{"id":758192,"date":"2024-10-03T10:10:32","date_gmt":"2024-10-03T06:10:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=758192"},"modified":"2024-10-03T10:10:32","modified_gmt":"2024-10-03T06:10:32","slug":"daim-doyul%c9%99n-usaq-g%c9%99l%c9%99c%c9%99kd%c9%99-manyak-ola-bil%c9%99r","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=758192","title":{"rendered":"Daim d\u00f6y\u00fcl\u0259n u\u015faq g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 manyak ola bil\u0259r"},"content":{"rendered":"

Valideynl\u0259rin \u201cu\u015faq d\u00f6y\u00fclm\u0259lidir\u201d tezisi hans\u0131 f\u0259sadlara s\u0259b\u0259b olur?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Yeni d\u0259rs ilinin ba\u015flanmas\u0131 il\u0259 yenid\u0259n u\u015faqlar\u0131n d\u00f6y\u00fclm\u0259si m\u00f6vzusu aktualla\u015f\u0131b. B\u0259li, m\u0259kt\u0259bl\u0259rd\u0259 d\u0259c\u0259l v\u0259 ip\u0259-sapa yatmayan u\u015faqlarla ba\u011fl\u0131 zaman-zaman c\u0259za metodlar\u0131 fiziki \u015fidd\u0259tl\u0259 m\u00fc\u015fayi\u0259t olunur. Valideynl\u0259r d\u0259 zaman-zaman bu v\u0259ziyy\u0259td\u0259n naraz\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcnm\u00fcrl\u0259r: \u201c\u0259ti s\u0259nin, s\u00fcm\u00fcy\u00fc m\u0259nim\u201d deyib, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131 m\u00fc\u0259llimin insaf\u0131na buraxan analar\u0131n say\u0131 az deyil. \u201cS\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u0259 baxm\u0131rsa, vurun!\u201d – azm\u0131 e\u015fitmi\u015fik bel\u0259 valideyn \u201cxeyir-duas\u0131n\u0131\u201d?<\/em><\/p>\n

\u018fslind\u0259 is\u0259 qanunvericilik d\u0259, psixologiya da bu bar\u0259d\u0259 f\u0259rqli tezisl\u0259r ortaya qoyur. Statistikaya g\u00f6r\u0259, d\u00fcnyada 14 ya\u015f\u0131na q\u0259d\u0259r 2,5 milyon h\u0259ddi-bulu\u011fa \u00e7atmam\u0131\u015f u\u015faq valideyni t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n d\u00f6y\u00fcl\u00fcr. S\u0259rt r\u0259ftardan xilas olmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn 50 mind\u0259n \u00e7ox u\u015faq h\u0259r il evd\u0259n qa\u00e7\u0131r. M\u0259i\u015f\u0259t zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131na m\u0259ruz qalan u\u015faqlar\u0131n say\u0131 50 faizi ke\u00e7ib. M\u0259i\u015f\u0259t z\u0259minind\u0259 ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 ba\u015f ver\u0259n cinay\u0259tl\u0259rin 30-40 faizi u\u015faqlarla ba\u011fl\u0131 olur. Azya\u015fl\u0131lara qar\u015f\u0131 t\u00f6r\u0259dil\u0259n m\u0259n\u0259vi v\u0259 fiziki zorak\u0131l\u0131q ail\u0259 \u00e7\u0259r\u00e7iv\u0259sind\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xaraq c\u0259miyy\u0259tin m\u00fcxt\u0259lif sferalar\u0131n\u0131 \u0259hat\u0259 etm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131b. Bir \u00e7ox valideynl\u0259rin inadla \u201cu\u015faqlar\u0131n \u00f6zl\u0259ri zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n yaranmas\u0131na s\u0259b\u0259b olur\u201d dem\u0259sin\u0259 baxmayaraq, qanun b\u00fct\u00fcn hallarda valideyni m\u0259suliyy\u0259t qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131na \u00e7\u0259kir. V\u0259 n\u0259tic\u0259 etibaril\u0259 bu g\u00fcn d\u00f6y\u00fcl\u0259n u\u015faq sabah d\u00f6y\u0259n valideyn, bac\u0131 v\u0259 qarda\u015f olur. \u015eidd\u0259t domino effekti il\u0259 yay\u0131l\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Maraql\u0131d\u0131r, d\u00fcnya \u00f6lk\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259 v\u0259ziyy\u0259t nec\u0259dir? M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, Pol\u015fada u\u015faqlar\u0131n d\u00f6y\u00fcl\u0259r\u0259k t\u0259rbiy\u0259 edilm\u0259si qada\u011fan edilib. \u00d6lk\u0259d\u0259 “Ail\u0259d\u0259 zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011fa qar\u015f\u0131 m\u00fcbariz\u0259 haqq\u0131nda” qanuna yeni \u0259lav\u0259l\u0259r bu g\u00fcnd\u0259n q\u00fcvv\u0259y\u0259 minib. Yeni \u0259lav\u0259l\u0259r u\u015faqlara i\u015fg\u0259nc\u0259l\u0259rin verilm\u0259sini, habel\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131n m\u0259n\u0259vi c\u0259h\u0259td\u0259n al\u00e7ald\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131 qada\u011fan edir. Bu norma pozuldu\u011fu halda, polisin i\u015ftirak\u0131 il\u0259 sosial xidm\u0259t \u0259m\u0259kda\u015flar\u0131 u\u015faqlar\u0131 ail\u0259d\u0259n ala bil\u0259r v\u0259 m\u0259hk\u0259m\u0259l\u0259r 24 saat \u0259rzind\u0259 q\u0259ddar valideynl\u0259ri bu h\u00fcquqlar\u0131ndan m\u0259hrum ed\u0259 bil\u0259r.<\/p>\n

Yeni \u0259lav\u0259l\u0259rin m\u00fczakir\u0259si zaman\u0131 bir \u00e7ox valideynl\u0259r bildiribl\u0259r ki, onlar u\u015faqlar\u0131n d\u00f6y\u00fclm\u0259d\u0259n t\u0259rbiy\u0259 edilm\u0259sini t\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcr ed\u0259 bilmirl\u0259r. Bu iddian\u0131 r\u0259dd ed\u0259n sosial xidm\u0259t \u0259m\u0259kda\u015flar\u0131 bildirirl\u0259r ki, u\u015faqlar\u0131n d\u00fczg\u00fcn t\u0259rbiy\u0259si \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn onlara da b\u00f6y\u00fckl\u0259r kimi h\u00f6rm\u0259t qoyulmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Bu arada ekspertl\u0259r bildirirl\u0259r ki, \u0259slind\u0259 Az\u0259rbaycanda u\u015faqlar daha \u00e7ox internat m\u00fc\u0259ssis\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259 d\u00f6y\u00fcl\u00fcrl\u0259r. Burada onlara adi h\u0259mya\u015f\u0131dlar\u0131ndan f\u0259rqli m\u00fcnasib\u0259t g\u00f6st\u0259rilir. Buna s\u0259b\u0259b h\u0259min u\u015faqlara sahibsiz, kims\u0259siz kimi bax\u0131lmas\u0131d\u0131r. Psixoloqlar\u0131n fikrinc\u0259, u\u015faqlara qar\u015f\u0131 fiziki t\u0259zyiq g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259n \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259rin iki \u0259sas s\u0259b\u0259bi var. Bunlardan biri onlar\u0131n da u\u015faq vaxt\u0131 fiziki travma g\u00f6rm\u0259sidir. Dig\u0259r s\u0259b\u0259b is\u0259 z\u0259if \u0259s\u0259bl\u0259r, d\u00f6z\u00fcms\u00fczl\u00fckd\u00fcr. M\u00fcnt\u0259z\u0259m olaraq fiziki \u015fidd\u0259t g\u00f6r\u0259n u\u015faqda is\u0259 aqressiyan\u0131n d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259si y\u00fcks\u0259k olur. Ekspertl\u0259r hesab edir ki, bir \u00e7ox cinay\u0259tkarlar, serial qatill\u0259rin h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131 ara\u015fd\u0131randa onlar\u0131n u\u015faql\u0131q travmas\u0131n\u0131n qurban\u0131 oldu\u011fu \u00fcz\u0259 \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r: \u201c<\/p>\n

U\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00f6y\u0259n valideyni nec\u0259 c\u0259rim\u0259l\u0259yirl\u0259r?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Cinay\u0259t M\u0259c\u0259ll\u0259si \u00f6z u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00f6y\u0259n valideyn\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 ittiham qald\u0131rma\u011fa imkan verir.\u00a0 U\u015fa\u011f\u0131n dig\u0259r valideyni v\u0259 ya q\u0259yyumu Cinay\u0259t M\u0259c\u0259ll\u0259sinin 132-ci madd\u0259sin\u0259 \u0259sas\u0259n ittiham qald\u0131r\u0131b \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131 d\u00f6y\u0259n valideyni cinay\u0259t m\u0259suliyy\u0259tin\u0259 c\u0259lb ed\u0259 bil\u0259r. Bu halda valideyn 200 manat c\u0259rim\u0259, 240 saat ictimai v\u0259 1 il islah i\u015fl\u0259ri v\u0259 ya 6 aya q\u0259d\u0259r h\u0259bs c\u0259zas\u0131 ala bil\u0259r. Qanunda konkret olaraq d\u00f6ym\u0259 fakt\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bu c\u00fcr c\u0259za t\u0259tbiq olunur.<\/p>\n

D\u00f6ym\u0259 fakt\u0131 sa\u011flaml\u0131\u011fa z\u0259r\u0259r vurma\u011f\u0131n \u00fc\u00e7 n\u00f6v\u00fcn\u0259 (y\u00fcng\u00fcl, az a\u011f\u0131r v\u0259 a\u011f\u0131r) aid deyil. D\u00f6y\u00fcl\u0259n u\u015faqlar evi olan halda valideynl\u0259rin evind\u0259, ya da u\u015faq himay\u0259sind\u0259n m\u0259hrum olan u\u015faqlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn x\u00fcsusi m\u0259rk\u0259zd\u0259 yerl\u0259\u015fdirilm\u0259lidir.<\/p>\n

Amma bu halda u\u015faqlar yaz\u0131l\u0131 halda \u015fikay\u0259tl\u0259r d\u0259 verm\u0259lidir. Cinay\u0259t M\u0259c\u0259ll\u0259sinin 126-c\u0131 madd\u0259si ictimai ittiham \u0259sas\u0131nda \u015fikay\u0259tin m\u00f6vcudlu\u011funu qeyd\u0259 al\u0131r. Bu ittiham lap a\u011f\u0131r z\u0259rb\u0259l\u0259r yetiril\u0259n zaman u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n k\u00f6m\u0259ksiz v\u0259ziyy\u0259td\u0259 olmas\u0131ndan dolay\u0131 qald\u0131r\u0131la bil\u0259r. \u0130ttiham bu zaman prokuror t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n d\u0259 qald\u0131r\u0131la bil\u0259r.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Daha bir h\u00fcquqi detal. Ail\u0259 M\u0259c\u0259ll\u0259sinin 51-ci madd\u0259sind\u0259 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n m\u00fcdafi\u0259 h\u00fcququ bar\u0259d\u0259 b\u0259ndd\u0259 g\u00f6st\u0259rilir ki, u\u015faq \u00f6z h\u00fcquqlar\u0131n\u0131n v\u0259 qanuni m\u0259nafel\u0259rinin m\u00fcdafi\u0259si h\u00fcququna malikdir. Bundan \u0259lav\u0259, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n h\u00fcquqlar\u0131n\u0131n v\u0259 qanuni m\u0259nafel\u0259rinin m\u00fcdafi\u0259si valideynl\u0259r (onlar\u0131 \u0259v\u0259z ed\u0259n \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259r), bu m\u0259c\u0259ll\u0259 il\u0259 n\u0259z\u0259rd\u0259 tutulmu\u015f hallarda is\u0259 m\u00fcvafiq icra hakimiyy\u0259ti orqan\u0131 v\u0259 m\u0259hk\u0259m\u0259 t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n h\u0259yata ke\u00e7irilir. U\u015fa\u011f\u0131n h\u00fcquqlar\u0131 v\u0259 qanuni m\u0259nafel\u0259ri pozulduqda, o c\u00fcml\u0259d\u0259n valideynl\u0259ri (onlardan biri) u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n t\u0259hsili, t\u0259rbiy\u0259si \u00fczr\u0259 v\u0259zif\u0259l\u0259rini yerin\u0259 yetirm\u0259dikd\u0259 v\u0259 ya valideynlik h\u00fcquqlar\u0131ndan sui-istifad\u0259 etdikd\u0259, u\u015faq \u00f6z h\u00fcquqlar\u0131n\u0131 qorumaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn m\u00fcvafiq icra hakimiyy\u0259ti orqan\u0131na, 14 ya\u015f\u0131na \u00e7atd\u0131qda is\u0259 m\u0259hk\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 m\u00fcraci\u0259t etm\u0259k h\u00fcququna malikdir. M\u0259c\u0259ll\u0259nin 56-c\u0131 madd\u0259sin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, valideynl\u0259r \u00f6z u\u015faqlar\u0131 bar\u0259sind\u0259 b\u0259rab\u0259r h\u00fcquq v\u0259 v\u0259zif\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 malikdirl\u0259r. Ail\u0259 M\u0259c\u0259ll\u0259sinin 58-ci madd\u0259sind\u0259 is\u0259 valideynl\u0259rin u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259rbiy\u0259 etm\u0259k h\u00fcququna malik olmalar\u0131 v\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259rbiy\u0259 etm\u0259y\u0259 borclu olmalar\u0131 t\u0259sbit olunub. Valideynlik h\u00fcquqlar\u0131n\u0131 h\u0259yata ke\u00e7ir\u0259rk\u0259n u\u015faqlar\u0131n h\u00fcquq v\u0259 m\u0259nafel\u0259rin\u0259 ziyan vuran valideynl\u0259r qanunvericilikl\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n olunmu\u015f qaydada m\u0259suliyy\u0259t da\u015f\u0131y\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n

M\u0259i\u015f\u0259t zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n u\u015faqlarda yaratd\u0131\u011f\u0131 f\u0259sadlarla ba\u011fl\u0131 ara\u015fd\u0131rma aparan London Universiteti v\u0259 Anna Fred adl\u0131 m\u0259rk\u0259zin aliml\u0259rinin g\u0259ldikl\u0259ri n\u0259tic\u0259y\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, m\u0259i\u015f\u0259t zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n u\u015faqlar\u0131n beynind\u0259 yaratd\u0131\u011f\u0131 f\u0259sadlar il\u0259 m\u00fcharib\u0259d\u0259 i\u015ftirak ed\u0259n \u0259sg\u0259rl\u0259rin beynind\u0259 yaranan f\u0259sadlar eyni t\u0259sir\u0259 malikdir. Bel\u0259 ki, ill\u0259r ke\u00e7s\u0259 d\u0259 m\u0259i\u015f\u0259t zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n qurban\u0131 olan u\u015faqlar\u0131n beynind\u0259 v\u0259 el\u0259c\u0259 d\u0259 m\u00fcharib\u0259d\u0259 i\u015ftirak etmi\u015f \u0259sg\u0259rl\u0259rin beynind\u0259 potensial t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259y\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 patoloji haz\u0131rl\u0131q hissi saxlan\u0131l\u0131r. Aliml\u0259r s\u00fcbut etm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar ki, m\u0259hz bu c\u00fcr u\u015faqlarda yetkinlik d\u00f6vr\u00fcn\u0259 \u00e7atark\u0259n m\u00fcxt\u0259lif psixi x\u0259st\u0259likl\u0259r, depressiv hallar, nevrozlar m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 olunur.<\/p>\n

Psxioloqlar s\u00fcbut edib ki, \u015fidd\u0259t\u0259 m\u0259ruz qalan bir u\u015faq bir d\u0259f\u0259 v\u0259 ya d\u0259f\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f olanlara m\u00fcxt\u0259lif yollarla cavab ver\u0259 bil\u0259r. \u00dcst\u0259lik, sad\u0259c\u0259, bunlara m\u0259ruz qalmalar\u0131 deyil, h\u0259m d\u0259 bu g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcl\u0259r\u0259 \u015fahidlik etm\u0259l\u0259ri kifay\u0259tdir. \u015eidd\u0259t u\u015faqlara pis t\u0259sir g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259 bil\u0259r. \u015eidd\u0259t\u0259 m\u0259ruz qalan u\u015faqlarda hadis\u0259d\u0259n sonra u\u015faqdan-u\u015fa\u011fa f\u0259rqli olaraq bunlar g\u00f6zl\u0259nilir:<\/p>\n

– Dala\u015fqan v\u0259 \u0259s\u0259bi davran\u0131\u015flar s\u0259rgil\u0259y\u0259 bil\u0259r;<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 – \u00d6z\u00fcn\u0259 qapanar v\u0259 he\u00e7 bir \u015fey\u0259 reaksiya verm\u0259zl\u0259r;<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 – Yuxu probleml\u0259ri v\u0259 izah el\u0259y\u0259 bilm\u0259dikl\u0259ri qorxulu yuxular g\u00f6r\u0259 bil\u0259rl\u0259r;<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 – Davaml\u0131 diqq\u0259tl\u0259ri da\u011f\u0131n\u0131q v\u0259 narahatd\u0131rlar;<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Sanki hadis\u0259ni t\u0259krar-t\u0259krar ya\u015f\u0131y\u0131rm\u0131\u015f kimi davrana bil\u0259rl\u0259r v\u0259 bu hadis\u0259 il\u0259 \u0259laq\u0259li hadis\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131la\u015fd\u0131qlar\u0131nda s\u0131x psixoloji narahatl\u0131q ya\u015fay\u0131rlar, h\u0259ddind\u0259n art\u0131q fizioloji reaksiyalar g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259 bil\u0259rl\u0259r;<\/p>\n

– M\u00f6vzu il\u0259 \u0259laq\u0259li insanlardan uzaq durma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar;<\/p>\n

– Hadis\u0259nin \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259tli bir hiss\u0259sini yaddan \u00e7\u0131xarma\u011fa, \u0259trafa olan maraqlar\u0131n\u0131n azalmas\u0131, emosiyalar\u0131n\u0131n ifad\u0259 olunmas\u0131nda m\u0259hdudiyy\u0259t, \u0259trafdan uzaqla\u015fma kimi davran\u0131\u015flar s\u0259rgil\u0259y\u0259 bil\u0259rl\u0259r;<\/p>\n

– U\u015faqda \u015fidd\u0259t onu b\u0259db\u0259xt g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259 bil\u0259r;<\/p>\n

– Oyunlar\u0131nda ya\u015fad\u0131qlar\u0131 hadis\u0259ni t\u0259krar-t\u0259krar\u00a0 canland\u0131ra bil\u0259rl\u0259r.<\/p>\n

Bu \u015fikay\u0259tl\u0259r aylar sonra v\u0259 ya bir ne\u00e7\u0259 aydan sonra ba\u015f ver\u0259 bil\u0259rl\u0259r.<\/p>\n

\u015eidd\u0259t\u0259 m\u0259ruz qalan u\u015faqlara nec\u0259 k\u00f6m\u0259k edil\u0259 bil\u0259r?<\/p>\n

Bu c\u00fcr u\u015faqlara sosial d\u0259st\u0259k \u00e7ox vacibdir. \u015eidd\u0259t\u0259 m\u0259ruz qalan u\u015faqlar ya\u015flar\u0131na uy\u011fun psixoterapiya almal\u0131, laz\u0131m olarsa, d\u0259rman m\u00fcalic\u0259si d\u0259st\u0259kl\u0259nm\u0259lidir. M\u00fcalic\u0259 edilm\u0259mi\u015f u\u015faqlar\u0131n b\u00f6y\u00fck \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259ti, h\u0259tta h\u0259yat\u0131nda bir zamanda h\u0259yatlar\u0131n\u0131n m\u0259nfi t\u0259sirl\u0259rini qar\u015f\u0131-qar\u015f\u0131ya qoyacaqlar. B\u00fct\u00fcn u\u015faqlar sevgiyl\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcm\u0259y\u0259 layiqdirl\u0259r. Sevilm\u0259y\u0259n u\u015faqlar g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 cinay\u0259tl\u0259r t\u00f6r\u0259tm\u0259y\u0259 meyilli, madd\u0259 as\u0131l\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 v\u0259 depressiya kimi probleml\u0259r\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 h\u0259ssas olacaqlar. V\u0259 bu g\u0259ncl\u0259r ham\u0131m\u0131zla birlikd\u0259 ya\u015fayaca\u011f\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn onlar\u0131n ruhi sa\u011flaml\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259tin sa\u011flaml\u0131\u011f\u0131 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 oldu\u011fundan onlara ham\u0131 birlikd\u0259 sahib \u00e7\u0131xmal\u0131 v\u0259 onlar\u0131n \u0259qli v\u0259 fiziki bax\u0131mdan sa\u011flam yeti\u015fm\u0259l\u0259ri \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u0259limizd\u0259n g\u0259l\u0259nl\u0259ri\u00a0 etm\u0259liyik.<\/p>\n

Yaz\u0131n\u0131 haz\u0131rlad\u0131: Sevinc TELMANQIZI<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Valideynl\u0259rin \u201cu\u015faq d\u00f6y\u00fclm\u0259lidir\u201d tezisi hans\u0131 f\u0259sadlara s\u0259b\u0259b olur? Yeni d\u0259rs ilinin ba\u015flanmas\u0131 il\u0259 yenid\u0259n u\u015faqlar\u0131n d\u00f6y\u00fclm\u0259si m\u00f6vzusu aktualla\u015f\u0131b. B\u0259li, m\u0259kt\u0259bl\u0259rd\u0259 d\u0259c\u0259l v\u0259 ip\u0259-sapa yatmayan u\u015faqlarla ba\u011fl\u0131 zaman-zaman c\u0259za metodlar\u0131 fiziki \u015fidd\u0259tl\u0259 m\u00fc\u015fayi\u0259t olunur. Valideynl\u0259r d\u0259 zaman-zaman bu v\u0259ziyy\u0259td\u0259n naraz\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcnm\u00fcrl\u0259r: \u201c\u0259ti s\u0259nin, s\u00fcm\u00fcy\u00fc m\u0259nim\u201d deyib, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131 m\u00fc\u0259llimin insaf\u0131na buraxan analar\u0131n say\u0131 az deyil. \u201cS\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u0259 baxm\u0131rsa, vurun!\u201d – azm\u0131 e\u015fitmi\u015fik bel\u0259 valideyn \u201cxeyir-duas\u0131n\u0131\u201d? \u018fslind\u0259 is\u0259 qanunvericilik d\u0259, psixologiya da bu bar\u0259d\u0259 f\u0259rqli tezisl\u0259r ortaya qoyur. Statistikaya g\u00f6r\u0259, d\u00fcnyada 14 ya\u015f\u0131na q\u0259d\u0259r 2,5 milyon h\u0259ddi-bulu\u011fa \u00e7atmam\u0131\u015f u\u015faq valideyni t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n d\u00f6y\u00fcl\u00fcr. 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