U\u015faqlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131nda bu v\u0259 ya dig\u0259r s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rd\u0259n fobiyalar ola bil\u0259r – qaranl\u0131q fobiyas\u0131, t\u0259k qalmaq fobiyas\u0131, valideynl\u0259rini itirm\u0259k fobiyas\u0131 v\u0259 s.<\/p>\n
Bu fobiyalardan biri d\u0259 m\u0259kt\u0259b fobiyas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n
H\u0259r bir valideynin u\u015fa\u011f\u0131na olan arzular\u0131 vard\u0131r. Bunlardan biri d\u0259 m\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259 daxil olub, t\u0259hsilini m\u00fcv\u0259ff\u0259qiyy\u0259tl\u0259 ba\u015fa vura bilm\u0259sidir.<\/p>\n
Sentyabr qaba\u011f\u0131 haz\u0131rl\u0131qlar ba\u015flan\u0131r. Valideynl\u0259r u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131n d\u0259rs\u0259 ba\u015flamas\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn b\u00fct\u00fcn haz\u0131rl\u0131qlar\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcr.\u00a0Lakin m\u0259kt\u0259b h\u0259yat\u0131na ba\u015flamazdan \u0259vv\u0259l u\u015faqlar ilk n\u00f6vb\u0259d\u0259 sosial-psixoloji c\u0259h\u0259td\u0259n m\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259 haz\u0131r olmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/strong>\u00a0Haz\u0131r olmad\u0131qda bu u\u015faqlarda ciddi g\u0259rginlik yarad\u0131r. \u0130lk n\u00f6vb\u0259d\u0259 u\u015faq d\u0259rs\u0259 getm\u0259k ist\u0259m\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k, m\u0259kt\u0259bi qorxulu bir yer kimi yad\u0131nda saxlayacaq. Valideynl\u0259r bunu adi bir u\u015faq naz\u0131 kimi q\u0259bul ets\u0259l\u0259r bel\u0259, \u0259slind\u0259 bu he\u00e7 d\u0259 bel\u0259 deyil. \u00c7\u00fcnki bu onlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn he\u00e7 d\u0259 asan olmur. \u018fg\u0259r \u0259vv\u0259ll\u0259r h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131n m\u0259rk\u0259zind\u0259 sad\u0259c\u0259 oyun oynamaq idis\u0259, indi is\u0259 onlara m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n m\u0259suliyy\u0259tl\u0259r verilib.<\/p>\n Ayr\u0131ca m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n m\u00fcdd\u0259t partan\u0131n arxas\u0131nda \u0259yl\u0259\u015fm\u0259k, m\u00fc\u0259llim\u0259nin dedikl\u0259rin\u0259 qulaq asmaq u\u015faq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00e7\u0259tin olur.<\/p>\n M\u0259kt\u0259b s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn \u00f6z\u00fc bel\u0259 b\u0259z\u0259n u\u015faqlarda qorxu yarad\u0131r. Onlar el\u0259 hesab edirl\u0259r ki, m\u0259kt\u0259b ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131 andan valideynl\u0259r onlara oyun oynama\u011fa imkan verm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k, sad\u0259c\u0259 d\u0259rs el\u0259tdir\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259rini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrl\u0259r. Valideynl\u0259r u\u015faqlara bunun bel\u0259 olmayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 dan\u0131\u015fmal\u0131, ba\u015fa salmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n Bu bizl\u0259rd\u0259 d\u0259 bel\u0259dir. Yeni bir kollektiv\u0259 girdikd\u0259, biz ilk \u0259vv\u0259ll\u0259r h\u0259min kollektiv\u0259 tez bir zamanda adaptasiya olunmaq ist\u0259yirik. \u018fg\u0259r bu biz\u0259 bir qat a\u011f\u0131rd\u0131sa, bu onlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn on qat \u00e7\u0259tin olur. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 m\u0259kt\u0259b fobiyas\u0131n\u0131 adi \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131lamamal\u0131y\u0131q, u\u015faqlar\u0131n yan\u0131nda olmal\u0131y\u0131q, onlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bu y\u00fck\u00fc y\u00fcng\u00fcll\u0259\u015fdirm\u0259liyik.<\/p>\n \u018fslind\u0259 m\u0259kt\u0259bi ba\u015fqa c\u00fcr dan\u0131\u015fsaq, sevilm\u0259y\u0259n t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259rind\u0259n (s\u0259h\u0259r tezd\u0259n durmaq, m\u0259suliyy\u0259t da\u015f\u0131maq v\u0259 s.) \u00e7ox sevil\u0259n t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259rini dan\u0131\u015fsaq – onlara qazand\u0131\u011f\u0131 yeni dostlarla birlikd\u0259 vaxt ke\u00e7ird\u0259 bil\u0259c\u0259yini, d\u0259rsl\u0259ri il\u0259 yana\u015f\u0131 oyun da oynaya bil\u0259c\u0259yini, yeni bilgil\u0259r ala bil\u0259c\u0259yini v\u0259 s. – u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n m\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259 adaptasiyas\u0131 daha asan ke\u00e7\u0259c\u0259k.<\/p>\n Biz valideynl\u0259r m\u0259kt\u0259b h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131n adaptasiya d\u00f6vr\u00fcnd\u0259 daim u\u015faqlar\u0131n yan\u0131nda olmal\u0131y\u0131q. H\u0259r g\u00fcn m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259n g\u0259l\u0259rk\u0259n bu g\u00fcn n\u0259 etdiyini soru\u015fsaq daha yax\u015f\u0131 olar. Bununla u\u015faq h\u0259m sevildiyini, h\u0259m d\u0259 onlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn vacib olduqlar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6st\u0259rin. M\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259 ba\u015f\u0131na g\u0259l\u0259n u\u011fursuzluqlara bel\u0259 sakit \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 qulaq as\u0131b, onlar\u0131n ham\u0131n\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131na g\u0259l\u0259 bil\u0259c\u0259yini, adi u\u011fursuzluqda bel\u0259 h\u0259r zaman onun yan\u0131nda olaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 onlara g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259k.\u00a0“M\u0259n\u0259 g\u00fcv\u0259n\u0259 bil\u0259rs\u0259n – m\u0259n s\u0259ni h\u0259r zaman dinl\u0259y\u0259c\u0259m, s\u0259ninl\u0259 h\u0259r \u015feyin \u00f6hd\u0259sind\u0259n g\u0259l\u0259 bil\u0259rik” kimi ifad\u0259l\u0259r onlar\u0131 rahatla\u015fd\u0131r\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnki onlar arxalar\u0131nda g\u00fcv\u0259ndikl\u0259ri insan\u0131n oldu\u011funu bil\u0259nd\u0259, bu onlara \u00f6zg\u00fcv\u0259n verir.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u018fn \u0259sas\u0131 h\u0259r zaman u\u015faqlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n \u0259lind\u0259n tutub g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc onlarla \u0259yl\u0259nc\u0259li hala \u00e7evirm\u0259liyik.<\/p>\n U\u015faqlar bu d\u00f6vrd\u0259 h\u0259ssas ola bilirl\u0259r. Onlara yana\u015fark\u0259n bunu n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 almaq laz\u0131md\u0131r. Bu d\u00f6vr\u00fc d\u00fczg\u00fcn \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 ke\u00e7irtm\u0259liyik ki, sonrak\u0131 d\u00f6vrl\u0259r u\u015faq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00e7\u0259tin olmas\u0131n. \u00c7\u00fcnki sonrak\u0131 d\u00f6vrl\u0259r – yeniyetm\u0259lik, erk\u0259n g\u0259nclik d\u00f6vr\u00fc – onlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn yeni probleml\u0259r yarad\u0131r. Bu d\u00f6vrl\u0259r onlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn daha \u00e7\u0259tin ke\u00e7\u0259 bil\u0259r.<\/p>\n U\u015faqlarda m\u0259kt\u0259b fobiyas\u0131 ciddi \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259rs\u0259, bu zaman psixoloq m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259ti al\u0131nsa yax\u015f\u0131 olar.<\/p>\n U\u015faqlar\u0131m\u0131za ver\u0259 bil\u0259c\u0259yimiz \u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck x\u0259zin\u0259 – sevgimizdir<\/strong>!<\/strong><\/p>\n \u018fliyeva G\u00fcnel<\/p>\n Psixoloq<\/p>\n Dushunce.az<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" U\u015faqlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131nda bu v\u0259 ya dig\u0259r s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rd\u0259n fobiyalar ola bil\u0259r – qaranl\u0131q fobiyas\u0131, t\u0259k qalmaq fobiyas\u0131, valideynl\u0259rini itirm\u0259k fobiyas\u0131 v\u0259 s. Bu fobiyalardan biri d\u0259 m\u0259kt\u0259b fobiyas\u0131d\u0131r. H\u0259r bir valideynin u\u015fa\u011f\u0131na olan arzular\u0131 vard\u0131r. Bunlardan biri d\u0259 m\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259 daxil olub, t\u0259hsilini m\u00fcv\u0259ff\u0259qiyy\u0259tl\u0259 ba\u015fa vura bilm\u0259sidir. Sentyabr qaba\u011f\u0131 haz\u0131rl\u0131qlar ba\u015flan\u0131r. Valideynl\u0259r u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131n d\u0259rs\u0259 ba\u015flamas\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn b\u00fct\u00fcn haz\u0131rl\u0131qlar\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcr.\u00a0Lakin m\u0259kt\u0259b h\u0259yat\u0131na ba\u015flamazdan \u0259vv\u0259l u\u015faqlar ilk n\u00f6vb\u0259d\u0259 sosial-psixoloji c\u0259h\u0259td\u0259n m\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259 haz\u0131r olmal\u0131d\u0131r.\u00a0Haz\u0131r olmad\u0131qda bu u\u015faqlarda ciddi g\u0259rginlik yarad\u0131r. \u0130lk n\u00f6vb\u0259d\u0259 u\u015faq d\u0259rs\u0259 getm\u0259k ist\u0259m\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k, m\u0259kt\u0259bi qorxulu bir yer kimi yad\u0131nda saxlayacaq. Valideynl\u0259r bunu…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":77548,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/mekteb-fobiyasi.jpg",500,350,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/mekteb-fobiyasi.jpg",500,350,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/mekteb-fobiyasi.jpg",500,350,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/mekteb-fobiyasi-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/mekteb-fobiyasi-300x210.jpg",300,210,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/mekteb-fobiyasi.jpg",500,350,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/mekteb-fobiyasi.jpg",500,350,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/mekteb-fobiyasi.jpg",500,350,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/mekteb-fobiyasi-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/mekteb-fobiyasi.jpg",500,350,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"U\u015faqlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131nda bu v\u0259 ya dig\u0259r s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rd\u0259n fobiyalar ola bil\u0259r – qaranl\u0131q fobiyas\u0131, t\u0259k qalmaq fobiyas\u0131, valideynl\u0259rini itirm\u0259k fobiyas\u0131 v\u0259 s. Bu fobiyalardan biri d\u0259 m\u0259kt\u0259b fobiyas\u0131d\u0131r. H\u0259r bir valideynin u\u015fa\u011f\u0131na olan arzular\u0131 vard\u0131r. Bunlardan biri d\u0259 m\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259 daxil olub, t\u0259hsilini m\u00fcv\u0259ff\u0259qiyy\u0259tl\u0259 ba\u015fa vura bilm\u0259sidir. Sentyabr qaba\u011f\u0131 haz\u0131rl\u0131qlar ba\u015flan\u0131r. Valideynl\u0259r u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131n d\u0259rs\u0259 ba\u015flamas\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn b\u00fct\u00fcn…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/77547"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=77547"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/77547\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/77548"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=77547"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=77547"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=77547"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}