Evliliyi yava\u015f-yava\u015f \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u0259n bir \u00e7ox s\u0259b\u0259b ola bil\u0259r. Bunlar aras\u0131nda u\u015faq sahibi ola bilm\u0259m\u0259, maddi probleml\u0259r, m\u00fcxt\u0259lif m\u00f6vzularda bir-birl\u0259rin\u0259 yalan dan\u0131\u015fma v\u0259 haqq\u0131nda az v\u0259 ya \u00e7ox dan\u0131\u015f\u0131lan m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259r var.<\/p>\n
Psixoloqlar evliliyi m\u00f6hk\u0259ml\u0259ndir\u0259n m\u0259qamlar\u0131 bu c\u00fcr s\u0131ralay\u0131r: Dostlar\u0131n\u0131z olsun C\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259rin dig\u0259r f\u0259rdl\u0259rl\u0259 dost olmalar\u0131 \u00e7ox \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259tlidir. Psixoloq Ryan Houves c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259rin birlikd\u0259 zaman ke\u00e7irm\u0259l\u0259rinin \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259tli oldu\u011funu deyir: \u201cAncaq m\u00fcst\u0259qil olaraq da dostluqlar quraraq bu m\u00fcnasib\u0259t say\u0259sind\u0259 \u0259laq\u0259l\u0259rini inki\u015faf etdir\u0259r, ba\u015fqa t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259l\u0259r \u0259ld\u0259 ed\u0259 bil\u0259rl\u0259r v\u0259 yeni d\u00fcnyag\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fl\u0259ri qazanma f\u00fcrs\u0259ti \u0259ld\u0259 ed\u0259rl\u0259r. C\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259rin m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259ri onlar\u0131n dostluq \u0259laq\u0259l\u0259ri qura bil\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259ri m\u00f6vzusunda \u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00fcv\u0259nm\u0259l\u0259ri bax\u0131m\u0131ndan \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259tlidir\u201d.<\/p>\n Dostlara diqq\u0259t Sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259d\u0259 dostluq m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rin\u0259 d\u0259 diqq\u0259t etm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnki b\u0259zi tan\u0131\u015fl\u0131qlar\u0131n m\u0259nfi n\u0259tic\u0259si ola bil\u0259r: \u201cS\u0259hv dostluqlar v\u0259 yanl\u0131\u015f m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r sizin \u00fcmumi m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259riniz\u0259 z\u0259rb\u0259 vura bil\u0259r. Dost v\u0259 tan\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n b\u0259zi davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 sizin h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131zla m\u00fcnasib\u0259tiniz\u0259 t\u0259sir ed\u0259r. Onlar\u0131n \u00f6z h\u0259yat yolda\u015flar\u0131 il\u0259 ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u0259rginlik siz\u0259 d\u0259 yoluxa bil\u0259r. Yanl\u0131\u015f m\u00fcnasib\u0259t v\u0259 davran\u0131\u015flar yoluxucudur. \u018ftraf\u0131n\u0131z sa\u011flam evliliyi olan insanlarla \u0259hat\u0259li olsun. Bu, sizin d\u0259 h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131zla m\u00fcnasib\u0259tinizd\u0259 d\u0259 \u0259ksini tapacaq\u201d.<\/p>\n Cinsi h\u0259yat \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259tlidir Terapevt Debra Campell is\u0259 c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259rin m\u00fcnasib\u0259tind\u0259 seksin \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259tli oldu\u011funa\u00a0 diqq\u0259t \u00e7\u0259kir. C\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259r yaln\u0131z “x\u00fcsusi g\u00fcnl\u0259rd\u0259” (ad g\u00fcnl\u0259ri, bayram g\u00fcnl\u0259ri v\u0259 ild\u00f6n\u00fcml\u0259ri) seksl\u0259 m\u0259\u015f\u011ful olurlarsa, dem\u0259k, art\u0131q h\u0259y\u0259can t\u0259bili \u00e7al\u0131nmal\u0131d\u0131r: \u201cSekssiz v\u0259 h\u0259y\u0259cans\u0131z evlilik u\u00e7uruma gedir. H\u0259r g\u00fcn seksl\u0259 m\u0259\u015f\u011ful olmaq m\u0259cburiyy\u0259tind\u0259 deyilsiniz. Ancaq bir-birinizi ist\u0259diyinizi v\u0259 \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259t verdiyinizi g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259n ki\u00e7ik toxunu\u015flar \u00e7ox \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259tlidir. Seks tamamil\u0259 at\u0259\u015fli cinsi \u0259laq\u0259 v\u0259 ya orqazm deyil. Vacib olan c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259rin h\u0259l\u0259 ist\u0259nildiyini bilm\u0259l\u0259ri v\u0259 bir-birl\u0259ri \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn x\u00fcsusi olduqlar\u0131, bir-birin\u0259 ehtiyac hiss etm\u0259l\u0259ridir\u201d.<\/p>\n Ev i\u015fl\u0259rin\u0259 bigan\u0259 yana\u015fmay\u0131n Terapevtl\u0259r c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259rin ev i\u015fl\u0259rini aralar\u0131nda b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015fm\u0259yin m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r\u0259 m\u00fcsb\u0259t t\u0259siri oldu\u011funu deyirl\u0259r. 2015-ci ild\u0259 apar\u0131lan ara\u015fd\u0131rmalardan birinin n\u0259tic\u0259sin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, ev i\u015fl\u0259ri v\u0259 ail\u0259 m\u0259suliyy\u0259tl\u0259rini payla\u015fmayan c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259r m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rind\u0259n kifay\u0259t q\u0259d\u0259r z\u00f6vq alm\u0131rlar. \u00dcst\u0259lik, onlar\u0131n seks h\u0259yatlar\u0131 da yax\u015f\u0131 olmur: \u201cBu, evliliyin ilk ill\u0259rind\u0259 \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259tli m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 kimi q\u0259bul edilmir. Lakin ir\u0259lil\u0259y\u0259n zamanlarda b\u00f6y\u00fck probleml\u0259r\u0259 yol a\u00e7a bil\u0259r. Kimin t\u0259mizkar v\u0259 ya s\u0259liq\u0259siz olmas\u0131 \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259tli deyil. \u018fsl \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259tli olan t\u0259mizkar olan\u0131n deying\u0259n olmamas\u0131, da\u011f\u0131n\u0131q olan t\u0259r\u0259fin da vaxta\u015f\u0131r\u0131 m\u0259suliyy\u0259ti payla\u015fmaq m\u00f6vzusunda ist\u0259kli v\u0259 s\u0259mimi olmas\u0131d\u0131r\u201d.<\/p>\n Sonuncu d\u0259f\u0259 n\u0259 vaxt sevildiyini hiss etmis\u0259n? \u2013 dey\u0259 soru\u015fun Terapevt Liz Higgins is\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259li v\u0259 s\u0259mimi \u00fcnsiyy\u0259tin vacib oldu\u011funu vur\u011fulay\u0131r. C\u00fctl\u00fck\u00fcl\u0259rin yaln\u0131z \u201cg\u00fcn\u00fcn nec\u0259 ke\u00e7di, \u0259zizim?\u201d v\u0259 ya \u201cbu h\u0259ft\u0259sonu n\u0259 ed\u0259c\u0259yik?\u201d kimi q\u0131sa suallarla monotonla\u015fm\u0131\u015f bir \u00fcnsiyy\u0259t i\u00e7ind\u0259 deyil, d\u0259rin v\u0259 s\u0259mimi \u00fcnsiyy\u0259td\u0259 olmalar\u0131n\u0131n \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259tin\u0259 diqq\u0259ti \u00e7\u0259kir: \u201cBu g\u00fcn bir c\u00fctl\u00fck olaraq n\u0259yi yax\u015f\u0131 etdik? Bu g\u00fcn m\u00fcnasib\u0259timiz\u0259\u00a0 qatq\u0131s\u0131 olacaq n\u0259 etdik? S\u0259nin \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn n\u0259 ed\u0259 bil\u0259r\u0259m? Bu g\u00fcn n\u0259 zaman m\u0259niml\u0259 rahatl\u0131q tapd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 v\u0259 sevildiyini hiss etdin? Bu c\u00fcr suallar verin. Ba\u015flan\u011f\u0131cda bu, m\u0259nas\u0131z kimi g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u0259 bil\u0259r. Lakin zamanla bu c\u00fcr \u00fcnsiyy\u0259tin b\u00f6y\u00fck faydas\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u0259c\u0259ksiniz. C\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259r h\u0259ft\u0259d\u0259 bir d\u0259f\u0259 bir araya g\u0259l\u0259r\u0259k yaln\u0131z m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259ri haqq\u0131nda dan\u0131\u015fmal\u0131d\u0131rlar. Bu formada g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 yarana bil\u0259c\u0259k inciklik v\u0259 \u00fcnsiyy\u0259t qopuqlu\u011funu asanl\u0131qla aradan qald\u0131ra bil\u0259rl\u0259r\u201d.<\/p>\n Yaln\u0131z evi v\u0259 bank hesab\u0131n\u0131 payla\u015f\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z? Psixoterapevt Laura Heck bildirir ki, c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259rin ev yolda\u015f\u0131, evi payla\u015fan insanlar kimi davranma\u011fa ba\u015flamas\u0131 t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259d\u0259n x\u0259b\u0259r verir: \u201cYaln\u0131z evi, bank hesab\u0131n\u0131 v\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131 payla\u015fmaq \u00fcz\u0259rin\u0259 qurulan evlilikl\u0259r ya\u015fayan c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259r t\u0259cili olaraq \u00f6zl\u0259rini yenil\u0259m\u0259li, m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rin\u0259 h\u0259y\u0259can qatma\u011f\u0131n yollar\u0131n\u0131 axtarmal\u0131d\u0131rlar\u201d.<\/p>\n Bununla yana\u015f\u0131, m\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssis bildirir ki, c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259rin ortaq maraq sah\u0259l\u0259ri il\u0259 \u0259laq\u0259dar yem\u0259k v\u0259 ya\u00a0 idman f\u0259aliyy\u0259tl\u0259ri kimi kurslarda\u00a0 i\u015ftirak etm\u0259l\u0259ri d\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fck \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259t da\u015f\u0131y\u0131r.<\/p>\n Aile.lent.az<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Evliliyi yava\u015f-yava\u015f \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u0259n bir \u00e7ox s\u0259b\u0259b ola bil\u0259r. Bunlar aras\u0131nda u\u015faq sahibi ola bilm\u0259m\u0259, maddi probleml\u0259r, m\u00fcxt\u0259lif m\u00f6vzularda bir-birl\u0259rin\u0259 yalan dan\u0131\u015fma v\u0259 haqq\u0131nda az v\u0259 ya \u00e7ox dan\u0131\u015f\u0131lan m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259r var. Psixoloqlar evliliyi m\u00f6hk\u0259ml\u0259ndir\u0259n m\u0259qamlar\u0131 bu c\u00fcr s\u0131ralay\u0131r: Dostlar\u0131n\u0131z olsun C\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259rin dig\u0259r f\u0259rdl\u0259rl\u0259 dost olmalar\u0131 \u00e7ox \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259tlidir. Psixoloq Ryan Houves c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259rin birlikd\u0259 zaman ke\u00e7irm\u0259l\u0259rinin \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259tli oldu\u011funu deyir: \u201cAncaq m\u00fcst\u0259qil olaraq da dostluqlar quraraq bu m\u00fcnasib\u0259t say\u0259sind\u0259 \u0259laq\u0259l\u0259rini inki\u015faf etdir\u0259r, ba\u015fqa t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259l\u0259r \u0259ld\u0259 ed\u0259 bil\u0259rl\u0259r v\u0259 yeni d\u00fcnyag\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fl\u0259ri qazanma f\u00fcrs\u0259ti \u0259ld\u0259 ed\u0259rl\u0259r. C\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259rin m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259ri onlar\u0131n dostluq \u0259laq\u0259l\u0259ri qura bil\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259ri m\u00f6vzusunda \u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00fcv\u0259nm\u0259l\u0259ri…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":76294,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/nikah_76.jpg",530,360,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/nikah_76.jpg",530,360,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/nikah_76.jpg",530,360,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/nikah_76-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/nikah_76-300x204.jpg",300,204,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/nikah_76.jpg",530,360,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/nikah_76.jpg",530,360,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/nikah_76.jpg",530,360,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/nikah_76-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/nikah_76.jpg",530,360,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"Evliliyi yava\u015f-yava\u015f \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u0259n bir \u00e7ox s\u0259b\u0259b ola bil\u0259r. 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