{"id":786271,"date":"2025-02-07T10:08:24","date_gmt":"2025-02-07T06:08:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=786271"},"modified":"2025-02-07T10:08:24","modified_gmt":"2025-02-07T06:08:24","slug":"burcl%c9%99r-ayriligi-bel%c9%99-yasayir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=786271","title":{"rendered":"B\u00fcrcl\u0259r ayr\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 BEL\u018f YA\u015eAYIR"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ayr\u0131l\u0131qdan sonra Q\u0131zlar h\u0259tta m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rin bitdiyin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 minn\u0259tdar ola bil\u0259rl\u0259r, lakin Bal\u0131qlar \u00e7ox narahat olurlar.<\/strong><\/p>\n

B\u00fcrcl\u0259rin ayr\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 nec\u0259 ya\u015fad\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259qdim edirik.<\/p>\n

Qo\u00e7 – g\u00fcnl\u0259ri yeni insanlarla doldurur<\/strong><\/p>\n

Qo\u00e7 q\u0259tiyy\u0259tli v\u0259 sars\u0131lmazd\u0131r. \u018fg\u0259r ayr\u0131l\u0131q ba\u015f veribs\u0259, bu, onlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn art\u0131q ke\u00e7mi\u015fin bir hiss\u0259sidir. Ke\u00e7mi\u015f t\u0259r\u0259fda\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n b\u00fct\u00fcn xatir\u0259l\u0259rini m\u0259hv etm\u0259y\u0259 q\u0259rar ver\u0259rk\u0259n t\u0259r\u0259dd\u00fcd etm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259r. Onlar h\u0259m\u00e7inin g\u00fcnd\u0259lik i\u015fl\u0259rini yeni insanlar v\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u0259c\u0259k yeni i\u015fl\u0259rl\u0259 doldurma\u011fa ba\u015flayacaqlar. Qo\u00e7 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ke\u00e7mi\u015f m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259ri d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259m\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn t\u0259k qalmamaq vacibdir.<\/p>\n

Bu\u011fa – x\u00fcsusi i\u015fl\u0259rd\u0259 t\u0259s\u0259lli axtar\u0131r<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ayr\u0131l\u0131qdan sonra Bu\u011fa \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn h\u0259yat h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259ki kimi davam edir. Onlar, \u0259lb\u0259tt\u0259 ki, daxili iztirablar ya\u015fayacaqlar, lakin eyni zamanda, g\u00fcnd\u0259lik h\u0259yatda inamla t\u0259s\u0259lli axtaracaqlar. Onlar\u0131n fikrinc\u0259, yaln\u0131z zaman h\u0259r \u015feyi d\u00fcz\u0259ld\u0259 bil\u0259r.<\/p>\n

\u018fkizl\u0259r – emosional \u00e7uxura d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259k<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u018fkizl\u0259r ayr\u0131l\u0131qdan sonra t\u0259k qalma\u011fa d\u00f6z\u0259 bilm\u0259zl\u0259r. H\u0259m d\u0259 tez-tez bu i\u015far\u0259nin n\u00fcmay\u0259nd\u0259l\u0259ri ayr\u0131ld\u0131qdan sonra duy\u011fular\u0131n\u0131 idar\u0259 ed\u0259 bilmirl\u0259r v\u0259 emosional bir \u00e7uxura gir\u0259r\u0259k m\u0259ntiqsiz h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259t etm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131rlar. \u015eidd\u0259tli a\u011fr\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6hd\u0259sind\u0259n g\u0259lm\u0259yin yegan\u0259 yolu, onlar\u0131n fikrinc\u0259, \u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 v\u0259 ke\u00e7mi\u015f t\u0259r\u0259fda\u015f\u0131na \u00e7ox g\u00fclm\u0259kdir.<\/p>\n

X\u0259r\u00e7\u0259ng – uzun m\u00fcdd\u0259t narahat olur<\/strong><\/p>\n

X\u0259r\u00e7\u0259ngin yaln\u0131z \u00fc\u00e7 davam ed\u0259 bil\u0259c\u0259k bir \u0259laq\u0259ni bitirm\u0259si alt\u0131 ay \u00e7\u0259k\u0259c\u0259k. Ayr\u0131ld\u0131qdan sonra bir ne\u00e7\u0259 h\u0259ft\u0259 \u0259ziyy\u0259t \u00e7\u0259k\u0259 bil\u0259r v\u0259 orta\u011f\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259dric\u0259n burax\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n

\u015eir – ya h\u0259r \u015fey qaydas\u0131ndad\u0131r, ya da c\u0259h\u0259nn\u0259m \u0259zab\u0131<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bo\u015fand\u0131qdan sonra \u015eir b\u00fcrc\u00fcn\u00fcn nec\u0259 reaksiya verm\u0259si, \u0259sas\u0259n, m\u00fcnasib\u0259tin sonunu kimin ba\u015flatmas\u0131ndan as\u0131l\u0131 olacaq. Bunu \u00f6z\u00fc ets\u0259, onda h\u0259r \u015fey yax\u015f\u0131 olacaq, \u00e7\u00fcnki bu ba\u015f verm\u0259li idi. Ancaq \u015eiri t\u0259rk edil\u0259rs\u0259, c\u0259h\u0259nn\u0259m ba\u015flayacaq.<\/p>\n

Q\u0131z – depressiyaya d\u00fc\u015f\u0259 bil\u0259r, amma \u00fcmumilikd\u0259 h\u0259r \u015fey eynidir<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bir qayda olaraq, Q\u0131z b\u00fcrc\u00fc s\u0259mimi olaraq m\u00fcnasib\u0259td\u0259 olub-olmamas\u0131na \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259t vermir. Bu, \u00e7ox vaxt onlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00e7ox \u00e7\u0259tin olur. Buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259, ayr\u0131ld\u0131qdan sonra, \u00fcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259, m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rin bitdiyin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 minn\u0259tdar ola bil\u0259rl\u0259r, h\u0259m d\u0259 ba\u015f ver\u0259nl\u0259rd\u0259n \u0259slind\u0259 bir q\u0259d\u0259r depressiyaya d\u00fc\u015f\u0259 bil\u0259rl\u0259r.<\/p>\n

T\u0259r\u0259zi – \u0259laq\u0259ni davam etdirir<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ayr\u0131l\u0131qdan sonra T\u0259r\u0259zi, m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rin ke\u00e7mi\u015fd\u0259 qald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 tez bir zamanda \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 v\u0259 ba\u015fqalar\u0131na s\u00fcbut etm\u0259li olacaq. Ancaq eyni zamanda, ke\u00e7mi\u015f t\u0259r\u0259fda\u015flar\u0131 il\u0259 \u0259laq\u0259 saxlama\u011fa davam ed\u0259 bil\u0259rl\u0259r.<\/p>\n

\u018fqr\u0259b – zahir\u0259n laqeyd g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u018fqr\u0259b \u015fidd\u0259tli a\u011fr\u0131lar ya\u015fayark\u0259n s\u0259rt v\u0259 laqeyd davranacaq. Ke\u00e7mi\u015fl\u0259rinin sosial media hesablar\u0131n\u0131 davaml\u0131 olaraq yoxlayaraq h\u0259r \u015feyin bitdiyini iddia ed\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259r.<\/p>\n

Oxatan – hissl\u0259ri ifad\u0259 etmir<\/strong><\/p>\n

Oxatanlar, bir qayda olaraq, hissl\u0259rini dem\u0259k olar ki, ifad\u0259 etmirl\u0259r v\u0259 Kainat\u0131n g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u0259 inan\u0131rlar. Ba\u015f ver\u0259nl\u0259rin ham\u0131s\u0131 ba\u015f verm\u0259li idi kimi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrl\u0259r. \u018fg\u0259r onlar \u015f\u00fcuralt\u0131 olaraq \u0259laq\u0259ni bitirm\u0259k ist\u0259yirdil\u0259rs\u0259, dem\u0259li, sonda bel\u0259 olur.<\/p>\n

O\u011flaq \u2013 yumorla qar\u015f\u0131lay\u0131r<\/strong><\/p>\n

O\u011flaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ayr\u0131l\u0131q h\u0259yat\u0131n bir hiss\u0259sidir, sad\u0259c\u0259 ke\u00e7m\u0259lidirl\u0259r. O\u011flaqlar \u00f6zl\u0259ri z\u0259rur\u0259td\u0259n ayr\u0131l\u0131rlar. Kims\u0259 onlar\u0131 t\u0259rk ed\u0259rs\u0259, h\u0259yatda onlara g\u0259l\u0259n h\u0259r \u015feyi q\u0259tiyy\u0259tl\u0259 q\u0259bul ed\u0259r\u0259k, yumorla yana\u015f\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n

Dol\u00e7a – gec-tez a\u011fr\u0131 hiss edir\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Dol\u00e7a, ayr\u0131l\u0131qdan 30 d\u0259qiq\u0259 \u0259rzind\u0259 sa\u011f \u00e7\u0131xa bil\u0259c\u0259yin\u0259 inan\u0131r, amma \u0259slind\u0259 bel\u0259 deyil. Gec-tez ayr\u0131lma a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131 il\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131la\u015fmal\u0131 olacaqlar.<\/p>\n

Bal\u0131qlar \u00e7\u0259tin anlar ya\u015fay\u0131rlar<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bal\u0131qlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ayr\u0131l\u0131q emosional bax\u0131mdan \u00e7ox \u00e7\u0259tindir. \u00c7ox g\u00fcman ki, x\u0259yan\u0259t, melanxolik v\u0259 \u00fcmidsizlik hiss ed\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259r. Yax\u015f\u0131 x\u0259b\u0259r odur ki, onlar bundan sa\u011f \u00e7\u0131xacaqlar.\u00a0 \u00a0(lent.az)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Ayr\u0131l\u0131qdan sonra Q\u0131zlar h\u0259tta m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rin bitdiyin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 minn\u0259tdar ola bil\u0259rl\u0259r, lakin Bal\u0131qlar \u00e7ox narahat olurlar. B\u00fcrcl\u0259rin ayr\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 nec\u0259 ya\u015fad\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259qdim edirik. Qo\u00e7 – g\u00fcnl\u0259ri yeni insanlarla doldurur Qo\u00e7 q\u0259tiyy\u0259tli v\u0259 sars\u0131lmazd\u0131r. \u018fg\u0259r ayr\u0131l\u0131q ba\u015f veribs\u0259, bu, onlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn art\u0131q ke\u00e7mi\u015fin bir hiss\u0259sidir. Ke\u00e7mi\u015f t\u0259r\u0259fda\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n b\u00fct\u00fcn xatir\u0259l\u0259rini m\u0259hv etm\u0259y\u0259 q\u0259rar ver\u0259rk\u0259n t\u0259r\u0259dd\u00fcd etm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259r. Onlar h\u0259m\u00e7inin g\u00fcnd\u0259lik i\u015fl\u0259rini yeni insanlar v\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u0259c\u0259k yeni i\u015fl\u0259rl\u0259 doldurma\u011fa ba\u015flayacaqlar. Qo\u00e7 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ke\u00e7mi\u015f m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259ri d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259m\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn t\u0259k qalmamaq vacibdir. Bu\u011fa – x\u00fcsusi i\u015fl\u0259rd\u0259 t\u0259s\u0259lli axtar\u0131r Ayr\u0131l\u0131qdan sonra Bu\u011fa \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn h\u0259yat h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259ki kimi davam edir. Onlar, \u0259lb\u0259tt\u0259…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":786272,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[24],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/939be91bcbbee050c36ebf945fb9507f.jpg",740,493,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/939be91bcbbee050c36ebf945fb9507f.jpg",740,493,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/939be91bcbbee050c36ebf945fb9507f.jpg",740,493,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/939be91bcbbee050c36ebf945fb9507f-500x280.jpg",500,280,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/939be91bcbbee050c36ebf945fb9507f-548x365.jpg",548,365,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/939be91bcbbee050c36ebf945fb9507f.jpg",640,426,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/939be91bcbbee050c36ebf945fb9507f.jpg",740,493,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/939be91bcbbee050c36ebf945fb9507f.jpg",740,493,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/939be91bcbbee050c36ebf945fb9507f-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/939be91bcbbee050c36ebf945fb9507f.jpg",740,493,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"Maraql\u0131<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"Ayr\u0131l\u0131qdan sonra Q\u0131zlar h\u0259tta m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rin bitdiyin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 minn\u0259tdar ola bil\u0259rl\u0259r, lakin Bal\u0131qlar \u00e7ox narahat olurlar. B\u00fcrcl\u0259rin ayr\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 nec\u0259 ya\u015fad\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259qdim edirik. Qo\u00e7 – g\u00fcnl\u0259ri yeni insanlarla doldurur Qo\u00e7 q\u0259tiyy\u0259tli v\u0259 sars\u0131lmazd\u0131r. \u018fg\u0259r ayr\u0131l\u0131q ba\u015f veribs\u0259, bu, onlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn art\u0131q ke\u00e7mi\u015fin bir hiss\u0259sidir. Ke\u00e7mi\u015f t\u0259r\u0259fda\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n b\u00fct\u00fcn xatir\u0259l\u0259rini m\u0259hv etm\u0259y\u0259 q\u0259rar ver\u0259rk\u0259n t\u0259r\u0259dd\u00fcd etm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259r. Onlar h\u0259m\u00e7inin g\u00fcnd\u0259lik…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/786271"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=786271"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/786271\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":786273,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/786271\/revisions\/786273"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/786272"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=786271"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=786271"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=786271"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}