{"id":750853,"date":"2024-09-05T21:19:04","date_gmt":"2024-09-05T17:19:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=750853"},"modified":"2024-09-05T21:19:04","modified_gmt":"2024-09-05T17:19:04","slug":"bu-valideynl%c9%99rin-usaqlari-m%c9%99kt%c9%99bd%c9%99-problem-yasayacaq-x%c9%99b%c9%99rdarliq","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=750853","title":{"rendered":"Bu valideynl\u0259rin u\u015faqlar\u0131 m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259 problem ya\u015fayacaq – X\u018fB\u018fRDARLIQ"},"content":{"rendered":"

“M\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259 ilk d\u0259f\u0259 ged\u0259c\u0259k olan u\u015faqlar\u0131n psixoloji adaptasiyas\u0131 m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n zaman alan bir prosesdir. U\u015faqlar\u0131n \u015f\u0259xsi x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259tl\u0259ri v\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fcy\u00fc ail\u0259 m\u00fchitind\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131 olaraq bu zaman uzun v\u0259 ya q\u0131sa ola bil\u0259r. Ancaq a\u015fkard\u0131r ki, bu m\u00fcdd\u0259td\u0259 u\u015fa\u011fa \u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck d\u0259st\u0259k valideynl\u0259rd\u0259n g\u0259lm\u0259lidir. \u018fslind\u0259 valideynl\u0259r \u00f6zl\u0259ri d\u0259 ilk n\u00f6vb\u0259d\u0259 m\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259 ged\u0259n u\u015faq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn yeni m\u00fchitin d\u0259yi\u015fiklikl\u0259r g\u0259tir\u0259c\u0259yini anlamal\u0131 v\u0259 bu d\u0259yi\u015fiklikl\u0259r\u0259 uy\u011funla\u015fma zaman\u0131 s\u0259birli olmal\u0131d\u0131rlar”.<\/strong><\/p>\n

ARANTV.AZ\u00a0 <\/b>x\u0259b\u0259r verir ki, bu s\u00f6zl\u0259ri Yenisabah.az-a Nar\u0131nc Psixologiya M\u0259rk\u0259zinin “Yeniyetm\u0259 v\u0259 Yetkinl\u0259r \u00fczr\u0259 Psixodiaqnostika \u015e\u00f6b\u0259si”nin m\u00fcdiri F\u0259rid\u0259 \u015e\u0259rifova deyib.<\/p>\n

O, bildirib ki, h\u0259y\u0259canl\u0131 v\u0259 g\u0259rgin olan valideynl\u0259rin \u00f6vladlar\u0131 da m\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259 gec adaptasiya olur:<\/p>\n

“\u00c7ox zaman t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259d\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u00fck ki, \u00f6zl\u0259ri daha h\u0259y\u0259canl\u0131 v\u0259 narahat olan valideynl\u0259rin u\u015faqlar\u0131 m\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259 daha gec adaptasiya olur v\u0259 bir \u00e7ox probleml\u0259r ya\u015fay\u0131rlar. “Valideynl\u0259r “U\u015fa\u011f\u0131m m\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259\u015f\u0259 bil\u0259rmi?” v\u0259 ya “U\u011furlu olacaqm\u0131?” kimi narahatl\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fczg\u00fcn idar\u0259 ed\u0259 bilm\u0259dikd\u0259, bunu ist\u0259r a\u00e7\u0131q \u015f\u0259kild\u0259, ist\u0259rs\u0259 d\u0259 b\u0259d\u0259n dili il\u0259 u\u015fa\u011fa \u00f6t\u00fcr\u0259 bilirl\u0259r. Bu v\u0259ziyy\u0259t u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n m\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259 uy\u011funla\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u0259tinl\u0259\u015fdirir. Ail\u0259l\u0259rin t\u0259hsil oca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 yax\u015f\u0131 tan\u0131mas\u0131, beyinl\u0259rind\u0259ki suallara ayd\u0131nl\u0131q g\u0259tirm\u0259si bir s\u00f6zl\u0259 u\u015fa\u011fa g\u00fcv\u0259n \u00f6t\u00fcrm\u0259si \u00e7ox vacibdir.<\/p>\n

M\u0259kt\u0259bin ba\u015flamas\u0131 il\u0259 h\u0259m u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n, h\u0259m d\u0259 valideynl\u0259rin nizam-intizaml\u0131 olmas\u0131 laz\u0131md\u0131r. U\u015fa\u011f\u0131n g\u00fcnl\u00fck rutinl\u0259ri yarad\u0131lmal\u0131 v\u0259 ciddi \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 \u0259m\u0259l olunmal\u0131d\u0131r. M\u00fcnt\u0259z\u0259m yuxu rejimi, sabit yem\u0259k saatlar\u0131 v\u0259 ev tap\u015f\u0131r\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131n vaxt\u0131nda yerin\u0259 yetirilm\u0259si u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n m\u0259kt\u0259b h\u0259yat\u0131na daha asan uy\u011funla\u015fmas\u0131na v\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259siz hiss etm\u0259sin\u0259 k\u00f6m\u0259k edir.<\/p>\n

Daha sonra valideynl\u0259r u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n m\u0259kt\u0259bi maraql\u0131 bir yer kimi q\u0259bul etm\u0259sin\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmal\u0131d\u0131rlar. U\u015fa\u011fa m\u0259kt\u0259bin yaln\u0131z \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259k yeri deyil, h\u0259m d\u0259 yeni dostlar tapmaq v\u0259 m\u00fcxt\u0259lif maraql\u0131 f\u0259aliyy\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 i\u015ftirak etm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn imkan yaratd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ba\u015fa salmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Yax\u015f\u0131 olard\u0131 ki, u\u015faq \u0259vv\u0259lc\u0259d\u0259n m\u0259kt\u0259bl\u0259 tan\u0131\u015f edilsin, m\u00fc\u0259llimi il\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fd\u00fcr\u00fcls\u00fcn. Bu, onun bu m\u00fchit\u0259 daha rahat uy\u011funla\u015fmas\u0131na k\u00f6m\u0259k ed\u0259c\u0259k”.<\/p>\n

F.\u015e\u0259rifovan\u0131n s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, m\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259q\u0259d\u0259r haz\u0131rl\u0131q d\u0259rsl\u0259rind\u0259 i\u015ftirak etm\u0259k azya\u015fl\u0131lar\u0131n m\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259 adaptasiyas\u0131na m\u00fcsb\u0259t t\u0259sir edir:<\/p>\n

“Valideynl\u0259r u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n hissl\u0259rini anlamal\u0131 v\u0259 onun narahatl\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131 dinl\u0259m\u0259lidirl\u0259r. M\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259 ba\u015flamazdan \u0259vv\u0259l onunla a\u00e7\u0131q \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 s\u00f6hb\u0259t etm\u0259k v\u0259 h\u0259r hans\u0131 qorxular\u0131n\u0131 anlamaq vacibdir. Bu prosesd\u0259 u\u015fa\u011fa d\u0259st\u0259k verm\u0259k, onu arxay\u0131nla\u015fd\u0131rmaq v\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 g\u00fcv\u0259nini art\u0131rmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Bizim t\u0259hsil sistemimizd\u0259 m\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259q\u0259d\u0259r haz\u0131rl\u0131q sinifl\u0259rinin yarad\u0131lmas\u0131 \u0259slind\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131n bu c\u00fcr psixoloji haz\u0131rl\u0131q prosesin\u0259 \u00e7ox m\u00fcsb\u0259t t\u0259sir etib Art\u0131q 1-ci sinf\u0259 ba\u015flad\u0131qlar\u0131nda onlar\u0131 n\u0259yin g\u00f6zl\u0259diyini bilir v\u0259 dem\u0259k olar ki, bu probleml\u0259rin \u00e7oxunu a\u015fm\u0131\u015f olurlar.<\/p>\n

\u015eagirdin m\u0259kt\u0259b h\u0259yat\u0131na tez uy\u011funla\u015fmas\u0131na hans\u0131 amill\u0259r t\u0259sir edir?<\/p>\n

Qeyd etdiyimiz kimi \u0259n \u00f6n\u0259li n\u00fcans valideynl\u0259rin d\u0259st\u0259yidir. Valideynl\u0259r u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n hissl\u0259rini diqq\u0259tl\u0259 dinl\u0259m\u0259li v\u0259 onunla m\u0259kt\u0259b haqq\u0131nda a\u00e7\u0131q v\u0259 s\u0259mimi s\u00f6hb\u0259tl\u0259r aparmal\u0131d\u0131rlar. M\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259n sonra onun g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fcn nec\u0259 ke\u00e7diyi il\u0259 maraqlanmaq v\u0259 ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00e7\u0259tinlikl\u0259ri anlamaq u\u015fa\u011fa m\u0259n\u0259vi d\u0259st\u0259k verir, bu da onun m\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259 daha tez uy\u011funla\u015fmas\u0131na k\u00f6m\u0259k edir.<\/p>\n

Ikinci \u0259n \u00f6n\u0259li n\u00fcans m\u0259kt\u0259b m\u00fchiti v\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259lliml\u0259rin \u015fagird\u0259 yana\u015fma m\u00f6vqeyidir. M\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259 yarad\u0131lan m\u00fchitin m\u00fcsb\u0259t v\u0259 d\u0259st\u0259kl\u0259yici olmas\u0131 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n m\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259 uy\u011funla\u015fmas\u0131nda m\u00fch\u00fcm rol oynay\u0131r. M\u00fc\u0259lliml\u0259rin \u015fagird\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259ti, onlar\u0131n d\u0259rs prosesind\u0259 aktiv i\u015ftirak\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259\u015fviq etm\u0259si v\u0259 \u00f6zl\u0259rini t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259siz hiss etm\u0259l\u0259rin\u0259 k\u00f6m\u0259k etm\u0259si y\u0259ni, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n m\u00fc\u0259llim\u0259sin\u0259 g\u00fcv\u0259nm\u0259si v\u0259 xo\u015f aura almas\u0131 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n m\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259 daha tez al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131na s\u0259b\u0259b olur. M\u00fc\u0259lliml\u0259rin u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n f\u0259rdi x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259tl\u0259rini n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 alaraq ona f\u0259rdi yana\u015fmas\u0131 da uy\u011funla\u015fma prosesini s\u00fcr\u0259tl\u0259ndirir.<\/p>\n

Daha sonra \u015fagirdin ya\u015f\u0131dlar\u0131 il\u0259 qurdu\u011fu dostluq m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259ri d\u0259 m\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259 uy\u011funla\u015fmada m\u00fch\u00fcm \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259t k\u0259sb edir. U\u015faqlar m\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259 ba\u015flad\u0131qda yeni dostlar tapmaq v\u0259 sosial \u0259laq\u0259l\u0259r qurmaq ist\u0259yirl\u0259r. Bu sosial \u0259laq\u0259l\u0259r u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc rahat hiss etm\u0259sin\u0259 v\u0259 m\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 m\u00fcsb\u0259t m\u00fcnasib\u0259t formala\u015fd\u0131rmas\u0131na k\u00f6m\u0259k edir. Valideynl\u0259r u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n sinif yolda\u015flar\u0131 il\u0259 \u0259laq\u0259l\u0259rini g\u00fccl\u0259ndirm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn onun dostlar\u0131 il\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fm\u0259sin\u0259 \u015f\u0259rait yaratmal\u0131d\u0131rlar. Eyni zamanda m\u00fc\u0259llim\u0259l\u0259rin d\u0259 bu prosesd\u0259 aktiv olmas\u0131 \u00e7ox \u00f6n\u0259mlidir. \u00d6z\u00fcn\u0259qapan\u0131q, \u00e7\u0259tin \u00fcnsiyy\u0259t\u0259 gir\u0259n u\u015faqlar\u0131 m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n edib onlar\u0131 sosialla\u015fma prosesin\u0259 c\u0259lb etm\u0259y\u0259 t\u0259\u015ffiq etm\u0259lidirl\u0259r. \u00dcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259 t\u0259hsil h\u0259yat\u0131 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 bu v\u0259 dig\u0259r m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 valideyn-m\u00fc\u0259llim birliyinin m\u00f6hk\u0259m v\u0259 s\u00fcr\u0259tli olmas\u0131 \u00e7ox vacibdir”.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

“M\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259 ilk d\u0259f\u0259 ged\u0259c\u0259k olan u\u015faqlar\u0131n psixoloji adaptasiyas\u0131 m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n zaman alan bir prosesdir. U\u015faqlar\u0131n \u015f\u0259xsi x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259tl\u0259ri v\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fcy\u00fc ail\u0259 m\u00fchitind\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131 olaraq bu zaman uzun v\u0259 ya q\u0131sa ola bil\u0259r. Ancaq a\u015fkard\u0131r ki, bu m\u00fcdd\u0259td\u0259 u\u015fa\u011fa \u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck d\u0259st\u0259k valideynl\u0259rd\u0259n g\u0259lm\u0259lidir. \u018fslind\u0259 valideynl\u0259r \u00f6zl\u0259ri d\u0259 ilk n\u00f6vb\u0259d\u0259 m\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259 ged\u0259n u\u015faq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn yeni m\u00fchitin d\u0259yi\u015fiklikl\u0259r g\u0259tir\u0259c\u0259yini anlamal\u0131 v\u0259 bu d\u0259yi\u015fiklikl\u0259r\u0259 uy\u011funla\u015fma zaman\u0131 s\u0259birli olmal\u0131d\u0131rlar”. ARANTV.AZ\u00a0 x\u0259b\u0259r verir ki, bu s\u00f6zl\u0259ri Yenisabah.az-a Nar\u0131nc Psixologiya M\u0259rk\u0259zinin “Yeniyetm\u0259 v\u0259 Yetkinl\u0259r \u00fczr\u0259 Psixodiaqnostika \u015e\u00f6b\u0259si”nin m\u00fcdiri F\u0259rid\u0259 \u015e\u0259rifova deyib. O, bildirib ki, h\u0259y\u0259canl\u0131 v\u0259 g\u0259rgin olan…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":750854,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[23],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/fc7f2ddb9118dacea9be4a8b0d66f275.jpg",870,500,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/fc7f2ddb9118dacea9be4a8b0d66f275.jpg",870,500,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/fc7f2ddb9118dacea9be4a8b0d66f275.jpg",870,500,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/fc7f2ddb9118dacea9be4a8b0d66f275-500x280.jpg",500,280,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/fc7f2ddb9118dacea9be4a8b0d66f275-635x365.jpg",635,365,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/fc7f2ddb9118dacea9be4a8b0d66f275-840x483.jpg",640,368,true],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/fc7f2ddb9118dacea9be4a8b0d66f275.jpg",870,500,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/fc7f2ddb9118dacea9be4a8b0d66f275.jpg",870,500,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/fc7f2ddb9118dacea9be4a8b0d66f275-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/fc7f2ddb9118dacea9be4a8b0d66f275.jpg",870,500,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"T\u0259hsil<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"“M\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259 ilk d\u0259f\u0259 ged\u0259c\u0259k olan u\u015faqlar\u0131n psixoloji adaptasiyas\u0131 m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n zaman alan bir prosesdir. U\u015faqlar\u0131n \u015f\u0259xsi x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259tl\u0259ri v\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fcy\u00fc ail\u0259 m\u00fchitind\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131 olaraq bu zaman uzun v\u0259 ya q\u0131sa ola bil\u0259r. Ancaq a\u015fkard\u0131r ki, bu m\u00fcdd\u0259td\u0259 u\u015fa\u011fa \u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck d\u0259st\u0259k valideynl\u0259rd\u0259n g\u0259lm\u0259lidir. \u018fslind\u0259 valideynl\u0259r \u00f6zl\u0259ri d\u0259 ilk n\u00f6vb\u0259d\u0259 m\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259 ged\u0259n u\u015faq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn yeni m\u00fchitin d\u0259yi\u015fiklikl\u0259r g\u0259tir\u0259c\u0259yini…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/750853"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=750853"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/750853\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":750855,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/750853\/revisions\/750855"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/750854"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=750853"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=750853"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=750853"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}