Vaxt g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k, bundan sonrak\u0131 n\u0259sill\u0259r d\u0259 bunlar\u0131n bax\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 b\u0259y\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259r, gerilik\u00e7i sayacaqlar v\u0259 \u00f6z standartlar\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259tbiq ed\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259r.<\/p>\n
Bel\u0259c\u0259, h\u0259r n\u0259sil \u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259n \u0259vv\u0259lkiy\u0259 nisb\u0259t\u0259n bir add\u0131m qaba\u011fa ged\u0259c\u0259k. Ta bilmir\u0259m, bu add\u0131m-add\u0131m qaba\u011fa getm\u0259nin sonu n\u0259 olacaq: kamill\u0259\u015fm\u0259, yoxsa tam deqradasiya?<\/p>\n
Adi bir \u015feyi g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u0259k \u2013 g\u0259ncl\u0259rin sevgi etiraflar\u0131 xeyli d\u0259yi\u015fib. Bel\u0259 \u015feyl\u0259r bundan ir\u0259liki vaxtlarda da vard\u0131 v\u0259 bir ne\u00e7\u0259 variantda t\u0259zah\u00fcr edirdi.<\/p>\n
Birinci bel\u0259ydi, bir kollektivd\u0259 oxuyan, i\u015fl\u0259y\u0259n g\u0259ncl\u0259r bir-birin\u0259 mehr sal\u0131rd\u0131lar, bir g\u00fcn o\u011flan c\u0259sar\u0259tini toplay\u0131b deyrirdi ki, fikrim ciddidir, \u201cg\u0259l, ol anam g\u0259lini\u201d.<\/p>\n
\u0130kinci variantda o\u011flan\u0131n bac\u0131s\u0131 qarda\u015f\u0131n\u0131n ist\u0259diyi q\u0131z\u0131 yanlay\u0131r, deyirdi ki, b\u0259s bel\u0259-bel\u0259, qaqam\u0131n niyy\u0259ti budur, s\u0259ni ya\u011f i\u00e7ind\u0259 b\u00f6yr\u0259k kimi b\u0259sl\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k.<\/p>\n
\u00dc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc variantda o\u011flan\u0131n atas\u0131 \u00f6z dostuna deyirdi ki, ist\u0259yir\u0259m t\u0259kc\u0259 dost olmayaq, h\u0259m d\u0259 quda olaq v\u0259 g\u0259ncl\u0259r atalar\u0131n\u0131n quda olmas\u0131na raz\u0131l\u0131q verirdil\u0259r.<\/p>\n
D\u00f6rd\u00fcnc\u00fc varianda g\u0259ncl\u0259rin analar\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131l\u0131\u015f\u0131r, anla\u015f\u0131rd\u0131lar, daha sonra evl\u0259n\u0259c\u0259k c\u00fctl\u00fcy\u00fc ayr\u0131-ayr\u0131l\u0131qda \u201cbi\u015firm\u0259\u201d prosesi ba\u015flay\u0131rd\u0131.<\/p>\n
Ba\u015fqa variantlar da vard\u0131 v\u0259 onlar\u0131n he\u00e7 birind\u0259 dizi yer\u0259 atmaq s\u00f6hb\u0259ti yox idi.<\/p>\n
\u0130ndi internet resirslar\u0131nda, sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 videolara rast oluruq: sev\u0259n g\u0259ncl\u0259rin dizinin biri yerd\u0259dir. H\u0259m d\u0259 m\u00fctl\u0259q ictimai yerd\u0259. O\u011flan\u0131n sa\u011f \u0259lind\u0259 \u00fcz\u00fck, q\u0131z\u0131n h\u0259r iki \u0259li \u00fcz\u00fcnd\u0259. Alacalanm\u0131\u015f g\u00f6zl\u0259r. Q\u0131z g\u00f6zl\u0259mirmi\u015f. Bu c\u00fcr evlilik t\u0259klifi onun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn s\u00fcrpriz olub. \u015eokdad\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Bu, \u0259lb\u0259tt\u0259, \u015foudur. \u00d6z\u00fcn\u00fc ba\u015fqalar\u0131na g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259kdir. K\u00f6hn\u0259 adamlar hesab edir ki, bel\u0259 bir intim m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 g\u0259ncl\u0259rin ikisinin aras\u0131nda olmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n
\u00dcst\u0259lik, ayd\u0131n m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259dir ki, q\u0131z \u0259vv\u0259lc\u0259d\u0259n bu duruma haz\u0131rd\u0131r v\u0259 aylar \u00f6nc\u0259d\u0259n raz\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 verib. O\u011flan\u0131n q\u0131z\u0131n \u201ch\u0259\u201d dey\u0259c\u0259yind\u0259n beli ba\u011fl\u0131 olmasa, ictimai yerd\u0259, tutaq ki, 5 m\u0259rt\u0259b\u0259li mollun adam \u00e7ox olan m\u0259rt\u0259b\u0259sind\u0259 bel\u0259 bir risk\u0259 ged\u0259rmi?<\/p>\n
He\u00e7 kim getm\u0259z. \u0130ndiki cavanlar bilm\u0259z, k\u00f6hn\u0259 vaxtlarda o q\u0259d\u0259r t\u0259vaz\u00f6kar \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 \u00fcr\u0259yini a\u00e7an o\u011flana q\u0131zlar \u201cget anq\u0131r, tay\u0131n\u0131 tap\u201d deyirdil\u0259r ki. Kim ist\u0259y\u0259r ki, dizinin bir yerd\u0259 oldu\u011fu halda q\u0131z \u0259linin dal\u0131yla \u00fcz\u00fck qutusunu geri it\u0259l\u0259sin v\u0259 desin: \u201cGet…\u201d. (H\u0259r\u00e7\u0259nd indi m\u00fcvafiq leksikon bir az da t\u0259rbiy\u0259sizl\u0259\u015fmi\u015f olar).<\/p>\n
Dem\u0259k, h\u0259r \u015fey \u00f6nc\u0259d\u0259n d\u00fcz\u00fcl\u00fcb-qo\u015fulmu\u015f, ssenaril\u0259\u015fdirilmi\u015f olur. Amma tama\u015fa d\u00fcz\u0259ltm\u0259y\u0259 d\u0259 ehtiyac yoxdur. Tan\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z adamlar bar\u0259nizd\u0259 \u201cah, bunlar nec\u0259 d\u0259 romantik g\u0259ncl\u0259rdir\u201d des\u0259l\u0259r n\u0259 olacaq, dem\u0259s\u0259l\u0259r, n\u0259? H\u0259l\u0259 \u201cbu, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fckl\u00fckd\u00fcr, g\u00f6rm\u0259mi\u015flikdir, avropal\u0131lar\u0131 yams\u0131lmaqd\u0131r\u201d dey\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u0259nl\u0259r, \u0259l-\u0259lb\u0259t, daha \u00e7ox olacaq.<\/p>\n
Bu g\u00fcnl\u0259rd\u0259 Rusiyan\u0131n vaxta\u015f\u0131r\u0131 bir favorit-sevgili d\u0259yi\u015f\u0259n h\u0259\u015f\u0259ri \u00e7ari\u00e7as\u0131 Yekaterinan\u0131n (II) ad\u0131n\u0131 da\u015f\u0131yan \u015f\u0259h\u0259rd\u0259 bu xan\u0259d\u0259n ekstremal hadis\u0259 ba\u015f verib. Bir romantik g\u0259nc \u00f6z dostlar\u0131 il\u0259 birlikd\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnb ki, \u00f6z sevgilisin\u0259 unikal bir evlilik t\u0259klifi etsin.<\/p>\n
Bu m\u0259qs\u0259dl\u0259 o, sevgilisi v\u0259 onun r\u0259fiq\u0259si il\u0259 birlikd\u0259 \u015f\u0259h\u0259r k\u0259nar\u0131na gedibl\u0259r. Ma\u015f\u0131nda yolun k\u0259nar\u0131nda durduqlar\u0131 yerd\u0259 bird\u0259n onlara iki avtomobil yax\u0131nla\u015f\u0131b. Avtomobill\u0259rd\u0259n maskal\u0131 v\u0259 silah\u0131 adamlar \u00e7\u0131x\u0131b, bunlara yax\u0131nla\u015f\u0131blar, tapan\u00e7adan (pnevmatik olub) at\u0259\u015f a\u00e7a-a\u00e7a sevgilil\u0259ri ma\u015f\u0131ndan dart\u0131b yer\u0259 sal\u0131blar, asfalta uzad\u0131blar. Q\u0131z v\u0259 onun r\u0259fiq\u0259si el\u0259 bilib ki, bu, quldurlar\u0131n basq\u0131n\u0131d\u0131r, indic\u0259 bunlar\u0131 g\u00fcll\u0259l\u0259y\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259r. R\u0259fiq\u0259 q\u0131\u015fq\u0131r\u0131b, ba\u011f\u0131r\u0131b, \u015foka girib, bay\u0131l\u0131b, ay\u0131l\u0131b. Bu d\u0259md\u0259 basq\u0131n\u00e7\u0131lar \u00fczl\u0259rind\u0259ki maskan\u0131, romantik g\u0259nc is\u0259 cibind\u0259ki \u00fcz\u00fck qutusunu \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131b v\u0259 deyibl\u0259r: \u201cS\u00fcrpriiiiiz!\u201d<\/p>\n
O\u011flan dizinin birini yer\u0259 at\u0131b, daha do\u011frusu, \u00fcz\u00fcquylu oldu\u011fundan q\u0259ddini dik\u0259ldib v\u0259 dizini birini yerd\u0259n qald\u0131raraq deyib: \u201cM\u0259niml\u0259 evl\u0259n\u0259rs\u0259nmi?\u201d Q\u0131z da \u201ch\u0259\u201d deyib. Amma bu bar\u0259d\u0259 x\u0259b\u0259rd\u0259 bay\u0131l\u0131b-ay\u0131lm\u0131\u015f r\u0259fiq\u0259nin n\u0259 dediyi m\u0259lum deyil. Ola bil\u0259r, o ac\u0131qlan\u0131b v\u0259 \u201cidite vse na yuq\u201d dey\u0259 aralan\u0131b gedib.<\/p>\n
Y\u0259ni bu c\u00fcr meyll\u0259r get-ged\u0259 ekstremal \u015f\u0259kil al\u0131r. Sevgi etiraf\u0131 ed\u0259rk\u0259n silahl\u0131 basq\u0131n t\u0259\u015fkil etm\u0259y\u0259, akvalanq gey\u0259r\u0259k okean\u0131n dibin\u0259 enm\u0259y\u0259, para\u015f\u00fctl\u0259 tullanma\u011fa, h\u0259yat \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259li ba\u015fqa \u015feyl\u0259r\u0259 ba\u015f vurma\u011fa n\u0259 ehtiyac var? Zat\u0259n, yek\u0259 bir risk\u0259 gedirs\u0259n, zal\u0131m o\u011flu…<\/p>\n
O g\u00fcn Braziliyada toyxanaya helikopterl\u0259 u\u00e7an g\u0259nc c\u00fctl\u00fck q\u0259zaya d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcb \u00f6ld\u00fc. Halbuki onlar da ham\u0131 kimi limuzind\u0259 d\u0259 ged\u0259 bil\u0259rdil\u0259r. Yox, bular romantik g\u0259ncl\u0259rdir, ham\u0131dan se\u00e7ilm\u0259lidir.<\/p>\n
B\u00fct\u00fcn bunlara, bu \u0259tt\u00f6k\u0259n kaprizl\u0259r\u0259, \u015f\u0131ltaql\u0131qlara, \u015foulara, \u0259dalara t\u0259h\u0259mm\u00fcl etm\u0259k olar \u2013 bir \u015f\u0259rtl\u0259 ki, oynan\u0131lan oyun yand\u0131r\u0131lan \u015famlara d\u0259ysin. Statistika g\u00f6st\u0259rir ki, ail\u0259 qurulmas\u0131na bu c\u00fcr yana\u015fan g\u0259ncl\u0259r bir-iki ild\u0259n sonra ail\u0259nin s\u00f6k\u00fclm\u0259sin\u0259 barmaqaras\u0131 bax\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n
Yen\u0259 d\u0259 \u00f6zl\u0259ri bil\u0259rl\u0259r. Kims\u0259 gedib sevgi etiraf\u0131n\u0131 Eyfel q\u00fcll\u0259sinin ba\u015f\u0131nda anq\u0131raraq etm\u0259yi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrs\u0259, onun qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 kims\u0259 ala bilm\u0259z.<\/p>\n
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Samir SARI<\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"\u0130ndiki qocalar q\u0259bul ed\u0259 bilmirl\u0259r, amma m\u00fcasir cavanlar\u0131n h\u0259yata, g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259y\u0259, ail\u0259 qurulmas\u0131na, filan-b\u0259sm\u0259kana m\u00fcnasib\u0259ti f\u0259rqlidir. H\u0259m d\u0259 \u00e7ox f\u0259rqlidir. Vaxt g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k, bundan sonrak\u0131 n\u0259sill\u0259r d\u0259 bunlar\u0131n bax\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 b\u0259y\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259r, gerilik\u00e7i sayacaqlar v\u0259 \u00f6z standartlar\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259tbiq ed\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259r. Bel\u0259c\u0259, h\u0259r n\u0259sil \u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259n \u0259vv\u0259lkiy\u0259 nisb\u0259t\u0259n bir add\u0131m qaba\u011fa ged\u0259c\u0259k. Ta bilmir\u0259m, bu add\u0131m-add\u0131m qaba\u011fa getm\u0259nin sonu n\u0259 olacaq: kamill\u0259\u015fm\u0259, yoxsa tam deqradasiya? Adi bir \u015feyi g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u0259k \u2013 g\u0259ncl\u0259rin sevgi etiraflar\u0131 xeyli d\u0259yi\u015fib. Bel\u0259 \u015feyl\u0259r bundan ir\u0259liki vaxtlarda da vard\u0131 v\u0259 bir ne\u00e7\u0259 variantda t\u0259zah\u00fcr edirdi. Birinci bel\u0259ydi, bir kollektivd\u0259 oxuyan, i\u015fl\u0259y\u0259n g\u0259ncl\u0259r bir-birin\u0259…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":716584,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/603628c72643db2545de7c027b7cde0c.jpg",600,450,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/603628c72643db2545de7c027b7cde0c.jpg",600,450,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/603628c72643db2545de7c027b7cde0c.jpg",600,450,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/603628c72643db2545de7c027b7cde0c-500x280.jpg",500,280,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/603628c72643db2545de7c027b7cde0c-487x365.jpg",487,365,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/603628c72643db2545de7c027b7cde0c.jpg",600,450,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/603628c72643db2545de7c027b7cde0c.jpg",600,450,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/603628c72643db2545de7c027b7cde0c.jpg",600,450,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/603628c72643db2545de7c027b7cde0c-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/603628c72643db2545de7c027b7cde0c.jpg",600,450,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":" \u0130ndiki qocalar q\u0259bul ed\u0259 bilmirl\u0259r, amma m\u00fcasir cavanlar\u0131n h\u0259yata, g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259y\u0259, ail\u0259 qurulmas\u0131na, filan-b\u0259sm\u0259kana m\u00fcnasib\u0259ti f\u0259rqlidir. H\u0259m d\u0259 \u00e7ox f\u0259rqlidir. Vaxt g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k, bundan sonrak\u0131 n\u0259sill\u0259r d\u0259 bunlar\u0131n bax\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 b\u0259y\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259r, gerilik\u00e7i sayacaqlar v\u0259 \u00f6z standartlar\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259tbiq ed\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259r. Bel\u0259c\u0259, h\u0259r n\u0259sil \u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259n \u0259vv\u0259lkiy\u0259 nisb\u0259t\u0259n bir add\u0131m qaba\u011fa ged\u0259c\u0259k. Ta bilmir\u0259m, bu add\u0131m-add\u0131m qaba\u011fa getm\u0259nin sonu n\u0259 olacaq:…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/716583"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=716583"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/716583\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/716584"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=716583"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=716583"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=716583"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}