{"id":770032,"date":"2024-11-20T15:32:53","date_gmt":"2024-11-20T11:32:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=770032"},"modified":"2024-11-20T15:32:53","modified_gmt":"2024-11-20T11:32:53","slug":"bosan-g%c9%99l-oz-h%c9%99yatini-yasa-kim%c9%99s%c9%99-corab-yuyansan","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=770032","title":{"rendered":"\u201cBo\u015fan, g\u0259l, \u00f6z h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131 ya\u015fa, kim\u0259s\u0259 corab yuyansan?!\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>2024-c\u00fc il \u00fczr\u0259 Az\u0259rbaycan\u0131n bo\u015fanma statistikas\u0131 art\u0131m g\u00f6st\u0259rir. D\u00f6vl\u0259t Statistika Komit\u0259sinin m\u0259lumat\u0131na g\u00f6r\u0259, ilin ilk 2 ay\u0131nda 6,739 nikah v\u0259 3,456 bo\u015fanma qeyd\u0259 al\u0131n\u0131b. H\u0259r 1,000 n\u0259f\u0259r\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u0259n nikahlar\u0131n say\u0131 4.6-dan 4.0-a d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcb, bo\u015fanmalar is\u0259 1.8-d\u0259n 2.1-\u0259 y\u00fcks\u0259lib.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Az\u0259rbaycan \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn son ill\u0259rd\u0259 bo\u015fanmalarla ba\u011fl\u0131 statistik m\u0259lumatlar qad\u0131nlar\u0131n daha \u00e7ox m\u00fcraci\u0259t etdiyini g\u00f6st\u0259rir.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>B\u0259s niy\u0259 \u0259n \u00e7ox qad\u0131nlar bo\u015fanmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn m\u00fcraci\u0259t edir? Bu n\u0259 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r?<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259ni yenisabah.az-a \u015f\u0259rh ed\u0259n psixoloq V\u00fcsal\u0259 R\u00fcst\u0259m bildirib ki, qad\u0131nlar\u0131n yax\u0131n ke\u00e7mi\u015fd\u0259 ail\u0259 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 anlay\u0131\u015flar\u0131 tam f\u0259rqli idi:<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u201cValideynl\u0259r \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131 \u0259r evin\u0259 yola sald\u0131qda art\u0131q h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259t etm\u0259, ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 \u0259ym\u0259 v\u0259 s\u0259n n\u0259 edirs\u0259n et bil ki, oradan (\u0259r evind\u0259n) ancaq a\u011f k\u0259f\u0259nd\u0259 \u00e7\u0131xa bil\u0259rs\u0259n deyirdil\u0259r. Bu s\u00f6zl\u0259r qad\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7iynin\u0259 ail\u0259 m\u0259suliyy\u0259tini y\u00fckl\u0259yirdi. N\u0259n\u0259l\u0259rimiz is\u0259 h\u0259r zaman &#8220;yuvan\u0131 di\u015fi qu\u015f d\u00fcz\u0259ldir&#8221; dey\u0259rdil\u0259r. Bo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f qad\u0131n ifad\u0259si h\u0259r k\u0259s \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00e7ox a\u011f\u0131r ifad\u0259 say\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131. \u0130ndi is\u0259 m\u0259nz\u0259r\u0259 \u00e7ox f\u0259rqlidir. Qad\u0131nlar ail\u0259d\u0259 olan ki\u00e7ik bir anla\u015f\u0131lmazl\u0131\u011fa bel\u0259 davam g\u0259tirmir, qar\u015f\u0131 cins is\u0259 &#8220;m\u0259n bo\u015fan\u0131ram&#8221; dey\u0259n qad\u0131n\u0131 bu fikird\u0259n uzaqla\u015fd\u0131rmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn is\u0259 he\u00e7 bir i\u015f g\u00f6rm\u00fcr. Sad\u0259c\u0259 \u201cbo\u015fan\u0131rsan, bo\u015fan\u201d dey\u0259r\u0259k sakitc\u0259 ba\u015f ver\u0259nl\u0259ri izl\u0259yirl\u0259r. Ail\u0259 v\u0259 r\u0259fiq\u0259 \u00e7evr\u0259sind\u0259n m\u0259n\u0259vi d\u0259st\u0259k alan \u00e7ox qad\u0131n asanl\u0131qla bu add\u0131m\u0131 at\u0131r. Bo\u015fanark\u0259n \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131n hans\u0131 psixoloji \u00e7\u0259tinlikl\u0259rl\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131la\u015faca\u011f\u0131 bel\u0259 \u00e7oxunun vecin\u0259 olmur. Da\u011f\u0131lm\u0131\u015f ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259ki u\u015faqlar\u0131n \u00e7oxu travma al\u0131r, g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k ail\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259 d\u0259 eyni probleml\u0259ri ya\u015fay\u0131rlar\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Psixoloq vur\u011fulay\u0131r ki, evl\u0259n\u0259n c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259r ail\u0259 qurark\u0259n h\u0259r \u015feyin yax\u015f\u0131 getm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259yini, \u00e7\u0259tinlikl\u0259r olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131, b\u0259z\u0259n birinin hirsl\u0259nib kobudluq ed\u0259c\u0259yini bilib a\u011fla g\u0259l\u0259n v\u0259 g\u0259lm\u0259y\u0259n \u00e7\u0259tinliklikl\u0259rd\u0259 b\u0259rab\u0259r olacaqlarsa, bu add\u0131m\u0131 atmal\u0131d\u0131rlar:<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u00d6vlad d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259l\u0259nd\u0259n sonra n\u0259 ana, n\u0259 d\u0259 ata \u00f6z kefi \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ya\u015faya bilm\u0259z. Onlar\u0131n buna m\u0259n\u0259vi haqq\u0131 \u00e7atm\u0131r. Bo\u015fanan ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 n\u0259zar\u0259tsizlikd\u0259n u\u015faqlar\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131na g\u0259l\u0259n hadis\u0259l\u0259ri onlarla i\u015fl\u0259y\u0259n m\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssisl\u0259r bilir. Valideyn olmaq \u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck m\u0259n\u0259vi y\u00fck v\u0259 v\u0259zif\u0259dir. Q\u0131z anas\u0131n\u0131n \u201cbo\u015fan, g\u0259l, \u00f6z h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131 ya\u015fa, s\u0259n kim\u0259s\u0259 corab yuyansan?!\u201d dey\u0259r\u0259k ona d\u0259st\u0259k durmas\u0131 g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k k\u00f6rp\u0259l\u0259ri t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259nin quca\u011f\u0131na at\u0131r. Kim n\u0259 deyir desin, t\u0259k olan valideynl\u0259r u\u015faqlar\u0131 qoruya bilmir\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>V.R\u00fcst\u0259m onu da qeyd edib ki, b\u0259z\u0259n bo\u015fanmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00e7ox ciddi s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259r olur ki, bunlar da dan\u0131lmaz faktd\u0131r:<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAdam \u0259g\u0259r psixi x\u0259st\u0259dirs\u0259, qad\u0131n\u0131 d\u00f6y\u00fcrs\u0259, narkotik, alkqol istifad\u0259\u00e7isidirs\u0259, o zaman qad\u0131n u\u015faqlar\u0131 h\u0259min m\u00fchitd\u0259n xilas etm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bo\u015fana bil\u0259r. \u018fks halda, bu add\u0131m\u0131 atmaq yanl\u0131\u015fd\u0131r. Qad\u0131nlar\u0131n bo\u015fanma\u011fa getm\u0259sinin is\u0259 t\u0259k s\u0259b\u0259bi m\u0259n\u0259vi olaraq daha g\u00fccl\u00fc olmas\u0131, \u00e7\u0259tinlikl\u0259r qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda dayana bilm\u0259l\u0259ridir. He\u00e7 bir ki\u015fi qurdu\u011fu sakit, rahat ail\u0259 m\u00fchitini da\u011f\u0131tm\u0131r v\u0259 da\u011f\u0131tmaq ist\u0259mir. Qad\u0131nlar is\u0259 daha tez q\u0259rar verir. Bu q\u0259rar\u0131 ver\u0259n zaman ona &#8220;dur&#8221; dem\u0259yi bacaran v\u0259 fikrind\u0259n yay\u0131nd\u0131ran ki\u015fi laz\u0131md\u0131r ki, qad\u0131n yanl\u0131\u015f q\u0259rar verm\u0259sin\u201d.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>2024-c\u00fc il \u00fczr\u0259 Az\u0259rbaycan\u0131n bo\u015fanma statistikas\u0131 art\u0131m g\u00f6st\u0259rir. D\u00f6vl\u0259t Statistika Komit\u0259sinin m\u0259lumat\u0131na g\u00f6r\u0259, ilin ilk 2 ay\u0131nda 6,739 nikah v\u0259 3,456 bo\u015fanma qeyd\u0259 al\u0131n\u0131b. H\u0259r 1,000 n\u0259f\u0259r\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u0259n nikahlar\u0131n say\u0131 4.6-dan 4.0-a d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcb, bo\u015fanmalar is\u0259 1.8-d\u0259n 2.1-\u0259 y\u00fcks\u0259lib. &nbsp; Az\u0259rbaycan \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn son ill\u0259rd\u0259 bo\u015fanmalarla ba\u011fl\u0131 statistik m\u0259lumatlar qad\u0131nlar\u0131n daha \u00e7ox m\u00fcraci\u0259t etdiyini g\u00f6st\u0259rir. &nbsp; B\u0259s niy\u0259 \u0259n \u00e7ox qad\u0131nlar bo\u015fanmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn m\u00fcraci\u0259t edir? Bu n\u0259 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r? &nbsp; M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259ni yenisabah.az-a \u015f\u0259rh ed\u0259n psixoloq V\u00fcsal\u0259 R\u00fcst\u0259m bildirib ki, qad\u0131nlar\u0131n yax\u0131n ke\u00e7mi\u015fd\u0259 ail\u0259 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 anlay\u0131\u015flar\u0131 tam f\u0259rqli idi: &nbsp; \u201cValideynl\u0259r \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":770033,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/721abdc1ddf5ce348b0936ed5c7b31cd.jpeg",750,422,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/721abdc1ddf5ce348b0936ed5c7b31cd.jpeg",750,422,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/721abdc1ddf5ce348b0936ed5c7b31cd.jpeg",750,422,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/721abdc1ddf5ce348b0936ed5c7b31cd-500x280.jpeg",500,280,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/721abdc1ddf5ce348b0936ed5c7b31cd-649x365.jpeg",649,365,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/721abdc1ddf5ce348b0936ed5c7b31cd.jpeg",640,360,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/721abdc1ddf5ce348b0936ed5c7b31cd.jpeg",750,422,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/721abdc1ddf5ce348b0936ed5c7b31cd.jpeg",750,422,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/721abdc1ddf5ce348b0936ed5c7b31cd-240x172.jpeg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/721abdc1ddf5ce348b0936ed5c7b31cd.jpeg",750,422,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"<a href=\"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?cat=1\" rel=\"category\">C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"2024-c\u00fc il \u00fczr\u0259 Az\u0259rbaycan\u0131n bo\u015fanma statistikas\u0131 art\u0131m g\u00f6st\u0259rir. D\u00f6vl\u0259t Statistika Komit\u0259sinin m\u0259lumat\u0131na g\u00f6r\u0259, ilin ilk 2 ay\u0131nda 6,739 nikah v\u0259 3,456 bo\u015fanma qeyd\u0259 al\u0131n\u0131b. H\u0259r 1,000 n\u0259f\u0259r\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u0259n nikahlar\u0131n say\u0131 4.6-dan 4.0-a d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcb, bo\u015fanmalar is\u0259 1.8-d\u0259n 2.1-\u0259 y\u00fcks\u0259lib. &nbsp; Az\u0259rbaycan \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn son ill\u0259rd\u0259 bo\u015fanmalarla ba\u011fl\u0131 statistik m\u0259lumatlar qad\u0131nlar\u0131n daha \u00e7ox m\u00fcraci\u0259t etdiyini g\u00f6st\u0259rir. &nbsp; B\u0259s&hellip;","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/770032"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=770032"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/770032\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":770034,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/770032\/revisions\/770034"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/770033"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=770032"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=770032"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=770032"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}