“\u0130nsan h\u0259yat\u0131nda ya\u015fad\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131n n\u0259tic\u0259sind\u0259n ir\u0259li g\u0259l\u0259r\u0259k h\u0259r hans\u0131 bir m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259d\u0259 q\u0259rar verir. Qad\u0131n var ki, x\u0259yan\u0259t prosesind\u0259 \u00e7ox al\u00e7ald\u0131l\u0131r v\u0259 bu al\u00e7ald\u0131lma onda olan eqaizmin qidalanmas\u0131na s\u0259b\u0259b yarad\u0131r. Burda is\u0259 iki problem \u0259sas g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcl\u00fcr, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 g\u00fcv\u0259nsizlik v\u0259 irad\u0259sizlik.<\/p>\n
![\"X\u0259yan\u0259t](\"https:\/\/upload.az\/foto\/arxiv\/ferqane.PNG\")
Bu c\u00fcr qad\u0131nlar evli ki\u015fi il\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259t quranda daxilind\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fc-\u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 t\u0259s\u0259lli ver\u0259r\u0259k m\u0259n yax\u015f\u0131yam ki, bu adam m\u0259niml\u0259 birlikdedir deyir. Ke\u00e7mi\u015f \u0259ri t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n ona qar\u015f\u0131 edil\u0259n al\u00e7ald\u0131c\u0131 m\u00fcnasib\u0259ti, h\u0259yat\u0131na daxil oldu\u011fu evli ki\u015finin sevgisi il\u0259 basd\u0131r\u0131r. Bel\u0259likl\u0259, o \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 olan g\u00fcv\u0259ni b\u0259rpa edir, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc qad\u0131n kimi hiss edir. Qad\u0131n\u0131n ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bu problemin g\u00fcnah\u0131 \u0259slind\u0259 onun ke\u00e7mi\u015f h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131ndad\u0131r. Bu psixoloji v\u0259ziyy\u0259tin fonunda qad\u0131n\u0131n evli bir ki\u015fi il\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259ti ba\u015flay\u0131r.<\/p>\n
G\u0259lin m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259y\u0259 daha ba\u015fqa bir y\u00f6nd\u0259n baxaq. Qad\u0131n evli ki\u015fiy\u0259 a\u015f\u0131q ola bil\u0259r. \u00c7\u00fcnki atalar\u0131m\u0131z deyib ki, qad\u0131n n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r a\u011f\u0131ll\u0131 olsa da, a\u015fiq oldu\u011fu zaman g\u00f6zl\u0259ri kor olur. Bu v\u0259ziyy\u0259td\u0259 qad\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131nda olan ki\u015fini \u00e7ox sevdiyind\u0259n onu itirm\u0259m\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015fm\u0259y\u0259 haz\u0131rd\u0131r.<\/p>\n
![\"X\u0259yan\u0259t](\"https:\/\/upload.az\/foto\/arxiv\/xeyanet_iki.PNG\")
F\u0259rqan\u0259 Mehmanq\u0131z\u0131 qeyd etdi ki, 3-c\u00fc bir t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259n m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259y\u0259 n\u0259z\u0259r yetirdikd\u0259 bel\u0259 bir m\u0259zn\u0259r\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fcr ki, qad\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131nda bir ki\u015finin olmas\u0131n\u0131 ist\u0259yir. Onun evli olub, ya olmamas\u0131 f\u0259rq etmir:<\/p>\n
“Bu g\u00fcn t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcfl\u0259r olsun ki, el\u0259 ail\u0259l\u0259r var ki, orda qad\u0131n v\u0259 ki\u015fi \u0259r-arvad deyil, u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131n travma almamas\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn dost kimi birg\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131rlar. Bel\u0259 ail\u0259li ki\u015fil\u0259rl\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259td\u0259 olan qad\u0131nlar da var. Onlar bu v\u0259ziyy\u0259td\u0259n x\u0259b\u0259rdard\u0131r. V\u0259 art\u0131q q\u0259bul edib.<\/p>\n
Evli \u015fikil\u0259rl\u0259 h\u0259yat s\u00fcr\u0259n qad\u0131nlarla birg\u0259 evli qad\u0131nlarla b\u0259rab\u0259r olan ki\u015fil\u0259ri d\u0259 bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259d\u0259 unutmamal\u0131y\u0131q. Onlar\u0131n da psixoloji v\u0259ziyy\u0259ti ara\u015fd\u0131r\u0131lacaq m\u00f6vzudur. B\u0259s ki\u015fil\u0259r hans\u0131 s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259 evli qad\u0131nlarla \u00fcnsiyy\u0259t qoruyub, daxili eqoiziml\u0259rini qidaland\u0131rma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar? Bu c\u00fcr qeyri-leqal m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 \u0259sas olan qad\u0131n v\u0259 ya ki\u015fi yox, insan faktorudur.<\/p>\n
H\u0259r bir insan\u0131n \u00f6z qaydalar\u0131 v\u0259 prinsipl\u0259ri var. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u0259m ki, bu i\u015fin k\u00f6k\u00fcnd\u0259 insan\u0131n sevilm\u0259 arzusu, d\u0259y\u0259r g\u00f6rm\u0259 ist\u0259yi, \u0259n \u0259sas da daxili eqoizmini qidaland\u0131rmaq dayan\u0131r. \u0130nsanlar bu c\u00fcr m\u00fcnasib\u0259t quraraq ruhi sa\u011flaml\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131 qoruma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar”.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Ail\u0259, nigah m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259ri bir qad\u0131n v\u0259 bir ki\u015finin k\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fcolaraq birg\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131\u015fa raz\u0131l\u0131q verm\u0259si v\u0259 v\u0259fa, s\u0259daq\u0259t and\u0131 i\u00e7m\u0259si il\u0259 ba\u015flar. Ail\u0259d\u0259 x\u0259yan\u0259t \u00e7ox ciddi psixoloji travma yaradaraq ail\u0259nin da\u011f\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131 \u015f\u0259rtl\u0259ndir\u0259n bir problemdir. B\u0259s x\u0259yan\u0259t \u00fcst\u00fcnd\u0259 bo\u015fanan qad\u0131n niy\u0259 sonradan evli ki\u015fi il\u0259 b\u0259rab\u0259r olur? M\u00f6vzu il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131\u00a0BiG.AZ-a dan\u0131\u015fan psixoloq F\u0259rqan\u0259 Mehmanq\u0131z\u0131 bildirdi ki, bu \u0259slind\u0259 geni\u015f v\u0259 \u00e7ox diqq\u0259t t\u0259l\u0259b ed\u0259n m\u00f6vzudur. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259nin k\u00f6k\u00fcnd\u0259 duran s\u0259b\u0259b insan\u0131n ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 travmayla ya da onun xarakteri il\u0259 \u0259laq\u0259lidir: “\u0130nsan h\u0259yat\u0131nda ya\u015fad\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131n n\u0259tic\u0259sind\u0259n ir\u0259li g\u0259l\u0259r\u0259k h\u0259r hans\u0131 bir m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259d\u0259 q\u0259rar verir. Qad\u0131n var ki,…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":758049,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/xeyanet_1.png",407,219,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/xeyanet_1.png",407,219,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/xeyanet_1.png",407,219,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/xeyanet_1.png",407,219,false],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/xeyanet_1.png",407,219,false],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/xeyanet_1.png",407,219,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/xeyanet_1.png",407,219,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/xeyanet_1.png",407,219,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/xeyanet_1-240x172.png",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/xeyanet_1.png",407,219,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"Ail\u0259, nigah m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259ri bir qad\u0131n v\u0259 bir ki\u015finin k\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fcolaraq birg\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131\u015fa raz\u0131l\u0131q verm\u0259si v\u0259 v\u0259fa, s\u0259daq\u0259t and\u0131 i\u00e7m\u0259si il\u0259 ba\u015flar. Ail\u0259d\u0259 x\u0259yan\u0259t \u00e7ox ciddi psixoloji travma yaradaraq ail\u0259nin da\u011f\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131 \u015f\u0259rtl\u0259ndir\u0259n bir problemdir. B\u0259s x\u0259yan\u0259t \u00fcst\u00fcnd\u0259 bo\u015fanan qad\u0131n niy\u0259 sonradan evli ki\u015fi il\u0259 b\u0259rab\u0259r olur? M\u00f6vzu il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131\u00a0BiG.AZ-a dan\u0131\u015fan psixoloq F\u0259rqan\u0259 Mehmanq\u0131z\u0131 bildirdi ki, bu \u0259slind\u0259…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/758048"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=758048"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/758048\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":758050,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/758048\/revisions\/758050"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/758049"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=758048"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=758048"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=758048"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}