Xan\u0131mlar, n\u0259 zamansa \u015f\u00fcbh\u0259l\u0259nib h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n telefonunu “qurdalad\u0131n\u0131zm\u0131”? O yatd\u0131qdan sonra cibl\u0259rini “qar\u0131\u015fd\u0131rd\u0131n\u0131zm\u0131”? B\u0259s siz, b\u0259yl\u0259r? He\u00e7 xan\u0131m\u0131n\u0131zdan \u015f\u00fcbh\u0259 etdinizmi? \u0130\u015f\u0259 v\u0259 ya ba\u015fqa bir yer\u0259 ged\u0259nd\u0259 onu gizlic\u0259 izl\u0259dinizmi? H\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n siz\u0259 x\u0259yan\u0259t ed\u0259 bil\u0259c\u0259yini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcn\u00fczm\u00fc? Bu d\u0259f\u0259 x\u0259yan\u0259td\u0259n v\u0259 onu yaradan s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rd\u0259n b\u0259hs edirik.
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\nX\u0259yan\u0259ti yaradan s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259r n\u0259dir?
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\nAil\u0259d\u0259 x\u0259yan\u0259ti yaradan s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259r \u00e7ox ola bil\u0259r. \u00d6nc\u0259likl\u0259, \u0259g\u0259r x\u0259yan\u0259t ba\u015f veribs\u0259, dem\u0259li, m\u00fcnasib\u0259td\u0259 bo\u015fluq var. Ara\u015fd\u0131rma yaz\u0131m\u0131zda ekspertl\u0259rin k\u00f6m\u0259yi il\u0259 siz\u0259 bu bo\u015fluqlar\u0131 yaradan probleml\u0259rd\u0259n v\u0259 onlar\u0131n qayna\u011f\u0131ndan b\u0259hs ed\u0259c\u0259yik.
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\n\u0130ngilt\u0259r\u0259d\u0259 apar\u0131lan bir t\u0259dqiqat n\u0259tic\u0259sind\u0259 m\u0259lum olub ki, evli olan c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259rin y\u00fczd\u0259 21-i h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131na x\u0259yan\u0259t edir. Bu g\u00f6st\u0259rici v\u0259t\u0259nda\u015f nigah\u0131nda ya\u015fayan c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259rd\u0259 y\u00fczd\u0259 51-dir.
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\nAra\u015fd\u0131rman\u0131n n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, qad\u0131nlar\u0131n 50 faizi ger\u00e7\u0259kd\u0259n a\u015fiq olduqlar\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn, ki\u015fil\u0259rin 44 faizi qar\u015f\u0131 cinsin cazib\u0259sin\u0259 v\u0259 g\u00f6z\u0259lliyin\u0259 heyran olduqlar\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn x\u0259yan\u0259t edir.
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\nKanadada apar\u0131lan dig\u0259r bir ara\u015fd\u0131rmada is\u0259 m\u0259lum olub ki, ki\u015fil\u0259rin 50 faizi xan\u0131m\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n romantik v\u0259 hissi qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131q g\u00f6rm\u0259diyind\u0259n, y\u00fczd\u0259 30-u yolda\u015f\u0131 il\u0259 “dil tapa bilm\u0259diyind\u0259n”, y\u00fczd\u0259 20-si is\u0259 xan\u0131m\u0131 il\u0259 cinsi probleml\u0259r ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan x\u0259yan\u0259t edir.
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\nQad\u0131nlar niy\u0259 x\u0259yan\u0259t edirl\u0259r?
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\nBizim c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 milli mentalitetimizd\u0259n qaynaqlanan bel\u0259 bir fikir var: “Ki\u015fil\u0259r x\u0259yan\u0259t ed\u0259r, amma qad\u0131nlar – \u0259sla!” Maraql\u0131d\u0131r ki, bu fikir art\u0131q \u00f6z q\u00fcvv\u0259sini itirm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131b. \u0130ndi ki\u015fil\u0259r q\u0259d\u0259r olmasa da, qad\u0131nlar da h\u0259yat yolda\u015flar\u0131na x\u0259yan\u0259t edirl\u0259r.
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\nAmma qad\u0131n v\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259rin x\u0259yan\u0259t etm\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259ri bir-birind\u0259n f\u0259rqlidir. T\u00fcrkiy\u0259d\u0259 apar\u0131lan bir t\u0259dqiqat zaman\u0131 ail\u0259li qad\u0131nlara bel\u0259 bir sual \u00fcnvanlan\u0131b: “N\u0259 vaxtsa h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdan ba\u015fqa bir ki\u015fini b\u0259y\u0259nmisiniz?”
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\nCavablar 3 kateqoriyada d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ndirilib. Evliliyi \u0259la durumda olan qad\u0131nlar\u0131n 13 faizi, normal olanlar\u0131n 9 faizi, evliliyi pis olanlar\u0131n is\u0259 100 faizi bu suala m\u00fcsb\u0259t cavab verib. Bel\u0259likl\u0259, ayd\u0131n olur ki, ail\u0259d\u0259 b\u0259db\u0259xt olan qad\u0131n\u0131n aldatma v\u0259 x\u0259yan\u0259t ehtimal\u0131 100 faizdir.
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\nX\u0259yan\u0259t ed\u0259n ki\u015fi nec\u0259 bilinir?
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\nPsixoloqlar deyirl\u0259r ki, x\u0259yan\u0259t ed\u0259n ki\u015fi \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc b\u0259zi h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259ri il\u0259 “\u0259l\u0259 verir”. \u018fvv\u0259lc\u0259 xan\u0131m\u0131 bunu hiss edir, \u00f6nc\u0259 b\u0259zi m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259rin yolunda olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n f\u0259rqin\u0259 var\u0131r. Daha sonra h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131n bir s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn dig\u0259ri il\u0259 uy\u011fun g\u0259lm\u0259diyini anlay\u0131r. H\u0259m\u00e7inin, xan\u0131m\u0131na x\u0259yan\u0259t ed\u0259n ki\u015fi onun g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn i\u00e7in\u0259 g\u00fcnahkar u\u015faq kimi bax\u0131r. X\u0259yan\u0259t ed\u0259n ki\u015fil\u0259r evd\u0259 m\u00fcmk\u00fcn q\u0259d\u0259r az zaman ke\u00e7irir, ail\u0259sin\u0259, xan\u0131m\u0131na az maraq g\u00f6st\u0259rir.
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\nH\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n aldad\u0131lan qad\u0131n bunun f\u0259rqin\u0259 vard\u0131qda v\u0259 x\u0259yan\u0259t\u0259 \u0259min olduqda is\u0259 \u00e7ox vaxt bunu gizl\u0259dir. Ara\u015fd\u0131rmalar zaman\u0131 m\u0259lum olub ki, yolda\u015f\u0131 x\u0259yan\u0259t ed\u0259n qad\u0131nlar\u0131n 50 faizind\u0259 g\u00fcv\u0259n v\u0259 inam hissi “\u00f6l\u00fcr”, y\u00fczd\u0259 35-i ail\u0259nin da\u011f\u0131lmamas\u0131 namin\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc el\u0259 apar\u0131r ki, guya he\u00e7 n\u0259d\u0259n x\u0259b\u0259ri yoxdur, 15 faizi is\u0259 konkret olaraq bo\u015fan\u0131r. Q\u0131sas\u0131, \u0259ri x\u0259yan\u0259t ed\u0259n qad\u0131nlar\u0131n y\u00fczd\u0259 85-i “taleyi il\u0259 bar\u0131\u015f\u0131r”.
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\nKi\u015fil\u0259r ist\u0259m\u0259d\u0259n d\u0259 x\u0259yan\u0259t ed\u0259 bilirl\u0259r
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\nEkspertl\u0259r deyirl\u0259r ki, x\u0259yan\u0259tl\u0259rin \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259ti ail\u0259d\u0259ki b\u0259db\u0259xtliyin kompensasiya edilm\u0259si m\u0259qs\u0259di il\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131r. X\u0259yan\u0259tl\u0259r \u0259sas\u0259n evliliyin ilk 10 ili \u0259rzind\u0259 ba\u015f verir. X\u0259yan\u0259t ed\u0259n ki\u015fil\u0259ri 2 kateqoriyaya b\u00f6l\u00fcrl\u0259r.
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\n1. Daima x\u0259yan\u0259t meylind\u0259 olanlar – bu c\u00fcr ki\u015fil\u0259r q\u0131sa v\u0259 davaml\u0131 olmayan \u0259laq\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck verirl\u0259r v\u0259 he\u00e7 bir \u0259laq\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259 u\u011furlu ola bilmirl\u0259r.
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\n2. T\u0259sad\u00fcf\u0259n x\u0259yan\u0259t ed\u0259nl\u0259r – bu c\u00fcr ki\u015fil\u0259r ist\u0259m\u0259d\u0259n bu v\u0259ziyy\u0259t\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrl\u0259r. Onlar daha \u00e7ox evli v\u0259 nisb\u0259t\u0259n daha ya\u015fl\u0131 qad\u0131nlar\u0131n bir n\u00f6v “toruna d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrl\u0259r”.
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\nPsixoloq\u00a0Xatir\u0259 S\u0259f\u0259rova\u00a0hesab edir ki, x\u0259yan\u0259t ba\u015fqas\u0131n\u0131 deyil, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc aldatmaqd\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnki real h\u0259yat\u0131ndan raz\u0131 olmayanlar x\u0259yan\u0259t edir v\u0259 bu x\u0259yan\u0259ti il\u0259 ger\u00e7\u0259kliyi d\u0259yi\u015f\u0259 bilm\u0259zl\u0259r. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 sad\u0259c\u0259, \u00f6zl\u0259rini aldad\u0131rlar:
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\n“Ail\u0259d\u0259 x\u0259yan\u0259t ki\u015fi t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n ba\u015f veribs\u0259, o zaman qad\u0131n d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259lidir ki, m\u0259n\u0259 olan x\u0259yan\u0259t \u00f6z cinsimd\u0259ndir, y\u0259ni m\u0259niml\u0259 eyni cinsd\u0259n olan biri il\u0259 x\u0259yan\u0259t\u0259 u\u011fram\u0131\u015fam v\u0259 bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259 il\u0259 analiz etm\u0259lidir, hans\u0131 s\u0259b\u0259bd\u0259n bu x\u0259yan\u0259t ba\u015f verib? Qad\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 v\u0259 xarakterin\u0259, davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131na obyektiv yana\u015fsa, o zaman x\u0259yan\u0259tin s\u0259b\u0259bini a\u015fkarlam\u0131\u015f olar”.
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\nQad\u0131n\u0131n x\u0259yan\u0259tin\u0259 g\u0259linc\u0259 is\u0259, psixoloq hesab edir ki, qad\u0131n\u0131n d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259sind\u0259 \u00f6n yerd\u0259 cismani ehtiyaclar deyil, m\u0259n\u0259vi ehtiyacd\u0131r. Qad\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 s\u00fcbut etm\u0259k ist\u0259yir ki, o, d\u0259y\u0259rsiz v\u0259 laz\u0131ms\u0131z deyil. \u00c7\u00fcnki ail\u0259d\u0259 ki\u015finin laqeydliyi qad\u0131na laz\u0131ms\u0131z oldu\u011funu t\u0259lqin edir.
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\nPsixoloq: “Ki\u015finin x\u0259yan\u0259ti normal, qad\u0131n\u0131n x\u0259yan\u0259ti faci\u0259 say\u0131l\u0131r”
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\nH\u0259m psixoloqlar, h\u0259m d\u0259 sosioloqlar deyirl\u0259r ki, qad\u0131nlar he\u00e7 bir halda \u0259min olmadan q\u0259ti h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259t etm\u0259m\u0259lidirl\u0259r. M\u00fctl\u0259q \u015f\u00fcbh\u0259l\u0259rini h\u0259yat yolda\u015flar\u0131 il\u0259 payla\u015fmal\u0131d\u0131rlar. X\u0259yan\u0259tin s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rini \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259k, durumu d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ndirm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r. Ki\u015finin x\u0259yan\u0259tinin s\u0259b\u0259bi qad\u0131n da ola bil\u0259r. Yuxar\u0131da qeyd etdiyimiz kimi, ki\u015fil\u0259r \u00e7ox vaxt ail\u0259d\u0259 xan\u0131mlar\u0131ndan yet\u0259rli diqq\u0259t g\u00f6rm\u0259dikl\u0259rind\u0259n x\u0259yan\u0259t edirl\u0259r.
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\nPsixoloq\u00a0Sahil \u018fbilov\u00a0deyir ki, bu, ki\u015fil\u0259r\u0259 d\u0259 aiddir. Xan\u0131m\u0131n\u0131n x\u0259yan\u0259tind\u0259n \u015f\u00fcbh\u0259l\u0259nirs\u0259, \u00f6nc\u0259likl\u0259 buna \u0259min olmal\u0131, daha sonra onunla sakit bir t\u0259rzd\u0259 dan\u0131\u015fmal\u0131, s\u0259b\u0259bini \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259li, daha sonra q\u0259rar verm\u0259lidir:
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\n“El\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259r var ki, \u00f6zl\u0259rini ideal hesab edir v\u0259 xan\u0131mlar\u0131n\u0131n x\u0259yan\u0259tinin \u00f6zl\u0259ri il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrl\u0259r. Amma t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259m\u0259 \u0259saslanaraq bildirim ki, ist\u0259r ki\u015fi olsun, ist\u0259rs\u0259 d\u0259 qad\u0131n, x\u0259yan\u0259ti yaradan s\u0259b\u0259b ilk n\u00f6vb\u0259d\u0259 ail\u0259d\u0259 ya\u015fanan probleml\u0259rdir. \u018fks t\u0259r\u0259fin diqq\u0259tinin azald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 v\u0259 sevgisinin t\u00fck\u0259ndiyini g\u00f6r\u0259n qad\u0131n v\u0259 ya ki\u015fi xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyini k\u0259narda axtar\u0131r”.
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\nSahil \u018fbilov deyir ki, ki\u015fi d\u0259f\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 xan\u0131m\u0131na x\u0259yan\u0259t edir, amma qad\u0131n x\u0259yan\u0259t ed\u0259rs\u0259, ona \u0259n ac\u0131mas\u0131z c\u0259zan\u0131 verm\u0259y\u0259 d\u0259 haz\u0131r olur:
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\n“Biz\u0259 m\u00fcraci\u0259t ed\u0259nl\u0259ri diqq\u0259tl\u0259 dinl\u0259yirik, g\u0259r\u0259kli m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259tl\u0259ri veririk, amma pasiyentl\u0259rimiz\u0259 \u00f6z\u0259llikl\u0259 deyirik ki, x\u0259yan\u0259t alq\u0131\u015flanacaq bir h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259t deyil, ail\u0259 m\u00fcq\u0259dd\u0259s m\u0259kand\u0131r, onu kirl\u0259tm\u0259k, yad n\u0259f\u0259si oraya g\u0259tirm\u0259k do\u011fru deyil, s\u0259b\u0259bi h\u0259r n\u0259 olursa-olsun, n\u0259 qad\u0131n, n\u0259 d\u0259 ki\u015fi bunu etm\u0259m\u0259lidir”.
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\nD\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259d\u0259 x\u0259yan\u0259t
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\nEl\u0259 ail\u0259l\u0259r d\u0259 var ki, ya ki\u015fi, ya da qad\u0131n cism\u0259n olmasa da, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259 v\u0259 fikir il\u0259 d\u0259 x\u0259yan\u0259t edir. B\u0259zi psixoloqlar bunu x\u0259yan\u0259t hesab etmirl\u0259r, \u00e7\u00fcnki bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259 realda h\u0259yata ke\u00e7irilmir v\u0259 he\u00e7 kim\u0259 z\u0259r\u0259ri yoxdur.
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\nEkspertl\u0259r deyirl\u0259r ki, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259d\u0259 x\u0259yan\u0259t ed\u0259nl\u0259r ail\u0259nin t\u0259zyiqil\u0259 evl\u0259n\u0259nl\u0259r, qohum evliliyi ed\u0259nl\u0259r v\u0259 ya aralar\u0131nda ya\u015f f\u0259rqi \u00e7ox olanlard\u0131r: “Tutaq ki, valideynl\u0259rinin s\u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xmay\u0131b evl\u0259nib, amma sevgi hissi, e\u015fq yoxdur. Ola bil\u0259r ki, evlilikd\u0259n \u00f6nc\u0259, yaxud da evl\u0259ndikd\u0259n sonra \u00fcr\u0259yin\u0259 gir\u0259 bil\u0259c\u0259k birini g\u00f6r\u00fcb, vurulub. E\u015fqini kims\u0259 bilmir, he\u00e7 sevdiyi insan da. Bu c\u00fcr sevgil\u0259r b\u0259z\u0259n x\u0259yan\u0259t adland\u0131r\u0131l\u0131r, b\u0259z\u0259n yox”.
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\nPsixoloq Xatir\u0259 S\u0259f\u0259rova qeyd edir ki, bir insan n\u0259 ist\u0259diyini m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n etm\u0259s\u0259, \u00f6z emosiyalar\u0131n\u0131 n\u0259 il\u0259s\u0259 kompensasiya etm\u0259li olur: “\u0130nsan\u0131n h\u0259yatdan ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 travma v\u0259 ya m\u0259nfi hadis\u0259l\u0259r m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n vaxtdan sonra sublimasiya olunur. Bu, ola bil\u0259r, yarad\u0131c\u0131 i\u015fd\u0259, b\u00f6y\u00fck \u0259s\u0259rl\u0259r yazmaqda, idmanda v\u0259 s. hallarda sublimasiya olunsun.
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\nB\u0259z\u0259n is\u0259 insan \u00f6z i\u00e7ind\u0259 kimis\u0259 sevir v\u0259 ya b\u0259y\u0259nir. Bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259ni reall\u0131\u011fa ke\u00e7irm\u0259d\u0259n, gizlic\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131r. Bu hissl\u0259ri ya\u015fama\u011f\u0131n ad\u0131 x\u0259yan\u0259t deyil, insan\u0131n \u00f6z motivini m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259nl\u0259\u015fdirm\u0259sidir”.
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\nSosioloq: “\u018ffsuslar olsun ki, toplum olaraq o d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ri yax\u015f\u0131 qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndir\u0259 bilmirik v\u0259 ail\u0259ni zaman\u0131n h\u00f6km\u00fcn\u0259 burax\u0131r\u0131q”
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\nSosioloq\u00a0\u018fhm\u0259d Q\u0259\u015f\u0259mo\u011flu\u00a0deyir ki, x\u0259yan\u0259ti yaradan birinci s\u0259b\u0259b m\u0259n\u0259vi a\u015f\u0131nmalard\u0131r: “Bizim ata-analar\u0131m\u0131z da probleml\u0259rl\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131blar, amma ail\u0259 bu s\u0259b\u0259bd\u0259n da\u011f\u0131lmay\u0131b. \u00c7\u0259tinlik d\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fcbl\u0259r, pis g\u00fcn d\u0259, amma h\u0259r iki t\u0259r\u0259f bir-birin\u0259 s\u0259daq\u0259tli olub”.
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\nSosioloq deyir ki, insanlar Avropan\u0131 \u00f6rn\u0259k g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u0259r\u0259k milliliyi unudurlar: “Bizim b\u00fct\u00fcn d\u00fcnyada adla deyil\u0259n, h\u0259s\u0259d apar\u0131lan ail\u0259 d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rimiz vard\u0131, y\u00fcks\u0259k s\u0259viyy\u0259li ail\u0259 institutumuz vard\u0131. \u018ffsuslar olsun ki, toplum olaraq o d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ri yax\u015f\u0131 qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndir\u0259 bilmirik v\u0259 ail\u0259ni zaman\u0131n h\u00f6km\u00fcn\u0259 burax\u0131r\u0131q”.
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\n\u018fhm\u0259d Q\u0259\u015f\u0259mo\u011flu qeyd edir ki, probleml\u0259rin h\u0259lli m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr, amma g\u0259r\u0259k t\u0259\u015f\u0259bb\u00fcs g\u00f6st\u0259rilsin, ekspertl\u0259r toplans\u0131n, d\u0259rin elmi, sosioloji v\u0259 psixoloji t\u0259hlill\u0259rd\u0259n ibar\u0259t f\u0259aliyy\u0259t plan\u0131 haz\u0131rlans\u0131n. Ondan sonra bu istiqam\u0259td\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259k v\u0259 daha yax\u015f\u0131 n\u0259tic\u0259 \u0259ld\u0259 etm\u0259k m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr.
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\nLal\u0259 Mehral\u0131<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Xan\u0131mlar, n\u0259 zamansa \u015f\u00fcbh\u0259l\u0259nib h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n telefonunu “qurdalad\u0131n\u0131zm\u0131”? O yatd\u0131qdan sonra cibl\u0259rini “qar\u0131\u015fd\u0131rd\u0131n\u0131zm\u0131”? B\u0259s siz, b\u0259yl\u0259r? He\u00e7 xan\u0131m\u0131n\u0131zdan \u015f\u00fcbh\u0259 etdinizmi? \u0130\u015f\u0259 v\u0259 ya ba\u015fqa bir yer\u0259 ged\u0259nd\u0259 onu gizlic\u0259 izl\u0259dinizmi? H\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n siz\u0259 x\u0259yan\u0259t ed\u0259 bil\u0259c\u0259yini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcn\u00fczm\u00fc? Bu d\u0259f\u0259 x\u0259yan\u0259td\u0259n v\u0259 onu yaradan s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rd\u0259n b\u0259hs edirik. X\u0259yan\u0259ti yaradan s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259r n\u0259dir? Ail\u0259d\u0259 x\u0259yan\u0259ti yaradan s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259r \u00e7ox ola bil\u0259r. \u00d6nc\u0259likl\u0259, \u0259g\u0259r x\u0259yan\u0259t ba\u015f veribs\u0259, dem\u0259li, m\u00fcnasib\u0259td\u0259 bo\u015fluq var. Ara\u015fd\u0131rma yaz\u0131m\u0131zda ekspertl\u0259rin k\u00f6m\u0259yi il\u0259 siz\u0259 bu bo\u015fluqlar\u0131 yaradan probleml\u0259rd\u0259n v\u0259 onlar\u0131n qayna\u011f\u0131ndan b\u0259hs ed\u0259c\u0259yik. \u0130ngilt\u0259r\u0259d\u0259 apar\u0131lan bir t\u0259dqiqat n\u0259tic\u0259sind\u0259 m\u0259lum olub ki, evli…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":74836,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/1566495208_1566474071_69514225_400513897334588_480423148966117376_n.jpg",582,385,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/1566495208_1566474071_69514225_400513897334588_480423148966117376_n.jpg",582,385,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/1566495208_1566474071_69514225_400513897334588_480423148966117376_n.jpg",582,385,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/1566495208_1566474071_69514225_400513897334588_480423148966117376_n-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/1566495208_1566474071_69514225_400513897334588_480423148966117376_n-300x198.jpg",300,198,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/1566495208_1566474071_69514225_400513897334588_480423148966117376_n.jpg",582,385,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/1566495208_1566474071_69514225_400513897334588_480423148966117376_n.jpg",582,385,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/1566495208_1566474071_69514225_400513897334588_480423148966117376_n.jpg",582,385,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/1566495208_1566474071_69514225_400513897334588_480423148966117376_n-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/1566495208_1566474071_69514225_400513897334588_480423148966117376_n.jpg",582,385,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"Xan\u0131mlar, n\u0259 zamansa \u015f\u00fcbh\u0259l\u0259nib h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n telefonunu “qurdalad\u0131n\u0131zm\u0131”? O yatd\u0131qdan sonra cibl\u0259rini “qar\u0131\u015fd\u0131rd\u0131n\u0131zm\u0131”? B\u0259s siz, b\u0259yl\u0259r? He\u00e7 xan\u0131m\u0131n\u0131zdan \u015f\u00fcbh\u0259 etdinizmi? \u0130\u015f\u0259 v\u0259 ya ba\u015fqa bir yer\u0259 ged\u0259nd\u0259 onu gizlic\u0259 izl\u0259dinizmi? H\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n siz\u0259 x\u0259yan\u0259t ed\u0259 bil\u0259c\u0259yini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcn\u00fczm\u00fc? Bu d\u0259f\u0259 x\u0259yan\u0259td\u0259n v\u0259 onu yaradan s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rd\u0259n b\u0259hs edirik. X\u0259yan\u0259ti yaradan s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259r n\u0259dir? Ail\u0259d\u0259 x\u0259yan\u0259ti yaradan s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259r \u00e7ox…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/74835"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=74835"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/74835\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/74836"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=74835"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=74835"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=74835"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}