Bu ilin alt\u0131 ay\u0131nda qeydiyyat \u015f\u00f6b\u0259l\u0259ri t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n 8257 bo\u015fanma hal\u0131 qeyd\u0259 al\u0131n\u0131b. \u00d6t\u0259n ilin m\u00fcvafiq d\u00f6vr\u00fcnd\u0259 is\u0259 bu r\u0259q\u0259m 7219 olub.<\/p>\n
Psixoloq Taryel Fazilo\u011flu Oxu.Az-a a\u00e7\u0131qlamas\u0131nda bildirib ki, Az\u0259rbaycanda bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n s\u0259b\u0259bi he\u00e7 d\u0259 sosial-iqtisadi s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rl\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 deyil.<\/p>\n
Onun s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, \u00f6lk\u0259d\u0259 ail\u0259l\u0259rin da\u011f\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131n k\u00f6k\u00fcnd\u0259 dayanan \u0259sas s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259r psixoloji amill\u0259rdir.<\/p>\n
Psixoloq Az\u0259rbaycanda ail\u0259 modelinin tam m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n olunmamas\u0131na da diqq\u0259t \u00e7\u0259kib:<\/p>\n
“Az\u0259rbaycanda mental ail\u0259 modelind\u0259n imtina edilir. Onun yerin\u0259 is\u0259 do\u011fru-d\u00fczg\u00fcn, alternativ ail\u0259 modeli qoymam\u0131\u015f\u0131q. Qurulan ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 mental d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259d\u0259ki geni\u015f ail\u0259 modeli davam edir. Ancaq Avropa ail\u0259 modeli \u015f\u0259klind\u0259 ya\u015famaq ist\u0259yirik. Bu, t\u0259zadd\u0131r”.<\/p>\n
T.Fazilo\u011flu qeyd edib ki, ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 bel\u0259 ziddiyy\u0259tl\u0259r fonunda \u0259r-arvad aras\u0131nda ciddi m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259l\u0259r yaran\u0131r:<\/p>\n
“\u0130kincisi, ail\u0259 modell\u0259ri aras\u0131ndak\u0131 bo\u015fluq insanlar\u0131n ist\u0259kl\u0259ri il\u0259 hiss etdikl\u0259ri aras\u0131nda ciddi bir u\u00e7urum yarad\u0131r. Bu uy\u011funsuzluq \u0259rl\u0259 arvad aras\u0131ndak\u0131 b\u00fct\u00fcn m\u0259n\u0259vi, sosial ba\u011flar\u0131 alt-\u00fcst edir v\u0259 onlar asanl\u0131qla bo\u015fanmaq q\u0259rar\u0131na g\u0259lirl\u0259r. Az\u0259rbaycanda ail\u0259 institutlar\u0131n\u0131n m\u00f6hk\u0259ml\u0259ndirilm\u0259si \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn laz\u0131m olan amill\u0259rin \u00e7oxu deqradasiyaya u\u011fray\u0131b”.<\/p>\n
Onun fikrinc\u0259, ail\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rinin formala\u015fmas\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn be\u015f m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259 m\u00f6vcuddur:<\/p>\n
“Seksual c\u0259zbetm\u0259 d\u00f6n\u0259mind\u0259 q\u0131zla o\u011flan bir-birind\u0259n xo\u015flan\u0131rlar. Bu, sosial m\u00fcnasib\u0259tdir. Bu m\u00fcnasib\u0259t qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 inam, g\u00fcv\u0259n m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259sini formala\u015fd\u0131r\u0131r. Bu m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259 bitdikd\u0259n sonra is\u0259 nikah akt\u0131 ba\u015f verm\u0259lidir. Daha sonra is\u0259 kompromis m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259si g\u0259lir. Bu m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259 bir-birin\u0259 uy\u011funla\u015fmaqd\u0131r. Daha sonra is\u0259 m\u0259h\u0259bb\u0259t m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259si g\u0259lir”.<\/p>\n
T.Fazilo\u011flu qeyd edib ki, Az\u0259rbaycanda g\u00fcv\u0259n m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259si ba\u015f verm\u0259d\u0259n nikah akt\u0131 olur:<\/p>\n
“Bir-birin\u0259 g\u00fcv\u0259nm\u0259d\u0259n nikah ba\u011flan\u0131r. Sonra is\u0259 konkret olaraq seksual doyma prosesi yaranma\u011fa ba\u015flay\u0131r. Ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 qad\u0131n v\u0259 ya ki\u015fil\u0259rd\u0259n biri daha tez seksual doyma ya\u015fay\u0131r. Y\u0259ni evl\u0259ndiyi ki\u015fi v\u0259 ya qad\u0131na m\u00fcnasib\u0259td\u0259 \u0259vv\u0259lki q\u0259d\u0259r ehtiras hiss etmir. Bel\u0259 olan halda is\u0259 aqressiya yaran\u0131r. Bu zaman \u0259r v\u0259 ya arvad uzaqla\u015fma\u011fa ba\u015flay\u0131r.<\/p>\n
\u0130ki t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259n biri m\u00fcnasib\u0259td\u0259n qa\u00e7d\u0131\u011f\u0131 zaman t\u0259bii ki, qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259 d\u0259 q\u0131sqancl\u0131qlar ba\u015flay\u0131r. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 budur ki, \u0259r-arvad bunu a\u00e7\u0131q \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 ifad\u0259 ed\u0259 bilmir. Az\u0259rbaycanda b\u0259zi tabular var ki, h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 h\u00f6km s\u00fcr\u00fcr. \u018frl\u0259 arvad oturub seksual ist\u0259k v\u0259 arzular\u0131n\u0131 bir-biri il\u0259 dan\u0131\u015fa bilmirl\u0259r. Bel\u0259 olan t\u0259qdird\u0259, iki t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259n biri seksual doyma ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131na g\u00f6r\u0259 b\u0259han\u0259l\u0259r axtar\u0131r. Bu aqressiv reaksiya doyma ya\u015fayan insana b\u0259han\u0259 verir ki, uzaqla\u015fs\u0131n”.<\/p>\n
Psixoloq onu da vur\u011fulay\u0131b ki, bo\u015fananlar\u0131n 90 faizi \u00fc\u00e7 aydan sonra pe\u015fman olur:<\/p>\n
“\u00c7\u00fcnki onlar\u0131n bo\u015fanmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ciddi s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259ri yox idi. Sad\u0259c\u0259 olaraq, h\u0259min anda emosional partlay\u0131\u015f alt\u0131nda q\u0259rar veribl\u0259r. Az\u0259rbaycanda ciddi maarifl\u0259ndirm\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259ri apar\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r. Evlilik \u00f6nc\u0259si c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259r psixoloji m\u00fcayin\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n ke\u00e7m\u0259lidirl\u0259r. H\u0259r biri psixoloji olaraq m\u0259lumatland\u0131r\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r”.<\/p>\n
O \u0259lav\u0259 edib ki, h\u0259r il Az\u0259rbaycanda bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n say\u0131 \u0259vv\u0259lki d\u00f6vrl\u0259 m\u00fcqayis\u0259d\u0259 1000 ail\u0259 artsa, g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fck probleml\u0259r yaranacaq:<\/p>\n
“Bu minvalla davam ets\u0259, yax\u0131n be\u015f ild\u0259 Az\u0259rbaycanda qurulan ail\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 bo\u015fanan ail\u0259l\u0259r aras\u0131ndak\u0131 f\u0259rq be\u015fin d\u00f6rd\u0259 nisb\u0259tind\u0259 olacaq”.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Bu ilin alt\u0131 ay\u0131nda qeydiyyat \u015f\u00f6b\u0259l\u0259ri t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n 8257 bo\u015fanma hal\u0131 qeyd\u0259 al\u0131n\u0131b. \u00d6t\u0259n ilin m\u00fcvafiq d\u00f6vr\u00fcnd\u0259 is\u0259 bu r\u0259q\u0259m 7219 olub. Psixoloq Taryel Fazilo\u011flu Oxu.Az-a a\u00e7\u0131qlamas\u0131nda bildirib ki, Az\u0259rbaycanda bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n s\u0259b\u0259bi he\u00e7 d\u0259 sosial-iqtisadi s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rl\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 deyil. Onun s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, \u00f6lk\u0259d\u0259 ail\u0259l\u0259rin da\u011f\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131n k\u00f6k\u00fcnd\u0259 dayanan \u0259sas s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259r psixoloji amill\u0259rdir. Psixoloq Az\u0259rbaycanda ail\u0259 modelinin tam m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":73691,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-73690","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-cmiyyt"],"aioseo_notices":[],"aioseo_head":"\n\t\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t