Bir ne\u00e7\u0259 g\u00fcn \u0259vv\u0259l Bak\u0131da g\u0259ncin ni\u015fanlanaca\u011f\u0131 q\u0131z\u0131 amans\u0131zl\u0131qla \u00f6ld\u00fcrm\u0259si x\u0259b\u0259ri e\u015fid\u0259n h\u0259r k\u0259sin qan\u0131n\u0131 dondurdu. \u00d6ld\u00fcr\u0259nin 21, \u00f6l\u0259nin c\u0259mi 17 ya\u015f\u0131 vard\u0131. H\u0259r ikisi h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131n bahar \u00e7a\u011f\u0131nda idil\u0259r. Kim bilir, bu iki g\u0259ncin q\u0259lbind\u0259 bir-biri il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 hans\u0131 \u00fcmidl\u0259r, hans\u0131 arzular vard\u0131?!
\n\u015eahidl\u0259rin verdiyi m\u0259lumata g\u00f6r\u0259, q\u0259tli t\u00f6r\u0259d\u0259n El\u00e7in Q\u0259dimov \u0259rzaq ma\u011fazas\u0131 i\u015fl\u0259dirmi\u015f. Y\u0259ni, t\u00fcfeyli h\u0259yat t\u0259rzi ke\u00e7ir\u0259n biri olmay\u0131b. Ni\u015fanl\u0131s\u0131 Ayt\u0259n C\u0259f\u0259rova da ortabab dolanan ail\u0259nin q\u0131z\u0131 olub.
\nH\u00fcquq-m\u00fchafiz\u0259 orqanlar\u0131n\u0131n m\u0259lumat\u0131na g\u00f6r\u0259, bir m\u00fcdd\u0259t \u0259vv\u0259l Ayt\u0259nl\u0259 El\u00e7in aras\u0131nda m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r yaran\u0131b v\u0259 g\u0259nc o\u011flan q\u0131za onunla ni\u015fanlanaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 deyib. Lakin sonradan onlar\u0131n aras\u0131ndak\u0131 m\u00fcnasib\u0259t pozulub v\u0259 El\u00e7in Ayt\u0259n\u0259 el\u00e7i g\u00f6nd\u0259rm\u0259kd\u0259n imtina edib. O\u011flan\u0131n bu h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tind\u0259n hidd\u0259tl\u0259n\u0259n Ayt\u0259n El\u00e7in\u0259 z\u0259ng edib. Bu z\u0259ngd\u0259n sonra El\u00e7in babas\u0131ndan qalan t\u00fcf\u0259ngi g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u0259r\u0259k q\u0131zgilin evin\u0259 g\u0259lib.
\nMusavat.com-un \u0259ld\u0259 etdiyi m\u0259lumata \u0259sas\u0259n, may\u0131n 31-i ax\u015fam saat 10 rad\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259 qon\u015fular C\u0259f\u0259rovlar\u0131n evind\u0259n g\u00fcll\u0259 s\u0259si e\u015fidirl\u0259r. N\u0259 ba\u015f verdiyini \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn hadis\u0259 yerin\u0259 ged\u0259nd\u0259 onlar\u0131 Ayt\u0259nin anas\u0131 qanlar i\u00e7ind\u0259 \u201cqar\u015f\u0131lay\u0131b\u201d. S\u0259n dem\u0259, El\u00e7in ov t\u00fcf\u0259ngi il\u0259 q\u0131z\u0131 g\u00fcll\u0259l\u0259m\u0259k ist\u0259y\u0259rk\u0259n Ayt\u0259nin anas\u0131 Esmira C\u0259f\u0259rova \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc qaba\u011fa verib. N\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259 ana v\u0259 q\u0131z\u0131 g\u00fcll\u0259 yaralar\u0131 al\u0131blar. Yaral\u0131lar\u0131n h\u0259r ikisi d\u0259 x\u0259st\u0259xanaya yerl\u0259\u015fdirils\u0259 d\u0259, h\u0259kiml\u0259r 17 ya\u015fl\u0131 Ayt\u0259nin h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131 xilas ed\u0259 bilm\u0259yibl\u0259r.<\/p>\n
Ana-balan\u0131 g\u00fcll\u0259l\u0259y\u0259n \u015f\u0259xs \u0259vv\u0259l hadis\u0259 yerind\u0259n uzaqla\u015fsa da, sonradan polis b\u00f6lm\u0259sin\u0259 gedib. E.Q\u0259dimov Ayt\u0259nin onu s\u00f6yd\u00fcy\u00fcn\u00fc dey\u0259r\u0259k t\u00f6r\u0259tdiyi d\u0259h\u015f\u0259tli q\u0259tl\u0259 \u201chaqq donu\u201d geydirib. Bundan sonras\u0131 is\u0259 h\u00fcquq-m\u00fchafiz\u0259 orqanlar\u0131n\u0131n i\u015fidir. Biz is\u0259 bu v\u0259 buna b\u0259nz\u0259r formada t\u00f6r\u0259dilmi\u015f m\u0259i\u015f\u0259t z\u0259minind\u0259 cinay\u0259tl\u0259rin p\u0259rd\u0259 arxas\u0131n\u0131 analiz etm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015faca\u011f\u0131q. Ail\u0259 daxili cinay\u0259tl\u0259rin k\u00f6k\u00fcnd\u0259 duran \u0259sas s\u0259b\u0259b n\u0259dir? Nec\u0259 olur ki, b\u0259zi insanlar d\u00fcn\u0259n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 do\u011fma bildiyi adam\u0131 bu g\u00fcn \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u0259 bilir?<\/p>\n
Psixoloq F\u0259rqan\u0259 Mehmanq\u0131z\u0131 s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, insan \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259tinin formala\u015fmas\u0131nda \u0259traf m\u00fchit v\u0259 \u0259trafdak\u0131 insanlar\u0131n ona m\u00fcnasib\u0259tinin \u00e7ox b\u00f6y\u00fck rolu var:\u00a0\u201c\u0130nsan\u0131n \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259tind\u0259 h\u0259r hans\u0131 bir psixoloji problemi ara\u015fd\u0131rark\u0259n \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259tin yaranma prosesin\u0259 gedib \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r\u0131q. \u0130nsan\u0131n q\u0259ddar, aqressiv, hikk\u0259lildirs\u0259, qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fi anlam\u0131r v\u0259 empati qura bilmirs\u0259, s\u0259b\u0259bi \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259tind\u0259 olan probleml\u0259rdir. Binan\u0131n keyfiyy\u0259ti t\u0259m\u0259lind\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131d\u0131r. T\u0259m\u0259l m\u00f6hk\u0259mdirs\u0259, bina da d\u00f6z\u00fcml\u00fc olacaq. \u015e\u0259xsiyy\u0259tin formala\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131n da t\u0259m\u0259li 0-8 ya\u015f aras\u0131nda qoyulur. \u018fsas da 2 ya\u015fdan sonra formala\u015f\u0131r. \u015e\u0259xsiyy\u0259t ail\u0259nin, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n yax\u0131n\u0131nda olanlar\u0131n, \u0259traf\u0131n ona g\u00f6st\u0259rdiyi m\u00fcnasib\u0259tind\u0259n formala\u015f\u0131r. \u015e\u0259xsiyy\u0259td\u0259 d\u0259 m\u00f6hk\u0259mlik m\u00fcnasib\u0259tin d\u00fczg\u00fcnl\u00fcy\u00fcnd\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131d\u0131r. U\u015fa\u011f\u0131n beyni s\u00fcng\u0259r kimidir. N\u0259 g\u00f6rs\u0259, g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcr. V\u0259 bu g\u00f6t\u00fcrd\u00fckl\u0259ri d\u0259 \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259ti formala\u015fd\u0131r\u0131r. Zamanla \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259t formala\u015f\u0131r v\u0259 b\u0259rkiyir, korreksiya olunmaz hala g\u0259lib \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r. Ancaq o zaman korreksiya oluna bilir ki, \u00f6z\u00fc-\u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259 m\u0259nfil\u0259ri g\u00f6r\u00fcr v\u0259 m\u0259nfil\u0259rin \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131r. Ail\u0259 daxili zorak\u0131l\u0131q varsa, bu zorak\u0131l\u0131q u\u015fa\u011fa ke\u00e7irs\u0259 v\u0259 u\u015faq zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n \u015fahidi olursa, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259tind\u0259 h\u0259r hans\u0131 travmalar qoyur. Bu travmalar aqressiya, kin, q\u0131sqancl\u0131q, eqoizm, s\u0259birsizlik v\u0259 \u015fidd\u0259t yarad\u0131r. H\u0259r hans\u0131 bir aqressiyadan s\u00f6hb\u0259t gedirs\u0259, ard\u0131nca m\u00fctl\u0259q \u015fidd\u0259t g\u0259lir. B\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar da, \u0259sas\u0259n d\u0259 yeniyetm\u0259lik d\u00f6vr\u00fcnd\u0259n sonra \u015f\u0259xsd\u0259 depressiyalar \u0259m\u0259l\u0259 g\u0259tirir. Depressiyalar da sonda qatil, cinay\u0259tkar\u0131 formala\u015fd\u0131r\u0131r. Bel\u0259 insanlar\u0131n dala\u015fanda, \u0259s\u0259bil\u0259\u015f\u0259nd\u0259 qatil olma ehtimal\u0131 daha b\u00f6y\u00fckd\u00fcr. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 \u00f6vlad b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u0259nd\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmal\u0131y\u0131q ki, ona el\u0259 t\u0259m\u0259l qoyaq ki, g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259yin qatili yeti\u015fdirm\u0259y\u0259k. Yax\u015f\u0131 \u0259r olmaq h\u0259l\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131 ata olmaq dem\u0259k deyil. Yaxud da yax\u015f\u0131 arvad olmaq, yax\u015f\u0131 ana olmaq dem\u0259k deyil\u201d.
\nPsixoloqun fikrinc\u0259, qad\u0131nlara \u0259l qald\u0131ran ki\u015fi u\u015faql\u0131qda d\u00f6y\u00fcl\u0259n o\u011fland\u0131r:\u00a0\u201cC\u0259miyy\u0259t\u0259 bax\u0131n, insanlar\u0131n \u00fcz\u00fcnd\u0259n z\u0259hrimar ya\u011f\u0131r. Sanki insanlar ancaq \u015f\u0259kil \u00e7\u0259kdirib sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259d\u0259 payla\u015fmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ya\u015fay\u0131rlar. He\u00e7 n\u0259d\u0259n h\u0259zz alm\u0131rlar. Ancaq ba\u015fqa birind\u0259n \u00fcst\u00fcn oldu\u011funu g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar. Bu da daxild\u0259ki travmalardan x\u0259b\u0259r verir. Adam var, deyir, \u201d\u0259\u015fi, m\u0259n d\u0259 u\u015faq vaxt\u0131 d\u00f6y\u00fclm\u00fc\u015f\u0259m, m\u0259n\u0259 he\u00e7 n\u0259 olmay\u0131b”. Nec\u0259 y\u0259ni he\u00e7 n\u0259 olmay\u0131b? \u0130\u015fg\u0259nc\u0259ni normal q\u0259bul edirs\u0259n. Bundan art\u0131q s\u0259n\u0259 n\u0259 olmal\u0131d\u0131r? \u0130nsan h\u0259r hans\u0131 al\u00e7ald\u0131c\u0131 s\u00f6z\u00fc, zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 adi hal kimi q\u0259bul edirs\u0259, bu, el\u0259 psixoloji problemdir. Bel\u0259 u\u015faqlar b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u0259nd\u0259 ba\u015fqalar\u0131na qar\u015f\u0131 zorak\u0131l\u0131q edirl\u0259r. Zorak\u0131l\u0131q y\u0131\u011f\u0131l\u0131b cinay\u0259t\u0259 \u00e7evrilir. He\u00e7 n\u0259 bird\u0259n-bir\u0259 ba\u015f vermir. H\u0259r ey x\u0131rda-x\u0131rda ba\u015flay\u0131r”.
\nMehmanq\u0131z\u0131 hesab edir ki, g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 bu kimi cinay\u0259tl\u0259rin qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 almaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn u\u015faqlar\u0131n yan\u0131nda kin-k\u00fcdur\u0259t haqda dan\u0131\u015fmaq olmaz:\u00a0\u201cH\u0259r bir \u015f\u0259xsin formala\u015fmas\u0131nda t\u0259m\u0259l n\u00f6qt\u0259 ail\u0259, ail\u0259nin m\u00fcnasib\u0259ti v\u0259 sevgidir. U\u015faqda eqoistlik varsa, onu korreksiya etm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r. B\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar\u0131 d\u00fczg\u00fcn y\u00f6nd\u0259 ets\u0259k, g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 cinay\u0259tl\u0259rin qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 al\u0131nacaq. \u00c7\u00fcnki depressiya, psixi poz\u011funlu\u011fun qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131 al\u0131nm\u0131\u015f olacaq. C\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 \u201dm\u0259nim u\u015fa\u011f\u0131m”, \u201cm\u0259nim balam\u201d, \u201cm\u0259nim \u00f6vlad\u0131m\u201d v\u0259 s. dey\u0259 ifad\u0259l\u0259r var. El\u0259 bir \u015fey yoxdur. U\u015faq s\u0259n\u0259dl\u0259 s\u0259nin ola bil\u0259r, 2 ya\u015f\u0131ndan sonra u\u015faq c\u0259miyy\u0259t aras\u0131na \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r. Ba\u011f\u00e7aya, m\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259, universitet\u0259 gedir. \u00d6vlad d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259tirirs\u0259ns\u0259, c\u0259miyy\u0259t \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259t yeti\u015fdirm\u0259lis\u0259n”.<\/p>\n
Xat\u0131rladaq ki, \u00a0Aytac Babayeva da 17 ya\u015f\u0131\u0131nda 20 ya\u015fl\u0131 \u0130zz\u0259t H\u00fcseynov t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n b\u0131\u00e7aqlanaraq \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fclm\u00fc\u015fd\u00fc.
\nL\u0259man MUTAFAQIZI,<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Psixoloq: \u201cQad\u0131nlara \u0259l qald\u0131ran ki\u015fi u\u015faql\u0131qda d\u00f6y\u00fcl\u0259n o\u011fland\u0131r\u201d Bir ne\u00e7\u0259 g\u00fcn \u0259vv\u0259l Bak\u0131da g\u0259ncin ni\u015fanlanaca\u011f\u0131 q\u0131z\u0131 amans\u0131zl\u0131qla \u00f6ld\u00fcrm\u0259si x\u0259b\u0259ri e\u015fid\u0259n h\u0259r k\u0259sin qan\u0131n\u0131 dondurdu. \u00d6ld\u00fcr\u0259nin 21, \u00f6l\u0259nin c\u0259mi 17 ya\u015f\u0131 vard\u0131. H\u0259r ikisi h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131n bahar \u00e7a\u011f\u0131nda idil\u0259r. Kim bilir, bu iki g\u0259ncin q\u0259lbind\u0259 bir-biri il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 hans\u0131 \u00fcmidl\u0259r, hans\u0131 arzular vard\u0131?! \u015eahidl\u0259rin verdiyi m\u0259lumata g\u00f6r\u0259, q\u0259tli t\u00f6r\u0259d\u0259n El\u00e7in Q\u0259dimov \u0259rzaq ma\u011fazas\u0131 i\u015fl\u0259dirmi\u015f. Y\u0259ni, t\u00fcfeyli h\u0259yat t\u0259rzi ke\u00e7ir\u0259n biri olmay\u0131b. Ni\u015fanl\u0131s\u0131 Ayt\u0259n C\u0259f\u0259rova da ortabab dolanan ail\u0259nin q\u0131z\u0131 olub. H\u00fcquq-m\u00fchafiz\u0259 orqanlar\u0131n\u0131n m\u0259lumat\u0131na g\u00f6r\u0259, bir m\u00fcdd\u0259t \u0259vv\u0259l Ayt\u0259nl\u0259 El\u00e7in aras\u0131nda m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r yaran\u0131b…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":77892,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/1528127490_1499503800_17076391_408927536124510_851425268551437.jpg",450,300,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/1528127490_1499503800_17076391_408927536124510_851425268551437.jpg",450,300,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/1528127490_1499503800_17076391_408927536124510_851425268551437.jpg",450,300,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/1528127490_1499503800_17076391_408927536124510_851425268551437-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/1528127490_1499503800_17076391_408927536124510_851425268551437-300x200.jpg",300,200,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/1528127490_1499503800_17076391_408927536124510_851425268551437.jpg",450,300,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/1528127490_1499503800_17076391_408927536124510_851425268551437.jpg",450,300,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/1528127490_1499503800_17076391_408927536124510_851425268551437.jpg",450,300,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/1528127490_1499503800_17076391_408927536124510_851425268551437-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/1528127490_1499503800_17076391_408927536124510_851425268551437.jpg",450,300,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"Psixoloq: \u201cQad\u0131nlara \u0259l qald\u0131ran ki\u015fi u\u015faql\u0131qda d\u00f6y\u00fcl\u0259n o\u011fland\u0131r\u201d Bir ne\u00e7\u0259 g\u00fcn \u0259vv\u0259l Bak\u0131da g\u0259ncin ni\u015fanlanaca\u011f\u0131 q\u0131z\u0131 amans\u0131zl\u0131qla \u00f6ld\u00fcrm\u0259si x\u0259b\u0259ri e\u015fid\u0259n h\u0259r k\u0259sin qan\u0131n\u0131 dondurdu. \u00d6ld\u00fcr\u0259nin 21, \u00f6l\u0259nin c\u0259mi 17 ya\u015f\u0131 vard\u0131. H\u0259r ikisi h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131n bahar \u00e7a\u011f\u0131nda idil\u0259r. 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