{"id":729133,"date":"2024-06-11T09:13:23","date_gmt":"2024-06-11T05:13:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=729133"},"modified":"2024-06-11T09:13:23","modified_gmt":"2024-06-11T05:13:23","slug":"ail%c9%99-mohk%c9%99mliyi-ail%c9%99d%c9%99n-onc%c9%99-baslasin-bosanmalara-qarsi-unikal-t%c9%99klif","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=729133","title":{"rendered":"Ail\u0259 m\u00f6hk\u0259mliyi ail\u0259d\u0259n \u00f6nc\u0259 ba\u015flas\u0131n! – bo\u015fanmalara qar\u015f\u0131 unikal t\u0259klif"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00dczeyir \u015e\u0259fiyev: \u201cC\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259r nikahdan \u00f6nc\u0259 qan testi verdikl\u0259ri kimi psixoloji testd\u0259n d\u0259 ke\u00e7m\u0259lidirl\u0259r\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cBo\u015fanma hallar\u0131n\u0131n say\u0131 g\u00fcnd\u0259n-g\u00fcn\u0259 art\u0131r. T\u0259k yanvar-fevral aylar\u0131nda g\u00fcn \u0259rzind\u0259 bo\u015fanma say\u0131 50-nin \u00fcst\u00fcnd\u0259 olub\u201d.<\/p>\n

Bunu Milli M\u0259clisin son iclas\u0131nda deputat M\u00fc\u015ffiq C\u0259f\u0259rov deyib.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Deputat bildirib ki, bu, SOS siqnal\u0131d\u0131r: \u201cBizd\u0259 v\u0259t\u0259nda\u015f nikah\u0131 yoxdur, daha \u00e7ox r\u0259smi nikahlard\u0131r. Bir \u00e7ox halda v\u0259t\u0259nda\u015flar bir-birini tan\u0131madan t\u00f6vsiy\u0259 \u0259sas\u0131nda evl\u0259nir. Komit\u0259 bununla ba\u011fl\u0131 maarifl\u0259ndirm\u0259 t\u0259dbiri, ciddi bir pilot layih\u0259si ke\u00e7ir\u0259 bil\u0259r. C\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259r bir araya g\u0259l\u0259r\u0259k ail\u0259 institutu haqq\u0131nda maarifl\u0259n\u0259r, ail\u0259 qurduqdan sonra hans\u0131 m\u0259suliyy\u0259tl\u0259r, \u00f6hd\u0259likl\u0259r yaran\u0131r, \u00f6yr\u0259n\u0259r, h\u0259m\u00e7inin bir-birini yax\u0131ndan tan\u0131yarlar. H\u0259tta sonda sertifikat da veril\u0259 bil\u0259r ki, art\u0131q nikaha daxil olsunlar. Bununla ba\u011fl\u0131 add\u0131m at\u0131larsa, g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 b\u0259hr\u0259sini vermi\u015f olar\u201d.<\/p>\n

B\u0259hr\u0259 ver\u0259c\u0259kmi? T\u0259klif n\u0259 d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259d\u0259 c\u0259lbedici ola v\u0259 ail\u0259 m\u00f6hk\u0259mliyini art\u0131ra bil\u0259r?<\/p>\n

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\u00dczeyir \u015e\u0259fiyev<\/strong><\/p>\n

M\u00f6vzu il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 sosioloq \u00dczeyir \u015e\u0259fiyev \u201cYeni M\u00fcsavat\u201da dan\u0131\u015f\u0131b: \u201cH\u0259r zaman qeyd etmi\u015f\u0259m ki, g\u0259ncl\u0259r evl\u0259nm\u0259zd\u0259n \u0259vv\u0259l ilk \u00f6nc\u0259 onlara ail\u0259 d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ri a\u015f\u0131lanmal\u0131, ail\u0259y\u0259 haz\u0131rlanmal\u0131, valideynlik m\u0259suliyy\u0259ti, ail\u0259nin b\u00f6hranl\u0131 v\u0259ziyy\u0259tl\u0259rinin d\u0259 ola bildiyi, bel\u0259 hallarda hans\u0131 \u00e7\u0131x\u0131\u015f yollar\u0131 oldu\u011fu ba\u015fa sal\u0131nmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Yax\u015f\u0131 olard\u0131 ki, bununla ba\u011fl\u0131 orta m\u0259kt\u0259bl\u0259rd\u0259 h\u0259yat bilgisi d\u0259rsl\u0259ri s\u0259viyy\u0259sind\u0259, el\u0259c\u0259 d\u0259 ali m\u0259kt\u0259bl\u0259rd\u0259 ail\u0259 d\u0259rsl\u0259ri ke\u00e7irilsin. \u00c7\u00fcnki indi bir \u00e7ox g\u0259nc q\u0131zlar v\u0259 o\u011flanlar ail\u0259 qurma\u011fa s\u0259thi yana\u015f\u0131r, onun sosial m\u0259suliyy\u0259tinin ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015fm\u00fcrl\u0259r.<\/p>\n

Daha bir t\u0259klifim ondan ibar\u0259tdir ki, nec\u0259 ki, c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259r nikahdan \u0259vv\u0259l qan testi verirl\u0259r, el\u0259c\u0259 d\u0259 psixoloji testd\u0259n ke\u00e7sinl\u0259r.\u00a0 \u00c7\u00fcnki ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 ba\u015f ver\u0259n konfliktl\u0259r onu g\u00f6st\u0259rir ki, b\u0259z\u0259n bu konfliktl\u0259ri i\u015ftirak\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 olan c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259rin psixoloji v\u0259ziyy\u0259tl\u0259ri yerind\u0259 olmur, travmalara malik olurlar, ail\u0259y\u0259 haz\u0131r insan olmurlar”.<\/p>\n

Sosioloq qeyd edib ki, ilk \u00f6nc\u0259 ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 u\u015faqlara, yeniyetm\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 ail\u0259 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259r a\u015f\u0131lanma\u0131l\u0131d\u0131r:<\/strong>\u00a0\u201cAil\u0259d\u0259 psixoloji m\u00fchit sa\u011flam olmal\u0131, natamam ail\u0259l\u0259rin say\u0131 azalmal\u0131d\u0131r ki, u\u015faq normal m\u00fchitd\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcs\u00fcn. Diqq\u0259t ed\u0259nd\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u00fck ki, bo\u015fanan c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259r daha \u00e7ox natamam m\u00fchitd\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcm\u00fc\u015f insanlard\u0131r. Onlar\u0131n pis \u00f6rn\u0259yi var, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcl\u0259r ki, ata-analar\u0131 bo\u015fan\u0131bsa, onlar da bo\u015fana bil\u0259r v\u0259 rahat \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 bo\u015fanma q\u0259rar\u0131n\u0131 verirl\u0259r.<\/p>\n

V\u0259 yaxud q\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131z ail\u0259 \u00e7\u0259tinlikl\u0259rini \u00fcz\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6t\u00fcrm\u0259k ist\u0259mirl\u0259r. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, \u00e7ox az halda qad\u0131nlar t\u0259bii yolla do\u011fu\u015f ke\u00e7irib, ana olurlar. V\u0259 yaxud \u00e7ox az sayda ana \u00f6z \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131 ana s\u00fcd\u00fc il\u0259 qidaland\u0131r\u0131r, \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259t s\u00fcni qidalara \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck verir. S\u0259b\u0259b is\u0259 fiziki g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fc qoruyub saxlamaq v\u0259 sair\u0259dir. \u00d6vlad\u0131n\u0131 ana s\u00fcd\u00fc il\u0259 qidaland\u0131rmayan, ciddi \u0259sas olmadan t\u0259bii do\u011fu\u015fdan imtina ed\u0259n qad\u0131nlar hans\u0131 anal\u0131q missiyas\u0131n\u0131 da\u015f\u0131y\u0131r? Onlar \u00f6z u\u015faqlar\u0131na\u00a0 hans\u0131 anal\u0131q emossiyas\u0131 \u00f6t\u00fcr\u0259 bil\u0259rl\u0259r? Bu \u00e7ox ciddi m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259dir v\u0259 hesab edir\u0259m ki, x\u00fcsus\u0259n bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 \u0259traf\u0131nda d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r.<\/p>\n

H\u0259m\u00e7inin ki\u015fil\u0259rimiz aras\u0131nda h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 k\u00f6hn\u0259, patriaxal t\u0259f\u0259kk\u00fcrl\u00fc olanlar, qad\u0131na \u201ca\u011fa-qul\u201d m\u00fcnasib\u0259ti kimi yana\u015fanlar da var. Bu bax\u0131mdan maarifl\u0259ndirm\u0259 i\u015fin\u0259 \u00e7ox b\u00f6y\u00fck ehtiyac var.<\/p>\n

Ail\u0259 d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rinin a\u015f\u0131lanmas\u0131 m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259sind\u0259 televiziyalar\u0131n, median\u0131n b\u00f6y\u00fck t\u0259siri var. Yax\u015f\u0131 olard\u0131 ki, televiziyalara \u00f6rn\u0259k ail\u0259l\u0259r d\u0259v\u0259t olunsun v\u0259 onlar efird\u0259n g\u0259ncl\u0259r\u0259 ail\u0259 d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rind\u0259n s\u00f6z a\u00e7s\u0131nlar, ail\u0259 b\u00f6hranlar\u0131 n\u0259 zaman, nec\u0259 olur, bu zaman v\u0259ziyy\u0259td\u0259n nec\u0259 \u00e7\u0131xmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r dey\u0259 \u00f6z t\u00f6vsiy\u0259l\u0259rini bildirsinl\u0259r.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u018fvv\u0259ll\u0259r bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n say\u0131 \u00e7ox az olurdu. S\u0259b\u0259b is\u0259 bu idi ki, n\u0259n\u0259l\u0259r-babalar g\u0259nc ail\u0259l\u0259r il\u0259 birg\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131rd\u0131lar. Ail\u0259d\u0259 b\u00f6hran olanda b\u00f6y\u00fckl\u0259r x\u0131rda bir m\u00fcdaxil\u0259 il\u0259 m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259ni aradan g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u0259 bilirdil\u0259r. Amma indi g\u0259nc ail\u0259l\u0259r ayr\u0131 ya\u015famaq ist\u0259yir v\u0259 bu zaman da ail\u0259d\u0259 x\u0131rda b\u00f6hran ortaya \u00e7\u0131xanda v\u0259ziyy\u0259td\u0259n \u00e7\u0131x\u0131\u015f yolu tapa bilmir v\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcl\u0259r ki, d\u0259rhal bo\u015fanmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Hesab edir\u0259m ki, Ail\u0259, Qad\u0131n v\u0259 U\u015faq Probleml\u0259ri \u00fczr\u0259 D\u00f6vl\u0259t Komit\u0259sinin v\u0259 Daxili \u0130\u015fl\u0259r Nazirliyinin, yerli icra\u00a0 strukturlar\u0131n\u0131n t\u0259rkibind\u0259 \u201cail\u0259 b\u00f6hran m\u0259rk\u0259zl\u0259ri\u201d yaranmal\u0131 v\u0259 bu m\u0259rk\u0259zl\u0259rd\u0259 b\u00fct\u00fcn respublika \u00fczr\u0259 m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259li ail\u0259l\u0259r qeyd\u0259 al\u0131nmal\u0131 v\u0259 onlarla i\u015fl\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k sosial i\u015f\u00e7il\u0259r v\u0259 psixoloqlar institutu t\u0259\u015fkil olunmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

\u018fminlikl\u0259 deyir\u0259m ki, m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259li ail\u0259l\u0259rin qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 almaq \u00e7ox asand\u0131r, yet\u0259r ki, bu i\u015f\u0259 vicdanla, pe\u015f\u0259karcas\u0131na yana\u015f\u0131ls\u0131n. G\u0259ncl\u0259ri inand\u0131rsalar ki, x\u0131rda problem\u0259, m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259y\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 ail\u0259ni da\u011f\u0131tmaq olmaz, onlara \u00f6z missiyalar\u0131, ail\u0259 m\u0259suliyy\u0259ti ba\u015fa sal\u0131nsa bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 xeyli alm\u0131\u015f olar\u0131q”.<\/p>\n

Xalid\u0259 G\u018fRAY,
\n\u201cYeni M\u00fcsavat\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u00dczeyir \u015e\u0259fiyev: \u201cC\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259r nikahdan \u00f6nc\u0259 qan testi verdikl\u0259ri kimi psixoloji testd\u0259n d\u0259 ke\u00e7m\u0259lidirl\u0259r\u201d \u201cBo\u015fanma hallar\u0131n\u0131n say\u0131 g\u00fcnd\u0259n-g\u00fcn\u0259 art\u0131r. T\u0259k yanvar-fevral aylar\u0131nda g\u00fcn \u0259rzind\u0259 bo\u015fanma say\u0131 50-nin \u00fcst\u00fcnd\u0259 olub\u201d. Bunu Milli M\u0259clisin son iclas\u0131nda deputat M\u00fc\u015ffiq C\u0259f\u0259rov deyib. Deputat bildirib ki, bu, SOS siqnal\u0131d\u0131r: \u201cBizd\u0259 v\u0259t\u0259nda\u015f nikah\u0131 yoxdur, daha \u00e7ox r\u0259smi nikahlard\u0131r. Bir \u00e7ox halda v\u0259t\u0259nda\u015flar bir-birini tan\u0131madan t\u00f6vsiy\u0259 \u0259sas\u0131nda evl\u0259nir. Komit\u0259 bununla ba\u011fl\u0131 maarifl\u0259ndirm\u0259 t\u0259dbiri, ciddi bir pilot layih\u0259si ke\u00e7ir\u0259 bil\u0259r. C\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259r bir araya g\u0259l\u0259r\u0259k ail\u0259 institutu haqq\u0131nda maarifl\u0259n\u0259r, ail\u0259 qurduqdan sonra hans\u0131 m\u0259suliyy\u0259tl\u0259r, \u00f6hd\u0259likl\u0259r yaran\u0131r, \u00f6yr\u0259n\u0259r, h\u0259m\u00e7inin bir-birini yax\u0131ndan…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":729134,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[26],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/a97ea110b98553823f83cb2fb1e3fc8a.jpg",870,500,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/a97ea110b98553823f83cb2fb1e3fc8a.jpg",870,500,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/a97ea110b98553823f83cb2fb1e3fc8a.jpg",870,500,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/a97ea110b98553823f83cb2fb1e3fc8a-500x280.jpg",500,280,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/a97ea110b98553823f83cb2fb1e3fc8a-635x365.jpg",635,365,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/a97ea110b98553823f83cb2fb1e3fc8a-840x483.jpg",640,368,true],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/a97ea110b98553823f83cb2fb1e3fc8a.jpg",870,500,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/a97ea110b98553823f83cb2fb1e3fc8a.jpg",870,500,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/a97ea110b98553823f83cb2fb1e3fc8a-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/a97ea110b98553823f83cb2fb1e3fc8a.jpg",870,500,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"Sosial<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"\u00dczeyir \u015e\u0259fiyev: \u201cC\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259r nikahdan \u00f6nc\u0259 qan testi verdikl\u0259ri kimi psixoloji testd\u0259n d\u0259 ke\u00e7m\u0259lidirl\u0259r\u201d \u201cBo\u015fanma hallar\u0131n\u0131n say\u0131 g\u00fcnd\u0259n-g\u00fcn\u0259 art\u0131r. T\u0259k yanvar-fevral aylar\u0131nda g\u00fcn \u0259rzind\u0259 bo\u015fanma say\u0131 50-nin \u00fcst\u00fcnd\u0259 olub\u201d. Bunu Milli M\u0259clisin son iclas\u0131nda deputat M\u00fc\u015ffiq C\u0259f\u0259rov deyib. Deputat bildirib ki, bu, SOS siqnal\u0131d\u0131r: \u201cBizd\u0259 v\u0259t\u0259nda\u015f nikah\u0131 yoxdur, daha \u00e7ox r\u0259smi nikahlard\u0131r. Bir \u00e7ox halda v\u0259t\u0259nda\u015flar…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/729133"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=729133"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/729133\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/729134"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=729133"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=729133"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=729133"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}