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ARANTV.AZ<\/strong> \u00f6lk\u0259.az-a istinad\u0259n bildirir ki, Rusiya m\u0259tbuat\u0131 bu suala cavab axtaran m\u0259qal\u0259 d\u0259rc edib v\u0259 insan\u0131n \u00f6z sevgisini tapmas\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn 8 yol g\u00f6st\u0259rib. M\u0259qal\u0259d\u0259 Marina adl\u0131 bir qad\u0131n \u00f6z h\u0259yat hekay\u0259sini n\u0259ql edir.<\/p>\n De, s\u0259n indi emosional ba\u011flanma v\u0259ziyy\u0259tind\u0259 olursan, yoxsa m\u0259h\u0259bb\u0259t mac\u0259ras\u0131na, romanlar\u0131na a\u00e7\u0131qsan? S\u0259n ke\u00e7mi\u015f m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rinl\u0259 h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259lik vidala\u015fm\u0131san? Ba\u015fqa bir yerd\u0259 b\u00fct\u00fcn ki\u015fil\u0259rd\u0259 x\u0259yal q\u0131r\u0131ql\u0131\u011f\u0131 kimi m\u0259nfi hissl\u0259r haqq\u0131nda m\u0259lumat verirl\u0259rs\u0259, onda \u0259b\u0259di olaraq onlarla vidala\u015fmaq vaxt\u0131d\u0131r. Ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131zda v\u0259 \u00fcr\u0259yinizd\u0259 bir yer azad etm\u0259lisiniz. Bu, dem\u0259k olar ki, bahar\u0131n \u0259vv\u0259lind\u0259 q\u0131\u015f \u0259\u015fyalar\u0131n\u0131n dolab\u0131ndak\u0131 y\u0131r-y\u0131\u011f\u0131\u015fla eynid\u0131r.<\/p>\n Eyni \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259tli proses. N\u0259 ist\u0259diyinizi bilirik. S\u0259n, sad\u0259c\u0259, t\u0259nhal\u0131\u011f\u0131 r\u0259ngl\u0259m\u0259k ist\u0259yirs\u0259n? Yoxsa g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131 qar\u015f\u0131lamaq ist\u0259yirs\u0259n? Siz\u0259 m\u00fctl\u0259q se\u00e7im etm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r. \u018fks t\u0259qdird\u0259, s\u0259n\u0259 he\u00e7 uy\u011fun g\u0259lm\u0259y\u0259n g\u0259ncl\u0259rl\u0259 tan\u0131\u015f olma\u011fa xeyli vaxt s\u0259rf ed\u0259c\u0259ks\u0259n. Qeyri-m\u00fck\u0259mm\u0259llikl\u0259 bar\u0131\u015f\u0131n. Bir \u00e7ox q\u0131zlar bel\u0259 y\u00fcks\u0259k standartlar\u0131 qoyurlar ki, real d\u00fcnyada bel\u0259 bir insan\u0131 tapmaq m\u00fcmk\u00fcn deyil. Sonra onlar niy\u0259 h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 t\u0259k olduqlar\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn t\u0259\u0259cc\u00fcbl\u0259nirl\u0259r. Siz\u0259 \u00f6z hekay\u0259mi s\u00f6yl\u0259y\u0259c\u0259y\u0259m: g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k t\u0259r\u0259fda\u015f\u0131m\u0131n portretini haz\u0131rlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m zaman, b\u00fct\u00fcn siyah\u0131dan (40-dan \u00e7ox bal \u0259ld\u0259 edildi) sonra yaln\u0131z 5 se\u00e7dim ki, bu da m\u0259nim \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn vacibdir. M\u0259ni \u00e7ox \u00e7\u0259tin se\u00e7im g\u00f6zl\u0259yirdi, emosional olaraq yetkin, a\u011f\u0131ll\u0131 v\u0259 m\u00fcst\u0259qil, m\u0259nd\u0259n \u00fcst\u00fcn v\u0259 y\u00fcks\u0259k yumor hissi il\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131lad\u0131m. Siyah\u0131mda siqaret \u00e7\u0259km\u0259y\u0259n, m\u00fcv\u0259ff\u0259qiyy\u0259tli t\u0259\u015f\u0259bb\u00fcskar, idman fiziki kimi madd\u0259l\u0259r d\u0259 var idi. Sonra 5 \u0259sas x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259t\u0259 xas olan bir adamla tan\u0131\u015f oldum, amma qalanlar\u0131 il\u0259 art\u0131q birlikd\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r\u0131q. Yaln\u0131z g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z zaman, m\u0259nim yolda\u015f\u0131m siqaret \u00e7\u0259kirdi, amma bir ne\u00e7\u0259 aydan sonra bu v\u0259rdi\u015f\u0259 son qoydu.<\/p>\n T\u00f6vsiyy\u0259: Sizin x\u0259yallar\u0131n\u0131zdak\u0131 adam qap\u0131n\u0131 d\u00f6y\u0259n deyil. M\u00fcxt\u0259lif t\u0259dbirl\u0259rd\u0259 i\u015ftirak et, yeni insanlarla tan\u0131\u015f ol, dair\u0259y\u0259 yaz\u0131l v\u0259 ya yeni hobbi tap, s\u0259yah\u0259t\u0259 \u00e7\u0131x. Facebookda, yerli q\u0259zetd\u0259 bir \u00e7ox m\u00fcxt\u0259lif t\u0259dbirl\u0259r. \u0130lk add\u0131m\u0131 at. Onunla birinci dan\u0131\u015f.\u00a0Bir statistikaya g\u00f6r\u0259, indi c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259rin 5-d\u0259n 1-i internetd\u0259 tan\u0131\u015f olur. Bel\u0259 bir xidm\u0259ti bir \u00e7ox saytlar t\u0259min edir. Yaln\u0131z g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u0259 kor-koran\u0259 getdiyiniz zaman sad\u0259 t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259sizlik qaydalar\u0131na riay\u0259t edin.<\/p>\n Yadda saxla: \u0130lk g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fd\u0259c\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc g\u00f6st\u0259rin.\u018fg\u0259r \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc birinci d\u0259f\u0259 g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259s\u0259n, he\u00e7 vaxt ikinci g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f olmayacaq. \u00d6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc maraql\u0131 g\u00f6st\u0259rin, zarafat edin. \u00c7ox vacibdir: b\u00fct\u00fcn m\u0259nfi v\u0259 neqativ \u015feyl\u0259ri gerid\u0259 burax\u0131n. Ki\u015fil\u0259r daim bir \u015feyd\u0259n \u015fikay\u0259t ed\u0259n q\u0131zlara d\u00f6z\u0259 bilm\u0259zl\u0259r. M\u00fcsb\u0259t m\u00fcnasib\u0259t g\u00f6st\u0259rin.\u00a0H\u0259tta \u0259g\u0259r s\u0259n art\u0131q yuxar\u0131da sadalananlar\u0131n ham\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 edirs\u0259ns\u0259 v\u0259 h\u0259l\u0259 he\u00e7 kim\u0259 rast g\u0259lm\u0259mis\u0259ns\u0259 d\u0259, dayanma v\u0259 h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259rin\u0259 son qoyma. Sevgi yaln\u0131z onu axtaranlara g\u0259lir. Bu m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259n hans\u0131 sizin \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u0259n qiym\u0259tlidir? Sevginizi tapmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bu g\u00fcn f\u0259rqli n\u0259 ed\u0259c\u0259ksiniz? \u015e\u0259rhl\u0259rinizi yaz\u0131n\u0131n alt\u0131nda qeyd ed\u0259 bil\u0259rsiniz.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Sevgi v\u0259 m\u0259h\u0259bb\u0259ti nec\u0259 tapmaq olar? Bu sual \u00e7ox q\u0131zlar\u0131 narahat edir. 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Bu sual \u00e7ox q\u0131zlar\u0131 narahat edir. ARANTV.AZ \u00f6lk\u0259.az-a istinad\u0259n bildirir ki, Rusiya m\u0259tbuat\u0131 bu suala cavab axtaran m\u0259qal\u0259 d\u0259rc edib v\u0259 insan\u0131n \u00f6z sevgisini tapmas\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn 8 yol g\u00f6st\u0259rib. M\u0259qal\u0259d\u0259 Marina adl\u0131 bir qad\u0131n \u00f6z h\u0259yat hekay\u0259sini n\u0259ql edir. 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