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn m\u0259hz u\u015faq vaxt\u0131ndan psixoloji travma il\u0259 \u00fczl\u0259\u015firl\u0259r v\u0259 bu f\u0259sadlar h\u0259yatlar\u0131n\u0131n sonrak\u0131 m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259 m\u00fcxt\u0259lif formalarda \u00fcz\u0259 \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r.<\/p>\n

U\u015faqlar\u0131n yan\u0131nda ana-atan\u0131n biri-birini pisl\u0259m\u0259si d\u00fczg\u00fcn deyil<\/strong><\/p>\n

Psixoloqun s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, h\u0259r bir u\u015faq valideynl\u0259rin bo\u015fanmas\u0131ndan sosial, psixoloji travma al\u0131r. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259, bo\u015fanmadan sonrak\u0131 m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259d\u0259 ana-atan\u0131n m\u00fcnasib\u0259ti u\u015faqlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn vacibdir. Arada problem olsa bel\u0259, bunu u\u015faqlara bildirm\u0259m\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r. U\u015faqlarla ba\u011fl\u0131 m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 birg\u0259 q\u0259rar verilm\u0259lidir. U\u015faqlar\u0131n yan\u0131nda ana-atan\u0131n biri-birini pisl\u0259m\u0259si d\u00fczg\u00fcn deyil. Valideynl\u0259r u\u015faqlar\u0131na olan sevgil\u0259rini hiss etdirm\u0259li v\u0259 bunu tez-tez dil\u0259 g\u0259tirm\u0259lidirl\u0259r. Bo\u015fanma q\u0259rar\u0131 vermi\u015f valideynl\u0259r bunu u\u015faqlar\u0131na d\u00fczg\u00fcn \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 izah etm\u0259lidirl\u0259r. U\u015fa\u011fa \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259t kimi yana\u015f\u0131b, ona m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259nin n\u0259 yerd\u0259 oldu\u011funu ba\u015fa salmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r. U\u015faq ata v\u0259 anas\u0131n\u0131n bundan sonra eyni evd\u0259 ya\u015famayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlamal\u0131 v\u0259 zamanla normal hal kimi q\u0259bul etm\u0259lidir. \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259, \u0259vv\u0259lc\u0259 u\u015faq bunu q\u0259bul etm\u0259y\u0259 bil\u0259r. Sad\u0259c\u0259, bo\u015fanmadan sonra valideynl\u0259rl\u0259 birg\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fl\u0259r olmal\u0131, birlikd\u0259 vaxt ke\u00e7irilm\u0259lidir ki, u\u015faq ata-anas\u0131n\u0131n sevgisinin azald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259sin.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Bo\u015fanma q\u0259rar\u0131 vermi\u015f valideynl\u0259r bunu u\u015faqlar\u0131na d\u00fczg\u00fcn \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 izah etm\u0259lidirl\u0259r Son zamanlar\u00a0dem\u0259k olar ki, h\u0259r g\u00fcn e\u015fitdiyimiz, sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259, q\u0259zetl\u0259rd\u0259, TV-l\u0259rd\u0259, saytalarda\u00a0\u00e7ox rast g\u0259ldiyimiz, sanki reklam olunan, g\u00fcnd\u0259md\u0259 olan m\u00f6vzulardan biri d\u0259 bo\u015fanmalard\u0131r. D\u00fczg\u00fcn olmayan t\u0259bli\u011fat, sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rin t\u0259siri il\u0259 vaxtil\u0259 \u0259n q\u0259buledilm\u0259z v\u0259 xo\u015fag\u0259lm\u0259z hal kimi qar\u015f\u0131lanan bo\u015fanmalar indi adi hala \u00e7evrilm\u0259kd\u0259dir. 6739 nikah v\u0259 3456 bo\u015fanma \u018fdliyy\u0259 Nazirliyinin rayon (\u015f\u0259h\u0259r) qeydiyyat \u015f\u00f6b\u0259l\u0259ri t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n 2024-c\u00fc ilin yanvar-fevral aylar\u0131nda 6739 nikah v\u0259 3456 bo\u015fanma hallar\u0131 qeyd\u0259 al\u0131n\u0131b. D\u00f6vl\u0259t Statistika Komit\u0259sind\u0259n (DSK) veril\u0259n m\u0259lumata g\u00f6r\u0259, \u00f6t\u0259n ilin m\u00fcvafiq d\u00f6vr\u00fc il\u0259 m\u00fcqayis\u0259d\u0259…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":711458,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/21f4c3b517131826522978285781032897.jpg",975,540,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/21f4c3b517131826522978285781032897.jpg",975,540,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/21f4c3b517131826522978285781032897.jpg",975,540,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/21f4c3b517131826522978285781032897-500x280.jpg",500,280,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/21f4c3b517131826522978285781032897-660x365.jpg",660,365,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/21f4c3b517131826522978285781032897-840x465.jpg",640,354,true],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/21f4c3b517131826522978285781032897.jpg",975,540,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/21f4c3b517131826522978285781032897.jpg",975,540,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/21f4c3b517131826522978285781032897-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/21f4c3b517131826522978285781032897.jpg",975,540,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"Bo\u015fanma q\u0259rar\u0131 vermi\u015f valideynl\u0259r bunu u\u015faqlar\u0131na d\u00fczg\u00fcn \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 izah etm\u0259lidirl\u0259r Son zamanlar\u00a0dem\u0259k olar ki, h\u0259r g\u00fcn e\u015fitdiyimiz, sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259, q\u0259zetl\u0259rd\u0259, TV-l\u0259rd\u0259, saytalarda\u00a0\u00e7ox rast g\u0259ldiyimiz, sanki reklam olunan, g\u00fcnd\u0259md\u0259 olan m\u00f6vzulardan biri d\u0259 bo\u015fanmalard\u0131r. D\u00fczg\u00fcn olmayan t\u0259bli\u011fat, sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rin t\u0259siri il\u0259 vaxtil\u0259 \u0259n q\u0259buledilm\u0259z v\u0259 xo\u015fag\u0259lm\u0259z hal kimi qar\u015f\u0131lanan bo\u015fanmalar indi adi hala \u00e7evrilm\u0259kd\u0259dir. 6739 nikah…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/711457"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=711457"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/711457\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/711458"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=711457"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=711457"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=711457"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}