{"id":765882,"date":"2024-11-01T19:24:27","date_gmt":"2024-11-01T15:24:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=765882"},"modified":"2024-11-01T19:24:27","modified_gmt":"2024-11-01T15:24:27","slug":"g%c9%99linl%c9%99-el%c9%99-davranir-qizi-el%c9%99-minn%c9%99tl%c9%99-alirlar-ki-sanki-onu-adam-edirl%c9%99r","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=765882","title":{"rendered":"\u201cG\u0259linl\u0259 el\u0259 davran\u0131r, q\u0131z\u0131 el\u0259 minn\u0259tl\u0259 al\u0131rlar ki, sanki onu adam edirl\u0259r\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Deyirl\u0259r ki, ki\u015fi anas\u0131n\u0131 n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7ox sevib ona h\u00f6rm\u0259t ets\u0259, xan\u0131m\u0131na\u00a0qar\u015f\u0131 da bir o q\u0259d\u0259r sadiq, qay\u011f\u0131ke\u015f, ehtiraml\u0131\u00a0olur. Az\u0259rbaycan\u00a0c\u0259miyy\u0259tind\u0259 bunun tamamil\u0259 \u0259ksi m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 olunur. Anas\u0131na ba\u011fl\u0131 olan, onun fikirl\u0259ri il\u0259 h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259t ed\u0259n, habel\u0259\u00a0m\u00fcst\u0259qil davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259l\u0259ri olmayan ki\u015fil\u0259rin analar\u0131n\u0131n, bir n\u00f6v, hakimiyy\u0259ti alt\u0131na d\u00fc\u015fd\u00fcy\u00fcn\u00fc, el\u0259 buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 arvadlar\u0131na qar\u015f\u0131 kobud, haqs\u0131z davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 hallar\u0131 var.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>V\u0259ziyy\u0259ti bu h\u0259dd\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r g\u0259tirib \u00e7\u0131xaran n\u0259dir? Ana, o\u011ful, yoxsa g\u0259linl\u0259r?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Psixoloq Samir\u0259 Ba\u011f\u0131rova<\/strong>\u00a0problemin s\u0259b\u0259bini \u201cYeni Sabah\u201da a\u00e7\u0131qlay\u0131b:<\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u018fslind\u0259, yanl\u0131\u015fl\u0131q var. Ki\u015fi anas\u0131na deyil, valideyninin ail\u0259sin\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131rsa, g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 \u00f6z ail\u0259sin\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259td\u0259 d\u0259 m\u0259suliyy\u0259tli davranacaq. \u00d6z ail\u0259sin\u0259\u00a0ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131q\u00a0bac\u0131ya, qarda\u015fa, ata v\u0259 anaya g\u00f6st\u0259ril\u0259n d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rl\u0259 \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcl\u00fcr. Burada ail\u0259 n\u0259 \u00f6n, n\u0259 d\u0259 arxa\u00a0plandad\u0131r. H\u0259r k\u0259s \u00f6z s\u0259rh\u0259dl\u0259rini v\u0259 ail\u0259 i\u00e7ind\u0259 \u00f6z yerini bildiyi, h\u0259r k\u0259s \u00fcz\u0259rin\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u0259n v\u0259zif\u0259 borcunu yerin\u0259 yetirdiyi \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ciddi problem yaranm\u0131r. B\u0259z\u0259n sa\u011flam d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259y\u0259 sahib olmayan \u00a0ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259\u00a0bu tarazl\u0131q pozulur. O\u011flunu \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 h\u0259dsiz ba\u011flayan analar\u0131n q\u0131sqancl\u0131\u011f\u0131, o\u011fullar\u0131n \u00f6z ail\u0259l\u0259rin\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259td\u0259\u00a0m\u0259suliyy\u0259tsizliyi g\u0259linl\u0259ri narahat edir\u201d.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Psixoloq qeyd edib ki, \u0259sas problem anada g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcr:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u201cAnalar do\u011fru o\u011ful yeti\u015fdirm\u0259lidir. O\u011ful xan\u0131m\u0131ndan\u00a0\u015fikay\u0259t ed\u0259nd\u0259\u00a0g\u0259linin t\u0259r\u0259fini saxlamal\u0131d\u0131r. Qad\u0131n birliyi is\u0259 \u00f6lk\u0259mizd\u0259 problemdir. \u018fg\u0259r ki\u015fi xan\u0131m\u0131n\u0131n s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc anas\u0131na, anan\u0131n s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc arvad\u0131na\u00a0\u00e7atd\u0131r\u0131rsa, anan\u0131 ondan\u00a0\u00fcst\u00fcn tutdu\u011funu hiss el\u0259tdirirs\u0259, h\u0259r s\u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259-s\u00f6hb\u0259tind\u0259, sirrind\u0259 g\u0259lin yad biri kimi k\u0259narla\u015fd\u0131r\u0131l\u0131rsa, \u0259lb\u0259tt\u0259, sonda evlilik b\u00f6hranla \u00fc\u00fczl\u0259\u015f\u0259c\u0259k. Ana o\u011fluna qad\u0131nla, q\u0131zla m\u00fcnasib\u0259ti \u00f6yr\u0259tm\u0259lidir.<\/p>\n<p>G\u0259linin anas\u0131na h\u00f6rm\u0259t olunanda, g\u0259lin d\u0259 \u00f6z qaynanas\u0131na h\u00f6rm\u0259tl\u0259 yana\u015facaq. \u00c7\u00fcnki q\u0131z almaq, o\u011fluna \u00a0h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131, ya\u015fl\u0131lar\u0131n qay\u011f\u0131lar\u0131na qalacaq g\u0259lin, n\u0259v\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 ana almaqd\u0131r. \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259, q\u0131za v\u0259 q\u0131z anas\u0131na h\u00f6rm\u0259tl\u0259 yana\u015f\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r ki, \u0259v\u0259zini d\u0259 geri ala bilsin. Yoxsa \u00f6lk\u0259mizd\u0259 g\u0259linl\u0259r\u0259 el\u0259 davran\u0131r,, q\u0131z\u0131 el\u0259 minn\u0259tl\u0259 al\u0131rlar\u00a0ki, sanki onu adam edirl\u0259r. H\u0259r bir q\u0131z, varl\u0131 ya kas\u0131b, yax\u015f\u0131, ya pis, \u00f6z ata\u00a0evind\u0259\u00a0\u015fahzad\u0259dir. \u018fg\u0259r bir ki\u015fi ana il\u0259 arvad\u0131 aras\u0131nda qal\u0131rsa, dem\u0259li, sa\u011flam ki\u015fi kimi formala\u015fmay\u0131b\u201d.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Deyirl\u0259r ki, ki\u015fi anas\u0131n\u0131 n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7ox sevib ona h\u00f6rm\u0259t ets\u0259, xan\u0131m\u0131na\u00a0qar\u015f\u0131 da bir o q\u0259d\u0259r sadiq, qay\u011f\u0131ke\u015f, ehtiraml\u0131\u00a0olur. Az\u0259rbaycan\u00a0c\u0259miyy\u0259tind\u0259 bunun tamamil\u0259 \u0259ksi m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 olunur. Anas\u0131na ba\u011fl\u0131 olan, onun fikirl\u0259ri il\u0259 h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259t ed\u0259n, habel\u0259\u00a0m\u00fcst\u0259qil davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259l\u0259ri olmayan ki\u015fil\u0259rin analar\u0131n\u0131n, bir n\u00f6v, hakimiyy\u0259ti alt\u0131na d\u00fc\u015fd\u00fcy\u00fcn\u00fc, el\u0259 buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 arvadlar\u0131na qar\u015f\u0131 kobud, haqs\u0131z davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 hallar\u0131 var. V\u0259ziyy\u0259ti bu h\u0259dd\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r g\u0259tirib \u00e7\u0131xaran n\u0259dir? Ana, o\u011ful, yoxsa g\u0259linl\u0259r? Psixoloq Samir\u0259 Ba\u011f\u0131rova\u00a0problemin s\u0259b\u0259bini \u201cYeni Sabah\u201da a\u00e7\u0131qlay\u0131b: \u201c\u018fslind\u0259, yanl\u0131\u015fl\u0131q var. Ki\u015fi anas\u0131na deyil, valideyninin ail\u0259sin\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131rsa, g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 \u00f6z ail\u0259sin\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259td\u0259 d\u0259 m\u0259suliyy\u0259tli davranacaq. \u00d6z&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":765883,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[26],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/7edc95cd1cefd6012f6650dde4463fa7.jpg",750,422,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/7edc95cd1cefd6012f6650dde4463fa7.jpg",750,422,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/7edc95cd1cefd6012f6650dde4463fa7.jpg",750,422,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/7edc95cd1cefd6012f6650dde4463fa7-500x280.jpg",500,280,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/7edc95cd1cefd6012f6650dde4463fa7-649x365.jpg",649,365,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/7edc95cd1cefd6012f6650dde4463fa7.jpg",640,360,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/7edc95cd1cefd6012f6650dde4463fa7.jpg",750,422,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/7edc95cd1cefd6012f6650dde4463fa7.jpg",750,422,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/7edc95cd1cefd6012f6650dde4463fa7-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/7edc95cd1cefd6012f6650dde4463fa7.jpg",750,422,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"<a href=\"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?cat=26\" rel=\"category\">Sosial<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"Deyirl\u0259r ki, ki\u015fi anas\u0131n\u0131 n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7ox sevib ona h\u00f6rm\u0259t ets\u0259, xan\u0131m\u0131na\u00a0qar\u015f\u0131 da bir o q\u0259d\u0259r sadiq, qay\u011f\u0131ke\u015f, ehtiraml\u0131\u00a0olur. Az\u0259rbaycan\u00a0c\u0259miyy\u0259tind\u0259 bunun tamamil\u0259 \u0259ksi m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 olunur. Anas\u0131na ba\u011fl\u0131 olan, onun fikirl\u0259ri il\u0259 h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259t ed\u0259n, habel\u0259\u00a0m\u00fcst\u0259qil davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259l\u0259ri olmayan ki\u015fil\u0259rin analar\u0131n\u0131n, bir n\u00f6v, hakimiyy\u0259ti alt\u0131na d\u00fc\u015fd\u00fcy\u00fcn\u00fc, el\u0259 buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 arvadlar\u0131na qar\u015f\u0131 kobud, haqs\u0131z davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 hallar\u0131 var.&hellip;","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/765882"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=765882"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/765882\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":765885,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/765882\/revisions\/765885"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/765883"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=765882"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=765882"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=765882"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}