{"id":762792,"date":"2024-10-19T09:07:22","date_gmt":"2024-10-19T05:07:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=762792"},"modified":"2024-10-19T09:07:22","modified_gmt":"2024-10-19T05:07:22","slug":"ail%c9%99l%c9%99r%c9%99-%c9%99l-uzadanlarin-m%c9%99qs%c9%99dl%c9%99ri-n%c9%99dir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=762792","title":{"rendered":"Ail\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 \u0259l uzadanlar\u0131n m\u0259qs\u0259dl\u0259ri n\u0259dir?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em><strong>Bu, xaricd\u0259n biz\u0259 g\u00f6nd\u0259ril\u0259n v\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fcnm\u0259y\u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259dir<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Y\u00fcz ill\u0259r boyu Az\u0259rbaycanda ail\u0259 m\u00fcq\u0259dd\u0259s say\u0131l\u0131b. N\u0259n\u0259-babalar\u0131m\u0131z bo\u015fanmalara yol verm\u0259yibl\u0259r v\u0259 buna pis bax\u0131blar. Q\u0131z- g\u0259linl\u0259rimiz is\u0259 ana olma\u011f\u0131, n\u0259sil art\u0131rma\u011f\u0131 h\u0259r \u015feyd\u0259n vacib hesab edibl\u0259r. H\u0259tta yaln\u0131z toy g\u00fcn\u00fcnd\u0259 bir-birini g\u00f6r\u0259n g\u0259ncl\u0259r \u00f6m\u00fcrl\u0259rinin sonuna q\u0259d\u0259r birg\u0259 \u00f6m\u00fcr s\u00fcr\u0259r\u0259k \u00f6vladlar b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fcbl\u0259r. N\u0259 q\u0131zlar, n\u0259 d\u0259 o\u011flanlar indi deyildiyi kimi, &#8220;karyera qurma\u011f\u0131&#8221; g\u00f6zl\u0259m\u0259yibl\u0259r. Onlar sad\u0259 h\u0259yat t\u0259rzi ke\u00e7iribl\u0259r v\u0259 buna \u015f\u00fckranl\u0131q edibl\u0259r. Ancaq indi v\u0259ziyy\u0259t ba\u015fqad\u0131r. Orta ya\u015fay\u0131\u015f t\u0259rzi ke\u00e7ir\u0259nl\u0259r bel\u0259 naraz\u0131d\u0131rlar. Har\u0131n h\u0259yata qovu\u015fmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ail\u0259l\u0259rini da\u011f\u0131tma\u011fa bel\u0259 haz\u0131r olanlar var. Bir s\u00f6zl\u0259, ail\u0259 \u0259n\u0259n\u0259l\u0259rimiz pozulur, c\u00fctl\u00fck aras\u0131na r\u0259xn\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr v\u0259 ail\u0259l\u0259r s\u00fcr\u0259tl\u0259 da\u011f\u0131lma\u011fa ba\u015flay\u0131r. Bu t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259nin b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fcy\u00fcn\u00fc hiss ed\u0259n c\u0259miyy\u0259timizin \u00fczvl\u0259ri art\u0131q \u00f6z narahatl\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131 ifad\u0259 edir v\u0259 \u201ch\u0259y\u0259can t\u0259bili\u201d \u00e7al\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Az\u0259rbaycanda bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n say\u0131 son ill\u0259r 50 faiz\u0259 yax\u0131nla\u015f\u0131b ki, bu da rekord say\u0131la bil\u0259r. Bu, art\u0131q konkret \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 tam bir faci\u0259, c\u0259miyy\u0259tin m\u0259n\u0259vi c\u0259h\u0259td\u0259n \u00e7\u00f6km\u0259si, ortal\u0131\u011f\u0131n sahibsiz, yetim u\u015faqlarla doldurulmas\u0131 v\u0259 ail\u0259 institutlar\u0131n\u0131n da\u011f\u0131lmas\u0131 dem\u0259kd\u0131r.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Bu s\u00f6zl\u0259ri Sa\u011flam C\u0259miyy\u0259t H\u0259r\u0259kat\u0131n\u0131n r\u0259hb\u0259ri El\u00e7in Bayraml\u0131 \u00f6lk\u0259mizd\u0259 bo\u015fanma v\u0259 evl\u0259n\u0259nl\u0259rin say\u0131 haqda son statistikaya m\u00fcnasib\u0259t bildir\u0259rk\u0259n deyib. Onun s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, son ill\u0259r c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 bo\u015fanmalar adi hal al\u0131b: \u201cN\u0259inki bo\u015fanmalar art\u0131r, buna paralel olaraq evl\u0259n\u0259nl\u0259rin, u\u015faq do\u011fumunun da say\u0131 azal\u0131r. Bunlar is\u0259 apar\u0131lan z\u0259r\u0259rli m\u0259n\u0259vi-psixoloji t\u0259bli\u011fat\u0131n n\u0259tic\u0259sidir. G\u0259ncl\u0259r\u0259 karyera qurmaq, biznes t\u0259\u015fkil etm\u0259k, milyonlar qazanmaq kimi t\u0259bli\u011fatlar a\u015f\u0131layaraq, onlar\u0131 gec evl\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259 vadar edirl\u0259r. M\u00fcasirlik ad\u0131 alt\u0131nda televiziya, internet \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259ri, seriallar t\u0259bli\u011fatlar apar\u0131r v\u0259 el\u0259c\u0259 d\u0259 b\u0259zi psixoloq, sosioloqlar, m\u00fc\u011f\u0259nnil\u0259r ail\u0259 institutlar\u0131m\u0131za qar\u015f\u0131 g\u00f6z g\u00f6r\u0259-g\u00f6r\u0259 m\u0259n\u0259vi terror akt\u0131 t\u00f6r\u0259dir. Bu, d\u0259h\u015f\u0259tli bir tendensiyad\u0131r.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ekspertin s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259d\u0259 sosial-iqtisadi probleml\u0259rin rolu daha \u00e7ox qabard\u0131l\u0131r.Lakin \u0259sas problem m\u0259n\u0259viyyat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n a\u015f\u0131nmas\u0131ndad\u0131r. B\u0259y\u0259m \u0259lli, y\u00fcz il v\u0259 onlardan da \u0259vv\u0259lki d\u00f6vrl\u0259rd\u0259 \u00e7\u0259tinlikl\u0259r, probleml\u0259r yox idi? \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259, vard\u0131, \u00f6z\u00fc d\u0259 indi oldu\u011fundan d\u0259f\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 \u00e7ox idi. \u015e\u00fcbh\u0259siz ki, problemin d\u0259rinl\u0259\u015fm\u0259sind\u0259, sosial-iqtisadi s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259r d\u0259 az rol oynam\u0131r. \u0130ndiki d\u00f6vrd\u0259 g\u0259ncl\u0259rin i\u015f tapmas\u0131, ev almas\u0131 \u00e7ox \u00e7\u0259tindir. Bu probleml\u0259r b\u0259zi g\u0259ncl\u0259ri evl\u0259nm\u0259kd\u0259n \u00e7\u0259kindirir. Amma \u0259sas s\u0259b\u0259b bu deyil. Bo\u015fanmalar maddi rifah\u0131 y\u00fcks\u0259k olan \u00f6lk\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 azt\u0259minatl\u0131 ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259kind\u0259n daha \u00e7oxdur. Az\u0259rbaycan\u0131n a\u011f\u0131r sosial-iqtisadi d\u00f6vrl\u0259rind\u0259 bo\u015fanmalar minimum s\u0259viyy\u0259d\u0259 idi. Y\u0259ni, sosial s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259ri \u015fi\u015firdib problemi bu istiqam\u0259t\u0259 y\u00f6nl\u0259ndirm\u0259k laz\u0131m deyil. Bizd\u0259 bo\u015fanma v\u0259 evl\u0259nm\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259, u\u015faq say\u0131n\u0131n azalmas\u0131nda sosial-iqtisadi probleml\u0259rin pay\u0131 20, m\u0259n\u0259vi-psixoloji v\u0259ziyy\u0259tin pay\u0131 80 faizdir.<\/p>\n<p>Bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n \u0259sas s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rind\u0259n biri g\u0259ncl\u0259rimizin avropala\u015fma kimi s\u0259hv ideyalara uymalar\u0131ndan ir\u0259li g\u0259lir. Amma g\u0259ncl\u0259rimiz unudurlar ki, biz avropal\u0131 deyilik, onlarda normal say\u0131lan bir \u00e7ox ad\u0259tl\u0259r, \u0259n\u0259n\u0259l\u0259r bizd\u0259 anormal say\u0131l\u0131r. Az\u0259rbaycana z\u0259r\u0259rli t\u0259bli\u011fat da m\u0259hz biz\u0259 Avropadak\u0131 b\u0259dxahlar\u0131m\u0131zdan g\u0259lir. Ail\u0259 institutunun da\u011f\u0131d\u0131lmas\u0131 Az\u0259rbaycana qar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7oxvektorlu h\u00fccumun istiqam\u0259tl\u0259rind\u0259n yaln\u0131z biridir. Onlar Az\u0259rbaycanda ail\u0259l\u0259rin uzun\u00f6m\u00fcrl\u00fc v\u0259 \u00e7oxu\u015faql\u0131 olmas\u0131ndan narahat olurlar. Bak\u0131da feministl\u0259rin peyda olmalar\u0131 v\u0259 \u00f6z &#8220;h\u00fcquqlqr\u0131n\u0131&#8221; t\u0259l\u0259b etm\u0259l\u0259ri bunun t\u0259zah\u00fcr\u00fcd\u00fcr. Bu, xaricd\u0259n g\u0259l\u0259n bir layih\u0259dir v\u0259 n\u0259tic\u0259si b\u0259llidir. T\u00fcrkl\u0259rin v\u0259 m\u00fcs\u0259lmanlar\u0131n art\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 h\u0259zm ed\u0259 bilmirl\u0259r. G\u0259ncl\u0259r Avropadan g\u00f6nd\u0259ril\u0259n \u201ckaryera qurma\u011f\u0131\u201d, valideynl\u0259rl\u0259 birg\u0259 ya\u015famama\u011f\u0131 iddia edirl\u0259r. G\u0259linl\u0259r qaynanaya v\u0259 qay\u0131nataya xidm\u0259t etm\u0259k ist\u0259mirl\u0259r. \u201cM\u00fcasir\u201d ail\u0259l\u0259r d\u00fcnyaya bir v\u0259 ya ikid\u0259n art\u0131q u\u015faq g\u0259tirmirl\u0259r. Odur ki, g\u0259nc ail\u0259l\u0259r t\u0259k v\u0259 \u00f6z ist\u0259dikl\u0259ri kimi ya\u015fama\u011fa \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck verirl\u0259r. Ulular\u0131m\u0131z is\u0259 deyibl\u0259r ki, \u201cAllahs\u0131z yerd\u0259 otur, b\u00f6y\u00fcks\u00fcz yerd\u0259 oturma.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>M\u00fcasirlik ad\u0131 alt\u0131nda ail\u0259nin da\u011f\u0131lmas\u0131na s\u0259b\u0259b olan m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 xarici kinofilml\u0259rin, b\u0259zi m\u0259rasiml\u0259rin t\u0259bli\u011f olunmas\u0131n\u0131n ziyan\u0131 az deyil. Sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259r is\u0259 ham\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 gerid\u0259 qoyub. &#8220;\u0130nstaqram&#8221; vasit\u0259si il\u0259 q\u0131zlar, h\u0259tta evli qad\u0131nlar tan\u0131mad\u0131qlar\u0131 ki\u015fil\u0259rl\u0259 yaz\u0131\u015f\u0131r, g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr v\u0259 sonda faci\u0259y\u0259 d\u00fc\u00e7ar olurlar. Kimi halal \u0259rini, ail\u0259sini, kimi ni\u015fanl\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 itirir. Bu sah\u0259d\u0259 yerli telekanallar\u0131m\u0131zda ged\u0259n b\u0259zi proqram v\u0259 verili\u015fl\u0259rd\u0259 a\u00e7\u0131q-sa\u00e7\u0131q geyiml\u0259rin n\u00fcmayi\u015fi, ail\u0259 haqq\u0131nda dayaz d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259l\u0259rin s\u0259sl\u0259ndirilm\u0259si, \u0259xlaqdan, t\u0259rbiy\u0259d\u0259n uzaq \u0259tt\u00f6k\u0259n s\u00f6zl\u0259rin v\u0259 fikirl\u0259rin i\u015fl\u0259dilm\u0259si yeniyetm\u0259l\u0259rin t\u0259rbiy\u0259sin\u0259 m\u0259nfi t\u0259sir g\u00f6st\u0259rir, onlar\u0131 \u0259d\u0259b-\u0259rkandan uazaqla\u015fd\u0131r\u0131r. \u0130\u015f o yer\u0259 \u00e7at\u0131b ki, art\u0131q bir \u00e7ox valideynl\u0259r bu c\u00fcr verili\u015fl\u0259rin ba\u011flanmas\u0131n\u0131 q\u0259tiyy\u0259tl\u0259 t\u0259l\u0259b edirl\u0259r.<\/p>\n<p>Qeyd ed\u0259k ki, r\u0259smi statistikaya \u0259sas\u0259n, 2024-c\u00fc ilin yanvar-avqust aylar\u0131 \u0259rzind\u0259 30.788 nikah v\u0259 14.248 bo\u015fanma hal\u0131 qeyd\u0259 al\u0131n\u0131b. G\u00f6r\u00fcnd\u00fcy\u00fc kimi, bu ac\u0131 statistikad\u0131r. Bu, fakt g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n x\u0259b\u0259r verir. Ax\u0131, ail\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259tin ki\u00e7ik formas\u0131 v\u0259 \u00f6z\u0259yidir. Bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n v\u0259 onunla g\u0259l\u0259n bir y\u0131\u011f\u0131n problemin qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n al\u0131nmas\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn geni\u015fmiqyasl\u0131 t\u0259bli\u011fat i\u015fl\u0259ri apar\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r. Yax\u015f\u0131 olar ki, bu i\u015fl\u0259r\u0259 a\u011fsaqqallar, aidiyy\u0259ti qurumlar\u0131n n\u00fcmay\u0259nd\u0259l\u0259ri v\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 n\u00fcfuz qazanm\u0131\u015f \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259r c\u0259lb edilsinl\u0259r. Ax\u0131, a\u011fsaqqal, a\u011fbir\u00e7\u0259k s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn q\u0259bul edilm\u0259si milli \u0259n\u0259n\u0259l\u0259rimizd\u0259ndir. He\u00e7 olmasa o yaln\u0131z biz\u0259 m\u0259xsus olan milli d\u0259y\u0259rimiz\u0259 h\u00f6rm\u0259t ed\u0259k.<\/p>\n<p><strong>V\u0259li \u0130lyasov, &#8220;\u0130ki sahil&#8221;<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bu, xaricd\u0259n biz\u0259 g\u00f6nd\u0259ril\u0259n v\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fcnm\u0259y\u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259dir Y\u00fcz ill\u0259r boyu Az\u0259rbaycanda ail\u0259 m\u00fcq\u0259dd\u0259s say\u0131l\u0131b. N\u0259n\u0259-babalar\u0131m\u0131z bo\u015fanmalara yol verm\u0259yibl\u0259r v\u0259 buna pis bax\u0131blar. Q\u0131z- g\u0259linl\u0259rimiz is\u0259 ana olma\u011f\u0131, n\u0259sil art\u0131rma\u011f\u0131 h\u0259r \u015feyd\u0259n vacib hesab edibl\u0259r. H\u0259tta yaln\u0131z toy g\u00fcn\u00fcnd\u0259 bir-birini g\u00f6r\u0259n g\u0259ncl\u0259r \u00f6m\u00fcrl\u0259rinin sonuna q\u0259d\u0259r birg\u0259 \u00f6m\u00fcr s\u00fcr\u0259r\u0259k \u00f6vladlar b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fcbl\u0259r. 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